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LOL!
You are trying to get someone younger than you to dominate him?
You are trying to get someone younger than you to dominate him?
Being a fish I like it the other way around. Believe me its very tough to dominate a Bull.
That's because you don't know how.
Maybe and thats why i end up getting hurt.
So how do you dominate a bull... haffo—
I'm very curious—
Please tell!!!
I'm very curious—
Please tell!!!
" Please tell!!!"
No.
No.
Well I give you a little.
Rough strenght, brute power, ruthlessness...somes are. There is a struggle in the beginning, but they learn at the end who is god and whom they have to worship.
Rough strenght, brute power, ruthlessness...somes are. There is a struggle in the beginning, but they learn at the end who is god and whom they have to worship.
Just for fun I'm giving an example:
Pisces are fish, they live in water (water sign)
Taurus are bulls, we live on land (earth sign)
Bulls and fish both sh*t and p*ss in the water.
Maybe pisces have sh*tty outlook sometimes because of this?
Taurus is bigger than fish.
We are stronger than fish.
Even our brains are bigger, need I say more?
All kidding aside, pisces are truly sweet people that take on others pain. Pisces let others run over them and are easily tricked. My mother and father are both pisces, drug problems, money problems, attract people that use & abuse them & family involved. SO I speak from knowledge not what I've read. They go to the end of the earth to please. They will come out fighting once they've been pinned against the wall. Taurus doesn't really care for this trait. We want some resistance up front. We know that if we aren't careful we will completely trample the weak minded with our words and actions.
Pisces are fish, they live in water (water sign)
Taurus are bulls, we live on land (earth sign)
Bulls and fish both sh*t and p*ss in the water.
Maybe pisces have sh*tty outlook sometimes because of this?
Taurus is bigger than fish.
We are stronger than fish.
Even our brains are bigger, need I say more?
All kidding aside, pisces are truly sweet people that take on others pain. Pisces let others run over them and are easily tricked. My mother and father are both pisces, drug problems, money problems, attract people that use & abuse them & family involved. SO I speak from knowledge not what I've read. They go to the end of the earth to please. They will come out fighting once they've been pinned against the wall. Taurus doesn't really care for this trait. We want some resistance up front. We know that if we aren't careful we will completely trample the weak minded with our words and actions.
Sorry, meant sh*tty outlook. That's what I get for cracking jokes on folks.
Well speaking of fish,
Shark is also a fish. And let that bull come with shark into a water...the rest is obvious.
I'm sorry for your family, it takes quite an effort to squize necessariy shit while being a Piscean. I can speak of myself, I have lot's of resistance. I actually piss people off on drop of hat because of that.
Maybe your family members are not good example of other fishies.
Shark is also a fish. And let that bull come with shark into a water...the rest is obvious.
I'm sorry for your family, it takes quite an effort to squize necessariy shit while being a Piscean. I can speak of myself, I have lot's of resistance. I actually piss people off on drop of hat because of that.
Maybe your family members are not good example of other fishies.
Maybe they weren't but I had a recent dating nightmare with one. Anyway, I look at the pisces board alot trying to grasp why they do what they do and one thing is clear. Drugs, emotions and money are clearly a widespread problem among them, not all. Not to say we all don't have our downfalls because I'm loaded with enough to supply the ones that aren't.
Anyway, my personal experience says pisces mold to what they think others want them to be. My point is the following, school always comes first, if someone needs to change schools make it clear. You surely will be sick of not seeing each other. If the Taurus says "if he has the money" then you have to wait until then. We are loyal creatures and destined to suceed. What ever you do remember school is first for that Taurus. We set goals to be achieved & if an issue arises that can't compromise with our goal, which is usually a good stone goal, not some fly by night goal, it will have to hit the road. So are we in for the long haul?? Yes, in everything we do. Good luck!
Anyway, my personal experience says pisces mold to what they think others want them to be. My point is the following, school always comes first, if someone needs to change schools make it clear. You surely will be sick of not seeing each other. If the Taurus says "if he has the money" then you have to wait until then. We are loyal creatures and destined to suceed. What ever you do remember school is first for that Taurus. We set goals to be achieved & if an issue arises that can't compromise with our goal, which is usually a good stone goal, not some fly by night goal, it will have to hit the road. So are we in for the long haul?? Yes, in everything we do. Good luck!
Hello,
Thank you so much for your advise and suggestion.
AriesLoveVirgo-I send him pic's all the time....i am just insecure in thinking that he is with someone else....which worries me a lot.
I want it to work and i know school is very important.....only strange thing is that we fight a lot and on sunday he said to me that if i am not happy i should leave him....that he doesnt have time....we ending up having a fight and he dumped me on msn!!!! but then yesterday he spoke to me and called me n everything went back to normalish.....now we have no plan to see each other(as in no tickets booked) 😢
I am over the moon when we talk and he pays me attention but as soon as i dont get that then i m low.
Is it normal for bull to fight and then get back together even tho we are far away—?.....he never express anything so i dont even know how he feels? i worry that i am not near him and he has a lot of girls he knows.....what if something happens?
aaaaaa...my head is gona explode! sorry i went on n on.....
Thank you so much for your advise and suggestion.
AriesLoveVirgo-I send him pic's all the time....i am just insecure in thinking that he is with someone else....which worries me a lot.
I want it to work and i know school is very important.....only strange thing is that we fight a lot and on sunday he said to me that if i am not happy i should leave him....that he doesnt have time....we ending up having a fight and he dumped me on msn!!!! but then yesterday he spoke to me and called me n everything went back to normalish.....now we have no plan to see each other(as in no tickets booked) 😢
I am over the moon when we talk and he pays me attention but as soon as i dont get that then i m low.
Is it normal for bull to fight and then get back together even tho we are far away—?.....he never express anything so i dont even know how he feels? i worry that i am not near him and he has a lot of girls he knows.....what if something happens?
aaaaaa...my head is gona explode! sorry i went on n on.....
He broke up with you on msn?? What in the hell? If you think he is with someone else why don't you call it off until he gets back? You think moving on is impossible for you but when that door opens...
Maybe the break up was guilty feelings speaking? So what if he has a lot of girls after him. You should be proud other girls find your guy attractive and you need some confidence. Have enough confidence to trust that you have what it takes to keep him or he'll be lost forever. Go out, don't call and kick it for a few days (with the girls of course). Show him you can go a few days without be inserted you know where.
Maybe the break up was guilty feelings speaking? So what if he has a lot of girls after him. You should be proud other girls find your guy attractive and you need some confidence. Have enough confidence to trust that you have what it takes to keep him or he'll be lost forever. Go out, don't call and kick it for a few days (with the girls of course). Show him you can go a few days without be inserted you know where.
How do I know my bull loves me? Why no talking? are they like out of sight out of mind type?
He went out on Halloween....and now on bebo he has pics up....gggrrr i am a bit J but not showing it.
I am taking your advise yourtrulytaurus and i wont contact him but its hard coz i am on msn....or he'd text me or call me...what do i do then? ignore them...?
Just don't respond right away if he messages or text you. Can you mark your MSN profile private so he can't see when you are on? The doubt of love, I cannot advise on. People can say they love you all day long and mean it or not. Why are you so jealous of him going out on Halloween, man that is one of my favorite holidays, I couldn't imagine sitting home. So what's up with the jealousy, did you stay in and wish you would have gone out instead? I don't understand?
I went out but i feel guilty if i have fun coz he gets upset....he makes comments like when i go out i forget about him coz i am "having fun" !
when he goes out and i say anything he gets angry if i get jealous...not fair.
nway he called me 4 times today?? why—? he never does.....make me wonder sudden affections never last. i know i want his attention...but constant attention....which i wont get.
he was so into me....what happended?
i dont know i am just worried as i am far away....he'll feel alone and find someone else...coz really he is back home where he was brought up...and have loads of mates....where as me i am not from UK and i only have few mates here...and that could be the reason i feel this insecure.
i wanna go out have fun but at the same time i dont want to upset him....he says he has trust issues...i think we dont do....its hard.
tbh even if he is cheating on me i cant do anything cause i can never be sure...they are all my wild guesses. I hope he misses me and will come n see me soon....
when he goes out and i say anything he gets angry if i get jealous...not fair.
nway he called me 4 times today?? why—? he never does.....make me wonder sudden affections never last. i know i want his attention...but constant attention....which i wont get.
he was so into me....what happended?
i dont know i am just worried as i am far away....he'll feel alone and find someone else...coz really he is back home where he was brought up...and have loads of mates....where as me i am not from UK and i only have few mates here...and that could be the reason i feel this insecure.
i wanna go out have fun but at the same time i dont want to upset him....he says he has trust issues...i think we dont do....its hard.
tbh even if he is cheating on me i cant do anything cause i can never be sure...they are all my wild guesses. I hope he misses me and will come n see me soon....
I think my name suits me too.
Yup....i am gona go out get my life back...instead of worrying about pleasing him. I think i have given a lot n now my pot is empty.
Thanks so much everyone....you people are amazing.
If i dont contact him he contacts me....he'll send text but then what should i do.....i am so confused! 😢
I want him to show how he feel....he never says anything....just keeps saying i have nothing to say.
I am sad.
😢
It seems to me that he's just as unsure about the situation as you are. He's possibly hurt or confused by it just as much.
For the times he spontaneously does stuff and calls you, I can only relate that to being able to put aside any ill-feeling about not being wanted or needed. Having such a good memory as bulls do it can be very difficult to shake off any hurt and resentment that has built up - but when done it can work magic.
Being possessive and jealous of you could be a good thing, sort of. This may explain his on-and-offish behaviour.
If he really does feel that he loves you then he will look at what he is shown or told, even if he doesn't seem to like it or he gets stubborn. If he does though he will have a great reserve of loyalty and he will respond in kind when he is ready.
You might just indicate up-front that you are confused and whatever else is really pressing and you should be able to do this whenever you feel the need to - he will look at if if he cares. Once it's done if you don't see a change, a sincere response or an attempt to respond then it might be a lost cause.
He will not however want to be rushed. Try also to not take offense to what he says if possible and if you have questions about what he says let him know them. Not clearing any assumptions up will be very bad and though he may take more time to clear the questions up, the result should be worth it.
It seems cruel and pathetic in some ways yes, but when being serious Taurus will generally say what they mean and say it without any subtle/hidden implications.
If i dont contact him he contacts me....he'll send text but then what should i do.....i am so confused! 😢
I want him to show how he feel....he never says anything....just keeps saying i have nothing to say.
I am sad.
He's probably just as sad if he cares any. Really, just do what you want to do. It may be he's just seeing if you are a person he could live with the rest of his life and I personally as a taurean wouldn't be rushing that choice caring for my cute and cuddly scorp friend - there's a touch of sarcasm there, yes 😛
One of us always seems to contact the other after we've had a flare-up and I do wonder how she feels at times, but that doesn't change the fact that I care for her. I know however that I would certainly be required to prove it too.
Anyways, that's my understanding of the situation assuming there's still interest. Good luck! 🙂
It seems to me that he's just as unsure about the situation as you are. He's possibly hurt or confused by it just as much.
For the times he spontaneously does stuff and calls you, I can only relate that to being able to put aside any ill-feeling about not being wanted or needed. Having such a good memory as bulls do it can be very difficult to shake off any hurt and resentment that has built up - but when done it can work magic.
Being possessive and jealous of you could be a good thing, sort of. This may explain his on-and-offish behaviour.
If he really does feel that he loves you then he will look at what he is shown or told, even if he doesn't seem to like it or he gets stubborn. If he does though he will have a great reserve of loyalty and he will respond in kind when he is ready.
You might just indicate up-front that you are confused and whatever else is really pressing and you should be able to do this whenever you feel the need to - he will look at if if he cares. Once it's done if you don't see a change, a sincere response or an attempt to respond then it might be a lost cause.
He will not however want to be rushed. Try also to not take offense to what he says if possible and if you have questions about what he says let him know them. Not clearing any assumptions up will be very bad and though he may take more time to clear the questions up, the result should be worth it.
It seems cruel and pathetic in some ways yes, but when being serious Taurus will generally say what they mean and say it without any subtle/hidden implications.
If i dont contact him he contacts me....he'll send text but then what should i do.....i am so confused! 😢
I want him to show how he feel....he never says anything....just keeps saying i have nothing to say.
I am sad.
He's probably just as sad if he cares any. Really, just do what you want to do. It may be he's just seeing if you are a person he could live with the rest of his life and I personally as a taurean wouldn't be rushing that choice caring for my cute and cuddly scorp friend - there's a touch of sarcasm there, yes 😛
One of us always seems to contact the other after we've had a flare-up and I do wonder how she feels at times, but that doesn't change the fact that I care for her. I know however that I would certainly be required to prove it too.
Anyways, that's my understanding of the situation assuming there's still interest. Good luck! 🙂
CarbbyBull
This is so great. Thank you so much. And I totally agree that he might be just as sad as me.
Brillant thing happend he was away to Dublin and last week we didnt talk for 4 days coz he was away. He texted me and I called him in last sunday evening when he got back we spoke about what we did usual....at this point I had stopped saying I miss him...but I couldnt help it as i wanted to say it so i did...but of course he said nothing. Nway he then called me back after 10 min but i did hear my phone....tried calling him back he did reply.
I called him in morning he said he is busy and will call me later....he didnt....but in evening he came online i didnt say anything then bit later he started talking to me...i was a bit cold n he noticed.....then he aplogised for not calling. Outcome of the msn....i asked him if he felt strongly for me...he said he does....and that he really want to be with me. He let me say what I felt and he understood. I really do love him....feeling is so strong that no other guy interests me. Nway so next day he booked a ticket to come and see me in december....i was over the moon and i am looking forward to it.
He has changed and says he misses me n stuff but then why now? its just worries me coz there is the issue of girls coz i know he cheated on his ex girlfriend and he is still intouch with the girl he cheated with....i just dont want same to happen to me.
I get a lot of attention when i go out but i want no one except for him. But i dont think its same for him...nway i want to talk about this but he keeps getting offended thinking that i am accusing him.....but i only want to know if this girl means something to him or why he spend so much time talk to her....— gggrrrrrrrr
i am try to just be positive and let these 3 week pass. I want to see him and just hope it will be nice.
*exaggerated gasp*
🙂
🙂
Aaaaaaaa soooooo I hope!!!!!! coz its been bloody ages now.
Girl has some needs...lol
He'll like it i would imagine, but if you most definitely need to be serious about it and patient when he perhaps wonders how serious you are 😛
sweet !! sweet. look, listen, stop, hes playin the game , maybe pisces do'nt play, take one step forward one step back, its actually fun, till something very real takes between u 2, hold off bredren....hol off massive....ha only jokin u a yong ting init seen? just be hold off, all come true !!! hol off, he runs...da da
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we both are studying i have 1 year and he has 2 more. but he will be back in summer for 4 month and then maybe back here for good in 2 year after finishing studying.
he has always has problem expressing and only in start i got attention and once we were living together even he text or flirt messages ended.
it was very intense as we even worked together but not in same building.
i love him and want it to work but i dont understand his nature of not feel to pay attention.
i have been up to see him twice....first was planned and 2nd i surprised him. he was okay with it but he has to study and so do i....now he says that i shouldnt vist him and he'll vist me when he has time n money....which could mean we dont see each other for months. i dont know what i should do its very up and down....i feel very low. HELP!