Parkourler

Rich dominant woman with control issues.

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Posted by Parkourler
Of course people dont always give you specific reasons when they are pissed. But enraging people often should make you selfcritical instead of saying people cant handle. Thats why i didnt stop disagreeing until i get your poibt loud and clear.

People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. Emotions and sensitivities clearly mattee (if it wouldnt a condescending tone wouldnt bother aries), which is why people learn rules such as say please, watch your tone etc.

As a fellow taurus mercury, I completely get where you are coming from. Having said that, assumptions tend to occur in the absence of words, meaning the less you say, the more likely people tend to assume.

Anger itself has a number of possible causes, especially if involves a person's pride or ego, and tone is most certainly one of them. As people take pride in different things, a hurt ego can have more than one possible cause. Sometimes, the cause of the anger involves an extended period time. Earth signs in particular, sometimes does not bring up things on first occurrence. This makes it difficult to determine the exact cause if it is not something that recently happened. I had a Virgo guy who hated me and for some reason, never bothered to tell me ever (I found out through a Cap friend), and the actual event that started this whole thing was something very small that happened months prior.

Despite that good educated guesses can be made, until the other person is ready to talk about it, there's not much that can be done to fix the actual situation that involved the anger. Aries is an action-oriented sign and like to proceed directly to doing things. Rams don't like to dwell on things that they cannot do anything about it. Aries would rather spend such time doing things that they can do something about.

"People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. "
---> Because interpretation differences can exist regardless of wording and content. Taurus Mercury still gets misunderstood often, despite being one of the few placements that place heavy emphasis on the right wording. Misunderstandings can lead to anger just as much as other causes, especially if there exists believes of bad intentions. Like for example, if I was trying to help and in doing so, caused something to happen that hurt you, you might get pissed thinking that my intent was trying to hurt you.

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Because of your reasons its so important to add a ittle bir of diplomacy. My aries boss is good at this. She makes jokes, asks questions, tells you i gotta be blunt now. There is so much you can do to make people open for what is about to come.

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Posted by Parkourler
Of course people dont always give you specific reasons when they are pissed. But enraging people often should make you selfcritical instead of saying people cant handle. Thats why i didnt stop disagreeing until i get your poibt loud and clear.

People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. Emotions and sensitivities clearly mattee (if it wouldnt a condescending tone wouldnt bother aries), which is why people learn rules such as say please, watch your tone etc.

As a fellow taurus mercury, I completely get where you are coming from. Having said that, assumptions tend to occur in the absence of words, meaning the less you say, the more likely people tend to assume.

Anger itself has a number of possible causes, especially if involves a person's pride or ego, and tone is most certainly one of them. As people take pride in different things, a hurt ego can have more than one possible cause. Sometimes, the cause of the anger involves an extended period time. Earth signs in particular, sometimes does not bring up things on first occurrence. This makes it difficult to determine the exact cause if it is not something that recently happened. I had a Virgo guy who hated me and for some reason, never bothered to tell me ever (I found out through a Cap friend), and the actual event that started this whole thing was something very small that happened months prior.

Despite that good educated guesses can be made, until the other person is ready to talk about it, there's not much that can be done to fix the actual situation that involved the anger. Aries is an action-oriented sign and like to proceed directly to doing things. Rams don't like to dwell on things that they cannot do anything about it. Aries would rather spend such time doing things that they can do something about.

"People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. "
---> Because interpretation differences can exist regardless of wording and content. Taurus Mercury still gets misunderstood often, despite being one of the few placements that place heavy emphasis on the right wording. Misunderstandings can lead to anger just as much as other causes, especially if there exists believes of bad intentions. Like for example, if I was trying to help and in doing so, caused something to happen that hurt you, you might get pissed thinking that my intent was trying to hurt you.

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Because of your reasons its so important to add a ittle bir of diplomacy. My aries boss is good at this. She makes jokes, asks questions, tells you i gotta be blunt now. There is so much you can do to make people open for what is about to come.

Us taurus are lowkey selfish. We want to have, we are hedonists.

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Yes it comes down to not seeing valid reason, even though are valid reasons.
I already gave examples. And maybe some cant see valid reasons if they are oblivious (not my words) which is holier than thou at its best. If people constantly react badly you are the commnlon demoninator if you still think you dont do anything wrong you are implying everybody else is wrong i am alaways right.
If people behave bad i rightfully so look down on them.

At the end of the day i can only voice my frustrations keep on replying here like a little cookiemonster even though its sunny outside and cut out the people i dont want to have in my life.
I bet aries loves summer too.

My point in the question contained both of the two conditions, meaning that I would think any sane adult human being would have some form of thought process before reaching a conclusion. What I'm saying is that if you, as you put it, react badly to an Aries AND the Aries in question don't think they are in the wrong, it is probably one or more of the following reasons:
1) They didn't understand what you are trying to say
2) They don't think your reasons are valid
3) Your tone triggered a bad reaction

In my experience, #3 here is not unique to Aries. On dxp, I had a Virgo who lost it on me and a Taurus who thought I was attacking him, even though I was just voicing opinions.

While I agree that if most people reacted badly to you, then you are likely the common cause. But, it does not mean that each time, the other party has valid reasons for it and presented them. Just as you would dismiss any notions that lacks factual support, if an opinion (valid or not) didn't make sense to the Ram in question, why wouldn't the Ram dismiss it?

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In my experience, #3 here is not unique to Aries. On dxp, I had a Virgo who lost it on me and a Taurus who thought I was attacking him, even though I was just voicing opinions.



While I agree that if most people reacted badly to you, then you are likely the common cause. But, it does not mean that each time, the other party has valid reasons for it and presented them. Just as you would dismiss any notions that lacks factual support, if an opinion (valid or not) didn't make sense to the Ram in question, why wouldn't the Ram dismiss it?

Of course people dont always give you specific reasons when they are pissed. But enraging people often should make you selfcritical instead of saying people cant handle. Thats why i didnt stop disagreeing until i get your poibt loud and clear.

People get angry by how not what you communicate so you didnt just voice your opinion. Why would people use it if you just voice your opinion. Emotions and sensitivities clearly mattee (if it wouldnt a condescending tone wouldnt bother aries), which is why people learn rules such as say please, watch your tone etc.

Gradualy putting my demons in their place everyday. Since birth i live in a constant state of panic, helplessness and i was told i am wrong at heart and not enough fundamentally.

Meditation taught me to disassociate so I can
respond to interna and external stimuli differently = I win cookiemonsteres. I am not a pawlow dog anymore.

My child will be loved and coached everyday.

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Jordan Peterson looks like a demon, his eyes are so dark and set back in his face, it makes me not trust him no matter what he's saying.

Esspecially in his interview with cathy newman. He looks christopher lees older brother.

I cannot wrap my head around nr two. You are not living in germany. You can travel to jungle, paradise coasts, mountains for skiing, cheaply without leaving the country.

Btw, I have 2 offtopic question. Did ypu ever travel to Hermany, what do ypu think of the people and the country? Are walking closets for ahoea and large fridges normal or do only high earners have them?

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.. there? Thats what i admire about aries. You also stay on point cause you never have time for extensive intel gathering. I dont treetrunk around if i have impossible deadlines.
I read books about Aries psychology cause you dont have taurus weaknesses.

Hmm... I often have a good gut feeling about people (but still I usually give them a fair chance before I dismiss them completely). I observe a lot, a lot more than people realize, and I analyze their behavior at a pretty fast speed. So they get surprised when I ‘randomly’ (to them) tell them ‘I don’t like that person, he/she has some pretty bad personality traits’. Most people need a lot more time to see someone’s true colors, in my experience, but I feel like aries has animal-like instincts when it comes to figuring out who their ‘enemies’ are, and who their allies are.
Sometimes I’m wrong, though, and it turns out their outward behavior just threw me off.

I’m not so much driven by fire anymore, not as much as I once was. So I guess it’s rather because I adapt pretty fast, I don’t need a lot of information initially, as you say. I’m not that impulsive anymore, but I’m practical and action oriented. I collect data at a fast speed and try to act fast. I think I work pretty great when fast decisions needs to be made, but I’m having more trouble when the decision has to take excisting laws and rules and what not into account. That’s too much detail and pondering for me - instead I look at the big picture.

I find a lot of great philosophers are taureans, though. Wittgenstein is one of my favorites.

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I judge people quickly too cause there are reliable clues, some people chuckle when they say "i should be more respectful of his belongings". Out. Thats an obvious one though.

How do you collect data without being specific? Are you internalizing the underlying principles of the data?
I find Aries are good at handling emergency situations for the reason you stated. You immediately know what matters and then act instantly. Thats where brashness and instant doing something is a super power.
My brother is an aries. He always observes work processes and then knows what to do in a given situation.
He calmly tells his boss what to do at times.
WTF.

.. there? Thats what i admire about aries. You also stay on point cause you never have time for extensive intel gathering. I dont treetrunk around if i have impossible deadlines.
I read books about Aries psychology cause you dont have taurus weaknesses.

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I love and hate Aries at the same time.

I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.

I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.

I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.

People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.

I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your butter on us.

Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?

Yeah, judging from this little cookiemonster rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.

Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.

Seriously step back and take a look at what you’re writing. Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude? Lol. You’re too much.

‘Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.’ - yeah, you’re not generalizing at all...

Anyway, I’m not fighting with you - I have better things to do. But yea, seeing how you go off on aries, thinking you’re so superior, yet acting the way you do, indeed shows lack of self awareness.

Have fun and thank you for not stopping to act like a prime example of what i am talking about. Keep on being emotional and name calling.

Anyone who criticizes you = ‘too emotional’

Critique = refuting arguments. So far you difld namecalling, accusations, and attesting negative behavior. I attribute that too fefensive snappy people, insulting peoole like you would probably call little cookiemonsteres.

Anyway i ve made my point and we both have better things to do unless you have one last word to add to your point. Life is short, everyday is a gift.

You’re acting the exact same way as you are accusing me and ‘SOME aries women’ of. That’s one of the reasons I called you out in the first place. I really don’t understand how you don’t see that. That’s why I tried to get you to take another look at what you wrote, but it has become clear that you lack a good dose of self-awareness, so there’s really nothing I can do about that.

But to give you an example: I never said you were a ‘little cookiemonster’, lol. I’m not 12. But your rant was cookiemonstery, hence a ‘cookiemonster rant’ - cookiemonstery rant, if you will. The judgment you passed on the women who posted in this thread was completely uncalled for imo. It was cookiemonstery. I call it like I see it. Then you got all in your feels and said I deserved to be treated like a bad person - for calling your post for exactly what it was? Lmao. Yet I’m the emotional one, in your opinion... All of this is just laughable. Name calling? Being emotional? All you. I’m perfectly calm, it takes more than an internet stranger to get me all worked up.

If anything, all of this just proves why you ‘hate’ aries (your words, not mine). You act superior, and throw fits when someone calls you out on it. And an aries WILL call you out on this. And you’ve proven that you can’t handle that, so there you go.

You also don’t seem to understand that if you’re disrespectful or rude towards an aries for no reason, they’ll mirror that behavior right back to you. If someone mistreats me for no reason, I won’t bother being nice to them anymore. And suddenly they’re confused; ‘You don’t seem to like me - why?’. If you’re having problems with an aries, you should take a look at your own behavior first, before jumping to conclusions. They might just be mirroring your behavior back at you. Maybe these aries women you hate didn’t like how YOU approached THEM. You know? Maybe, maybe, everything isn’t our/their fault - maybe you share some of the blame. It’s just my two cents...

I’ll leave you with this. I initially couldn’t be bothered to defend all the accusations you threw at me, but... eh. I finally had some time to kill. Now, back to the real world 💃

I give that you said cookiemonsterrant not tham i a cookiemonster. Other than that i dont see why its a cookiemonsterrant cause i made sure i dont generalize and i was specific. I also didnt find unSo calling description of bad behavior is yet another rude thing to do but that was instructive, i am dismiss everything that doesnt have examples. If people use words like cookiemonsterrant or call you not selfaware thats just bad behavior for me. I cannot expect other people to think like this. But at least i know where the miscommunication is happening. To me if i had something wrong interrupting, yelling, bossiness is uncalled for. Confront me calmly without aggression or you are just rude. Thats why you attested me lack of selfawareness but you didnt give me a reason not were you neutral so i thought you are just beligerant. They dont act like this without a reason.But people think aggression is not bad. WTF?

Anyway our argument exposed many of communications mistakes I do, that i have very specific expectations and it gave me insight into how aries think and act diffetent from me. Unless people are specific and don't give examples I feel attacked and mistreated you are being honest according to yourself. I am too spocklike with rules, i think aggressive behavior is bad and horrible, I cannot change aries but the mistakes i am making on my part. I think even if you got wronged fuming, interrupting and yelling is still bad and unwarranted you still need to be calm and specific.

Aries are not like that, they say what they feel and think they have mental and emotional operating systems that are different from mine. Thank you I wanted to discuss everything until its articulated and clear and specific.

Doesnt mean that i agree or like it entirely. Interrupting, words like cookiemonsterrant without elaborating and many other behaviors are incredibly poor taste . I have a better understanding now but certain behaviors are dealbreakers and a declaration of war.
Aries are raw you get misunderstood by people and looked down by people like me,
but I will not change my mind entirely for two reasons. In threads like this users rarely acknowledge their own flaws and say they get misunderstood and slandered so they think everybody else is wrong which is narcissistic and arrogant. Second there are raw behaviors that are just unacceptable even if i fet past my feels they are still wrong.

Do you have taurus mercury? I thought I saw mentioned somewhere that you’re a taurus... You sound like my taurus mercury friends - I do upset them sometimes with my direct and sometimes brash attitude (but that’s usually online, where misunderstandings are more likely). Anyway, especially the need for examples in order to accept a statement, reminded me of them. They will often reject a statement or concept altogether, unless you offer a context they can relate to. I need that too, but I will just outright ask for the example myself.

I think what you’re talking about is the fact that aries’ mind usually run sooo fast. People will often have a problem keeping up, and that causes us to feel misunderstood (I think that’s one of the reasons the OP even started this topic in the first place), because a lot of other people spend more time attending to details or simply just thinking things over before going into action.

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Yes i have taurus mercury and i can handle aries offline so much better because your facial expression gives me info about the subtext. I am not willing to accept a statement in krass language cause i associate that with sensational tabloid papers and bad behavior. You gotta give me facts cause facts are rarely debatable.

Yes i agree that speed has sideeffects, some people feel mistreated if you go faster than them they want all the information, but to be honest that is often a recipe for procrastination. Unless you are pissed can you tell me more about that?

Is it cause you are driven more by fire than gut? Are you comfortable with less information cause you adapt right then and

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I give that you said cookiemonsterrant not tham i a cookiemonster. Other than that i dont see why its a cookiemonsterrant cause i made sure i dont generalize and i was specific.

Well, it was probably cuz your initial post got interpreted as condescending. You yourself have said that you had looked down on certain Aries.
"Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude?" - Bll

I also did mention that Aries don't take it well to condescending or belittling tone , regardless of whether or not the points are valid.

Posted by Parkourler
In threads like this users rarely acknowledge their own flaws and say they get misunderstood and slandered so they think everybody else is wrong which is narcissistic and arrogant.

If you got misunderstood and didn't see a valid reason for the misunderstanding, would you think of yourself being in the wrong?

Yes it comes down to not seeing valid reason, even though are valid reasons.
I already gave examples. And maybe some cant see valid reasons if they are oblivious (not my words) which is holier than thou at its best. If people constantly react badly you are the commnlon demoninator if you still think you dont do anything wrong you are implying everybody else is wrong i am alaways right.
If people behave bad i rightfully so look down on them.

At the end of the day i can only voice my frustrations keep on replying here like a little cookiemonster even though its sunny outside and cut out the people i dont want to have in my life.
I bet aries loves summer too.

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I give that you said cookiemonsterrant not tham i a cookiemonster. Other than that i dont see why its a cookiemonsterrant cause i made sure i dont generalize and i was specific.

Well, it was probably cuz your initial post got interpreted as condescending. You yourself have said that you had looked down on certain Aries.
"Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude?" - Bll

I also did mention that Aries don't take it well to condescending or belittling tone , regardless of whether or not the points are valid.

Posted by Parkourler
In threads like this users rarely acknowledge their own flaws and say they get misunderstood and slandered so they think everybody else is wrong which is narcissistic and arrogant.

If you got misunderstood and didn't see a valid reason for the misunderstanding, would you think of yourself being in the wrong?

Yes it comes down to not seeing valid reason, even though are valid reasons.
I already gave examples. And maybe some cant see valid reasons if they are oblivious (not my words) which is holier than thou at its best. If people constantly react badly you are the commnlon demoninator if you still think you dont do anything wrong you are implying everybody else is wrong i am alaways right.
If people behave bad i rightfully so look down on them.

At the end of the day i can only voice my frustrations keep on replying here like a little cookiemonster even though its sunny outside and cut out the people i dont want to have in my life.
I bet aries loves summer too.

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I love and hate Aries at the same time.

I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.

I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.

I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.

People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.

I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your butter on us.

Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?

Yeah, judging from this little cookiemonster rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.

Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.

Seriously step back and take a look at what you’re writing. Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude? Lol. You’re too much.

‘Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.’ - yeah, you’re not generalizing at all...

Anyway, I’m not fighting with you - I have better things to do. But yea, seeing how you go off on aries, thinking you’re so superior, yet acting the way you do, indeed shows lack of self awareness.

Have fun and thank you for not stopping to act like a prime example of what i am talking about. Keep on being emotional and name calling.

Anyone who criticizes you = ‘too emotional’

Critique = refuting arguments. So far you difld namecalling, accusations, and attesting negative behavior. I attribute that too fefensive snappy people, insulting peoole like you would probably call little cookiemonsteres.

Anyway i ve made my point and we both have better things to do unless you have one last word to add to your point. Life is short, everyday is a gift.

You’re acting the exact same way as you are accusing me and ‘SOME aries women’ of. That’s one of the reasons I called you out in the first place. I really don’t understand how you don’t see that. That’s why I tried to get you to take another look at what you wrote, but it has become clear that you lack a good dose of self-awareness, so there’s really nothing I can do about that.

But to give you an example: I never said you were a ‘little cookiemonster’, lol. I’m not 12. But your rant was cookiemonstery, hence a ‘cookiemonster rant’ - cookiemonstery rant, if you will. The judgment you passed on the women who posted in this thread was completely uncalled for imo. It was cookiemonstery. I call it like I see it. Then you got all in your feels and said I deserved to be treated like a bad person - for calling your post for exactly what it was? Lmao. Yet I’m the emotional one, in your opinion... All of this is just laughable. Name calling? Being emotional? All you. I’m perfectly calm, it takes more than an internet stranger to get me all worked up.

If anything, all of this just proves why you ‘hate’ aries (your words, not mine). You act superior, and throw fits when someone calls you out on it. And an aries WILL call you out on this. And you’ve proven that you can’t handle that, so there you go.

You also don’t seem to understand that if you’re disrespectful or rude towards an aries for no reason, they’ll mirror that behavior right back to you. If someone mistreats me for no reason, I won’t bother being nice to them anymore. And suddenly they’re confused; ‘You don’t seem to like me - why?’. If you’re having problems with an aries, you should take a look at your own behavior first, before jumping to conclusions. They might just be mirroring your behavior back at you. Maybe these aries women you hate didn’t like how YOU approached THEM. You know? Maybe, maybe, everything isn’t our/their fault - maybe you share some of the blame. It’s just my two cents...

I’ll leave you with this. I initially couldn’t be bothered to defend all the accusations you threw at me, but... eh. I finally had some time to kill. Now, back to the real world 💃

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I give that you said cookiemonsterrant not tham i a cookiemonster. Other than that i dont see why its a cookiemonsterrant cause i made sure i dont generalize and i was specific. I also didnt find unSo calling description of bad behavior is yet another rude thing to do but that was instructive, i am dismiss everything that doesnt have examples. If people use words like cookiemonsterrant or call you not selfaware thats just bad behavior for me. I cannot expect other people to think like this. But at least i know where the miscommunication is happening. To me if i had something wrong interrupting, yelling, bossiness is uncalled for. Confront me calmly without aggression or you are just rude. Thats why you attested me lack of selfawareness but you didnt give me a reason not were you neutral so i thought you are just beligerant. They dont act like this without a reason.But people think aggression is not bad. WTF?

Anyway our argument exposed many of communications mistakes I do, that i have very specific expectations and it gave me insight into how aries think and act diffetent from me. Unless people are specific and don't give examples I feel attacked and mistreated you are being honest according to yourself. I am too spocklike with rules, i think aggressive behavior is bad and horrible, I cannot change aries but the mistakes i am making on my part. I think even if you got wronged fuming, interrupting and yelling is still bad and unwarranted you still need to be calm and specific.

Aries are not like that, they say what they feel and think they have mental and emotional operating systems that are different from mine. Thank you I wanted to discuss everything until its articulated and clear and specific.

Doesnt mean that i agree or like it entirely. Interrupting, words like cookiemonsterrant without elaborating and many other behaviors are incredibly poor taste . I have a better understanding now but certain behaviors are dealbreakers and a declaration of war.
Aries are raw you get misunderstood by people and looked down by people like me,
but I will not change my mind entirely for two reasons. In threads like this users rarely acknowledge their own flaws and say they get misunderstood and slandered so they think everybody else is wrong which is narcissistic and arrogant. Second there are raw behaviors that are just unacceptable even if i fet past my feels they are still wrong.

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I love and hate Aries at the same time.

I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.

I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.

I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.

People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.

I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your butter on us.

Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?

Yeah, judging from this little cookiemonster rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.

Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.

Seriously step back and take a look at what you’re writing. Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude? Lol. You’re too much.

‘Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.’ - yeah, you’re not generalizing at all...

Anyway, I’m not fighting with you - I have better things to do. But yea, seeing how you go off on aries, thinking you’re so superior, yet acting the way you do, indeed shows lack of self awareness.

Have fun and thank you for not stopping to act like a prime example of what i am talking about. Keep on being emotional and name calling.

Anyone who criticizes you = ‘too emotional’

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Critique = refuting arguments. So far you difld namecalling, accusations, and attesting negative behavior. I attribute that too fefensive snappy people, insulting peoole like you would probably call little cookiemonsteres.

Anyway i ve made my point and we both have better things to do unless you have one last word to add to your point. Life is short, everyday is a gift.

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Posted by Parkourler

I love and hate Aries at the same time.

I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.

I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.

I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.

People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.

I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your butter on us.

Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?

Yeah, judging from this little cookiemonster rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.

Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.

Seriously step back and take a look at what you’re writing. Seriously. I’m a bad person for not enjoying your holier-than-thou attitude? Lol. You’re too much.

‘Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.’ - yeah, you’re not generalizing at all...

Anyway, I’m not fighting with you - I have better things to do. But yea, seeing how you go off on aries, thinking you’re so superior, yet acting the way you do, indeed shows lack of self awareness.

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Have fun and thank you for not stopping to act like a prime example of what i am talking about. Keep on being emotional and name calling.

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Posted by Parkourler

I love and hate Aries at the same time.

I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.

I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.

I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.

People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.

I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your butter on us.

Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?

What makes you think we can't do both.

Aries has shortcomings, like all other signs. Aries is competitive, but more with ourselves than anyone else. I think most Rams as they get older, would have some control or another over the infamous temper that we are known for. I don't relate to the not sticking to plans part. I use to relate to the other things you mentioned. I don't anymore. However, Aries don't usually verbally express their shortcomings, regardless of whether they are aware of them or not.

I wouldn't personally say other people can't handle me, but I do find some people tend to have trouble seeing Aries as it is...because Aries don't express well in general, especially when it comes to anger. If a Ram blows a fuse, some people just see that part, very rarely do they ponder on why the Ram got angry in the first place, imo. Contrary to popular opinion, Aries don't just say things to piss people off. It's just driven by the desire to express (what Aries believes to be) the truth. Aries saying other people can't handle them is the same as Taurus saying non-Taurus are just jealous (ie. RedBull's Taurus Envy thread). Both boils down to being misunderstood and how each sign treats it.

I'll be the first to admit that obliviousness is one of the shortcomings. Awareness is just not something that comes naturally for us, imo. So when it comes to bringing up faults and wrongdoings to a Ram, it's a bit of a double standard. Despite Aries lacks delivery and likes to advise people, if other person say something that remotely indicates that they are telling the Ram what to do or even a belittling tone, I don't think the Ram will take it well at all. I can take constructive criticisms but if it comes off condescending to me, it will frustrate the heck out of me, no matter how much I try to understand it.

So if you are confronting an Aries and they take it really badly, chances are they think you are telling them what to do or being condescending.

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Yes you guys dont show vulnerability, you are seemingly selfish and then you blow up without giving context, so everybody goes like wtf? And since you are stern and unapologetic, we only see that you responded harshly and brushed of complaints after you got pudhy cause you want to win or be in charge. So we think you are a dictator who puts people down harshly. Bit there is a lot going underneath.


So I think it also comes down for making mistakea beforehand, the way you and we communicate and behave. Just like us taurusses. I actually think we are not that stubborn. Its just we think a lot then come to a conclusion but instead of explaining our reasoning or sharing on what we chew on we develop a lot pf thoughts quietly and then give people cryptic answers and people can only agree or disagree with the little we say. We just say no a hundred times without opening up. People get frustrated and rightly want to change that (meaning us) we just resist that.

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Posted by Parkourler

I love and hate Aries at the same time.

I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.

I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.

I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.

People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.

I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your butter on us.

Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?

Yeah, judging from this little cookiemonster rant, you’re not much better. I especially see a lack of self awareness here.

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Thats classy and thank you very much you are proving my point.
Whenever aries get criticized they immediately resort to calling little cookiemonster.
And since you are belittling me you immediately point the finger at me which is ironic, cause you tell me that i lack aelf awareness. Unlike you i didnt resort to name calling, i deliberately used the word some to imply there are exceptions and i was specific to avoid generalisations.
You deserve to be treated like a bad person.

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Posted by Parkourler

I love and hate Aries at the same time.

I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.

I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.

I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.

People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.

I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your butter on us.

Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?

Aries can be self absorbed, but some people genuinely don't know how to handle us. There is a right way and a wrong way. I will tell you the secret either dominate over us and subtely earn our respect or be really gentle without being sentmental.

Give us the silent treatment and we get mad, act like a little cookiemonster and we get mad and of course argue with us and be prepared to cancel any plans because we go on.

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Yeah that happened too of they get rude and you get angry about that you get called a little cookiemonster, which is another insult.
I dont even try to handle them, i am not their father, if they dont get a hold of themselves and act bad i make sure they have to deal with the consequences

I love and hate Aries at the same time.

I find that some aries woman have certain behaviors that are offputting. Many think
they are a strong woman if they talk with a very stern voice, they fly off the handle in public, they interrupt, they barge in rooms, act impulsively snd not stick to plans.
When confronted they smirk or or tell you cant handle a strong woman. I suspect some of those are posting here.

I think thats bad behavior and justifying it with ideology instead of being selfcritical makes them even ore disgisting.

I will never let a person with a temper be boss. My methodical ways arm mevwith lnowledge and arguments. If they misbehave i humiliate them.

People dont find aries in general bad just certain behaviors in certain situations. So if you tell yourself people cant handle you dont own your shortcomongs i know you are a bad person.

I get really furious when they you cant handle me. I dont want to deal with the negativity you need to handle yourself and not dump your butter on us.

Why dont you think about a situation and analyze your own behavior inszead of glorifying yourselv here?