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Creating this thread was a mistake op. It's no use waiting for another bulls. Please delete it quickly, i don't want any thread involving fire/air signs anymore.

Why delete it quickly if the OP is looking for answers of what is going wrong? There is no way to find out what goes wrong with the other signs unless you ask.

If you don't want to see it, then don't look.

See the replies above by your own kind? Do you need another reason why should we continue this thread? Wat nou? Waiting by another bulls? Too long.

One is Enough. The result justify everything.

I don't even know what you're trying to say.

One what is enough?
The people that get along with Taurus's wouldn't necessarily comment on this thread, since OP is asking for what goes WRONG.

Try being more open minded like the OP.
He is trying to find common ground for a better understanding, not just shutting it down because he has been hurt or it didn't work.

Oh really? I must be lacking in samples then. Very well, can you give me at least three examples of a successful relationship between a bull and air/fire signs in your life?

My sister with a Taurus sun/Leo moon has been with her Sagittarius Sun Man for about 5 years now.

Charts matter, nothing is impossible when you actually like or love a person

I ask three boi, not one.

Also why it doesn't work another way with Taurus Man and Sag Woman?

Did you want me to lie and make up 2 more?

I think it can work the other way around. I almost fell for a man with the same combo- Taurus Sun/Leo -moon but he scared the crap out of me and it was my first time dealing with a Taurus Man, so I missed out. It was so unexpected and had me questioning everything. If I came across another one, I would definitely try it out.

The other two I wasn't attracted to, so it was easy for me to not want it to go further.

My sister has Pisces in her chart along with a Leo moon and her Sag has something in his chart that makes him needy, so he gives her lots of attention and makes her travel with him.
She loves traveling as long as there is luxury involved and he likes spoiling her, so it works.

He is also very communicative in arguments with her, he doesn't let her close him down. They talk it out, which is important in any relationship.

Why not? Making another stories doesn't sound bad right to bring up the mood here right?

How do I try to work with a Sag girl in general? I have triple mercury, venus, and mars in aries

I'm confused, is there a bad mood somewhere?
Talking blunt and direct doesn't equal a bad mood. Are Taurus's really that sensitive? I'm a smart ass, but I'm not in a bad mood at all. Just being a typical fire sign and spreading some fire around.

You have a bunch of fire in your chart, wouldn't you work better with air since you have so much?

I don't know, all that Aries makes me think of a person who is quickly pleased and does thinks quickly- Who can lose patience easy in love and can move on quickly. If a Sag catches a whiff of that type of energy, they can do the same without you having to explain anything at all.

But I don't see why it can't work.

Why don't you say why it doesn't work, so we can see the issue you have as a earth sign with fire/air?

I don't understand the need to close a thread because there aren't Taurus's around to offer advice.

As you wish madam, so bull here. It is a pattern to become mesmerized.

Bull here.

. Their first impression even made me a bit uncomfortable.

Is this true to you?

Oh yes, they are super intense, intimidating, looking for a fight energy. But they can switch to
amicable if you are blunt as well. They can be mistaken mistaken for angry if they rant about something (example bill burr). I always think we are on bad terms if they blow up, but after they calmed down its back to normal which always baffles me. But also havd distinct eyes and a distinct smile i cannot describe it, only post a link. iI crushed on her hard. I am mot in nyc unfortunately. https://www.dxpnet.com/users/photos/?i=SofiaV87


What experiences do you have with air and fire signs in real life?


Air always fizzled out. They bore me.

Did it work out beyond casual relationship?

Yes with leo and aries. Leo are just mushy cats,
so we sensuality kept us, but eventually their loudness made me resent them.
Aries are strong af, you need to be too.

If it did, what kind of compromise you made with them?

Lol, we clashed out and laughed if both say my way or the highway you have a stalemate. Then its a stalemate. What next?

What lessons did you got from it?

Always come up with a third alternative.
Like I hate parties, but I have lots of interests,
I would tell them about my fav youtube videos then wd would go out and try out what I think is cool.

Because giving in and getting things done your way wont happen. Ranting is fun. Express and do instead of think and plan. You grow a skin and to stand for yourself. Its like being in suits(tv series). You come out more manly. I learned to be unfazed by cookiemonsteriness and just firmly kiss woman until they melt. More badboy and a little less teddy bear. https://coub.com/view/17y0lp

From 1-10 scale, how would you recommend a relationship between bulls and air/fire signs?

Go all in if you are young and want to make the most out of your twenties, knowing it wont last.

But if you feel you need to avoid them trust your gut and try intense scorps.

Oh and maybe this helps: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/can-a-taurus-man-dominate-fire-women-9593342/

Thank you for all of this.
Maybe the links can help out the Taurus with his questions, since I have so little experience with them.

I read your post.
I think the laziness is what does it for a energetic fire sign. If you want to be lazy, a homebody sign would work better for you.
I am also not one to boss someone around. I only want to take care of myself, I don't have the time to keep track of another adult and try to control them.
It's too much responsibility for me and if I'm keeping track of you- then I'm not free to do me.
Passive and mellow are great traits to have, I would love that. It'd be a breath of fresh air for me.

Yeah sags are the most go with the flow, hence no bossiness.
I agree, but it is more than just laziness.
Its also that taurus loves gluttony, introspection, we are foodies, we even eat slower than fire signs. I am on the opposite end of the spectrum Id love to be proactive and intense. Because life is short. I tried selfdiscipline and motivational hacks no matter what I try the laziness is deeply ingrained.

I love all that too, but on an island somewhere lol Not sitting in front of my TV, on the couch lol

On one of my dates with a Taurus, he told me I should not travel so much and just put more money into my house to make it more comfortable, so that I wouldn't need to go anywhere. 😳

He had never been in my place- but that comment made me think I was definitely not going anywhere with him

There are some people who have never traveled outside of their city and are fine with it. I'm not one of them.

Lol… my sister’s ex (Taurus) is a restaurant owner and he never leaves the two streets where his resto is located.

I love that he knows everyone and somehow when I’m on those two streets, I almost feel like I’m visiting his home🤣😂👌🏼. I’ve ran into him at coffee shops, other restaurants, bars… all located in less than a mile from his restaurant.

The other day I was having lunch with a friend and I looked over to a table next to mine because the girlfriend was telling her boyfriend off… she looked like she was ready to kill him. Out of curiosity, I take a look at who she’s eating alive… and it’s HIM. 🤣😂🤣😂

I told my sister about it and she told me he always liked aggressive girls. He must be in HEAVEN now 😂👌🏼

Anyway - the man is guaranteed to be seen on those two streets. Also doesn’t travel much, also has a nice home. So funny…

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.......... where everybody knows your name.
Good memories

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Creating this thread was a mistake op. It's no use waiting for another bulls. Please delete it quickly, i don't want any thread involving fire/air signs anymore.

Why delete it quickly if the OP is looking for answers of what is going wrong? There is no way to find out what goes wrong with the other signs unless you ask.

If you don't want to see it, then don't look.

See the replies above by your own kind? Do you need another reason why should we continue this thread? Wat nou? Waiting by another bulls? Too long.

One is Enough. The result justify everything.

I don't even know what you're trying to say.

One what is enough?
The people that get along with Taurus's wouldn't necessarily comment on this thread, since OP is asking for what goes WRONG.

Try being more open minded like the OP.
He is trying to find common ground for a better understanding, not just shutting it down because he has been hurt or it didn't work.

Oh really? I must be lacking in samples then. Very well, can you give me at least three examples of a successful relationship between a bull and air/fire signs in your life?

My sister with a Taurus sun/Leo moon has been with her Sagittarius Sun Man for about 5 years now.

Charts matter, nothing is impossible when you actually like or love a person

I ask three boi, not one.

Also why it doesn't work another way with Taurus Man and Sag Woman?

Did you want me to lie and make up 2 more?

I think it can work the other way around. I almost fell for a man with the same combo- Taurus Sun/Leo -moon but he scared the crap out of me and it was my first time dealing with a Taurus Man, so I missed out. It was so unexpected and had me questioning everything. If I came across another one, I would definitely try it out.

The other two I wasn't attracted to, so it was easy for me to not want it to go further.

My sister has Pisces in her chart along with a Leo moon and her Sag has something in his chart that makes him needy, so he gives her lots of attention and makes her travel with him.
She loves traveling as long as there is luxury involved and he likes spoiling her, so it works.

He is also very communicative in arguments with her, he doesn't let her close him down. They talk it out, which is important in any relationship.

Why not? Making another stories doesn't sound bad right to bring up the mood here right?

How do I try to work with a Sag girl in general? I have triple mercury, venus, and mars in aries

I'm confused, is there a bad mood somewhere?
Talking blunt and direct doesn't equal a bad mood. Are Taurus's really that sensitive? I'm a smart ass, but I'm not in a bad mood at all. Just being a typical fire sign and spreading some fire around.

You have a bunch of fire in your chart, wouldn't you work better with air since you have so much?

I don't know, all that Aries makes me think of a person who is quickly pleased and does thinks quickly- Who can lose patience easy in love and can move on quickly. If a Sag catches a whiff of that type of energy, they can do the same without you having to explain anything at all.

But I don't see why it can't work.

Why don't you say why it doesn't work, so we can see the issue you have as a earth sign with fire/air?

I don't understand the need to close a thread because there aren't Taurus's around to offer advice.

As you wish madam, so bull here. It is a pattern to become mesmerized.

Bull here.

. Their first impression even made me a bit uncomfortable.

Is this true to you?

Oh yes, they are super intense, intimidating, looking for a fight energy. But they can switch to
amicable if you are blunt as well. They can be mistaken mistaken for angry if they rant about something (example bill burr). I always think we are on bad terms if they blow up, but after they calmed down its back to normal which always baffles me. But also havd distinct eyes and a distinct smile i cannot describe it, only post a link. iI crushed on her hard. I am mot in nyc unfortunately. https://www.dxpnet.com/users/photos/?i=SofiaV87


What experiences do you have with air and fire signs in real life?


Air always fizzled out. They bore me.

Did it work out beyond casual relationship?

Yes with leo and aries. Leo are just mushy cats,
so we sensuality kept us, but eventually their loudness made me resent them.
Aries are strong af, you need to be too.

If it did, what kind of compromise you made with them?

Lol, we clashed out and laughed if both say my way or the highway you have a stalemate. Then its a stalemate. What next?

What lessons did you got from it?

Always come up with a third alternative.
Like I hate parties, but I have lots of interests,
I would tell them about my fav youtube videos then wd would go out and try out what I think is cool.

Because giving in and getting things done your way wont happen. Ranting is fun. Express and do instead of think and plan. You grow a skin and to stand for yourself. Its like being in suits(tv series). You come out more manly. I learned to be unfazed by cookiemonsteriness and just firmly kiss woman until they melt. More badboy and a little less teddy bear. https://coub.com/view/17y0lp

From 1-10 scale, how would you recommend a relationship between bulls and air/fire signs?

Go all in if you are young and want to make the most out of your twenties, knowing it wont last.

But if you feel you need to avoid them trust your gut and try intense scorps.

Oh and maybe this helps: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/can-a-taurus-man-dominate-fire-women-9593342/

Thank you for all of this.
Maybe the links can help out the Taurus with his questions, since I have so little experience with them.

I read your post.
I think the laziness is what does it for a energetic fire sign. If you want to be lazy, a homebody sign would work better for you.
I am also not one to boss someone around. I only want to take care of myself, I don't have the time to keep track of another adult and try to control them.
It's too much responsibility for me and if I'm keeping track of you- then I'm not free to do me.
Passive and mellow are great traits to have, I would love that. It'd be a breath of fresh air for me.

Yeah sags are the most go with the flow, hence no bossiness.
I agree, but it is more than just laziness.
Its also that taurus loves gluttony, introspection, we are foodies, we even eat slower than fire signs. I am on the opposite end of the spectrum Id love to be proactive and intense. Because life is short. I tried selfdiscipline and motivational hacks no matter what I try the laziness is deeply ingrained.

I love all that too, but on an island somewhere lol Not sitting in front of my TV, on the couch lol

On one of my dates with a Taurus, he told me I should not travel so much and just put more money into my house to make it more comfortable, so that I wouldn't need to go anywhere. 😳

He had never been in my place- but that comment made me think I was definitely not going anywhere with him

There are some people who have never traveled outside of their city and are fine with it. I'm not one of them.

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Id be down for that. Never looked ag it line that. Travel to the region to enjoy what they have to offer. The baguette i ate in in paris tasted better than in germany. You seem to be nice and attractive, why do the taurus you describe sound like tools?

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Creating this thread was a mistake op. It's no use waiting for another bulls. Please delete it quickly, i don't want any thread involving fire/air signs anymore.

Why delete it quickly if the OP is looking for answers of what is going wrong? There is no way to find out what goes wrong with the other signs unless you ask.

If you don't want to see it, then don't look.

See the replies above by your own kind? Do you need another reason why should we continue this thread? Wat nou? Waiting by another bulls? Too long.

One is Enough. The result justify everything.

I don't even know what you're trying to say.

One what is enough?
The people that get along with Taurus's wouldn't necessarily comment on this thread, since OP is asking for what goes WRONG.

Try being more open minded like the OP.
He is trying to find common ground for a better understanding, not just shutting it down because he has been hurt or it didn't work.

Oh really? I must be lacking in samples then. Very well, can you give me at least three examples of a successful relationship between a bull and air/fire signs in your life?

My sister with a Taurus sun/Leo moon has been with her Sagittarius Sun Man for about 5 years now.

Charts matter, nothing is impossible when you actually like or love a person

I ask three boi, not one.

Also why it doesn't work another way with Taurus Man and Sag Woman?

Did you want me to lie and make up 2 more?

I think it can work the other way around. I almost fell for a man with the same combo- Taurus Sun/Leo -moon but he scared the crap out of me and it was my first time dealing with a Taurus Man, so I missed out. It was so unexpected and had me questioning everything. If I came across another one, I would definitely try it out.

The other two I wasn't attracted to, so it was easy for me to not want it to go further.

My sister has Pisces in her chart along with a Leo moon and her Sag has something in his chart that makes him needy, so he gives her lots of attention and makes her travel with him.
She loves traveling as long as there is luxury involved and he likes spoiling her, so it works.

He is also very communicative in arguments with her, he doesn't let her close him down. They talk it out, which is important in any relationship.

Why not? Making another stories doesn't sound bad right to bring up the mood here right?

How do I try to work with a Sag girl in general? I have triple mercury, venus, and mars in aries

I'm confused, is there a bad mood somewhere?
Talking blunt and direct doesn't equal a bad mood. Are Taurus's really that sensitive? I'm a smart ass, but I'm not in a bad mood at all. Just being a typical fire sign and spreading some fire around.

You have a bunch of fire in your chart, wouldn't you work better with air since you have so much?

I don't know, all that Aries makes me think of a person who is quickly pleased and does thinks quickly- Who can lose patience easy in love and can move on quickly. If a Sag catches a whiff of that type of energy, they can do the same without you having to explain anything at all.

But I don't see why it can't work.

Why don't you say why it doesn't work, so we can see the issue you have as a earth sign with fire/air?

I don't understand the need to close a thread because there aren't Taurus's around to offer advice.

As you wish madam, so bull here. It is a pattern to become mesmerized.

Bull here.

. Their first impression even made me a bit uncomfortable.

Is this true to you?

Oh yes, they are super intense, intimidating, looking for a fight energy. But they can switch to
amicable if you are blunt as well. They can be mistaken mistaken for angry if they rant about something (example bill burr). I always think we are on bad terms if they blow up, but after they calmed down its back to normal which always baffles me. But also havd distinct eyes and a distinct smile i cannot describe it, only post a link. iI crushed on her hard. I am mot in nyc unfortunately. https://www.dxpnet.com/users/photos/?i=SofiaV87


What experiences do you have with air and fire signs in real life?


Air always fizzled out. They bore me.

Did it work out beyond casual relationship?

Yes with leo and aries. Leo are just mushy cats,
so we sensuality kept us, but eventually their loudness made me resent them.
Aries are strong af, you need to be too.

If it did, what kind of compromise you made with them?

Lol, we clashed out and laughed if both say my way or the highway you have a stalemate. Then its a stalemate. What next?

What lessons did you got from it?

Always come up with a third alternative.
Like I hate parties, but I have lots of interests,
I would tell them about my fav youtube videos then wd would go out and try out what I think is cool.

Because giving in and getting things done your way wont happen. Ranting is fun. Express and do instead of think and plan. You grow a skin and to stand for yourself. Its like being in suits(tv series). You come out more manly. I learned to be unfazed by cookiemonsteriness and just firmly kiss woman until they melt. More badboy and a little less teddy bear. https://coub.com/view/17y0lp

From 1-10 scale, how would you recommend a relationship between bulls and air/fire signs?

Go all in if you are young and want to make the most out of your twenties, knowing it wont last.

But if you feel you need to avoid them trust your gut and try intense scorps.

Oh and maybe this helps: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/can-a-taurus-man-dominate-fire-women-9593342/

Thank you for all of this.
Maybe the links can help out the Taurus with his questions, since I have so little experience with them.

I read your post.
I think the laziness is what does it for a energetic fire sign. If you want to be lazy, a homebody sign would work better for you.
I am also not one to boss someone around. I only want to take care of myself, I don't have the time to keep track of another adult and try to control them.
It's too much responsibility for me and if I'm keeping track of you- then I'm not free to do me.
Passive and mellow are great traits to have, I would love that. It'd be a breath of fresh air for me.

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Yeah sags are the most go with the flow, hence no bossiness.
I agree, but it is more than just laziness.
Its also that taurus loves gluttony, introspection, we are foodies, we even eat slower than fire signs. I am on the opposite end of the spectrum Id love to be proactive and intense. Because life is short. I tried selfdiscipline and motivational hacks no matter what I try the laziness is deeply ingrained.

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Posted by Hunter
Creating this thread was a mistake op. It's no use waiting for another bulls. Please delete it quickly, i don't want any thread involving fire/air signs anymore.

Why delete it quickly if the OP is looking for answers of what is going wrong? There is no way to find out what goes wrong with the other signs unless you ask.

If you don't want to see it, then don't look.

See the replies above by your own kind? Do you need another reason why should we continue this thread? Wat nou? Waiting by another bulls? Too long.

One is Enough. The result justify everything.

I don't even know what you're trying to say.

One what is enough?
The people that get along with Taurus's wouldn't necessarily comment on this thread, since OP is asking for what goes WRONG.

Try being more open minded like the OP.
He is trying to find common ground for a better understanding, not just shutting it down because he has been hurt or it didn't work.

Oh really? I must be lacking in samples then. Very well, can you give me at least three examples of a successful relationship between a bull and air/fire signs in your life?

My sister with a Taurus sun/Leo moon has been with her Sagittarius Sun Man for about 5 years now.

Charts matter, nothing is impossible when you actually like or love a person

I ask three boi, not one.

Also why it doesn't work another way with Taurus Man and Sag Woman?

Did you want me to lie and make up 2 more?

I think it can work the other way around. I almost fell for a man with the same combo- Taurus Sun/Leo -moon but he scared the crap out of me and it was my first time dealing with a Taurus Man, so I missed out. It was so unexpected and had me questioning everything. If I came across another one, I would definitely try it out.

The other two I wasn't attracted to, so it was easy for me to not want it to go further.

My sister has Pisces in her chart along with a Leo moon and her Sag has something in his chart that makes him needy, so he gives her lots of attention and makes her travel with him.
She loves traveling as long as there is luxury involved and he likes spoiling her, so it works.

He is also very communicative in arguments with her, he doesn't let her close him down. They talk it out, which is important in any relationship.

Why not? Making another stories doesn't sound bad right to bring up the mood here right?

How do I try to work with a Sag girl in general? I have triple mercury, venus, and mars in aries

I'm confused, is there a bad mood somewhere?
Talking blunt and direct doesn't equal a bad mood. Are Taurus's really that sensitive? I'm a smart ass, but I'm not in a bad mood at all. Just being a typical fire sign and spreading some fire around.

You have a bunch of fire in your chart, wouldn't you work better with air since you have so much?

I don't know, all that Aries makes me think of a person who is quickly pleased and does thinks quickly- Who can lose patience easy in love and can move on quickly. If a Sag catches a whiff of that type of energy, they can do the same without you having to explain anything at all.

But I don't see why it can't work.

Why don't you say why it doesn't work, so we can see the issue you have as a earth sign with fire/air?

I don't understand the need to close a thread because there aren't Taurus's around to offer advice.

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As you wish madam. It is a pattern to become mesmerized.

Bull here.

. Their first impression even made me a bit uncomfortable.

Is this true to you?

Oh yes, they are super intense, intimidating, looking for a fight energy. But they can switch to
amicable if you are blunt as well. They can be mistaken mistaken for angry if they rant about something (example bill burr). I always think we are on bad terms if they blow up, but after they calmed down its back to normal which always baffles me. But they also have distinct eyes and a distinct smile i cannot put it in words so i post a link. I crushed on her hard. I am not in nyc unfortunately. https://www.dxpnet.com/users/photos/?i=SofiaV87


What experiences do you have with air and fire signs in real life?


Air always fizzled out. They bore me.

Did it work out beyond casual relationship?

Yes with leo and aries. Leo are just mushy cats,
so the sensuality kept us, but eventually their loudness made me resent them.
Aries are strong af, so you need to be too.

If it did, what kind of compromise you made with them?

Lol, we clashed out and laughed if both say my way or the highway. So you have a stalemate. What next?

What lessons did you got from it?

Always come up with a third alternative.
Like I hate parties, but I have lots of interests,
I would tell them about my fav youtube videos then wde would go out and try out what I think is cool in real life.

I did that because her giving in and getting things done your way wont happen. Ever. Ranting is fun. Express and do instead of think and plan. You grow a skin and you learn to stand for yourself. Its like being in suits(tv series). You come out more manly. I learned to be unfazed by cookiemonsteriness and just firmly kiss woman until they melt. More badboy and a little less teddy bear. https://coub.com/view/17y0lp

From 1-10 scale, how would you recommend a relationship between bulls and air/fire signs?

Go all in if you are young and want to make the most out of your twenties, knowing it wont last.

But if you feel you need to avoid them trust your gut and try intense scorps.

Oh and maybe this helps: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/can-a-taurus-man-dominate-fire-women-9593342/

The public discourse and anything associated with that. Social Media, Hot button issues like gender, any movie about gender, labels, ideologies. I never thought I would be drawn to science, cause i am more artsy. What happened to logic?

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I actually feel bad for them. It's so sad that they are not able to feel alive without someone in their lives to be dominated and manipulated.

Exactly. Its a dependency problem. And most victims who dont have firm understanding of themselves will fall into the trap

I mean, it's kinda okay/tolerable if they are somewhat attractive or smart, but most of them are unbelievably stupid with big ego and their rotten personality is very obvious even to the most gullible/naive target victims.

Their inflexibility to see life in different angle and failed to recognize that personal freedom is exist will keep them miserable to be around/live with.

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do you watch suits? Which one would you tolerate?

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I actually feel bad for them. It's so sad that they are not able to feel alive without someone in their lives to be dominated and manipulated.

Exactly. Its a dependency problem. And most victims who dont have firm understanding of themselves will fall into the trap

I mean, it's kinda okay/tolerable if they are somewhat attractive or smart, but most of them are unbelievably stupid with big ego and their rotten personality is very obvious even to the most gullible/naive target victims.

Their inflexibility to see life in different angle and failed to recognize that personal freedom is exist will keep them miserable to be around/live with.

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do you watch suits? Which one would you tolerate?

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I am not easy to dominate, and actually enjoy giving domineering people a hard time lolz.

why not give them a hard time. we all try to get through the day and thats always stressful, so any jerk who adds to it deserves to get punked. why cant everybody be friendly?

My mentor is a cap. He took me in when I was kicked out by my parents. He couldnt be more stereotypical, he is a german retired engineer, superdry knows everything. He builds everything. But he is actually optimistic and courageous, he pushes me to enjoy life as much as i can. I can call him anytime i want hell be there for me . His wife is leolike, noisy dramatic, and generous, which makes his life less boring. She cannot boss him around he just says no. Which i like a lot because gender is a hot topic these days. Very stoic, if i bicker and i say something like but this and thas haappened, instead of comforting me he says yes or no.

I told him i want to travel to norway, he said start small do some hiking. The next day he shows up at my place with a tent.

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They won't tolerate miniatures in other areas.

Get your mind out of the gutter.

Prove me wrong.

Okay you do a webcam

I could be hung like a wasp so no chance.

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Well i am a sensual taurus i would enjoy that.

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They won't tolerate miniatures in other areas.

Get your mind out of the gutter.

Prove me wrong.

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Okay you do a webcam

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They won't tolerate miniatures in other areas.

Get your mind out of the gutter.

Posted by JayTheFantastic
I know a Mars in pisces girl that scares a lot of people I’ve known quite a few Mars in pisces that will turn up if you bother them. I know this cam girl who is very reactive with her emotions a scary temper kinda crazy too she’s also biracial tho lol I don’t know dude you should be able to be assertive none of your inner planets are in their worst position now me I have my moon Mercury and mars in the worst position and will not take crap from anybody..

Water makes emotional, so if i express them immediately instead of trying to be unfazed
i would be reactive.

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There is no one specific rule for this. I would even argue that a lot of peoples agressivness comes from the fact that they try to bluntly use one principle for every situation without adjusting to the circumstances. That being said, and I will contradict myself here a bit, there are, I think, some general tools and learned habits that might help.
Since you seem to be someone who has delayed reactions but potentially strong internal and emotional reactions it might help you to analyze the reactionand ask yourself things like
What do I want from this?
How do I want to get there?
Why do I want this?
What are my restrictions?
What do I not want?

In the cases where you don't really care enough to fight but react emotionally it might refocus and thus delay that emotional reaction long enough to prevent yourself from falling into the loop that usually would set you up to plan your revenge.
In the cases where you care enough it helps to focus and maintain that foucs on what you care about while, over time, making you more grounded and firm in your internal foundation until you longer have those internal reactions unless it really matters.

In a similiar fashion there is one phrase that can shut down a lot of the conflicts: What is the problem?
Since most people have conflicts without goals or clearly defined causes asking them what the problem is often either ends the conflict or at least redirects it into more constructive paths. It also helps to filter out those who simply want conflict for the sake of conflict. The problem with the phrase is that you need to get the timing right. If you just spout them the moment the conflict began it will probably only make things worse, but that's something you'll eventually get a feeling for after some trial and error. It's also where the circle closes and we come back to my inital sentence.

Thx, i think i know when to do that. Definetly not in the heat of the moment.

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Do you have serious pisces or libra placements

What does nonconsenquential mean? Its another word for what i just said right?

1 : of no significance : unimportant. 2a : irrelevant. b : illogical.

Is it also nonconsequential if aries is on the receiving end?

Yep. We make enemies then move on. We don't hang about.

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I have a problem with that. I want an apology, accountability, consequence, i am willing to make it public, to drag it out. Its just so wrong to do whatever you want without repercussions.

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Do you have serious pisces or libra placements

What does nonconsenquential mean? Its another word for what i just said right?

1 : of no significance : unimportant. 2a : irrelevant. b : illogical.

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Is it also nonconsequential if aries is on the receiving end?

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Do you have serious pisces or libra placements

Oh yeah libra rising and several pisces placements. What does nonconsenquential mean? Its another word for what i just said right?

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I do not understand why people see someone that is direct and speaking their truth as reactionary or confrontational. 🤔

For me: Reactionary would be punching ( breaking) a person/object when upset/angry. Confrontational would be not respecting space, yelling and/or degrading another person. Which both examples are a lack of self control.

I'm extremely blunt/direct when it's required, you do not get far in life if you allow others to walk all over you. But I also understand that others do not always respond well to that approach and yes I have hurt feelings, but its never my intention to do so, I'd rather tell the truth than sugarcoat, kittyfoot around.

I am fire/earth . The above way I speak/handle things, I give credit to my Cap mercury.

Reactionary= being able to verbalize in response to what was said. I shut down. I am quiet and meek in general so I can attest to not getting far if people walk over you. Which is why I plot public revenges after the exchange so that others dont think i am weak.
I heard water find earth too blunt at times maybe i can use that.

Are you fearful others will judge what you have to say? Appearing a fool? So you shut down. I'm asking because that was an issue when I was in my 20s. Sounds like you need to focus on having confidence in yourself, and to truly not give so much power to what others might think and what you need to say. It's hard to do at first, but once you start.. it gets easier and then you won't need revenge.

Plotting and doing revenge is not healthy and it's a great way to lose friends and isn't going to help you learn how to get over the shutting down. However, I get a feeling you enjoy that part of all of this.

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I enjoy it in some cases for various reasons.
For example aries seem not have a memory at all. Like babies. They lash out and then its forgotten and they are surprised if you are less friendly the next time we meet. No if you treat people bad. So earthy stubbornness is a great way to win. They cant handle obstinance. They are sprinters not marathonrunners.

I dont know the exact reasons as to why i shut down. There are many.

Posted by hydorah
If you feel you don't have enough wits to answer to provocations, just keep your dignity, hold your ground and answer by pointing out their lack of manner or lack of morals. When someone provokes you they're generally scheming and have something to not be proud of that you can bring to the public verbally .
Keeping your dignity is how you win in the long term, wether it's with women or male competitors. Just project that you're comfortable as who you are and they aint worth butter

Thanks thats helpful, esspecially surfacing their bad intentions or what they are trying to hide. I can banter but mean people stunn me.