Loneliness makes the heart remember.....?

I miss him.

he was treating her like crap....what exactly is it that you miss?

I missed the good times...only because I was lonely I have since found something to occupy my time

Posted by pixie242
I missed the good times...only because I was lonely I have since found something to occupy my time

you barely had any good times...this wasnt even a 6 month relationship.

4 months 1week 3days

lol exactly my point girl....good times lasted what 3 months max then he showed his ass...his ass is who he really is

That really helps..........Thank you

You don't miss him; you miss the way the IDEA of him makes you feel. Mind you, it's just the idea of him, because the reality is a stark contrast to what your imagination has convinced you of.

After my chat with BikerCh1ck and others on a previous forum i decided to do a little soul searching...My taurus ex didnt treat me bad because he treats women bad all the time....He treated me the way he did because i allowed it. I have come to realize that yes he has a problem but i have a few as well...I spoke to a few friends and got useful feed back..I give to much of me to quickly..I have to learn to control my nature..

Posted by BikerCh1ck
That's true. You have no self control.
He will find a girl that knows how to respect herself and set him boundaries. One that will not take any shit and he will respect her. It might be the one that he cheated you with that type of person.
Oh well you learn as you grow older. Next time pixie you'll do better.

thats puts too much blame on the girl....yes she may have had her issues but that fool did too. he may also find a girl but if he doesnt learn to respect others than it wont last either.

I don't believe the relationship downfall is completely my fault I'm just realizing that I have issues as well. I know I have issues because of what I tolerate. I don't want pity I just want to learn to do better. The world doesn't owe me anything. It's about time I grow up.

Also remember that you don't owe the world anything either.

Just found out alot of alarming news about my taurus ex...It helps the moving on process....I feel sick.

*adds to topic deviation* one of my favorite porn people is a Gemini....... partly because she looks somewhat like the Libra i'm interested in when she makes certain facial expressions. SEPERATED AT BIRTH?!?!?! they're not totally alike, there are some pretty obvious differences(Libra is sexier, has black eyes, is part Irish though i only know this because of her last name, is shorter, older, and has a MUCH larger ass), but SHE WILL NOT BE NAMED. woo!! WAY off topic. 😆

He is married! -_- after so much time im just finding this out...He has alot of sweethearts. I seriously feel sick...The fact that we were involved in a long distance relationship should have given me a hint....Well now i know..I pity his wife...If this is how i feel i cant begin to imagine how she feels.. I am so sorry...Never would I knowingly help to hurt anyone....I almost want to shake that man and make him stop hurting her...I am definitely over this..every emotion that i felt is just dead except for anger..I hate that he is hurting her..

it's perfectly normal and ok to feel that; i didn't give a shit about him in the first place,but his behavior pisses me off. It's disgusting. I suppose as a Libra, you don't much care for vengeance, but were I you, I'd find this poor woman and tell her about what he's subjecting her to by apologizing for partaking in this crap

Posted by tiziani
I wouldn't get involved in other people's marriages. That's low. You don't know what kind of arrangements they have between them. I wouldn't spend time pitying her. You have enough work to do focusing on yourself.

Libras may not care about it when it's wrapped up as "vengeance" but they love retribution.

I actually I refuse to get involved..I blocked him on fb so I dont have to see his ugly mug. I have no contact for him but through a friend i found out about him. I honestly dont care much for the situation. I am out of it and I intend to stay out of it..I just know that if he keeps going around hurting people he will get hurt. I find satisfaction in knowing that karma is going to bite him...hard...So really im not worried. I pity her because i feel as if she knows all of this about him and she choose to stay. I love commitment and marriage is suppose to be a committed relationship of the highest order. I hate to see it disrespected. I hate myself for indulging in stupidity.But im not dwelling on it. I loved and I lost. I gave my all and I felt pain...I dont like to work unnecessarily. What him and i had is over. I refuse to get involved. I dont need to add stress to the situation because if she doesnt know it would hurt her I refuse to be accountable for that.

It's your decision. But don't hate yourself for your involvement, because it's not your fault. The ones at fault are the bastard in question and the people who allow this to continue by not mentioning his marriage when they know about it. You're as much of a victim as his wife.

One chapter is closed another is about to open...Gemini guy is tying to make me crazy...Im not rushing this one...im going to practice self control with him.... its been like 2weeks now... building friendship...so far so good...im just going to befriend these guys... learn to use the word NO! Ill try to use this time to build confidence in myself and resistance to the male body....

I believe i can do it. I have faith in me

Posted by tiziani
I have faith in you, too. What other option do we have as Libras but to climb it? 😛

Thank you.