My taurus man and I met about 6 months ago online, we chatted non stop everyday for about a month and a half..As we kept on talking and asking questions about each other, It seems like we got so much in common especially when it comes to our values and points of view on things. He asked for my cellphone number and continue talking as the days went by. He seemed so interested in me and kept on asking things about myself. Finally, we met in person. Our first meeting was great and he even told me that he wanted to see me again. Then the disappearing act started. I text him once in a while just to see how he's doing coz i don't want him to think that i'm being clingy or something. He replies when i text him but then again, leave me hanging. I didn't ask him questions why he kept on doing that. I just played it cool though it makes me upset a little bit. He asked me to go on hiking with him on the 2nd date where we both enjoyed. I even made him homemade cookies coz i though he might like it. Then asked me out again on the third time. What bothers me is that he kept on sending mixed signals and flirting with me. He never told me he liked me or even talk about something on a deeper level. Whenever we're together he makes me feel like he's really into me then disappear again. I'm a very perceptive person but i am having a hard time reading him. i'm soo confused. These been going on for 5 months. Finally, i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. I told him that i can wait til he figure what he really wants. I only asked him one thing, his honesty. That whatever the outcome, please tell me the truth. I will undertand. I also told him that by telling these things to him, there's a possibility that he might pull away but that is something for him to decide. Just know that if he need someone to lean on, i'll be here for him. After a few days he just texted me with "Hey Sweetheart". I replied then he ignored me again. After a few days, i texted him again just to see how he is. We texted for a while and laughed at each other's jokes, he said that he wants to see me and asked me on the 4th date then there..he stood me up. I texted him what happened and if he is okay coz i thought something might have happened to him. He didn't contact me again. It's been 6 weeks since i heard from him. I tried to reach out to him twice keeping my texts light. I greeted him on Christmas day but nothing. We never had a fight. As a Capricorn, though i'm upset about something. I try to think things thoroughly before saying or texting something. I don't want to say something that i might regret later on. I also try to put myself in his shoes and try to understand him. But i feel like i'm not getting through him. he kept me guessing. I don't know what happened, but i guess he's gone. I just hope that he told me the reason why, even if he liked somebody else, i will accept it if he just told me..if that's the case. I never forced him to do something or pushed him to anything. Now, I'm trying to move on but me being a capricorn, trusting someone is not easy, it takes a while for me to put my walls down so when i do, it's really heartbreaking for me to regret my decision.
