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LentoBull91
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Chasing us at the beginning can be really beneficial though unless you got alot of patience the process is gonna take much longer if you don't chase a little. Op idk your situation but Im not good at catching the signs someone is interested in me easily he may as well but i suggest you just be yourself and befriend him get to know each other and do friendly gestures for him that catches our attention since we are the sign of reciprocity we like and gravitate to kind people with good hearts.
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i agree with LentoBull. i certainly had to flirt with my partner and make my feelings known. Even then it still took him a long time to believe i was genuine and place himself on my hook. the problem can be sometimes we think we are flirting but the signs are so subtle, the bull doesn't pick up on them.

but the best thing you can do is be friends and be friendly.

a little bit of flirting never does any harm though! just be sure to recognise the difference between him not picking up the signs and him not being interested.

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Virgolady
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8 Years

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How do you show a Taurus male you're interested? I'm 19 and I haven't been interested in dating til now and have even been trying to flirt but I guess he just isn't picking it up? I don't want to scare him away.
What have you been doing to flirt?
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I try as much as i can (i have a tendency to be shy) but i give gentle touches, close proximity and compliments whenever i could fit one in. I've even tried to ask him to hang out or little dates but he either overlooks it as just a suggestion or shies away. I know for sure that he's been out of the game himself for quite some time, and he can easily get jealous over me speaking to another guy about plans over the week, so i know he's somewhat interested. I guess I need help in just moving things along, unless the problem relies on me not being more open.
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How do you show a Taurus male you're interested? I'm 19 and I haven't been interested in dating til now and have even been trying to flirt but I guess he just isn't picking it up? I don't want to scare him away.
What have you been doing to flirt?
I try as much as i can (i have a tendency to be shy) but i give gentle touches, close proximity and compliments whenever i could fit one in. I've even tried to ask him to hang out or little dates but he either overlooks it as just a suggestion or shies away. I know for sure that he's been out of the game himself for quite some time, and he can easily get jealous over me speaking to another guy about plans over the week, so i know he's somewhat interested. I guess I need help in just moving things along, unless the problem relies on me not being more open.
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How long have you known each other? Are you friends? Acquaintances?
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Virgolady
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How do you show a Taurus male you're interested? I'm 19 and I haven't been interested in dating til now and have even been trying to flirt but I guess he just isn't picking it up? I don't want to scare him away.
What have you been doing to flirt?
I try as much as i can (i have a tendency to be shy) but i give gentle touches, close proximity and compliments whenever i could fit one in. I've even tried to ask him to hang out or little dates but he either overlooks it as just a suggestion or shies away. I know for sure that he's been out of the game himself for quite some time, and he can easily get jealous over me speaking to another guy about plans over the week, so i know he's somewhat interested. I guess I need help in just moving things along, unless the problem relies on me not being more open.

How long have you known each other? Are you friends? Acquaintances?

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We've known each other since elementary school so we are friends but never very close
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jeane
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Posted by jeane
Posted by VirgoSTaurusM
How do you show a Taurus male you're interested? I'm 19 and I haven't been interested in dating til now and have even been trying to flirt but I guess he just isn't picking it up? I don't want to scare him away.
What have you been doing to flirt?
I try as much as i can (i have a tendency to be shy) but i give gentle touches, close proximity and compliments whenever i could fit one in. I've even tried to ask him to hang out or little dates but he either overlooks it as just a suggestion or shies away. I know for sure that he's been out of the game himself for quite some time, and he can easily get jealous over me speaking to another guy about plans over the week, so i know he's somewhat interested. I guess I need help in just moving things along, unless the problem relies on me not being more open.

How long have you known each other? Are you friends? Acquaintances?


We've known each other since elementary school so we are friends but never very close
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Then definitely follow LentoBull's advice.

My partner has/had a number of women flirt with him. He never takes it seriously. perhaps he didn't even take me seriously when I first started dropping hints.

Become better friends with him first and then let it unfold organically.
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Virgolady
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Posted by jeane
Posted by VirgoSTaurusM
How do you show a Taurus male you're interested? I'm 19 and I haven't been interested in dating til now and have even been trying to flirt but I guess he just isn't picking it up? I don't want to scare him away.
What have you been doing to flirt?
I try as much as i can (i have a tendency to be shy) but i give gentle touches, close proximity and compliments whenever i could fit one in. I've even tried to ask him to hang out or little dates but he either overlooks it as just a suggestion or shies away. I know for sure that he's been out of the game himself for quite some time, and he can easily get jealous over me speaking to another guy about plans over the week, so i know he's somewhat interested. I guess I need help in just moving things along, unless the problem relies on me not being more open.

How long have you known each other? Are you friends? Acquaintances?


We've known each other since elementary school so we are friends but never very close

Then definitely follow LentoBull's advice.

My partner has/had a number of women flirt with him. He never takes it seriously. perhaps he didn't even take me seriously when I first started dropping hints.

Become better friends with him first and then let it unfold organically.

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Thank you for your time! I definitely feel more calm about it, knowing that it is just as simple as i hoped it'd be.
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Virgolady
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8 Years

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Posted by LentoBull91
Chasing us at the beginning can be really beneficial though unless you got alot of patience the process is gonna take much longer if you don't chase a little. Op idk your situation but Im not good at catching the signs someone is interested in me easily he may as well but i suggest you just be yourself and befriend him get to know each other and do friendly gestures for him that catches our attention since we are the sign of reciprocity we like and gravitate to kind people with good hearts.
Thank you soo much for the advice, its really assuring coming from a Taurus!
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Nefertari
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8 Years

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Dear VirgoSTaurusM,

You can show interest by dropping texts to him, but not too many at the time. Slowly increase the frequency. Buy something small or do something specially for him. He likes feminine girls, so he'll be attracted to you.

But don't try to chase too openly. He should know you are interested, but the chase should be subtle. He should be the one who lay the claim on you. Taurus are also traditional sign.

It works cos I've been there.