I'm so done w/ Taurus men!

Hello everybody!

It's been a while since I've logged in, I'm surprised I even remember my password. 🙂

So, back a few months ago, I was "doing the freaking dance" with my young Taurus man... eventually, we got together and it was "eh" nothing near exciting or even close to being "nice" as to my first Taurus man back in college days. As a matter of fact, I pretty much fell asleep on several occasions both in & out of bed. He was so inexperienced for a man in his 30s, it felt like I was back in high school w/ my first boyfriend. Yawn. As a matter of fact, my young Taurus guy became obsessed with me and I got tired of babysitting so I cut him loose... he begged and begged and cried and bawled his eyes out like a 5 year old for me to give it another try and I was done, done, done, done... don't even turn me over D.O.N.E. I can't stand his "one foot in and one foot out" attitude. Either a person is in or out, otherwise get the phuck out of the doorway because you're blocking traffic.

So, fast-fwd to today... I am back on the market. I also booted my young Taurus guy out of my business that we shared... I was doing 90% of the work and spending 100% of my own money so I told him to go phuck off too in that point... I guess I pretty much emasculated the guy. I really don't give a flying s.hyte. yes, I know it sounds mean, just don't phuck with a Leo woman when you've pissed her off. My claws came out and hasn't disappeared.

So, now, I'm back on the market as I've mentioned and what am I freaking attracting? TAURUS MEN! WTF? Why do these men want to get even remotely near me?! I don't want Taurus men... I don't like Taurus men! The last 6 out of 7 guys I've gone out with are Taurus men! I discover that they're Taurus in the middle of a conversation on the first or second date! I even left one of them in the middle of dinner... WTF?! I need to invent a Taurus repellant spray so I can repel them! One of them won't stop blowing up my phone asking why I no longer want to go out with him as if he's God's gift to humanity!

Anyway, TLS, I know you're a good guy, but, you've always been my sounding board when it comes to dissecting a Taurus man's mind because you're a Taurus man. 🙂 How can I repel them? BTW, I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving TLS and for everyone reading this.

Sorry for the rant... but I want to know how to repel these guys. I don't want them near me. If I could, I don't even want to be in the same State as

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You are a psychopath.

Just kidding. But you take astrology too seriously. I'm criticizing you.

yeah, yeah, it takes one to know one.

No it doesn't.

I am just tired of Taurus men and that's all that seems to be near me. As if they hone after me like I'm this beacon of light attracting Taurus men. ugh, anything but Taurus men. I'll even stop dating if that's all that's left in the world.

I am just kidding about the psychopath thing. But I think you let astrology guide your entire life and thats a terrible idea. I mean walking out on a date because you found out his birthday? No offense, but he must have thought you were nuts... And probably had his feelings hurt too.

I was married to an unevolved one...so I feel your pain! However, just because some are more heavily exhibiting their bad traits doesn't mean they all are. But fire and earth aren't the easiest match.

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Posted by JessiedLeo
I am just tired of Taurus men and that's all that seems to be near me. As if they hone after me like I'm this beacon of light attracting Taurus men. ugh, anything but Taurus men. I'll even stop dating if that's all that's left in the world.

Aww. LOL. You can't help who you attract. I don't understand the phenomenon myself. I tend to attract Taurus suns and/or Taurus moons. I'm no longer fighting it. I've had a very good Taurus sun man in my life so there are good ones out there. Are there Taurus placements in your chart or Virgo moon? I think my Taurus ascendant and Virgo moon is why I attract them.

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I do have a Taurus and Virgo placements as well as a Scorpio moon... I'm glad you found a good guy. but I've had nothing but horrific experiences w/ Taurus men.

Posted by MoonArtist
I was married to an unevolved one...so I feel your pain! However, just because some are more heavily exhibiting their bad traits doesn't mean they all are. But fire and earth aren't the easiest match.

Yeah... but this last one, he was a doozy and I got tired of it... and I've decided that I don't want them near me. I agree with u on fire & earth. But I attract them and I want to find the formula to not attract them... I'll try almost anything at this point.

Just talk to them like you did in this rant. You should have no problem repelling them...

Posted by Jynja
Shave your head and leave just enough hair to spell out "I love Taurus Men!"

HAHAHAHHAH!

Tell them you have a STD, never want to get married, cant hold a job, kids are the devil, and you hate your family. They should leave you alone.

Posted by Taurusgirl3
Tell them you have a STD, never want to get married, cant hold a job, kids are the devil, and you hate your family. They should leave you alone.

THISSSS^ should work 😉

@PVAF sure, heck, I'll have it patented. 🙂
@ Jynga, I knew I can count on you for answers. 🙂
@anonymousheart, I do and did... they saw me as a challenge, someone they wanted to conquer and control.
@Taurusgirl3, the one that was blowing up my phone, I finally called him back because men have done that s.hyte to me before and I know how it feels, I told him that I have 6 kids (lie) and I don't know who they fathers were and he wanted to be the father for my fake 6 kids... I can't believe I resorted to lying to get him off my back. He finally left after I never called him back to his 8 calls.
@robyn, I am... I but they see me as a challenge. someone they want to control... I just walk away and most come chasing me.

I have no clue what I'm doing for me to attract them. I'm a nice person by nature, sweet, strong, controlling and bossy because of my work position. These Taurus men LOVED it. and they see me as a mystery... I have no clue why because I'm pretty much out there like an open book and straightforward.

Sounds like my sister and her Taurus boyfriend. But she chooses to put up with him. As long he ain't botherin her or me. I'm cool

Posted by JessiedLeo
@PVAF sure, heck, I'll have it patented. 🙂
@ Jynga, I knew I can count on you for answers. 🙂
@anonymousheart, I do and did... they saw me as a challenge, someone they wanted to conquer and control.
@Taurusgirl3, the one that was blowing up my phone, I finally called him back because men have done that s.hyte to me before and I know how it feels, I told him that I have 6 kids (lie) and I don't know who they fathers were and he wanted to be the father for my fake 6 kids... I can't believe I resorted to lying to get him off my back. He finally left after I never called him back to his 8 calls.
@robyn, I am... I but they see me as a challenge. someone they want to control... I just walk away and most come chasing me.

I have no clue what I'm doing for me to attract them. I'm a nice person by nature, sweet, strong, controlling and bossy because of my work position. These Taurus men LOVED it. and they see me as a mystery... I have no clue why because I'm pretty much out there like an open book and straightforward.

Yeah telling him you have lots of kids and not knowing who the fathers are doesn't really work. We love kids and he will feel sympathy for them not having a father figure. Which is why he offered to be that figure for them.

Sounds fishy to me.
I've never seen a Taurus chase someone that doesn't want them.
Doesn't seem logical. They are the type to let you go if you tell them you want that.

OMG PVAF! I didn't recognize you!
You changed your face.

Meanwhile, I do absolutely nothing to attract anyone, but there are at least three kittens who want ME!! AND THEY'RE ALL OLDER THAN ME. LOL!!!!!!

I don't understand this madness, and I wish it would stop.

Posted by anonymousheart
Sounds fishy to me.
I've never seen a Taurus chase someone that doesn't want them.
Doesn't seem logical. They are the type to let you go if you tell them you want that.

I don't know. I've got a taurus that won't leave me alone. Of course I've never been mean to him or told him to go away. I just told him I wasn't sure two bulls could work together. He calls and texts me everyday even when I ignore him.

They might be mistaking her flirting for an attraction. Leo's don't know how not to flirt with everyone and get their attention.

I can see the attraction to Leo's. I like their fun excited energy. They tell really good stories. Very entertaining plus they have this amazing confidence and light up a room.

JessiedLeo,

Lol. You are so funny. Why not keep it cool and just give Tauruses a nice ride.

That would be fun fun fun.

Posted by Sn1p3r187
Sounds like my sister and her Taurus boyfriend. But she chooses to put up with him. As long he ain't botherin her or me. I'm cool

See, I can't do that. Plus I couldn't trust my young Taurus guy and I discovered that the Taurus men I've encountered are secretive, liars and nothing can be built on those ingredients. I don't want to waste my time nor energy being surrounded by so much toxicity.

I hope your sister wisens up and stops wasting time & energy. The Taurus men I've encountered wanted to such every ounce of mine and run away with it. I refuse and that's where the tug-o-war starts because they're stubborn like us. But they haven't met someone like me which the ones I've encountered likes the challenge and tries to control.

@Taurusgirl3, see, the Taurus men that I've encountered has shown me their compassionate side, but then I find out they've lied or keeping crucial secrets and all hell breaks loose and my trust factor goes down to negative 8K.

@anonymousheart: I'll be happy to hand you over the ones I've met. 🙂

@2N3R: Yeah, some Leo men are like that and they're stubborn. To repel Leos, tell them that you find them ugly, disgusting and too old and they'll walk away with their tails between their legs, bowed head and a hurt ego. They'll leave you alone.

See, this is what I want to find out, how to get rid of Taurus men. What can I say or do?

@Taurusgirl3: I was mean to these guys and the meaner I was, the more they charged at me. My young Taurus said he had never met someone like me... and he loves my big, compassionate, kind heart which he knows well of.

@M143: Hahaha! I just don't want to give or waste my time on anybody that would lie to me, doesn't value me or even appreciate me whether it be a friend or more. I can't stand liars and those who disrespects me. Ask any Leo, those are no-nos... we don't forgive those things. Those are deal-breakers and from what I've learned "all of the Taurus men" I've encountered are liars, cheaters, and scumbag whores. I wouldn't even touch them with a 90 foot pole. 🙂

As a person, zodiac signs aside, I become myself to people I trust... trust that I will be accepted and valued whether it be a friend or more... I want the same values from them and the same values as I'd give them. My friends who knows me well and have seen me relaxed and be a bit silly and fun and I'm comfortable showing my true self, they value me and none of them are Tauruses.

But could someone please give me an answer to get rid of them easily in one swoop, a mean word, or yelling, please let me know. Thanks

We can switch places! I want to experience being with a Taurus guy, but I rarely run into them... in fact I rarely run into a lot of guys 😆... so you can have that? mmm ~ponders~ Taurus men can't be that bad or your just attracting those ones 😆, but how can you know if they are if you skip out right after learning there sign? Can't really talk though cus I find myself avoiding Aquarius and Pisces guys, but I'm not gunna cut them off completely, can't let a few bad apples ruin it for the rest of them.

Hey Jessied - not in the same state? LOL, you wouldn't be getting a little overdramatic now would you? Hahahaha....Let me go check and see if that's a Leo trait. LOL.

While I think Leo women are super hot and I actually like the sign a lot (would maybe even choose to be a Leo out of all signs), I think this pairing sucks basically and I would never do anything long-term with a Leo woman myself. I see this match a lot and its never smooth - cheating, screaming, physical fighting, kids are collateral damage, etc. You were just so excited when you came in here about your bull, I didn't want to be a downer. hahahahahaah....

I don't have too much advice on how to repel a Taurus. We hate super loud, pushy, overly assertive people, so maybe study Aries women and act accordingly. LOL. I have the opposite problem; I attract mainly Leos and Cancers, and that is exactly what my chart says I should attract. Neither sign works for me at all. I enjoy the initial chemistry a lot though, so it just makes for a flirtatious kind of friendship.

JessiedLeo,

Ignore them even they kept pestering you. That is how I get rid of Taurus man. They are not my type

though. Just I gave them the dosage they want. lol

To some extent They are generous... so while giving them a nice ride. I get what I want.

Sing off key. They hate that!

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Hey Jessied - not in the same state? LOL, you wouldn't be getting a little overdramatic now would you? Hahahaha....Let me go check and see if that's a Leo trait. LOL.

While I think Leo women are super hot and I actually like the sign a lot (would maybe even choose to be a Leo out of all signs), I think this pairing sucks basically and I would never do anything long-term with a Leo woman myself. I see this match a lot and its never smooth - cheating, screaming, physical fighting, kids are collateral damage, etc. You were just so excited when you came in here about your bull, I didn't want to be a downer. hahahahahaah....

I don't have too much advice on how to repel a Taurus. We hate super loud, pushy, overly assertive people, so maybe study Aries women and act accordingly. LOL. I have the opposite problem; I attract mainly Leos and Cancers, and that is exactly what my chart says I should attract. Neither sign works for me at all. I enjoy the initial chemistry a lot though, so it just makes for a flirtatious kind of friendship.

lmaoooooooo

I'll show you TLS. Five months going strong. WHOOP WHOOP

anonymousheart,

What they hate? lol

They're not men, and I loathe lying. I don't insult unless I'm given reason to. My issue is I like them or they interest me, but not in the way they do to me, and I'm afraid they might misinterpret what I mean as friendliness and feel like I'm leading them on when that is not my intention.

Of coarse, no one gets to pick who anyone is attracted to, so no hard feelings. I don't know about you personally, but I doubt most people are interested in a person because of the constellation the sun was in when they were born. To be attracted to someone based on that is..... something that makes no sense to me.

As someone else mentioned, just say you're not interested. There's no point in going after someone who doesn't care nor want the attention. If they continue, it's the male ego and/or desperation. However, this last bit really does apply to people in general, not any specific person.

Ohh this is easiest question EVER: Simply become too interested. Ask him where this relationship is going? Start planning a wedding and sending him pics of potential homes for you two. Follow that up with cooking him a magnificently TERRIBLE 7 course meal followed by awful sex on itchy sheets. I promise there will be a bull shaped hole in your front door... problem solved!!!

Posted by anonymousheart
Sing off key. They hate that!

Woah. Get out of my head. I have actually had a "no singing" rule with every girl I've ever dated. They hate it of course. Unless you can sing better than the trained professional who recorded it, please don't ruin the song. It is not a duet.

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Posted by anonymousheart
Sing off key. They hate that!

Woah. Get out of my head. I have actually had a "no singing" rule with every girl I've ever dated. They hate it of course. Unless you can sing better than the trained professional who recorded it, please don't ruin the song. It is not a duet.

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I'd never follow that rule. I sing all day and night.

Any advice,

My Taurus and I already separated our ways. He took me back where I lived before and paid it for 2

months. However, things will never be the same again. But he already stated that we will spend

x mas together and he already gave me the money to go to his pad.

I change my mind... I don't feel now to see him again after we break up and some of his stuff

is in my pad.. which I already told him to bring it back with him when he brought me back to where

I lived before... But he only says, some other time or whatever.

I don't like to see him again but I am in the middle of Nowhere in my mind.

Any advice.

Thanks

What do you mean by this M:
"I don't like to see him again but I am in the middle of Nowhere in my mind."

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Posted by anonymousheart
Sing off key. They hate that!

Woah. Get out of my head. I have actually had a "no singing" rule with every girl I've ever dated. They hate it of course. Unless you can sing better than the trained professional who recorded it, please don't ruin the song. It is not a duet.

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Your Crazy! no singing? But it brings JOY!

Anonymousheart,

What do you mean by this M:
"I don't like to see him again but I am in the middle of Nowhere in my mind."


Since he already gave me the money to spend xmas with him. I feel like I have to do it for him which

is against my will to see him. Scorpio, like me is a No looking back after we made up clear

that we are done in such person. I was really happy when he brought me back to my place. I enjoyed

a lot.

Lastnight: I intentionally had a wrong sent msg to him.

He replied: Lol. Wrong send again. have fun.

I replied: It's just 2 different world. Different personality. Healthy fun with a healthy mind.

I also reminded him: Please let me know when do you like to get your luggage bag and a big box in my

pad so I can give order to a caretaker to hand it over to you.. or I will send a messenger.

No reply. Lol. I don't like seeing him close to me. Lol.

TLS! Yes, the drama queen part of me came out! hahaha! I just had to rant! I just couldn't believe my luck, 6 out of 7 last guys I'd gone out with are Tauruses! What are the odds? Then today, I have a new account and guess what? The guy I dealt with, the CEO of this company... also a Taurus man! He was too needy though, and we already butt heads but I have what he needs in regards to my business service and that's why I got the account.

But now that I've calmed down... I've said things to my young Taurus guy, the truth, and I know I've hurt him. But he needed to hear it because he needed to grow up. I told him I couldn't trust him because of all the lies he had told me... the shady things he'd done. His laziness, his childishness, his attitude about not wanting to be accountable to me and the business. We got close and he even wanted me to move in with him which is another ploy to control me. Of course, I refused.

He was cute, but cute is nothing if he doesn't have the heart, the kindness, the compassion, nor the values I hold dear. In the end, cute also gets old and what does one have left? He told me things I wanted to hear, not the truth. He knew my mission which he tried to mold himself into but I saw right through him from the start and he knew it.

I learned a lot from this event... I learned that I hold onto my values much deeper than I thought I did. I stood my ground on my beliefs and didn't sway from it. My young Taurus guy was used to dealing w/ girls, I'm a woman.

I wish I could change myself but I know I'm exactly what my young Taurus guy is looking for in a partner/wife, except I don't want him. As he had said, I'm beautiful inside and out and I can't change that. He also said, he had never met anyone like me before and he never will.

Thanks for all the advice.🙂

Posted by anonymousheart
Sounds fishy to me.
I've never seen a Taurus chase someone that doesn't want them.
Doesn't seem logical. They are the type to let you go if you tell them you want that.

Anonymousheart yes they do. I have one that I was talking to and I got tired of trying to understand and waiting for him to make up his mind. I told him since he couldn't give me what I am looking for; I had to end it. He will not leave me alone. Keeps calling and texts claiming that I do not understand what he's going through. I have tried two times to end it but still comes back. Tried to end it a week ago; didn't hear from him for 3 days and thought he finally gave up but come Monday; he woke me up with texts at 7am claiming that I need to be understanding and give him time. Told him he can have all the time he needs, work on his issues and stress then call me but nooo he doesn't want that

Hi V

Posted by Impulsv
Tell em u don't respect Taurus men because u found them indecisive, passive, boring, liars n lazy lovers. That I'll do it. I think they despise u lol

As a Taurus I wish I could be less indecisive and passive at times. And boring I can see how people would think that.

Sammy

Haha if they made a Taurus repellant I'm sure they would just make a guy repellant and if they had made that I'm sure all girls would have it.
Idk being able to not attract certain types of people is a ridiculous thing to ask?
If you don't like them then don't give them the time. Isn't that what anyone would do? Or just do something that would scare him like plan your life together or fart?
Or use a real repellant, pepper spray lol...

Lol and do it front of all the Taurus men ever then they will definitely leave you alone