How to get my Taurus man back?

Me and my Taurus had been dating for 2 1/2 years and one day I asked him why has he been acting weird, distant, less affectionate, less romantic and he said that he's been thinking...... he said that he doesn't feel the same way about our relationship and is firm on this stand. He said that it was a lot of stuff built up that made him come to this decision. He wants to be friends. When he calls me he acts like everything is normal , he doesn't call me babe or baby like he use to but he converses with me, and tells me he loves me. He even planned a day for us the other day to go to the movies, out to eat and the arcade. But the next day he didn't call me and barely texted and when I called him and texted him his vibe was different, like yesterday didn't happen. He told me that he thinks he gave me the wrong idea yesterday..... I am so confused. What do I do to get him back and change his mindset on our relationship.... He knows how much I love him and I know how much he loves me but this situation is literally driving me crazy and I don't know what to do. I just know I want us to have a future together ?

I understand, sorry for your loss, but I would like to read other people's feedback.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
I suggest you try NC for 30 days...

It could be the relationship has just run its course and he just doesn't feel the same way as he used to.... It happens in relationships.

Try NC for 30 days and it will help you get closure and clarity...

NC = no communication?

When I hear about things like this, I assume two things: First, the person who checked out of the relationship wanted to do it for awhile and had to work up the courage to do it/was waiting for an opportunity. Second, there is another person.

He may not be cheating, but I would not be surprised if he met someone else.

Done. Let it go. I know it's hard but if he no longer feels like he should feel about the object of his affection it's pretty much over. He was nice enough to tell you what he's feeling instead of disappearing. Gracefully bow out. Or you might find soon that he's moved on without you-- this is your final warning.

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Posted by Bricks195
When I hear about things like this, I assume two things: First, the person who checked out of the relationship wanted to do it for awhile and had to work up the courage to do it was waiting for an opportunity. Second, there is another person.

He may not be cheating, but I would not be surprised if he met someone else.

I was thinking the same thing.

There's a possibility that there is another person. A strong one imo.

And OP, stop chasing this man. And stop letting him have his cake and eat it too. I'd be like no bitch, you don't get to break up with me and then have me as your little friend. It's all or nothing. You don't get to have me on the side while probably with another person or keeping your options open.

I would ghost on him and if he cares he will come back, if he doesn't then bye Felicia. No one is worth chasing like a fool after they told you that they're just not into you anymore.

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Agree with this 100% . You can't miss something if it's right in front of you. He needs to truly loose you in all ways as friend and lover in order to want to move back into a relationship with you. Even then he may not choose you.