HELP: very confused by Taurus man

We met 3 months ago, we have mutual friends and he came to me and introduced himself and was very friendly. Next time I saw him he didn't seemed as friendly and it took a few weeks before he started to come and say hello to me and not just a "hi" from far. I noticed that he seems to be around me more but not exactly talking to me. I liked one of his photos and he followed me like 20 min later. He checks my stories, he occasionally likes a photo. One day when he came to say hello he gave me a hug, which was weird since we barely know each other, since then that's the usual, hello, how was your weekend, hug, smile. I notice sometimes he's looking towards where I am but I don't know if he's looking at me or is it bc I'm constantly looking at him lol. Recently we saw each other in a bar, there was a big group of friends in a corner but I was away from them talking to someone else. When he arrived he came to say hello, then he started bringing one by one some of his friends over to introduce to me and the person I was with, so suddenly there was a group of us where I was standing, he stayed kind of around for most of the night, before he was leaving he came and said to me and the person I was with that he and his friends were going for dinner if we wanted to join (he knows the person I was with for much longer than he knows me) we join them for dinner and we all had casual conversation, he didn't really asked me much questions. This it's been happening in the span of 3 months. I'm confused I don't know if he likes me or he's just friendly. I know he doesn't have a gf, I know he's not dating anyone, I know some of his best friends. I think I showed him I liked him but noting very strong or forward, I never pushed him in any way, I'm just only friendly at this point. Anyone can tell me if they can read his actions because i sometimes feels he likes me, he liked photos of me on social media on a Saturday at 3:30 am, sometimes the way he smiles when he comes to talk to me, but other times he seems more distant or shy, not sure which one of those is.

Seems like he is just being friendly BUT he doesn't know you like him so you need a flirt more girl!!

NOTE: I am not a Taurus, I'm a Sagittarius dating a Taurus

I usual roams the Taurus forums to get insight on my beautiful bull or to ask questions but I relate very much to your story as its very similar to mine.

Taurus are very patient so Im learning.

They also really adore confidence, with that said I could sense a "Vibe" with my Taurus the moment we met, I knew he was interested in being around me, I was always unsure if he was really that into me, my Taurus and from what I read was and can be very hard to read. you will always be wondering what they are thinking but you will never know unless they want you to know.

anyways, my Taurus was was doing the same as what you are say with adding me quickly on Social Media, Liking random pictures, and following my moves on snapchat. I think he was using those platforms to get to know me, because he's not the type to ask me a lot of questions about myself. he has said to be before that when im read to open up he will be there, he doesn't pry at all and he is very patient. also he would stare at me so hard all the time, I would feel it and when I would look he would always look away. they are very much visually stimulated and he says now all the time he can look at me forever.

I will tell you this, Taurus move slow, like snails. I think they have a very confidant outer presents but inside they are very unsure people which can make them very stuck and fixed in their ways.

aside from him getting my number first and adding me on social media, I had to make all the moves.

I was not forceful though, you cant force them to do anything or they can become very stubborn and you wont win.

i think from what you say he is interested in getting to know you.

and if i was you i would start helping guide him to making those opportunities possible.

its as simple as saying "Im hungry, wanna go grab something to eat" (we talk about food like it art)

don't be afraid to be open, i believe that Taurus are very honest people and handle most matters respectfully, i kiss my Taurus first, i told he has "that thing i like", i let him know when i wanted to "commit to getting to know him" and when "i thinking im falling" - i never pressured him and in a matter of days he would address those topics with an open-mind (it takes them time to think about stuff so don't ever expect immediate answers to most things regarding emotional important)

i hope i help you with a little confidence

i love my Taurus, he is so loving and affectionate and makes me truly feel like im the only girl in the world to him, which can sometime seem unreal but i know its real.

also i hope i didn't overset any Taurus forum boundaries.

best of luck.

let us know what happens next, ill be waiting with popcorn 🙂

i

Posted by sagittariusxo
NOTE: I am not a Taurus, I'm a Sagittarius dating a Taurus

I usual roams the Taurus forums to get insight on my beautiful bull or to ask questions but I relate very much to your story as its very similar to mine.

Taurus are very patient so Im learning.

They also really adore confidence, with that said I could sense a "Vibe" with my Taurus the moment we met, I knew he was interested in being around me, I was always unsure if he was really that into me, my Taurus and from what I read was and can be very hard to read. you will always be wondering what they are thinking but you will never know unless they want you to know.

anyways, my Taurus was was doing the same as what you are say with adding me quickly on Social Media, Liking random pictures, and following my moves on snapchat. I think he was using those platforms to get to know me, because he's not the type to ask me a lot of questions about myself. he has said to be before that when im read to open up he will be there, he doesn't pry at all and he is very patient. also he would stare at me so hard all the time, I would feel it and when I would look he would always look away. they are very much visually stimulated and he says now all the time he can look at me forever.

I will tell you this, Taurus move slow, like snails. I think they have a very confidant outer presents but inside they are very unsure people which can make them very stuck and fixed in their ways.

aside from him getting my number first and adding me on social media, I had to make all the moves.

I was not forceful though, you cant force them to do anything or they can become very stubborn and you wont win.

i think from what you say he is interested in getting to know you.

and if i was you i would start helping guide him to making those opportunities possible.

its as simple as saying "Im hungry, wanna go grab something to eat" (we talk about food like it art)

don't be afraid to be open, i believe that Taurus are very honest people and handle most matters respectfully, i kiss my Taurus first, i told he has "that thing i like", i let him know when i wanted to "commit to getting to know him" and when "i thinking im falling" - i never pressured him and in a matter of days he would address those topics with an open-mind (it takes them time to think about stuff so don't ever expect immediate answers to most things regarding emotional important)

i hope i help you with a little confidence

i love my Taurus, he is so loving and affectionate and makes me truly feel like im the only girl in the world to him, which can sometime seem unreal but i know its real.

also i hope i didn't overset any Taurus forum boundaries.

best of luck.

let us know what happens next, ill be waiting with popcorn 🙂

i

some good observations

first of all, I must agree that food is art - and that is not just coming from the Taurus lol - there is so much more interest and competition and decoration in food these days - everywhere - and we Taurus` love it

we might move slow to you but to us it's natural to take everything in as we go and enjoy the journey rather than rush to the destination - if that is what you want to do, go for it

we also do that with people and may appear to be insecure but it's not insecurity for a lot of us, it's a guard against rudeness and inconsiderate people and people who think they know everything

we are here to pick and choose our way which is a good way - one step at a time and when we step we need to know best as possible where we are stepping and that it's in the best direction possible

yes we make bad decisions despite and then have to back up and regroup and think about where we went wrong, but sooner or later we will be on that path again, stepping one foot at a time in the direction we want to go

Posted by Simsimi

Posted by tcta

Posted by sagittariusxo
NOTE: I am not a Taurus, I'm a Sagittarius dating a Taurus

I usual roams the Taurus forums to get insight on my beautiful bull or to ask questions but I relate very much to your story as its very similar to mine.

Taurus are very patient so Im learning.

They also really adore confidence, with that said I could sense a "Vibe" with my Taurus the moment we met, I knew he was interested in being around me, I was always unsure if he was really that into me, my Taurus and from what I read was and can be very hard to read. you will always be wondering what they are thinking but you will never know unless they want you to know.

anyways, my Taurus was was doing the same as what you are say with adding me quickly on Social Media, Liking random pictures, and following my moves on snapchat. I think he was using those platforms to get to know me, because he's not the type to ask me a lot of questions about myself. he has said to be before that when im read to open up he will be there, he doesn't pry at all and he is very patient. also he would stare at me so hard all the time, I would feel it and when I would look he would always look away. they are very much visually stimulated and he says now all the time he can look at me forever.

I will tell you this, Taurus move slow, like snails. I think they have a very confidant outer presents but inside they are very unsure people which can make them very stuck and fixed in their ways.

aside from him getting my number first and adding me on social media, I had to make all the moves.

I was not forceful though, you cant force them to do anything or they can become very stubborn and you wont win.

i think from what you say he is interested in getting to know you.

and if i was you i would start helping guide him to making those opportunities possible.

its as simple as saying "Im hungry, wanna go grab something to eat" (we talk about food like it art)

don't be afraid to be open, i believe that Taurus are very honest people and handle most matters respectfully, i kiss my Taurus first, i told he has "that thing i like", i let him know when i wanted to "commit to getting to know him" and when "i thinking im falling" - i never pressured him and in a matter of days he would address those topics with an open-mind (it takes them time to think about stuff so don't ever expect immediate answers to most things regarding emotional important)

i hope i help you with a little confidence

i love my Taurus, he is so loving and affectionate and makes me truly feel like im the only girl in the world to him, which can sometime seem unreal but i know its real.

also i hope i didn't overset any Taurus forum boundaries.

best of luck.

let us know what happens next, ill be waiting with popcorn 🙂

i

some good observations

first of all, I must agree that food is art - and that is not just coming from the Taurus lol - there is so much more interest and competition and decoration in food these days - everywhere - and we Taurus` love it

we might move slow to you but to us it's natural to take everything in as we go and enjoy the journey rather than rush to the destination - if that is what you want to do, go for it

we also do that with people and may appear to be insecure but it's not insecurity for a lot of us, it's a guard against rudeness and inconsiderate people and people who think they know everything

we are here to pick and choose our way which is a good way - one step at a time and when we step we need to know best as possible where we are stepping and that it's in the best direction possible

yes we make bad decisions despite and then have to back up and regroup and think about where we went wrong, but sooner or later we will be on that path again, stepping one foot at a time in the direction we want to go

This slow timeline, a month, a year? I fear you guys might get into a rut or get bored.

Ps: When a taurus really likes you and has invested into your relationship, good luck breaking up with them. They're back tomorrow boo like nothing happened.

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When it's right, it's right - time doesn't matter all that much.

I can get in a rut, then recognize, then get out of the rut, or not. I can get bored on purpose because that is what I want and/or need. If you are going to stand there and tell me what I need to do or not to do, then you won't be there long.

When someone wants to break up - I don't go back. I don't like wishy washy stuff. It's on or it's off.

Posted by Simsimi

Posted by tcta

Posted by sagittariusxo
NOTE: I am not a Taurus, I'm a Sagittarius dating a Taurus

I usual roams the Taurus forums to get insight on my beautiful bull or to ask questions but I relate very much to your story as its very similar to mine.

Taurus are very patient so Im learning.

They also really adore confidence, with that said I could sense a "Vibe" with my Taurus the moment we met, I knew he was interested in being around me, I was always unsure if he was really that into me, my Taurus and from what I read was and can be very hard to read. you will always be wondering what they are thinking but you will never know unless they want you to know.

anyways, my Taurus was was doing the same as what you are say with adding me quickly on Social Media, Liking random pictures, and following my moves on snapchat. I think he was using those platforms to get to know me, because he's not the type to ask me a lot of questions about myself. he has said to be before that when im read to open up he will be there, he doesn't pry at all and he is very patient. also he would stare at me so hard all the time, I would feel it and when I would look he would always look away. they are very much visually stimulated and he says now all the time he can look at me forever.

I will tell you this, Taurus move slow, like snails. I think they have a very confidant outer presents but inside they are very unsure people which can make them very stuck and fixed in their ways.

aside from him getting my number first and adding me on social media, I had to make all the moves.

I was not forceful though, you cant force them to do anything or they can become very stubborn and you wont win.

i think from what you say he is interested in getting to know you.

and if i was you i would start helping guide him to making those opportunities possible.

its as simple as saying "Im hungry, wanna go grab something to eat" (we talk about food like it art)

don't be afraid to be open, i believe that Taurus are very honest people and handle most matters respectfully, i kiss my Taurus first, i told he has "that thing i like", i let him know when i wanted to "commit to getting to know him" and when "i thinking im falling" - i never pressured him and in a matter of days he would address those topics with an open-mind (it takes them time to think about stuff so don't ever expect immediate answers to most things regarding emotional important)

i hope i help you with a little confidence

i love my Taurus, he is so loving and affectionate and makes me truly feel like im the only girl in the world to him, which can sometime seem unreal but i know its real.

also i hope i didn't overset any Taurus forum boundaries.

best of luck.

let us know what happens next, ill be waiting with popcorn 🙂

i

some good observations

first of all, I must agree that food is art - and that is not just coming from the Taurus lol - there is so much more interest and competition and decoration in food these days - everywhere - and we Taurus` love it

we might move slow to you but to us it's natural to take everything in as we go and enjoy the journey rather than rush to the destination - if that is what you want to do, go for it

we also do that with people and may appear to be insecure but it's not insecurity for a lot of us, it's a guard against rudeness and inconsiderate people and people who think they know everything

we are here to pick and choose our way which is a good way - one step at a time and when we step we need to know best as possible where we are stepping and that it's in the best direction possible

yes we make bad decisions despite and then have to back up and regroup and think about where we went wrong, but sooner or later we will be on that path again, stepping one foot at a time in the direction we want to go

This slow timeline, a month, a year? I fear you guys might get into a rut or get bored.

Ps: When a taurus really likes you and has invested into your relationship, good luck breaking up with them. They're back tomorrow boo like nothing happened.

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well thats what they say - that boredom my kill the relationship to the Sagittarius but at the same time I think my Capricorn moon will help, plus my understanding in Taurus and I am a mother so to be adventurous can only go so far with that. im rather domestic and go with the flow so im hoping that although im sure ill be bored every so often that ill also be able to find something exciting to turn it around quickly.

Taurus is not boring! At least I don't think so. It's comforting to have someone who is there day in, day out - reliable, consistent, there whenever you need them. Someone who is just happy with a good meal, cuddling while watching a movie, and good banter. If I had that every night for the rest of my life, I would be one happy bunny.

And if that is not good enough you're crazy.

Posted by Simsimi
I don't think anyone's trying to trade anything for anything anywhere, the stability is awesome.

Don't put words in my mouth please,

What was said was "..i fear they could get into a rut or get bored.." its now left for Taurus' to explain that not exactly they wouldn't.

There are fire signs who might not get that, it doesn't make them crazy it just makes them different.

I wasn't referring to your post.

If you like him, you need to let him know... only then will you know. It's in his eyes and his little touches he'll only do for you. And then be prepared for the tests and a long wait... he may not even ask you out after that but access you and watch you and test you, until he's sure.

DO NOT FLIRT WITH ANYONE AFTER YOU TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM.

Thank you all for the info. This Taurus man is very confusing. One of his closest friends whom I meant only once for 5 min ask me to go have lunch together, I panicked and I told him that maybe but that it wasn't a date and I wasn't interested, to which he responded that he just ended a long term relationship and was just trying to meet new people, (of course I never heard from him again) after this I definitely saw a change on the Taurus guy, then one night a big group of us were on a bar, and as he was about to leave he came over and ask me and my friend if we wanted us to join him and his friends for dinner, which we did, so I thought maybe it was all in my mind that he changed.

But after that night I definitely noticed he changed, he doesn't come over to say hello anymore unless we pass by one another and make eye contact, and when this happens he doesn't initiate conversation, I guess that's ok since he would always initiate it before and I didn't. And, I know this must sound stupid, but he stopped liking my photos on social media to viewing my stories COMPLETLY.

We have so many friends in common and they all say the same thing, he's a great guy, the are friends I blindly trust. I also notice that he looks so casual and relax around basically everyone but me, I'm not sure if he's awkward or uncomfortable or nervous, I def gave him many obvious hints that I liked him, but I never really pressured on anything, I just been trying to be his friend first so not sure why this change of attitude or behavior with me. Nothing ever happened between us to justify that, I'll be happy just being friends I'm not pushy, clingy or needy, and he's the kind of guy who makes friends with everyone, goes to strangers men and women young or old and shakes their hand and starts conversation, (that's how we met) so I don't understand why he has to be different with me. Sorry for the long message, I'm just trying to understand is so confusing lol