Taurus man is moving at snail pace..

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Leyley76 on Saturday, November 2, 2013 and has 6 replies.

Understanding a Taurus Man's Pace in Relationships

A Taurus man often moves slowly in relationships due to his cautious and steady nature. He values stability and may need more time to feel comfortable to meet or commit. Patience and clear communication are key. If you're ready, expressing your interest directly can help clarify his intentions and potentially speed up the process.

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@Leyley76
13 Years

Hey guys need your input..
I met this taurus guy online nearly 4 weeks ago he is 36 and absolutely stunning! I messaged him on the site to which he replied straight away and asked me for my number, well the issue is he never seems to contact me first contact is always initiated by me! Although I've text him once or maybe twice a week, When I text him he always replies back in an instant which for an impatient libra like me it's quite nice 🙂 he is always polite and always compliments me the thing is at the start I did ask if he was up for meeting soon and he said yeah for sure but we are four weeks along and there's been nothing from him about meeting?? He has only been single for 3 months whereas I've been single nearly 4 years I don't really know what to do? I'm an old school girl with old school values but these days sitting around waiting for the guy to make the move isn't what it's all about is it? Should I just take the bull by the horns (sorry couldn't help that lol) and just ask him out or shall I just leave things be? What do you think? Oh I'm 37 and I've looked at his chart he is taurus sun, Aries moon, Taurus mercury, Aries Venus

Thanks all

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

I couldn't help but LOL @ this.

🙂

I'm a Cap, I have no issue suggesting to a man that we do something together...

By doing so, you'll let him know where you stand.

Worst he can do is say "no"!

A Taur w/ Venus in Aries will charge if interested and knows where he stands.

He'll drop ya like a lead balloon though once the 'shiny' rubs off.

Good luck!

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@Leyley76
13 Years

Hiya 🙂 I just didn't want to come across as too forward I dunno I've chased few times before with other guys and it has always backfired I'm just being really cautious at the minute. Think I'll give it a go and see what happens like ya say the worst will only be a no 🙂

Thank you x

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@LeoGurlz
12 Years

Not to be discouraging but 4 weeks in Taurus Time is like hours in average ppl time. They can sometimes move so slow that ppl run out of patience with them. If you like him just let it flow, communicate with him with out being too pushy. Best of luck

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@VirgoCrabbyCat
12 Years

Posted by lildol
I couldn't help but LOL @ this.

🙂

I'm a Cap, I have no issue suggesting to a man that we do something together...

By doing so, you'll let him know where you stand.

Worst he can do is say "no"!

A Taur w/ Venus in Aries will charge if interested and knows where he stands.

He'll drop ya like a lead balloon though once the 'shiny' rubs off.

Good luck!

^^^^^^THIS

With a "Hot Bull" you are going to have to play it safe. I hope you have a lot of patience. My Taurus man's birth chart is heavily dominated by Aries. Tread very carefully here. My BF's Birth Chart: Moon/Mercury/Venus/Mars/Ascendant/- Aries. He charged after me in the beginning hot and heavy. He told me he loved me at about a month into our dating. Then I "fell" for him. I've never had any man chase me like that ever. I ran of course. 😉 But, something happened about a month ago and now he's gone aloof on me. Please don't jump in too deep right a way. Take your sweet time with hot bull. They are like no other.

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@Iamawinelover
17 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

Posted by Leyley76
Hey guys need your input..
I met this taurus guy online nearly 4 weeks ago he is 36 and absolutely stunning! I messaged him on the site to which he replied straight away and asked me for my number, well the issue is he never seems to contact me first contact is always initiated by me! Although I've text him once or maybe twice a week, When I text him he always replies back in an instant which for an impatient libra like me it's quite nice 🙂 he is always polite and always compliments me the thing is at the start I did ask if he was up for meeting soon and he said yeah for sure but we are four weeks along and there's been nothing from him about meeting?? He has only been single for 3 months whereas I've been single nearly 4 years I don't really know what to do? I'm an old school girl with old school values but these days sitting around waiting for the guy to make the move isn't what it's all about is it? Should I just take the bull by the horns (sorry couldn't help that lol) and just ask him out or shall I just leave things be? What do you think? Oh I'm 37 and I've looked at his chart he is taurus sun, Aries moon, Taurus mercury, Aries Venus

Thanks all

Cap Lady here and let me tell you, you are in for a very slow paced courtship. You must in all of your might have PATIENCE when dealing with a Bull. I am dealing with one now for a year now and every since I opened my heart and used the L word, he has been runnning for about a month now. So while he is running this imaginary marathon, I am doing my own thing. Nothing I can do.

But for your guy to be single just the last 3 months, I'm thinking (a Bull can tell you if I am right or wrong) he may not be completely ready to move on to someone else. 3 months is not a long time and depending on the reason of his break-up I suspect may be an issue also. He will definately move slow I would think when it comes to hanging out with anyone right now. I could be wrong too.