Falling out of love

A romantic love where you (taurus) are invested and emotionally attached to the person. You want them BADLY to be yours, but the other person is being inconsistent. How would you fall out of a love like that? Also in the past how did you guys manage to give up on the person you loved? What goes on through your head when love doesnt work out?

Posted by TaurusBull1977
"Love flows like molten lava, accompanied by an adrenaline rush, and cools softly and slowly when there is patience, trust, stability and a strong meeting of the minds."

-Taurus Sun, Aries Venus, Gemini Moon

I had posted this in a previous thread.....

Posted by TaurusBull1977
"Love flows like molten lava, accompanied by an adrenaline rush

This is when I want them badly.....^^^^^^^^

But if the latter doesn't happen.....

Posted by TaurusBull1977
".......and cools softly and slowly when there is patience, trust, stability and a strong meeting of the minds."

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It's not happening......

Falling out of love is tough, but basically you gotta do what you gotta do. What goes through my head is that I shouldn't be pointlessly torturing myself. Even though a part of me will stay fond of the one I loved, I'll get over it. Because, what else can I do really? If it can't happen, it can't happen. There are plenty of other people to fall in love with regardless of how hopeless it might sound while you're still in that falling-out-of-love process, and they might just be more... consistent? 😉

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Posted by Geminlove
What goes on through your head when love doesn't work out?

HUMPHREY BOGART IN CASABLANCA BY FAR!

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@scorchedarse I agree

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Posted by Geminlove
What goes on through your head when love doesn't work out?

HUMPHREY BOGART IN CASABLANCA BY FAR!

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@tavrine: whats your moon and venus?

I've done it to a Scorpio guy ! After 7 months of inconsistency I couldn't take it anymore ! I was angry at him because I felt like I had to leave ! The relationship wasn't going anywhere ... If I can't be happy the way I want then I want out of the relationship period ! Hurt me to go ! But it hurt me more to stay .

I had an inconsistent partner and it's very frustrating and annoying. Over time I couldn't contain my anger and it began to ricochet, creating tension. Not until things didn't work out and we broke up is when I began to see the light and realized it was for the best. I need to know that person and I are on the same page, not someone that is constantly unsure of what they want/need all the time. I take that as they don't know if they want me or not. Puh.

Sure it hurts and you miss that person filling the void but as said above, we are a practical bunch and eventually see the relationship for what it really was.

And no, I don't care to stay "friends" with that person. If I see them or they contact me, sure, I will talk to them but what we had will pretty much be a closed chapter.

Posted by BeautyandTheBull
I've done it to a Scorpio guy ! After 7 months of inconsistency I couldn't take it anymore ! I was angry at him because I felt like I had to leave ! The relationship wasn't going anywhere ... If I can't be happy the way I want then I want out of the relationship period ! Hurt me to go ! But it hurt me more to stay .

Umm...on another Thread didnt u say you told the scorp ex you missed him and he said the same and you took him back..? Is tht the same scorp or...?

@tiz: so true 🙂

Geminlove I haven't written any threads on Scorpio just gemini & Taurus that's it .. Maybe I spoke about it in one of those forums ?? ...but we did find out we both missed each other but we never got back together . He has a gf & I do too .

Well I have a bf

Posted by Geminlove
A romantic love where you (taurus) are invested and emotionally attached to the person. You want them BADLY to be yours, but the other person is being inconsistent. How would you fall out of a love like that? Also in the past how did you guys manage to give up on the person you loved? What goes on through your head when love doesnt work out?

Whats the sign of the other who is being inconsistent ?

@beautyandthebull: oh, im sorry 🙂 my mistake!

@sagg101: oh, it could be any sign except earth signs. Its just a scenario 🙂

Consistency is the core ingredient for bulls... If you can't provide that to us then we will slowly stop investing in the relationship so much.. I do think that if you provide us with food and smell good all the time that may keep our love or our attention .. only for so long though coz without consistency .. We seeing it as " lack of commitment in partnership.." It's the core ingredient for us.. Commitment.. and loyalty... If we tell you it bothers us and you do nothing to change it .. Then.. It's a fair call if we decide to walk.. we like to know you will always be there the way we would be... regardless of the venus I think..

Posted by SunTauVenGem
I do think that if you provide us with food and smell good all the time that may keep our love or our attention ..

lolololol for me, attention yes, love naw. You may be inconsistent but if you massage me when you're not imma keep ya around. #truth

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Posted by SunTauVenGem

Commitment.. and loyalty... If we tell you it bothers us and you do nothing to change it .. Then.. It's a fair call if we decide to walk.. we like to know you will always be there the way we would be... regardless of the venus I think..

Are you just as willing to change for your partner when something bothers him?

I sometimes gauge my willingness to "correct my behavior" or "change" based on what my partner would do for me. I really like to keep it fair.
It also depends on what you mean by change. If my core personality/dreams/goals is/are under threat, I leave too.

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I have tried to change to suit my partners needs as well .. but we are talking about consistency here and to us bull is like air.. we need it.. Predictable behaviour =safety.. it enhances our affection towards you..

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Posted by SunTauVenGem
I do think that if you provide us with food and smell good all the time that may keep our love or our attention ..

lolololol for me, attention yes, love naw. You may be inconsistent but if you massage me when you're not imma keep ya around. #truth

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True and true.