He no longer texts first as much it's me that initiates and immediately he respond. It's been months mann!! I just want to know if this will ever go anywhere or am I wasting my time? He is attentive in terms of if I am going through something he'll cheer me up. Most of our time are in gym but that is it!
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How long does it talk y’all slow ass people to say you love someone, commit, become exclusive? You do realize we don’t have forever right? I mean I could just die right here right now.

What needs to be felt, done, met to feel these things?


hahaa oh my god! I guess this is a common thing with you taurus! I had to exit this bs friendship I was in. We were great but I couldnt lie about how I truly felt deep down.


Why did you feel like you had to lie? So you wouldn’t scare them away? I would have let them know anyway.. I noticed Taurus appreciate the love you’ve for them and will love you for it once they know, even if it wasn’t there before.

This bull just recently had an epiphany and he said all the time I thought you were flaky or wishy washy and uncertain about me, and just now I got it, you were scared of letting me know and risk getting hurt.. you were just shy of telling me how you feel. That’s after I told him sure sure this is casual no big deal I don’t want more (lying, of course) and he totally saw through my BS and said no, this isn’t casual to you, and it’s not to me either. He has a Scorpio moon so I think that’s how he can call me out on my BS cause he senses it.

View my post may give some clarity. I didn't lie, he expressed interest and I later did the same however, he wanted us to be friends first. Deep down I kept lying to myself really that I could continue on playing along. This taurus has a leo moon. I'm scorpio with sag moon. We get along great but my feelings for him are out of wack for me to stick around as his friend. Don't know how others do it. 5 months is freaking long enough!


I’m also a Scorpio with Sag rising sun so I totally get how your feelings sometimes seem like they’re oozing out of your skin pores on to him, things are felt so intensely if you have major water and fire in your chart, the Sag wants to rocket you straight into the relationship and the Scorpio going crazy obsessing about everything and overwhelming you with feelings.

His Leo Moon, must be such a charmer right!? Flirty?

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Read my post to fully understand. https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/need-advice-on-taurus-man-im-a-scorpio-woman-9307446/?p=2
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How long does it talk y’all slow ass people to say you love someone, commit, become exclusive? You do realize we don’t have forever right? I mean I could just die right here right now.

What needs to be felt, done, met to feel these things?


hahaa oh my god! I guess this is a common thing with you taurus! I had to exit this bs friendship I was in. We were great but I couldnt lie about how I truly felt deep down.


Why did you feel like you had to lie? So you wouldn’t scare them away? I would have let them know anyway.. I noticed Taurus appreciate the love you’ve for them and will love you for it once they know, even if it wasn’t there before.

This bull just recently had an epiphany and he said all the time I thought you were flaky or wishy washy and uncertain about me, and just now I got it, you were scared of letting me know and risk getting hurt.. you were just shy of telling me how you feel. That’s after I told him sure sure this is casual no big deal I don’t want more (lying, of course) and he totally saw through my BS and said no, this isn’t casual to you, and it’s not to me either. He has a Scorpio moon so I think that’s how he can call me out on my BS cause he senses it.
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View my post may give some clarity. I didn't lie, he expressed interest and I later did the same however, he wanted us to be friends first. Deep down I kept lying to myself really that I could continue on playing along. This taurus has a leo moon. I'm scorpio with sag moon. We get along great but my feelings for him are out of wack for me to stick around as his friend. Don't know how others do it. 5 months is freaking long enough!
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How long does it talk y’all slow ass people to say you love someone, commit, become exclusive? You do realize we don’t have forever right? I mean I could just die right here right now.

What needs to be felt, done, met to feel these things?


hahaa oh my god! I guess this is a common thing with you taurus! I had to exit this bs friendship I was in. We were great but I couldnt lie about how I truly felt deep down.



And you're confused WHY?? Look at your own words. You're far further than I am, believe me. You get to see him in public, meet his friends, he never leaves your sight... You have no idea how fortunate you are to have all this. (See my recent Taurus post for some torturous 'he's not into me" vibes).

Stay. Stay right where he can see you. You are fortunate to get him for more than 5 minutes a week. Seriously.

UPDATE: I don't know how ya'll do it. I seriously can't do the whole playing along sort of thing so signing out from Tauruses overall. How can you continue to torture yourself, playing friendship card when you know you want something much more? (HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX). We went into a shop yesterday, nosey cashier asked if he was my husband, he waited for me to answer, I kindly said no. She continued so, what are you guys *smiley face* friends? we both hesitated than agreed. "I'm her personal trainer he added" I went along with it, later asked me if I wanted anything joked by saying "Make sure it's cheap" Come onnn! I could buy half of whats in that store and still be good. I still manage to play it cool, after he arrived home he called and apologized. He realized he was out of line. All I keep asking myself is why do I continue to play this gave it's been freaking 5 months! if anything was ever going to change..it would have by now. I later texted, "I can't be your "friend" maybe down the line" worse choice of words but taurus is becoming a huge distraction, I doubt he'll ever come back and I'm praying to forget this guy!!!!!
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The attraction has always been there... He would simply never leave my sight.... He is full force supportive... Talks about us everywhere he goes. He still wants to get to know me... We are always at the gym together and would invite me out for dinner... sometimes with his friends. WE’VE NEVER HAD SEX, HUGGED! ..... sometimes he questions if he even deserves me.



And you're confused WHY?? Look at your own words. You're far further than I am, believe me. You get to see him in public, meet his friends, he never leaves your sight... You have no idea how fortunate you are to have all this. (See my recent Taurus post for some torturous 'he's not into me" vibes).

Stay. Stay right where he can see you. You are fortunate to get him for more than 5 minutes a week. Seriously.
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I am confused because, he for example: would say things like, "you know they are dating sites out there may find your match" or "it's cuffin season, i see you are prepared for it" which all pisses me off. My response usually is around " you know ive learned you men aint butter so my business will do for now" Conversations like that is what confuses me. Makes me rethink where we are at and whether or not i should just drop him. Please, correct me if you think im overreacting here. He would say all of this but only to be first to message me and ask random questions to make conversations or ask where i'm headed if he sees im all dressed up, etc. its frustrating.
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OP,

Really? Would you feel happier if he just pretended he was interested, treetrunked you a few times, then disappeared?

How about having a ‘relationship’ based on little more than ‘chemistry’ and ‘great sex’? I’m sure that will be enough to sustain a relationship for the next forty years of your life!

This guy sounds like a catch. Trust a Scorp to not be able to see what’s right in front of her AND complain about it!

If you’re looking for a decent relationship with a good solid foundation of friendship, shared interests, things in common, similar values and outlooks then why not take the time to build it with this guy. He’s not going at your speed. He’s a Taurus. This is good for Scorpio. We often need to slow down. You’ve had some emotional stuff which needs time to heal too. He’s aware of that. He’s a bloke so he wants to get his finances in check, not just for your benefit, for him too. Would you prefer he was a lazy twat without a job or someone who relied on you for money to pay for him? The one thing that causes issues in relationships is money. Lack of it or different attitudes to it. He needs to feel secure so he needs to do whatever he needs to do to make him feel better inside. Sorry, it’s not all about you.

I wouldn’t worry about who he has or hasn’t treetrunked before in his friend circle. He is interested in you. He can’t untreetrunk people so don’t get paranoid about it.

Why the rush? Just date him and stop thinking with your fanny. Like the other person said, use your vibrator for now!

Keep us updated. It’s nice to have more positive Taurus Scorpio pairings. Ps: I read your story to my Taurus and he just said ‘she’s an idiot, can’t she see he really likes her and is seriously interested but needs to go at his pace as he doesn’t feel 100% with himself yet?’ Lol




Hahaa! thank you for responding. I have calmed down alot!! I'll surely keep everyone posted. I also understand that this will really take time


I think if he felt 100% ready now he’d be going for it. As he’s not then he’s taking his time. Then again, he could ‘charge’ sooner than you think. He could also walk away if he’s not keen on what he sees etc.

How old are you both and what’s the rest of your charts?

Sorry if that’s already been posted! There’s not many successful Taurus/Scorp combination stories on here!
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Not sure what you mean by birth chart but
His 26 born April 23rd Taurus moon in Leo
I’m 23 born November 15 moon in sag
Posted by AgentP911
OP,

Really? Would you feel happier if he just pretended he was interested, treetrunked you a few times, then disappeared?

How about having a ‘relationship’ based on little more than ‘chemistry’ and ‘great sex’? I’m sure that will be enough to sustain a relationship for the next forty years of your life!

This guy sounds like a catch. Trust a Scorp to not be able to see what’s right in front of her AND complain about it!

If you’re looking for a decent relationship with a good solid foundation of friendship, shared interests, things in common, similar values and outlooks then why not take the time to build it with this guy. He’s not going at your speed. He’s a Taurus. This is good for Scorpio. We often need to slow down. You’ve had some emotional stuff which needs time to heal too. He’s aware of that. He’s a bloke so he wants to get his finances in check, not just for your benefit, for him too. Would you prefer he was a lazy twat without a job or someone who relied on you for money to pay for him? The one thing that causes issues in relationships is money. Lack of it or different attitudes to it. He needs to feel secure so he needs to do whatever he needs to do to make him feel better inside. Sorry, it’s not all about you.

I wouldn’t worry about who he has or hasn’t treetrunked before in his friend circle. He is interested in you. He can’t untreetrunk people so don’t get paranoid about it.

Why the rush? Just date him and stop thinking with your fanny. Like the other person said, use your vibrator for now!

Keep us updated. It’s nice to have more positive Taurus Scorpio pairings. Ps: I read your story to my Taurus and he just said ‘she’s an idiot, can’t she see he really likes her and is seriously interested but needs to go at his pace as he doesn’t feel 100% with himself yet?’ Lol




Hahaa! thank you for responding. I have calmed down alot!! I'll surely keep everyone posted. I also understand that this will really take time
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I really think he’s just being sensible cause he wants results, like the best possible results. You said you just got out of an engagement and had a miscarriage (I’m so sorry.) but maybe you also need time to feel like yourself again. He’s got his own issues too, some people really need to feel like they’ve got their butter together first before they can date seriously.

Keep the pace like he wants it until it’s no longer working for you, you’ll be able to tell if he’s really into you or that let’s be friends is fluff talk and he’s not interested.

I think Taurus men do let you know if they’re not interested though, they won’t be shy about expressing it.

Everyone sees the attraction and from all he has shared in the past theres no question about that. I guess they do move pretty slow im realizing


Oh girl tell me about it! I’ve posted about that here many times. I feel like my hair is going silver just waiting. It’s been 7 months here, but it’s long distance so thats probably not helping. Most he’s said to me so far is “I really like you.” But at least I think it’s genuine.

Don’t give up. You’ll be tempted like me a lot, but you probably won’t be disappointed.
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I am just wondering how much longer but honestly, also just enjoying the process now.
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Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!


a good supportive dude who takes his time, builds a real connection, and isn't only looking to get in your pants....pretty rare these days....


that's what i got out of this too. leave it to a scorpio woman to complain about what every other woman wants! lmao

That's how they are from what I've seen mine went crazy because I never pushed for sex right away she questioned my sexuality lol.


Did you make her wait like mine is doing? How long did you wait and continued observing her? This is really foreign to me thats all lol


HAHAHAAA! I would question it too! HAHAAAA! Moreover, wonder if you are secrely getting it on with someone. Mine its pretty clear his a loner but these female friends though HMMM!

Lol women these days guy doesn't push for sex means he must gay or sleeping with someone else no wonder why I surprise them.
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Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!


a good supportive dude who takes his time, builds a real connection, and isn't only looking to get in your pants....pretty rare these days....


that's what i got out of this too. leave it to a scorpio woman to complain about what every other woman wants! lmao

That's how they are from what I've seen mine went crazy because I never pushed for sex right away she questioned my sexuality lol.
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HAHAHAAA! I would question it too! HAHAAAA! Moreover, wonder if you are secrely getting it on with someone. Mine its pretty clear his a loner but these female friends though HMMM!
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Okay so 4 months is about an hour in the world of a Taurus man lol. You have to give him more time. I waited 3 YEARS for my Taurus bf to make a move on me because of similar insecurities. He didn't want to ruin our friendship, was insecure about his looks and finances etc. I'm not trying to scare you by saying it will take years or something because it won't, but these men need to trust you and feel secure before they dive in. It's just the way they are.

As far as the physical stuff goes... that will come naturally when he trusts that you aren't going anywhere and that you appreciate him as much as he appreciates you. It sounds like he really really likes you so he probably doesn't want to get hurt. It takes time with these guys, as annoying as it may be for the rest of us.


That's pretty long! were you dating before him finally asking? 3 years is truly like 10 years in my book Lol
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Is he even single??
He is very single, very reserved, a workaholic
Sweet, set us up 😘
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haaaha
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I really think he’s just being sensible cause he wants results, like the best possible results. You said you just got out of an engagement and had a miscarriage (I’m so sorry.) but maybe you also need time to feel like yourself again. He’s got his own issues too, some people really need to feel like they’ve got their butter together first before they can date seriously.

Keep the pace like he wants it until it’s no longer working for you, you’ll be able to tell if he’s really into you or that let’s be friends is fluff talk and he’s not interested.

I think Taurus men do let you know if they’re not interested though, they won’t be shy about expressing it.

Everyone sees the attraction and from all he has shared in the past theres no question about that. I guess they do move pretty slow im realizing
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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR RESPONDING! Hahahaa I am actually not pissed at all. This is all foreign to me. I am used to men just wanting to move things fast and me either cutting ties (because im all focused on goals or just diving in with them BUT! those few ones never last for long. This man is the opposite of that. He lets me do what I do unapologetically! always rooting me on so, in my head and my friends were asking ourselves "why doesn't he just make the move" i've initiated more then three times that I've promised myself I won't anymore it's really on him now. He would joke around at times and say things like, "are you ready for cuffin season, these men out here are ready" I feel its his way of testing me. If a guy smirks at me and I ackoledge it..he will instaantly ask "why are you laughing? whats so funny"!! Now you see where i get confused? Outside of that if he sees anything that will support mybusiness he is very quick to send. So, I am just not sure how much longer i can wait (not for sex) for him to make the move. We always meet out, never hug, his super respectful (with foul mouth) haha.

SIDE NOTE: He has too many female friends i've notice. He doesn't hangout with them but stories are always about woman this and that. He even shared a story of him walking with this lady and was scared to death that I would see them.

In all though, I have been pretty calm about everything. Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!


Your welcome. Oh and btw i am not slut shaming you its perfectly okay to think about sex all the time i bet he does as well.

What is the "thing" you initiated on thrice? lol please be specific. Well theres nth you can do if he doesnt make a move, date other guys or seduce him more.

His female friends could be his "admirers", or girls he sleeps with.

What the hell is all this? its just a bull moving at his own pace lol



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Not at all, I understand. I was actually laughing because, those thoughts have come but since, fasting i've managed to control em. Dude is super fit and fineee! I can surely wait but I like to be sure of things which is why I felt the need to create an account and ask away.

I gave hints that I wanted something more but it was really because, I saw how great of a guy he and all. But in all honesty, I am glad he pushed defaulting to friendship in giving both of us time to heal because, I wasn't ready at all. but he made me feel so secure, that I feared if I let that go that maybe that would be it.I can't help but wonder if anything will ever happen?

FEMALE FRIENDS - he went to college with. I don't believe slept with since, he was in a relationship all that time but! he is single now and girl visits a few times and he visits her on big occasions. He says they are like sisters. For some reason I'm not bothered by it because, if the relationship thing was to come in play that is the first thing I am addressing! He does play it off here and there by letting me know she says hi. She also supports my business (side eye) hahaaa



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Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!


a good supportive dude who takes his time, builds a real connection, and isn't only looking to get in your pants....pretty rare these days....


that's what i got out of this too. leave it to a scorpio woman to complain about what every other woman wants! lmao
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HAHAHAHAA!!! Maybe part of it is the need to feel secure. Not that I want to control nor lead anything here. I have a bunch of things figured out for myself, where I see myself in the next 2-5 years. I am currently, working hard on that so, when other parts of the puzzle arent in place it drives me nuts. One thing i've perfected here since, meeting him is patience!! ughhhhhh
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Is he even single??


He is very single, very reserved, a workaholic
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reminds me of my brother....more conservative/traditional....friendship first, waits a long time for things to get physical, studies you from that friendzone though....like "feel free to just be your self and I'll see if I can handle you", but once in a while the possessiveness will still show through....and back in the times when he was financially unstable, he was unstable and unsure in many other ways as well, particularly around women who were not....attractive taurus males will typically have a lot of female friends; doesn't mean they like any of them romantically though, though the opposite is probably not true; they probably like him....probably some Virgos in there....lol...why cut it off? remain friends and see what comes of it....time will tell....


There is no doubt they are into him. After officially connecting at an event. He was first to invite me out with his friends (who were visiting) You can tell both females wanted him but he is very conservative/traditional. He makes me feel secure for sure. If he is expecting a call he will tell me about it and was shocked he actually asked if it was okay for him to take the call. We both enjoy each other's company, always cracking jokes literally like, friends! What I love is truly the fact that I can be myself and not have him make me feel any sort of way. Were even spiritual where out of the week we fast once a week (which is the day we both dont go to gym) when not fasting friends would tell me he would walk around the gym to see if I'm in the area or greet them and then keep it pushing. I really enjoy what we have which is why I have all these questions of whats next? whats this man's deal? Before us defaulting to friendship (HIS WORDS) he would talk about marriage how he has dated very few women but I stand out to him, etc. Now you can see where i'd be all confused? but I also, respect the fact that maybe it's because, of what I faced and shared with him is why he is stalling? we both got out of a relationship around the same time btw.