Another Taurus!?!?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by natural25 on Saturday, April 26, 2014 and has 14 replies.

Understanding Taurus Men’s Flirting and Attraction

Taurus men are known for their loyalty and sensuality. They may flirt playfully but often do so out of boredom or friendliness. Recognizing their subtle signals helps you navigate their feelings without risking friendships or misunderstandings.

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Sooo recently I seem to be garnering the attention of Taurus men. Last month a Taurus man was after me now another is trailing behind him.

He is a friend who I have been friends with for a few years now. We have flirted. Very friendly and silly flirting. Since I have gotten into a relationship last summer, the flirting came to a halt, but we still talk from time to time in a group text chat. Today he sent me a private text and shared how he feels about me. I was really shocked because I had no idea that he was attracted to me and thought so highly of me. As I said before, I always thought of our flirting as silly and playful. I know how men are. Lol. Sometimes they flirt with women simply out of boredom.

Smh. I value him as a friend and do not want to lose the friendship. As a result I made light of what he was saying and played coy. I did not want to embarrass him and say, "you know Im in a relationship, etc." So, I kind of just dismissed it in a playful way that was not belittling but still did not directly acknowledge his disclosure.

Did I handle it the right way?

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Posted by Juicysbaby214
Hmmm...maybe? Idk? It depends...r u interested in him? Because if youre not i think he would have actually liked and respected you being up front and saying hey im in a relationship. Taurus guys really value honesty especially of the blunt variety! Lol that soynded funny! Anyway yea girl hes a beast he can handle. Just be you and if it comes up say hey babe that's rlly swwet n i think ur awesome but I'm in a relationship n i dont cheat!

Duely noted! I guess he caught me so off guard. At first I thought he was playing because he knows I have a boyfriend. So it didn't make sense for him to suddenly have this come to Jesus moment with me after all this time.

You're absolutely right. If it comes up again, Ill just be straight up.

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Well I do have Venus in Sag. LOL. But I mean a moment of honesty. Not that I am Jesus!! LOL!!! Never!!!! I just meant he opened up and told the truth.

The thing is... I used to like him way back when. He is VERY attractive and such a goos guy. Too little too late.

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Lol @ "HOV"!! Riiiiight.

He wouldn't like me because I need to have my time getting dressed. Lol. Thats hilarious that he did that to make sure you were solo. Smh. Men??_. LOL!!

My boyfriend is a Pisces and they are like day and night. My Pisces is a little slower. This Taurus came like a literal bull. Raging! Lol.I thought to myself, "well damn!". LOL. He told me that he enjoys my intensity. Ummm??_ Ok??_. Smh.

Have you read the astrotwins book?

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LOL!! Now, don't get me wrong??_ There is nothing wrong with a little aggression here and there. The astrotwins have a really good book about all the signs they break it down!

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Posted by Juicysbaby214
Piscea is def slower. I swear pisceans always make me want to hold them? Like come here ill protect you! My older sis is a pisces when we were younger i always fought for her. Ppl didnt mess with her because of me!

Thats how I am with my best friend. She is a Pisces also. Her birthday is two days before his. He's masculine but gentle at the same time. Its interesting??_.

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I think its definitely possible to find both in one man. However, one seems to always over shadow the other.

I have never seriously dated a Taurus man. I have never dealt with one who expressed an interest in me before recently. So, I was not ready for all that. LOL.

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Really?!?! I didn't know that! Thanks. You lear something new everyday. Lol.

It's always nice to feel appreciated and loved for who you are! An amazing feeling??_.

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Smh libra moons

Why are you entertaining the thought of what it would be like with the Taurus if you're with someone else?

You fancy the idea of being with the Taurus (which is a delusional with all due respect) and entertain it while stringing your bf along. He's a Pisces though, so he will catch up with it soon enough.

Just think it through. Oppositions are always hard work and there is bound to be friction. Plus both Taurus and Scorpio are fixed and stubborn af, so don't expect to have things going your way.

If you think you can handle that go ahead. But I doubt a Taurus (or any earth sign) will emotionally understand you better than a water sign.

I have not thought about the Taurus since Sunday. Lol. There is nothing to think through or to go ahead with. His confession shocked me. Im over it. I have no desire to be in a relationship with him and I am definitely not stringing my boyfriend along. All is well in the world.

Btw, how do you know i have a libra moon?