PiscesPuggie
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Help with Taurus man I have love for
Consider this constructive criticism.
He's physically and emotionally unavailable to you.'
Stop making yourself available for him.
Maybe I'm old school, but I find texting more than actually picking up the phone or spending time with the other person = lack of diligence and head games!
It gets old.
For me, out of sight = out of mind.
You're a fish.
Simply swim away.
From an astrological perspective,'
Bulls move slow.
This Bull isn't moving at all.
He's physically and emotionally unavailable to you.'
Stop making yourself available for him.
Maybe I'm old school, but I find texting more than actually picking up the phone or spending time with the other person = lack of diligence and head games!
It gets old.
For me, out of sight = out of mind.
You're a fish.
Simply swim away.
From an astrological perspective,'
Bulls move slow.
This Bull isn't moving at all.
You've nothing going on to question him about sleeping with someone. It doesn't seem like he ever had feelings for you. He wasn't interested in hanging out with you either. It doesn't seem like you ever had him to get him back. He only saw you as a friend n maybe he doesn't even wanna be friends anymore. I don't think you texting him would change anything. You should move on.
Posted by PVJamzUmm.. I see nothing at all.Posted by TeenaHe just wasn't that into her.
You've nothing going on to question him about sleeping with someone. It doesn't seem like he ever had feelings for you. He wasn't interested in hanging out with you either. It doesn't seem like you ever had him to get him back. He only saw you as a friend n maybe he doesn't even wanna be friends anymore. I don't think you texting him would change anything. You should move on.click to expand
We've spent a lot of time together and he always says sweet things to me. We even went to a festival together and he was saying how he knows that I'm perfect for him and that he knows he should be with me but he always fucks up relationships. And another time we spoke he told me that he doesn't want me to find another guy but he does want me to be happy and that he can't ask me to wait for him -- but I decided that he's worth the wait (whatever it is that I'm waiting for).
I see him a bunch in the city we live in. Mostly he's stopped having sex with me...I can tell that when we have sex he feels too much for me and gets scared because usually he'll stare into my eyes but the last time we had sex he was trying not to but then eventually gave in. Is he just confused as to what he wants and that's what I'm waiting for? To find out if he actually wants to be with me (committed or not). He did invite me somewhere once with his 2 friends and it was fine. I just get super shy and nervous when I'm around him which is totally unlike me -- idk what it is about him.
He also got mad because I accused him of sleeping with someone but he saw me at the bar talking to guys -- but I only talk to guys to get free drinks; I don't sleep with them especially if I'm talking to someone else.
There's obviously a lot more to the "relationship" than what I've stated in this post -- we've been talking since February.
I see him a bunch in the city we live in. Mostly he's stopped having sex with me...I can tell that when we have sex he feels too much for me and gets scared because usually he'll stare into my eyes but the last time we had sex he was trying not to but then eventually gave in. Is he just confused as to what he wants and that's what I'm waiting for? To find out if he actually wants to be with me (committed or not). He did invite me somewhere once with his 2 friends and it was fine. I just get super shy and nervous when I'm around him which is totally unlike me -- idk what it is about him.
He also got mad because I accused him of sleeping with someone but he saw me at the bar talking to guys -- but I only talk to guys to get free drinks; I don't sleep with them especially if I'm talking to someone else.
There's obviously a lot more to the "relationship" than what I've stated in this post -- we've been talking since February.
Messes up relationships*** not treetrunks
Posted by PiscesPuggie
We've spent a lot of time together and he always says sweet things to me. We even went to a festival together and he was saying how he knows that I'm perfect for him and that he knows he should be with me but he always fucks up relationships. And another time we spoke he told me that he doesn't want me to find another guy but he does want me to be happy and that he can't ask me to wait for him -- but I decided that he's worth the wait (whatever it is that I'm waiting for).
I see him a bunch in the city we live in. Mostly he's stopped having sex with me...I can tell that when we have sex he feels too much for me and gets scared because usually he'll stare into my eyes but the last time we had sex he was trying not to but then eventually gave in. Is he just confused as to what he wants and that's what I'm waiting for? To find out if he actually wants to be with me (committed or not). He did invite me somewhere once with his 2 friends and it was fine. I just get super shy and nervous when I'm around him which is totally unlike me -- idk what it is about him.
He also got mad because I accused him of sleeping with someone but he saw me at the bar talking to guys -- but I only talk to guys to get free drinks; I don't sleep with them especially if I'm talking to someone else.
There's obviously a lot more to the "relationship" than what I've stated in this post -- we've been talking since February.
If a guy wanted to be committed to you then he would be. That he isn't means he doesn't.
It's as simple as that. Stop making it more complicated than it is.
give him space. i understand how hurtful at the time you would feel when hearing something like that, knowing youve only been sleeping with him and only him. of course you guys arent committed but its the principle of it. hes now seen you blow up out of being hurt , and has also seen you be sorry, which is at the moment. so don't apologize anymore he gets it. let this whole thing marinate, and let time do its thing. February was 5 months ago but for some Taureans 5 months can be like 5 weeks. now him being worth the wait , is up to you. ive been there and its all about trusting your gut feeling, just buckle up for the ride.
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