TAURUS-TAURUS RELATIONSHIP

HAVE ANY OF YOU TAUREANS BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER TAURUS? HOW DOES IT WORK OUT?

FEMALE TAURUS

Im a taurus and my friend is also. We use to work together and have a friendship thing going on. He liked me when we met, but I didn't know (he kept it to himself). I guess because at the time I was involved with a cancer(second time around relationship but I was too hurt by him to stay with him). Well anyway I never gave this taurus guy any thought. I would say "oh he's so nice, he's just my friend, buddy etc." Fellow friends would say that he liked me, but I brushed it off. I guess I couldn't see it. But one day we went out to hang as "friends" and from there on I fell in love with him. He's sweet, a gentleman and always gives me complements. He's always the life of the party, everyone loves him being around. But when he's with me alone he's very shy and quiet, Stares at me, I sometimes have to carry the convo. He says nothing's wrong but sometimes clams up on me. Now I'm doing the same thing. I get chills when he's around or just the thought of his name. I use to be able to express myself to him (b 4 I started to like him more than a friend). We're at a standstill now. I like him and he likes me (we have told each other and I also think we love each other but are afraid to tell the other) but where do we go from here. He knows my family and I know his. That's how close we've gotten. Sometimes he's hot, sometimes he's cold. I want us to move forward with this either staying friends or start a relationship. HELP! Oh one more thing we have had romantic moments (MANY) but haven't made love yet. We had plenty of chances, but either I wasn't ready than he wasn't ready, most of the time we just cuddle all night in each others arms. What to do?

Taurus Female

I know exactly what you mean! I asked the question becuz I have now totally fell in love with another Taurus, and he feels the same way, but we are basically exactly alike and I wonder if our personalites will clash. We are also at a stand still. We both tell each other how much we like each other, but I just want to be like,"okay, now what?" I need help also!!!

Female Taurus

Oh, I meant to respond to you Taurus Female. It sounds like you are probably going to have to make the first move if you want it to go further than just kissing and holding each other. He may be too nervous or may feel insecure that you might not like it or might change your mind about him after you do have sex. Just a thought.

Female Taurus

Thanks you guys, Im Taurus Female "Jayla". I'm so confused I've known him now for 3 years. We are just alike also, sometimes to the point of awkwardness. We joke and say were sister/brother (twins). I've tried to make the first move, but when I get the courage I freeze. Same with him because I can tell when he starts to talk deep about how he miss me, like me, love my smile, etc. but then stops. I tell him to help me understand him, but he's really reserved (somewhat like me)but damn can we at least get to point B we're talking about 3 years here!! I feel like time is going by and I wonder should I wait? move on? but I can't get him out of my system. He also has a 6 year old child (sweet) and he tried to make it work with the mother but they don't get along. she has 2 other kids (not his) His is her middle child. I'm thinking also if he still has feelings for her, he tells me no that they don't get along but he LOVES his child.

Taurus Female, try not to mistake his love for his child for love for her. If he tells you he no longer wants to be with her, believe him, becuz I have found that us taureans are very true to our word. We have great love for our family, which I'm sure you do, so it's understandable that he loves his child a whole lot, we have that motherly instinct, even the men do. I have no children, but I know I would be a very loving mother, as Taurus men are very loving fathers. I guess we do move slow, but dang, 3 years? But that's good though, that means your relationship is more secure. Don't give up, you sound good for each other. Let it move slow. There should be no rush, as long as you both are still close, that's what should matter. Maybe that's why he's afraid to go further, and maybe you to, becuz you guys don't want to mess up what you have.

Female Taurus

I was in a similar situation with a Taurus guy too. Remember they are romantic "earthies", which is a great thing, but if you really want the relationship to move and you really want these Taurus individuals do what I had to do.....

Seduce them and then....JUST TAKE THEM! They'll LOVE IT cuz it was never expected from you. They are extremely shy in that department and believe it or not they would rather the woman make the first move cuz they don't want to feel rejected if they make a move and the woman says no. Go figure them out huh?

LOL!! That's a good idea. Thanks. I will try it. I need to start being more open with him about my feelings but it seems so difficult when alone with him. I'm a self assured individual but around him I feel mushy. I know what I'm capable of when I put my mind to it (like us Taureans are) and I don't want to turn him off or push him away by being overly assertive and possessive. But hey that's what I use to do when we first met. It seemed to work he always said I was crazy (still does sometime if I say something out of the ordinary). I use to get him out of HIS shell. I just know now that I have to be the starter and let nature take it's course because he's so cautious and SLOW. 🙂

I am currently in a Taurus-Taurus relationship
and it is going well. I point out all of
our wonderful qualities to him, and I am
making a believer out of him more and more.

Things are not always wild and exciting but
the passion is there. Love and honesty are
magnified in this relationship.

Good Luck!

Bless you. That's what I want him to see, that he will not be hurt and that I understand him. Relationships is a continuosly stride. You have to work at it with communication, honesty, trust, respect, and LOVE will follow. Wish you well!!!!