How slow?!!! Taurus Man Taurus Woman

Hello all. I'm a cow. With Libra Moon and Scorp asc. Venus Gemini seen as you ask. Yep, one of them.

I've recently become friends with the most attractive bull (nay man) I've ever met. Phoar. Fortunately I have now stepped beyond lust, and I like this guy. He's funny and stable and in charge. Or at least I know how to let him think he is.

I know he likes me, there's too many textbook clues. He feels like my best friend. We've been acquainted for two years and have spent the last 8 weekends with each other, at each others houses and out socially. Nothing physical has occurred at all. It's like we pre dating or something.

However a few times, though he's solid in his contact with me and clearly cares for me he does drop in the line about him not wanting to share his space (all be it jovially) and that he is not to be tamed. As a free spirit myself I get it BUT I'm trying to understand why he would invest time in me if he appears to not want intimacy. Someone screwed him up. Thanks Sistren!

I also have a red flag. He has spoken about his first love, how he will always care her and love her. Now surely putting this proviso in place is a definite cop out? Or should information as this be disregarded as feelings increase between us. In which case why has he told me this.

I guess I feel I'm getting mixed signals.

We're perfect for each other, but he seems to be holding back, and being a reactionary type I have attempted a few (typically) passive hints.

I just don't know if I'm making a mug of myself. And should more patience be required?

Anyone else experienced this confusion?

He's 42

Sun Taurus
Aries Moon
Venus Taurus
Mars Aqua
Mercury Tauruas
Don't know Asc.

I appreciate there's quite a few queries within this but any pointers would be massively appreciated.

Chanks champs

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Sounds intimidated/ afraid to commit romantically.

He might have been burned in the past...

Yeah. Sounds it doesn't it, but he won't leave me alone, though when I drop in anything remotely sexual that pertains to myself, he says "Don't make me nauseous!"

What sort of nonsense is that?!

Posted by mybutterdontstink
Yeah. Sounds it doesn't it, but he won't leave me alone, though when I drop in anything remotely sexual that pertains to myself, he says "Don't make me nauseous!"

What sort of nonsense is that?!

Maybe he's gay. Lmfao just kidding.

Sounds like he's a little screwy when it comes to being vulnerable with women... but that's just rude.
He needs to grow a pair.

True. I am beginning to think I have been friend zoned but yet he contacts me so proactively.

Still confused. I might have to have it out with him.

We've only become close the last 8 weeks so the 2 year thing isn't really relevant to our 'friendship'.

Pesky blokes.

And thanks all btw. Always good to get a bit of perspective.....

Posted by mybutterdontstink
Yeah. Sounds it doesn't it, but he won't leave me alone, though when I drop in anything remotely sexual that pertains to myself, he says "Don't make me nauseous!"

What sort of nonsense is that?!

OUCH, in my book i count that as being friendzoned 😢 he may love you but he doesnt seem like he is in love with you considering how he acts with you (theres a huge difference btw)

I suggested to him we go on a date, all this over whatsapp, I couldn't muster enough courage to do it face to face and I was sensing an increased interest from him to the extent I felt he was getting a bit needy, I was becoming a supportive girlfriend without any benefits.

He said he didn't have the same feelings...At least now I can stop him leeching off my emotional offerings.

Again, pesky blokes.

NEXT!

Lol @ becoming supportive gf without benefits.

Lol @ leeching.

Maybe he's got a small willy 😉

First love, Jesus he's 42!

At least now you know, eh!