Virgoangel94
@Virgoangel94
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Is this Taurus playing?
What is it you want and are looking for from this guy?
You just broke up with someone who you were in a relationship with and who you loved a lot. Then two weeks later you're jumping in with this guy followed by a sexual relationship. Then you moan about him saying he had wanted to take it slow.
I don't think you are clear with what you want.
Then you need to ask him what he is looking for to see if that matches with what you want.
There's no doubt the guy likes you a lot. What's causing the doubt in you is because you may have slept with him and got attached a bit too soon without taking the time to realise what it is you want.
Try not to put your insecurities on to him.
Either ask him what he's looking for. He's said he wants to take things slow but slow for what? Is he looking for a relationship with you? He knows you've just ended a relationship. Just get to know him and take some time enjoying his company.
He offered an alternative to meeting before he goes. You're drilling him for details right now. Typical Virgo! He probably can't pin down a set time so just be open to what he can do before he goes, and be nice, not an arsehole. He seems like an ok fella.
You just broke up with someone who you were in a relationship with and who you loved a lot. Then two weeks later you're jumping in with this guy followed by a sexual relationship. Then you moan about him saying he had wanted to take it slow.
I don't think you are clear with what you want.
Then you need to ask him what he is looking for to see if that matches with what you want.
There's no doubt the guy likes you a lot. What's causing the doubt in you is because you may have slept with him and got attached a bit too soon without taking the time to realise what it is you want.
Try not to put your insecurities on to him.
Either ask him what he's looking for. He's said he wants to take things slow but slow for what? Is he looking for a relationship with you? He knows you've just ended a relationship. Just get to know him and take some time enjoying his company.
He offered an alternative to meeting before he goes. You're drilling him for details right now. Typical Virgo! He probably can't pin down a set time so just be open to what he can do before he goes, and be nice, not an arsehole. He seems like an ok fella.
Don't overthink things. Virgo can agonize over that. He seems to like you if his family has been introduced to you and you to them. It is possible he feels insecure if you make more money than he does. That's an issue you'll both have to deal with.
You are rushing into this after your other breakup and this may be why his behavior seems inconsistent to you. Take a breath and relax a bit and just enjoy each other and see when things go if you can do that.
My feeling is that he genuinely likes you. Take it slow. Okay? He'll begin to confide in you more with the passage of time.
You are rushing into this after your other breakup and this may be why his behavior seems inconsistent to you. Take a breath and relax a bit and just enjoy each other and see when things go if you can do that.
My feeling is that he genuinely likes you. Take it slow. Okay? He'll begin to confide in you more with the passage of time.
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