IDK.. I am confused...

Ok here is my story.

I met a taurus man a little over 3 years ago. He chased me for about 2.5 years. I finally gave in and decided why not give him a chance. talked and texted everyday. He promised me a future with him. Talking about me moving out to where he lives. Says he knows what he wants, knows my worth and wants me only me. Wants to get real serious.says things like people don't meet by accident, that god don't make no mistakes. That I was meant for him Wants to take care of me etc.. all that jazz. We hung out a couple of times.Went through the motions of actually being in a relationship. gave me the keys and codes to his house. Ok so he started to ignore me. no text no calls. etc.. saw that he post stuff on fb and IG but can;t have the time to answer a simple question i had for him practically ignored me for 2 days. ohh did i mention how he posted something on IG about meeting his soulmate and tole me that post was for me well I noticed that some girl commented on it and then he asked her to call him—?? wtf? I am totally confused. I actually called him out on it and he got all mad. I actually sent him a text stating how I am mailing his keys back and he got even more mad at me cursing saying that i am being negative and that just makes him want to say Fu&ck it! I told him that i cant handle being ignored that it was very disrespectfull that I would not do that to him. He told me to calm down, but how can I be when I am getting this type of treatment. I told him I cant take another dissapointment that I wont put up with this BS. he then said that he wasnt in the mood for this that he had a rough day, wanted to be alone at home and found out his friend died. UMMm I didnt know anything and if that was the case why didnt he just tell me so in the fist place? I am lost.

Sounds like you were quick to react and resort to emotional manipluation (threatening to send keys back), probably pushed over the edge when you saw him communicating with this girl on FB, before really even trying to investigate. If you care about the relationship, ASK him what is up with everything you're seeing from him, instead of going right to the threats. We don't deal with threats very well. We will dare you to follow through with them, out of our own stubbornness and pride.

I did ask him. I asked him if things were ok with him. He ignored me. I asked him how come he's been ignoring me all of a sudden. I got no response. Before this he would call or text back right away. Even if he was having a bad day or busy or couldn't pick up the phone he would let me know. I just don't get why all of a sudden he would go MIA on me. About jumping the gun on the female, he posted that soul mate pic on IG last week and last week was those comments. I didn't say anything. I even went to his house this past weekend bad still didn't say anything. I just brought it up last night because He started to get mad at me. I wanted at least a simple explanation and he still didn't tell me nothing. Just kept telling me I'm being negative. All this started happening on Sunday night. I even said I was sorry for my actions and simply said I want to fix things because if we going to be together seriously we should be able to talk things out. I can't be in a relationship where I'm going to be ignored and constantly be in confused. I expressed thus to him as well. I was trying to understand the whole situation.

More emotional mind games.
You ignored him for 2.5 years while he was chasing you....
He ignores you for a few days, and now your panties are all in a bunch.


TLS is right.
Threats don't work with us.
Good Luck with that one.

@ Taurusbull I didn't ignore him fir 2.5 years. We were friends. I made it clear to him at the time I was nit ready to get into anything with him due to stuff that was going down with my family. Main thing was my dad in and out of hospital which later he passed away. He knew all that stuff. I was great full to have a friend like him, I just wasn't ready at the time. He continued to tell me how much he wants to be with me and after a while I decided that maybe now I can give him my 100% . I can give him the things he needs in a relationship now that I have gotten past a hard times in my life. I went into this thinking that I can trust him to give me the things that I'm looking fir in a relationship and i will do the same for him. I know in some way I am at fault for pressuring him, I told I was sorry for my behavior. We spoke last night. I still don't know where we stand right niw, but at least I know to give him space because we actually communicated and he told me he just needs time. That's all I asked of him was to communicate.

I'm still confused. I didn't contact him all weekend and late Monday night he text me a pic if his dead friend. I told him I was sorry for his loss . Nothing after that. Last night he text me stating he us drinking his decisions and his depression away at the same time. I told him that if he needs me that I'm here for him. He says he doesn't think that I am. He then states that he drinks and goes to sleep... Love is not in my corner. I then tried to call him because he sounds so down and I thought he was trying to reach out to me. He never picked up. I then text him that to at least call or text and let me know he is ok and when he's ready to talk it out I'm always going to be here for him no matter what and that I missed him. I don't know what else to do but to let him be. If he wants to be with me I'm sure he will come around. If he doesn't I hope he at least tells me so that I can move on even tho it will hurt. I'm ready for whatever happens. Bottom line I just want him to be straight up with me and I want him to be ok because I know he's going though a bad time right now.

I know... I'll just let it ride and see what happens. I have already apologized for my actions, I can be pushy sometimes that's in my nature. It's something that I am working on. Patience is key. I'm hoping he will come around. I didn't realize how much he meant to me until recently. We will see.