Sensitive Scorpio Guy Dominatrix Taurus Girl :()

Okay, Im back..
So, Ive been dating this Taurus. We started out just having a kinky Dom Sub relationship. However things are moving in what seems like the GF BF area.
Only im not really sure how she feels. We were supposed to go on a getaway vacation but she got sick. She was really sad that she couldnt make. And honestly she did get sick and still is sick. Hasnt worked since friday. Im actually concerned.
Anyway, I think she likes me but sometimes im not sure. She calls me baby and honey etc. But i sometimes she seems feels distant. I just let her be and give her space. I cant stop wanting to text and call her but i dont. Okay maybe sometimes, i dont want to crowd her. I really like her and want her to be my GF but she is just off a long term relationship. About 6 months off now.
She goes on this alternative kink website where i met her and i see her on there as i my status is set to invisible. I know she has met other guys off there but i mean ive met other girls. Sooooo Not sure what to do about that. I dont see any of them anymore, but im wondering if she does. When she was in the shower last week i snooped and checked her account. Bad i know. She had met someone. It was when i was away about 2 months ago. Im not mad cause we had an understanding then. Im a little jealous. But thats me. Anyway they are now friends of FB. He likes every status she puts. I dont see her responding to him or liking any of his post's. Sorta caught there cause how do i bring it up without making her feel attacked or like i snooped.
Anyway we spend most of the weekends together and we have a blast. I just wish i wasnt so damn into her cause i play all these damn scenarios in my head of what she might be up to when im not around.. I attemped to talk to her about our relationship and for some reason said i was afraid of getting into one. As i am, but really that is what i want. She said she really likes me and that she has so much fun with me that i mean a lot to her that i wouldnt even know. She also said she isnt rushing into a relationship because she got burned on her last one. I think she likes me but i dunno sometimes. Taurus's are tough to read. Any advice would be greatly appreciated..

Cheers
Auz

I'm no taurus but... why don't you ask her where she sees the two of you going ...?

and merc...

not sure/ How do i figure that out ?

oh wait found it.
I think my venus is scorpio too.

mercury is cap

i think her venus is taurus as well

Yikes !

and mercury is gemini

Well she will be a lot slower than you are when it comes to love and relationships .. Judging from her chart and yours. . Her Venus in taurus so slower. Are you two exclusive? You are doing a good job there just don't snoop around her account etc. be honest and open with her. It's pretty simple . We are open an honest so she's most likely waiting for you to ask her out anyway. What's the fuzz about?

My taurus is in venus/mars and Im very cautious to move into relationships. My mercury is also in Gemini so she will communicate with you regarding it. I would just try to ride it out if I were you. When venus Taurus gets hurt we are so cautious almost to a fault. I understand it annoys the crap out of potentials but if you have patience it will pay off in the end.

I won't lie I read this and became instantly interested. What I wouldn't ever mention is that you snooped on her. Her Taurus sun absolutely won't appreciate that. Never mention it. Just think about what you would like to say to her. Gemini mercury people we never shoot down a conversation. Pretty open to new suggestions and any chances to converse with another.

However (apologies for my sun/merc in the VIII showing up right now but since you have a dom this should be easily taken what Im about to say) I want to mention that unless a taurus venus tells you they are dating you you aren't. There has to be a complete understanding of that because right now she could be dating this other guy. Obviously he is into her just as much as you are. This is typical of dom females.

I won't lie about myself either I am extremely aggressive and there are a lot of guys that really like this type of female. Most females are subs id say at least 97% of women are. Then the other 3% are mean as hell LOL!

Did you guys actually have the conversation that you two are dating? Just because you are in a dom/sub relationship doesn't mean you are dating. Right now it tells me you aren't (in her mind) because she active on the website.

Is snooping a regular thing you do, Mr. Scorp in Venus?

Try to be careful with the snooping... -.- - it's a bit early on in the relationship to be so suspicious.

Thank you guys,
The snooping was more that the webpage was open and i peaked. Not that i am going around and hacking her computer.
We have been seeing each other every weekend and after work for about 4 months now. We had a conversation about our relationship and how we are more then friends and hook up buddies. Just didnt put a tittle on it.
I guess what i have a hard time with, is that i have the option of seeing other people too. And if she was, I would too. I just dont know how to ask her without seeming possessive. I guess i am possessive, shit ! I have told her i am willing to do other things "kinky things" if she wants. Im open to it. Just really want to make her happy.
We are hanging out tonight. And planned on hanging out this sat and sun. There is this fetish event on friday that we usually go to. I mentioned that i'd like to go. She is still not feeling well and said she cant go. Then she said i could go with someone else if i wanted. Im thinking that is just a test. I said i dont want to go with anyone else but you.. When in actuality i could very well go with someone else.
Oh the games we play.. Why am i like this i wish i wasnt a sensitive scorp. Its a full time job.
Do i just need to ask her if she is seeing other people ?

Good advice. Thank you !
Just got back from seeing her. And even though she is still sick ish, We had a good time. I feel like she does really like me.

I think after this weekend when we have had yet another great weekend together i will bring it up. And just say that, i love being with you. I really value our connection and relationship, and see it being more then just kinky fun/weekend hook ups. Ask her where she sees us going. And let there that i am open to adding other people into the mix and trying new things, Tell her that I want to be the one she always go home with. Wondering if you are wanting to go in that direction.
If not, i value what we have and still want to continue seeing you. . If you are wanting to see other people then i will have to be okay with that. Time will be the judge of our destiny.

What do you think ?