I am dumbfounded...

It's like he's been taken over by aliens! This guy...this guy who used to be an emotional stone. A distant but always there complete MYSTERY to me is suddenly the most open, emotionally (and physically) available man I've ever met! His face used to seem like stone to me because I could never read what he was feeling or thinking for that matter. Now it's written all over his face... he has this constant look of someone who's won a prize (like a kids first box of cracker jacks)...and that prize is ME?! Seriously...are you kidding me!? I've hoped that we'd make it here for sooo long but I'm not sure I actually believed it would happen. And now we're here...after everything he cut off his harem(I didnt even ask he doesnt even know I know)...unfriended them and everything...wants me to come meet his mom...wants us to start saving to get a car together... and every other word is YOU'RE MINE!
I'm completely mystified... its like invasion of the body snatchers. On that Tues he was as infuriating as ever...and I was feeling that desire to run. The next day...new man. It's like his wall fell apart while he was asleep. It seems so sudden but I know it's probably the culmination of a review thats been going on since we met. I'd just love to know that process from his perspective. I'm so curious to know how this all came about and what caused the review to come to such an abrupt end in my favor. How was I scored? How many contenders were there? How did you break the news to the rejectees? Was this the last review or will there be more? Is there another level of taurus openess beyond THIS ONE! if so I might literally evaporate. How in the sam hell do you guys pull this off for so long? Were your feelings always this strong and you just hid them? Or was it a slow build to this point and by the time we got here you just made a move? If you hid it then I super salute you as you're cleary made of cold hard steel and jiggly bits. Ahh sooo curious I'd love to be a fly on the wall of your process taurus...

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It's like he's been taken over by aliens! This guy...this guy who used to be an emotional stone. A distant but always there complete MYSTERY to me is suddenly the most open, emotionally (and physically) available man I've ever met! His face used to seem like stone to me because I could never read what he was feeling or thinking for that matter. Now it's written all over his face... he has this constant look of someone who's won a prize (like a kids first box of cracker jacks)...and that prize is ME?! Seriously...are you kidding me!? I've hoped that we'd make it here for sooo long but I'm not sure I actually believed it would happen. And now we're here...after everything he cut off his harem(I didnt even ask he doesnt even know I know)...unfriended them and everything...wants me to come meet his mom...wants us to start saving to get a car together... and every other word is YOU'RE MINE!
I'm completely mystified... its like invasion of the body snatchers. On that Tues he was as infuriating as ever...and I was feeling that desire to run. The next day...new man. It's like his wall fell apart while he was asleep. It seems so sudden but I know it's probably the culmination of a review thats been going on since we met. I'd just love to know that process from his perspective. I'm so curious to know how this all came about and what caused the review to come to such an abrupt end in my favor. How was I scored? How many contenders were there? How did you break the news to the rejectees? Was this the last review or will there be more? Is there another level of taurus openess beyond THIS ONE! if so I might literally evaporate. How in the sam hell do you guys pull this off for so long? Were your feelings always this strong and you just hid them? Or was it a slow build to this point and by the time we got here you just made a move? If you hid it then I super salute you as you're cleary made of cold hard steel and jiggly bits. Ahh sooo curious I'd love to be a fly on the wall of your process taurus...

it's an earth sign thing. we don't open up until we are sure even though we are dying to open up inside to the right person its just too risky sometimes but when it does happen it is a beautiful thing like you are describing.

I just wish I knew how it happened. Was it an involuntary thing? Like you just couldn't hold it in anymore. Or was there like a long self talk where a decision was made once and for all? If it was a talk...what did you say? Soooo curious...I blame my need to know everything virgo sun.

A conscious choice...I think I like that. He gave me a few warnings: just be honest with me & do not use my words against me. He said it makes him want to not open up and talk.

The fact that he put emotional talks on the table is stupifying enough...but I can really respect the fact the he said it going in. Scorched I have made the commitment with myself to see this through and not run anymore. It's going to be hard but he deserves to not have to worry I'm going to disappear all the time.
If I ever post here saying how I did something to make him stop. Please feel free to e-stone me...

How long did it take?

About 2 years. I know that seems like a blip compared to some stories but it was a long hard road

2 years damn that's so cool

I read this blog by Evan Marc Katz and he usually says that if a man hadn't committed within the first 3 months he's not really into it. But I see stories like this that let me know that's not necessarily true. What so you all think about this?

Yea it was stories like that that kept me running. Having that mentality that relationships should follow a script or timeline. I'm not saying that's totally wrong but in my case I just had this pull that kept me coming back to him. I finally just had to relent and see where it would go....no expectations.