Help with a Taurean dude...

Well, I've fallen for a taurus, and it's wonderful when it's wonderful.... But when it's not.......... Anyways, here's what I need advice on: I'm his first true love, and as a result he craves a lot of time and attention from me. I on the other hand need time away from people just cause that's the way I work. He'll give me that time, but I can tell in his voice it's pretty begrudgingly. Is there a way that I can help him understand where I'm coming from so that each time I do take time from him, I don't end up feeling guilted?

Dunno if this helps but if anyone can give xtra feedback based on this, groovy...
Him: Asc Scorpio
Sun Taurus
Moon Leo

Me: Asc Sag
Sun Scorpio
Moon Virgo

It's his leo mooon, definitely...that makes him act this way..and the taurus need for affection constantly...but if you REALLY like him, just sit him down and make him understand that it's only for you personally and not an attempt to get away from him..let him know you do it everyone...even family..I had the same problem with a taurus male...he was smothering me though too too much...

"Well, I've fallen for a taurus, and it's wonderful when it's wonderful.... But when it's not.........."

😛

Believe it or not he will need time away from you too, whether he acknowledges it or not. You'll have to encourage him to take that time if he can't as well.

But if you can assure him (and show him) that you want him back and that you will come back to him after that time he will learn to accept it.

A Taurean's love is quite simple on the whole of it and helping him understand will prevent his possessiveness from becoming jealousy. The time it takes in preventing that and the guilt it will cause both of you is obviously well worth it.

Can Taurus guys be as possesive as scorpio males?

Depend on how you see the possessiveness really I think. If you see it as a sign that you are needed and wanted for him to feel loved then it's rather cozy sounding isn't it 😛

Thanks for the feedback... I can't really blame him for not knowing where I'm coming from, and being a little upset with it (his previous relationships have been less than trustworthy ones). But at the same time, if I need time, and I can't get it I get rather moody. Per usual the ones that I love pay for it, and he's someone that I do love. What you've brought up makes sense because he often needs re-assureance (spell?). Something I think is also a result of his experience with women before me.

Thanks again...
Storm

drop the e, reassurance

"But at the same time, if I need time, and I can't get it I get rather moody. Per usual the ones that I love pay for it, and he's someone that I do love."

So am I correct that even though your moodiness often makes you feel bad emotions as well as the good, because scorps attach to those they love with there emotions you wouldn't for instance 'waste' them on someone you didn't love. Except maybe with A LOT of sarcasm and insinuation. Or is it just because the people you love are usually the people around you, or something else?

Those times when we cop scorpio moods can be really hard on us bulls when we care. I have the impression that the eyes can soothe a scorpio out of any direct display or anger just as a hug/cuddle can with a taurus. I've never met my close scorp friend yet, but that's just what I feel might help. I wouldn't be sure trying to cuddle would be such a good idea 😛

Not getting our time alone generally makes us very resentful, harsh and/or abrupt when people try to force themselves (or something) on us or nag. So if it's happening in reverse that usually a sign to just give some space - for me anyways.

Bull's I dont get you......God help me!

Don't mind me, I analyse my emotions and feelings too much 😛

Oh really I thought Bulls didnt have any...

/cry

Stop picking on me. I made that bull my msn avatar and my scorp friend thinks I suck and that it looks like a retarded duck 😢

Awwww wat a baby!!

Yeah it's true, the people that I surround myself with are those that I love, otherwise I don't care. That's the scorp all or nothing at all thing I guess.

Fishworry, you're kind of a fiesty fish aren't ya? I like it... 🙂 Pisces as easy going as they are can sometimes protray weakness, even though that's far from what you are... Bravo for showing otherwise lady!
Take care everybody!

Taurus guys on whole are great partners, that's what I can say. I'm a scorpio too and my boyfrined is great most of the time except when it comes to taking some time for myself and he gets grumpy... He accuses me of being bored and tired and gets overly-critical. He feels HE doesn't need any time off so why should I. But then just sit down and chat with him in a loving way and he would cool down a bit!:p

New to the Taurus post. I have had a relationship with at Taurus man and yes I am a scorp... I was younger. Now another is trying his way into my life... They are the sweetest and most considerate, yet stubborn creatures. I think I might be liking the attention a little.

OK Scorp ladies whatcha think? Help on this. What should I expect? Not expect? Lord knows I can appreciate a guy who gives me my space as you know we scorp girls need that from time to time. Also, used to being with a Libra who definitely doesn't mind giving space and taking space.

Talk on it!!!