Inconsistency

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Posted by Geminlove
How bad is it to taureans when their SO or the object of their affection is being inconsistent?


For me, it represents insensitivity, inconsideration, lack of trust, lack of dependability...therefore, take anything you tell me with a grain of salt.


Posted by Geminlove
Is inconsistency on the same level as cheating for you guys?
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No.
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Posted by Geminlove
How bad is it to taureans when their SO or the object of their affection is being inconsistent?


For me, it represents insensitivity, inconsideration, lack of trust, lack of dependability...therefore, take anything you tell me with a grain of salt.


Posted by Geminlove
Is inconsistency on the same level as cheating for you guys?


No.
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DITTO. It's annoying -- and if you're aware that you're doing it then maybe you should stop.
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Posted by SanchoMuyTerrible

Your Virgo isn't the inconsistent type?



In the beginning he was....
Drove me up the wall...
I had mental images about putting him in a headlock or kicking him down a flight of steps.
Especially when I'm given a calm, nonchalant response..."Relax"
Like I'm the one that's crazy. LOL.

Don't piss off a Bull girl.

Lets just state during the initial stages of courtship, it was a trying period.



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@TaurusBull1977: Damn...O_O im guessing his moon sign was probably an air sign/had alot of air influence. Virgo is an earth sign just like caps and taurus so inconsistency is not in their book. I even have virgo rising. I know better than anyone that when you piss off a bull you're just asking for it...i have a taurus mom, taurus bestie and my guy's also a taurus too. Y'all either blow up and all hell breaks lose OR go cold turkey 😢 which is worse since y'all are good at heart and ppl around you start relying/depending on you 😄 Its like having the solid ground slip right under from you...I have gemini sun and moon sometimes i become inconsistent towards ppl i care about. Its not on purpose having all this air influence...i just get sucked into daydreams, present or my plans. I end up coming off as flaky and undependable #Geminiproblems
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Geminlove,

Been long time. You did not move on yet. It's just pity watching you trying harder to analyze

that taurguy. Is there something he had done in your life? or was it just catching you when you

fall and all those cares?

You have to understand that Taurus are not initiator. They have a hard time also for decision

making. Yes, they showed that they care about the people around them because they are gentle people

and most ladies misunderstood it.. If he is in love with you he will come around. Some Taurus guy

are chaser,,, maybe due to obsession.
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Posted by Geminlove
Its not on purpose having all this air influence...i just get sucked into daydreams, present or my plans. I end up coming off as flaky and undependable #Geminiproblems



My father is a Gemini. We're both self-employed. Love him too death, but at times, his head can be in the clouds. I find myself overwhelmed at times when I am dealing with the workload of his clients as well as my clients. Its real weird with us. I find myself giving my father moral lectures on responsibility, the importance of having a dedicated work ethic, and seeing things through.

Don't get me wrong, my father is brilliant. I love the way his mind works, and his ability to take risks. But he is very much a child at heart. I'm a daddy's girl, so at times, I find myself taking care of him a lot. 🙂

I will be honest, flightiness will drive a Bull up the wall...

But my advice to you, Geminiinlove, for the flightiness, compensate it with undying loyalty, because Geminis have an agile mind, present incentives that he can benefit from. My daddy does it with me all the time. As I stated earlier, my daddy is brilliant.
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@taurusbull1977: i've def. got the loyalty part covered, hes like everything i've ever wanted in a man. Why bother looking somewhere else when i have everything right here 🙂 I made this thread because im worried how my bull takes my inconsistency sometimes...like whether or not it will become the reason he breaks up with me, is that even possible? I talked to him about this and he said to tell him right away if something is bothering me enough to pull me away from him and cause flakiness...I still feel bad about it tho 😢 It took us 2.5 yrs to actually start dating...i finally said "yes". We've been together for 1.5 yrs, he puts me on a freaking pedestal and i feel like i dont deserve him
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The flighty gemini male was late on two dates. But he said he got distracted with something along the way. But showed up anyways.

Saggie male. Late at the movies. The previews showing already at the movies. Movie starts @ 730p movies starts @ 730 plus previews. Lol so 745p walk inside movie and find a seat in the dark. Movie starts. Or find another movie cause now the movie definitely started five minutes ago.

I am punctual and not inconsistent at all. And can't stand it. But
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The flighty gemini male was late on two dates. But he said he got distracted with something along the way. But showed up anyways.

Saggie male. Late at the movies. The previews showing already at the movies. Movie starts @ 730p movies starts @ 730 plus previews. Lol so 745p walk inside movie and find a seat in the dark. Movie starts. Or find another movie cause now the movie definitely started five minutes ago.

I am punctual even alittle early than the movie or date time setup.. and not inconsistent at all. And can't stand it.