how do I forget this bull———?

messed with a bull from work, he decided he couldn't continue cuz he's married.
I'm getting divorced, claims he is in a few months.
we were hot and heavy, no sex, he acutally left me while we had started the act!!!
announced he can't go through with it, asks me to forgive him.
now he's trying to avoid me at work, but says he wants a relationship with me when he's divorced.
trying hard to forget him but it's hard when I see him everyday.
still stares at me all the time.

help!

nope

...

Firstly, this will just end bad, no matter what you do...Don't ask, I am a bull and even my spydie sense is tingling...

Secondly, don't mess with married men... Really? Even if they start it, you kindly and firmly suggest that they keep walking south till there hat starts drifting...

Forget him, done.

This won't end well.

believe me I know....but end badly how? it never really started lol

My two cents--if you want to wait until he gets divorced, wait, but he won't leave his wife. He may tell you that and be very sincere about it (cue the tears) but he isn't leaving his wife. And that isn't necessarily a taurus thing, that's a married man thing. Just because he stopped before the deed and said he couldn't do it, doesn't make him a stand up guy, it makes him a guilt ridden guy. Find someone else, and if you decide to wait fine, but the surest sign that his divorce is coming is if he moves out. If he is still at home, he is still married, and I guarantee his wife doesn't know what he is up to.

Ja! of course move on. lol.

But you forget this: While he still at work. Show your glamorous side...if you have it then flaunt it.

It might be true that he won't leave his wife... atleast you tortured him at work. Just don't talk

a lot with him. shhhh just don't talk.ignore him. If he is into you... he will do the move and not

to ignore you.. lol.

My ex Taurus guy was very mad at me... I was asking him if he wanted to reconcile his marriage

and his answer was always ''NO''. I even met up his wife. His wife likes me and even talked with me

when we had a dinner for 2. just his wife and I. and he didn't even know this...until things explode

and when he tried to bruised my ego.. I just bounced harder to let him know who I met during our

hardest time together... I left him and he talked to me that he loved me. I still left him... lol.

But this friday he's going to see me and have dinner and of course to ''talk'' with us. He invited

me to go with him to other country... I refused that I can't. and oooh I'm afraid to lose myself..lol

I am trying my best to ignore him and am flaunting it trust me 😉
don't know why he invested the time getting to know me, asked me a gazillion questions, talked about the future....he's moved out twice in the past but goes back cuz of his son.
I think he's my soulmate but I'm a stupid Libra who thinks with my heart not my head.
I am moving on and will see what happens.

rnbabs,

are you libra?

Sorry folks. I don't agree at all about waiting on him or even continuing this game.

Want to know why it will end bad? This might sound very harsh and I do apologise but this is fact.

Firstly no 'stand up guy' flirts and even dares to screw someone else while married. Point. A taurus player does. If he can do that with his WIFE, how much more to you?

Secondly, your too easy. The fact that he got you so far as to abort really having a romp with you means he knows he can get WHATEVER he wants. Great so you'll have a relationship based on sex...

I bet he lured his wife the same way. How long do you think that will last? He'll get bored, ignore you, go dead cold and before long you'll be on here again begging and crying. Fact.

Look, this is your choice either way, but you can count every word I said, or ignore it, but when the fruit cocktail hits the fan, and it will, first come back to this post before posting your pleading on ways to get him interested again.

Don't even try and play hard to get, he knows you and can ring every bell at the drop of a hat. He played you. Stopped before going too far, but nevertheless it happend, it will happen again.

Leave it there and move on, or continue at your own risk.

Messy Situation.. but will it be all worth it?

Personally I dont think it will. Its best to sort out the situation in your life first.. dont wait around for him expecting him to end things straight away with his wife and held straight to you. Its a journey with mentlly and physically can strain you. These things take time..

Time and situations can change ppl.. plus you see this guy at work.. not a good idea to get involved and make things worse.

yay. Omagalll,

What happen with your Scorpio lady?

damn.You're still alive man.

welcome home at dxp. lol

Posted by M143

yay. Omagalll,

What happen with your Scorpio lady?

damn.You're still alive man.

welcome home at dxp. lol

Hahaha, thanks for the hearty welcome lol

Jip, and kicking 😛 Don't know about other 'taureans' but I know I can stand my ground and take a beat'n without breaking a sweat 😉

Everything is just peachy actually. Going really really well between me and my lady scorp. Have her around my place every night of the week, been cooking for her and she for me and generally having loads of fun and interaction till 2 in the morning. So good, I can't complain 😉

@ M143, yes I am a Libra.


thank you all for the great advice, esp Omagall, I appreciate honesty and telling it like it is.....
Don't know if I should have done this but I told him how much he hurt me by doing what he did, a few days after it happened....closure for me and to get rid of the anger I was feeling.
the thing is we work really well together-both nurses-and I wanted to be the bigger person.

@rnbabs: 😐 da F is wrong wid u?! Why would would "mess" with someone whos MARRIED (hes not divorced)...doesnt that disgust you? Wheres your self respect...and no, he isnt your soulmate, hes just a shi++y husband who messed around with you then eventually got bored of you

rnbabs,

taurus and libra is not a good pairing. for me in my opinion.

Back then a married Taurus man at work... He finds it difficult to resist me.

But he knew I won't gamble either. Taurus man likes to score the game. Scorpio played it well.

at the end...I gave him no options but left my work. He then insisted we can have work together

if there is vacancy in my present job.... which is no. I maybe hurt his ass leaving...

but somebody catched him... and that was my libra friend at work... she knew a lot about us.

well then, I found out Libra's are flirty type so is Taurus man. But she misunderstood this

taurus man... He can't leave his wife... he just want friendship with her.

But again, I'm still talking my libra friend and guess what? she kept complaining about him thru her

timeline in her fb page. I am sad.

I can sense libra's are more tender hearted than scorpio woman. Taurus man is a hunter. She should

remain as to what is right because Taurus won't compromise the marriage thing.


You will be ok soon. just do your best to yourself and work... you will see how it works.

and you know already that you can't have him... so be it.

Omagalll,

aww. nice to hear that. Congratulation with your scorpio lady. I know this hot and very hot

pairing...lol.

hahaha. wow. cooking for her every week end. lol.

My taurus man do that a lot and even my laundry. lol...

sweet taurus men.

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Posted by rnbabs
messed with a bull from work, he decided he couldn't continue cuz he's married.
I'm getting divorced, claims he is in a few months.
we were hot and heavy, no sex, he acutally left me while we had started the act!!!
announced he can't go through with it, asks me to forgive him.
now he's trying to avoid me at work, but says he wants a relationship with me when he's divorced.
trying hard to forget him but it's hard when I see him everyday.
still stares at me all the time.

help!

This is why I always avoided romantic relationships at work in the past.

It gets messy. Too awkward.

Paper Chase shouldn't come with undesirable daily reminders.

Quite a risky Bull....

But still an honorable one, I say wait until he's divorced. You may want to put in for a job transfer in the meantime.

Good Luck!

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by rnbabs
messed with a bull from work, he decided he couldn't continue cuz he's married.
I'm getting divorced, claims he is in a few months.
we were hot and heavy, no sex, he acutally left me while we had started the act!!!
announced he can't go through with it, asks me to forgive him.
now he's trying to avoid me at work, but says he wants a relationship with me when he's divorced.
trying hard to forget him but it's hard when I see him everyday.
still stares at me all the time.

help!

This is why I always avoided romantic relationships at work in the past.

It gets messy. Too awkward.

Paper Chase shouldn't come with undesirable daily reminders.

Quite a risky Bull....

But still an honorable one, I say wait until he's divorced. You may want to put in for a job transfer in the meantime.

Good Luck!

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thanks for the advice TaurusBull1977
not transferring, close to home, he can go if he wants...lol
every day it's easier and easier to ignore him.

I'm from nyc too.
where are you from?