lagirl14
@lagirl14
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In need of a Taurus MANUAL please
Out of curiousity, what are is other placements?
Taurus men are very driven and like routine. I know that with mine, if he is busy, you get one or two word answers via text. They are notorious for running hot and cold. I think all men need to have it spelled out for them, but I think Bulls really need to have it put in their face or they won't risk making the leap and attempting something more serious.
Even when they are in relationships they do this hot cold thing. Sometimes it's distraction by work or family, sometimes it's just quiet time they want. I have my own issues related to this, and it makes me just shy of a basket case. What I am learning my bull and I both need is the security of the label. Something I have never wanted or needed in my life until I met this guy.
Taurus men are very driven and like routine. I know that with mine, if he is busy, you get one or two word answers via text. They are notorious for running hot and cold. I think all men need to have it spelled out for them, but I think Bulls really need to have it put in their face or they won't risk making the leap and attempting something more serious.
Even when they are in relationships they do this hot cold thing. Sometimes it's distraction by work or family, sometimes it's just quiet time they want. I have my own issues related to this, and it makes me just shy of a basket case. What I am learning my bull and I both need is the security of the label. Something I have never wanted or needed in my life until I met this guy.
Does he even know you like him??
Well, the places I see him are not really places where we should talk personal stuff, so that makes it difficult for me to ask, I dont even have his phone number, after the first time we met I was the one who initiated most contact until i gave up, I throw him a compliment here and there but as I said I'm not pushy, I noticed he tells me things that make him look good like he just bought an apartment, and then tell me I should move to his neighborhood, or how he's the boss at his job, not sure if he's showing off or he expects some kind of reaction, anyway yes they are so hard to read and thats what makes it so difficult to be direct to them, they are not the only ones who like to be sure about the other person first 🙂
If you really like him! They're nervous about making the first move with someone they really like, they need to know how you feel first because they avoid hurting themselves. He may have bought someone a drink and went home with them but that says nothing about his interest in you, he's a man and just wanted to get laid. He knew he didn't want anything serious from that girl so he wasn't afraid to hit on her. My boyfriend is a Taurus and I had a tough time telling if he liked me as a friend or what but I ended up making the first move. Oddly enough when I was searching for a new place to live he suggested his neighborhood. I moved there and so our story begins. Making the first move was the best choice of my life. Typical as a women we want to be chased but sometimes it's the man that needs it because his heart is so big he's scared to put himself in a position to get hurt. Show him he doesn't have to be.
Did he seriously ask this girl for a drink, or did he ask her would she like a drink?
Posted by AznnationHe’s a May Taurus, ugh, when he shows me interest I act casual, and use that as show him interest the next time, and that’s when he goes cold again, 6 months of this honestly wtf does he want? When ignore him he comes to me, if I respond to his interest he backs off, he asked this girl for a drink in front of me bc that was the time when I was over all of it so I was doing my thing and not paying him attention, less than a week after that he found out I was thinking to move to another city and suddenly again starting liking, commenting on my photos, and when he saw me next he approached me and started telling me all this reasons why I should stay, and things to do so I would feel better on the city we live in, asking me for my plans for the following months, or if I had any trips planned, he was so nice, after this I started being nice and friendly with him again even if it couldn’t be romantically I would have been ok to be friends too, and again he backs off.
Depends if he is a april taurus or a may taurus. May taurean guys are more complex. We like to chase so make sure it seems like he is the one chasing. The thing is that even when we chase we chase slowly because we are busy chasing $ $ and we have plenty of options.
Posted by TaurusBull1977This night I wasn’t paying attention to him bc I was honestly tired about all the hot and colds, on I saw one of my bears friends in a corner with him and some others so I came to say hello, and I soon as I did, he asked the girl he was talking to to go to the bar, they stayed there until I left, after that was when he found out I was considering moving to another city and started liking and commenting in all my photos again, and then approached me another time to tell my reasons why I shouldn’t move, and recommended his neighborhood etc, then I thought well maybe he either likes me or wants to be my friend, so I started to be more in contact with him again, nothing crazy very casual and then he went cold again agh so annoying
Did he seriously ask this girl for a drink, or did he ask her would she like a drink?
Thank you for this, I was subtle in showing I like him. After we met I made the effort to start talking, being friends, etc, a few months into that I gave him a few compliments, some stuff cual media “flirting” a comment or DM here and there, unfortunately because of the situation on which we normally see each other, (volunteer) I can’t come to strong and be like: hey I like you, wanna go out? Bc if he doesn’t and things get weird is not fair on everyone else there, I will have to see him every week after that (awkward) and tauruses are not the only ones who are scared or rejection lol. I’m a sag and I was never afraid to tell guys I liked them, making firsts move, I was so blunt and straight forward but as I grew older doing that got me in situations where I didn’t feel good at all so I’m still blunt and all that sag thing, but not as much when it’s about a guy I like
Posted by libragirl37
If you really like him! They're nervous about making the first move with someone they really like, they need to know how you feel first because they avoid hurting themselves. He may have bought someone a drink and went home with them but that says nothing about his interest in you, he's a man and just wanted to get laid. He knew he didn't want anything serious from that girl so he wasn't afraid to hit on her. My boyfriend is a Taurus and I had a tough time telling if he liked me as a friend or what but I ended up making the first move. Oddly enough when I was searching for a new place to live he suggested his neighborhood. I moved there and so our story begins. Making the first move was the best choice of my life. Typical as a women we want to be chased but sometimes it's the man that needs it because his heart is so big he's scared to put himself in a position to get hurt. Show him he doesn't have to be.
o idea what that mmeans ?
Posted by AznnationPosted by lagirl14Lol, based on what i read i think he wants to mind fuck you 😆Posted by AznnationHe’s a May Taurus, ugh, when he shows me interest I act casual, and use that as show him interest the next time, and that’s when he goes cold again, 6 months of this honestly wtf does he want? When ignore him he comes to me, if I respond to his interest he backs off, he asked this girl for a drink in front of me bc that was the time when I was over all of it so I was doing my thing and not paying him attention, less than a week after that he found out I was thinking to move to another city and suddenly again starting liking, commenting on my photos, and when he saw me next he approached me and started telling me all this reasons why I should stay, and things to do so I would feel better on the city we live in, asking me for my plans for the following months, or if I had any trips planned, he was so nice, after this I started being nice and friendly with him again even if it couldn’t be romantically I would have been ok to be friends too, and again he backs off.
Depends if he is a april taurus or a may taurus. May taurean guys are more complex. We like to chase so make sure it seems like he is the one chasing. The thing is that even when we chase we chase slowly because we are busy chasing $ $ and we have plenty of options.
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