PreciousPisces
@PreciousPisces
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My 1st Taurus Male is confusing me
What is there to understand?
He asked you to be exclusive. You accepted.
A few months down the line he renegaded on his end of the deal by not actually being exclusive.
He's 43. Tell him to grow up and then close the door behind you as you leave.
Don't chase this guy. He sounds emotionally unavailable. Why do you want to be with someone who is distant with you, who is hot/cold and frankly unstable, who is mean to you, doesn't ask to see you, doesn't take you out, doesn't want to be intimate with you, calls you only to annoy you... if you were to make a list of qualities you want in a guy, how many of the above would be on it? Zero.
Go get someone more suitable. Seven billion people on this planet. This guy ain't your only option!
He asked you to be exclusive. You accepted.
A few months down the line he renegaded on his end of the deal by not actually being exclusive.
He's 43. Tell him to grow up and then close the door behind you as you leave.
Don't chase this guy. He sounds emotionally unavailable. Why do you want to be with someone who is distant with you, who is hot/cold and frankly unstable, who is mean to you, doesn't ask to see you, doesn't take you out, doesn't want to be intimate with you, calls you only to annoy you... if you were to make a list of qualities you want in a guy, how many of the above would be on it? Zero.
Go get someone more suitable. Seven billion people on this planet. This guy ain't your only option!
Has people on the low? How did you find that out? Lol.
You're right with the advice, AgentP! I guess I needed to hear it from a stranger. Thanks! He does need to grow up, and I will tell him I'm no longer interested on any level.
I found out through the mutual friend we shared, Lunabee.
I found out through the mutual friend we shared, Lunabee.
Posted by PreciousPiscesThat's just a no no in my book. Not that I'm an expert or get it right all the time but to pursue you then ask for exclusivity is a good approach but to fuck it up by not being exclusive... that's just him being a lying shit. That's based on what you've said.
You're right with the advice, AgentP! I guess I needed to hear it from a stranger. Thanks! He does need to grow up, and I will tell him I'm no longer interested on any level.
I found out through the mutual friend we shared, Lunabee.
You're welcome!
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