My husband the Taurus is very weird!??

My husband who is a Taurus is very weird his moon sign is in Pisces and Venus in Gemini.

My husband weirdness is very weird to me and it is driving me to divorce him.


My husband is for one is very very sensitive, very emotional, extremely stubborn, extremely and clingy to his friends that i feel is abnormal, and can goes weeks without talking to me when we get into an argument.

We are newlywed at that,

What else is weird about him, he do not like to talk, he hardly smiles ( he told me he been hurt in the past with his ex cheated on him and also stressed about other things)

When he met me we hit it off and I would put a smile on his face, he immediately clinged onto me and being that Im a Capricorn i love the attention but I also love my space as well. He opened up, he talk to me, he confessed his love me and everything that we ended up getting married on his birthday everything..

man we got in one argument that led to others after we got married now he sulks, he acts distant, he bareley calls, he trys to avoid me, he is very distant at time, doesn't take the initiative to try make the relationship work, he goes weeks without talking to me, gives me the silent treatment.

The arguments was i saw how he clings on to his friends and how they betray him and it bothers me how they do these to him and he clings on to them after they betrays him..

He got this female best friend that been causing us to fight a lot, I didn't find out about her until the day we got married because she called him a lot and i asked him about her, he said she is just a co worker that he is real good friends with, she helps out a lot at work. but what bothers me is she calls him constantly they are always on the phone talking and I didn't get to meet her either, why because he swears that it not that serious, but i met his other female friends.

So after we got married i notice he started talking about how he couldn't call me at work anymore.. mind yall she works with him for some reason i just feel this girl is involve with some of his distant ways to like he confide in her tell her our business and she fill his head up with stuff I dunno

I also notice that he had taken pictures of them together it looks before my time tho but they wasn't in the pictures together. I told him that i wasn't really feeling the pictures

So every time we argue i bring her up and his sorry best male friend that betrays him..

So the breaking point is i went all the way to jamaica yes he lives in jamaica and i live in the usa.

I went up there again after we got married and i haven't been up there in 8 months boy did we have some fights after we got married

I went up there to celebrate our 1 year of being together which we met on my bday and married on his birthday may 10 2010

when i went up there he was still talking to this this girl constantly on the phone after he knows i do not like it and i also found new pictures of them in his camera after the last time i told him i do not like it..

he still does what he want to do with me regarding my feelings.. so on my birthday they threw me a party, we was on our way to the party why did she call his phone while i was on it.. why i answer his phone and she going to say "hello hello can i speak to my honey please can i speak to my honey please" i was like WTF— to myself i was in so much shock, so i immediately gave the phone back to my Taurus and told him what just happen and he looked all shock talking about why would she do that.. I said that b.i.t.ch calling your phone calling you her hunnie" he said she is not b.i.t.c.h so immediately started pushing and stuff i was so hurt because it was lots of build up from other arguments, him taking new pictures of them, and refuse to delete them and they constantly disrespecting me calling each other. So as you a lot of drama ensued, I refuse to talk to him throughout the whole party, his family who loves me tried to keep my party going on and try to entertain me. my husband on the other hand just sat around looking stupid and acting like jerk azz loser..cocky and arrogant about the whole thing. After the call I tried to tell him let get out call the girl and see what up, he refused to do it, he even try to break his phone because I kept trying to get it from him to call her back.

To make a very long story short I ended up leaving jamaica earlier, we talked again i try to forgive him, he said he found out that she did it on purpose and that he cut her off.. lo and behold i found out that been calling me from her phone.after work hours to.I am on a verge now to divorce him I am sick of him and this best friend shiit!

This let me know that he do not respect me, our marriage and he do not protect his wife, instead he protect his friends and put them first. I also forgot to add that he is very very secretive and can be very dishonest yes i found this out after we got ma

ANNULMENT.

I have to ask...how long did you know him before you married him?

and were you planning on moving there,or he here at some point?

Ok,I found the part where you said a year...but how long in person?

your birthday is in Dec or Jan and you married in May...and you live in 2 different countries? :/

Hi yeah annulment I am seeking because he is driving me crazy

I met him in person on my birthday we dated for 4 months before we got married on his birthday it was beautiful in the beginning then i saw his other side and he saw mines.. yes we did rush and get married to fast.

so we only dated got to know each other for 4 months before we got married. yes we both live in different country

My birthday is January 7th 1980 and his May 10 1980

therefore we been together 1 year 1 month now and only been married 9 months. I know I know we got married to fast, I was head over heels for him you know the taurus charm and you know they are very fickle to they love you one minute and falling out as quickly.

So what do you think about our birthdte

Posted by Capricornsistah
Hi yeah annulment I am seeking because he is driving me crazy

I met him in person on my birthday we dated for 4 months before we got married on his birthday it was beautiful in the beginning then i saw his other side and he saw mines.. yes we did rush and get married to fast.

so we only dated got to know each other for 4 months before we got married. yes we both live in different country

My birthday is January 7th 1980 and his May 10 1980

therefore we been together 1 year 1 month now and only been married 9 months. I know I know we got married to fast, I was head over heels for him you know the taurus charm and you know they are very fickle to they love you one minute and falling out as quickly.

So what do you think about our birthdte

Well,I can tell you what I think about your birthdates if you want me to...
but before I tell you that,I will tell you I think you should get it annulled and move on imo.
he obviously has someone else and is playing you for whatever reason.I can actually feel your franticness and tension...and I want you to feel better and be happy.
you are not going to get that in this situation...and I'm sorry to say that,because I know you want it to work.

Hey cutiebullie thank for your response and thanks for the prayers i will need them I am very devastated about what is going on in my marriage I can tell you went through some shiit with the bull, yeah my husband always blamed his ex on his past relationship that ended talking about they all cheated on him and i see why i ended up cheating on him myself that hurt my heart because I pride myself on being a very loyal person woman at that, it hurt because in god eyes it wrong to commit such act I am a god fearing woman to. so it hurt me to the core that now I am seeking to annul our marriage i just cannot see it getting better at all the more and more we talk the more he gets worst you are right they are very quiet and two faced mofos forreal. They talk a lot of shiit and do not back it up at, they are some very procrastinator people to it make me real sick. it hurts that he is choosing the trifling azz girl over his dayum wife and what hurt the most she is married her damn self got a husband in canada so once i quick his dumb ass to the curb he is going to be back lonely and single again nothing the married chick can do because she is married unless she is not god fearing and messing around with him they are not going to prosper and do good in life with their current situation. I believe once this is all over he is going to get his forreal if already haven't you do not play with god. One thing i can say about myself that I took my vows very serious, yes I did argue and say mean things to my husgband I even pushed him and mugged in the face once when that girl called him, but it because of his lazy behavior and lack of disrespect for me is the reason why I act the way I did not trying to justify my irrational behavior but a person cannot take but so much. I gave my all to this man and I treated his daughter like she was mine, I also accepted him for him, he cannot read or write well at all his daughter that is 4 can read and write better than him.. That is why he swears he keep the girl at work close to him because she helps him out with paperwork and other stuff. I do not care how long yall been friends, i do not care what she did for you, but the girl is obviously trying to come inbetween our marraige the bulls dumb azz can't see it before it too late! that is a no no, do he do anything about it no! he continue to be friends with her and still disrespect me by calling from her phone. shiesty azz hell and a liar!!

They, some taurus men do let their friends come in between especially female friends. I have to go, damn it. I want to help you. I was there but didnt get married and broke up and back again. I will have to say what I think later but hang tight.

Posted by cutiebullie
And yeah he was clingy to all his friends - male and females - he can tell all his problems to them very well, detailed and of course one-sided - instead of talking to me.

Weirdo.

That's why I asked the question the other day because I couldnt remember. My little cousin said why didnt he confide in her. And my bonehead boyfriend said that they dont confide in people they like.

Really she the op didn't get in between anybody, unless I am not reading the story correctly. If she was a long time friend, she would respect his boundaries with the new person. But really it's about the Taurus being confident enough to cut ties with women who are willing to be 2nd, 3rd and 4th no matter how long it takes. Those women have the mindset that no matter how long it takes no matter who they marry they will latch on. That's who you should be laughing at in my opinion. Lol

Posted by cutiebullie
This let me know that he do not respect me, our marriage and he do not protect his wife, instead he protect his friends and put them first.


- I can totally relate. He also do not know what respect means and of course loyalty, two-faced son of a *****. I'm sorry lady that you are hurting right now, be strong and I pray for your peace - in your heart and mind. Take care!!!

How was yours two faced? I ask because I want to look out for that Lol If they are so quiet, the immature ones they got to be sharing it with someone. I never thought of that just a little curious for my own sanity

Cutiebullie no I do not have any kids to him at all thank god!!! I also filed for him to come here to the state but i was in the very early stage of doing it thank god I didn't bring him over here, being that i realized he is not emotionally or physically everything you mention to be with me. Yes they are two faced and I call him fake a lot.. they are some dishonest people to they can lie lie lie

but i notice nobody explained his birth date to me yet he is a Taurus sun sign with moon in pisces and gemini in venus I wonder if that the reason of his weirdness he was one weird dude and like i said he is not to bright at all he cannot read or write well at all.. Yeah i accept it all to because I love him i thought he had a good geniune heart and that it something that can be fix.

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Posted by dayssunny
Really she the op didn't get in between anybody, unless I am not reading the story correctly. If she was a long time friend, she would respect his boundaries with the new person. But really it's about the Taurus being confident enough to cut ties with women who are willing to be 2nd, 3rd and 4th no matter how long it takes. Those women have the mindset that no matter how long it takes no matter who they marry they will latch on. That's who you should be laughing at in my opinion. Lol

Daysunny, think logically....why would a longtime platonic friend suddenly decide to move things to an intimate stage after the friend's marriage? The husband is a cheating, no good SOB and the OP would be a total crackhead to take him at his word. Fine, she made the grave mistake of rushing into a marriage with someone she knew little or nothing about, now its time to stop the stupid analysis and finger pointing and simply get an annulment! He as never her husband!

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I think I was pretty logical. The long time friend had to know about her, intimate or not. That was my point. I don't think friend is even the right word do you? I think she was a sperm release contraption that turns into a life size ear and pillow when things don't turn out right is the more operable word for her function with this Taurus male.

So why laugh at OP that just found out about him was my question? I wouldn't laugh at someone who just met a serial killer and got killed. I'd laugh at the friend that knew he was a serial killer since childhood and was hoping that he'd change. Yup. I tend to laugh at people who were invested the longest holding on to fringes and waiting each time until the other person gets caught to then return back to my stable of uncontrollable love. If anyone should be laughed at it's the girl that is waiting for each relationship that he liked enough to invest a marriage in to suddenly fail. The analysis isnt needed but she found out about it so she's probably here to vent and get reassurance from women who have been there or know what it's like. She's much better for it to leave him but I am sorry laughing at her for rushing in and believing someone that said they were who they said they were, and it turns out that they happened to not be that person that hap

Posted by Capricornsistah
Cutiebullie no I do not have any kids to him at all thank god!!! I also filed for him to come here to the state but i was in the very early stage of doing it thank god I didn't bring him over here, being that i realized he is not emotionally or physically everything you mention to be with me. Yes they are two faced and I call him fake a lot.. they are some dishonest people to they can lie lie lie

but i notice nobody explained his birth date to me yet he is a Taurus sun sign with moon in pisces and gemini in venus I wonder if that the reason of his weirdness he was one weird dude and like i said he is not to bright at all he cannot read or write well at all.. Yeah i accept it all to because I love him i thought he had a good geniune heart and that it something that can be fix.

Dont worry about it. Some of them who are not mature just act like this. Mine went from immature to really mature into regressing back to trying to control what I do. It happens. But at least you know now

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Posted by cutiebullie
This let me know that he do not respect me, our marriage and he do not protect his wife, instead he protect his friends and put them first.


- I can totally relate. He also do not know what respect means and of course loyalty, two-faced son of a *****. I'm sorry lady that you are hurting right now, be strong and I pray for your peace - in your heart and mind. Take care!!!

How was yours two faced? I ask because I want to look out for that Lol If they are so quiet, the immature ones they got to be sharing it with someone. I never thought of that just a little curious for my own sanity

-- hey days! LOL! two-faced like having two facebook accounts... that's one... the rest let's just say "two-faced" because it's a very very very very loooooong explanation..... sorry but reall he is two-faced i swear........

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They are capable of that duality because they are secretive. I understand about it being long I got a story for you that you'd probably think was a star wars sequel so Lol But yea continue educating people that go through it too. You know I did that for libra men because there was one time that all I saw was how nice and charming they were? I started doing a service by just sharing the other side. Sometimes you just need to know you aren't alone and not going coo coo

oh part 2 laughing at someone who really happened to believe that if you say that your name is Fred Jones that your name is Fred Jones. That's a pretty normal assumption for a human being to have. That's a normalcy in human behavior that we tend to think that people will be forthright about little things like their feelings. So I had a problem with you finding her story funny. Unless she's a troll that wants to make up stories for attention I think that the appropriate person someone should laugh at is the woman that's hoping that she's get proposed to one day while seeing him go through his little black book. I think they are both losers. Lol

Posted by CapGal

Posted by cutiebullie
wow i'm lost!!! to the one butting in (capgal) can you explain from your statement - how can you annul/divorce something when you are not married—?!!!

Wow, can you explain from your statment how you butt into an open discussion forum—— I'm lost!

Marriage is more than just signing a piece of paper. How old are you anyway cutiebullie?

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And friendship doesn't mean the one that hangs on the longest Lol

Posted by cutiebullie
Oh dayssunny one more thing he also taught me all the bad things because of that thing he call charms and brought the bad side of me.... That's something you have to watch out for too 😉

So he was completely at fault and you are perfect and innocent cutie? is that it?

when do you think you might let the bitterness go and move on?

he does not represent all Taurus males...just as you don't represent all of us females,and frankly...I'm getting nauseous from the daily venum.

I find it hard to believe he's now trying to win you back,your bitterness shows just the opposite.

let's stop with all the constant negativity and bashing around here...it's time has passed.

I think we pretty much all see it cutie,you are the only one who doesn't.

We've all been politely holding off on saying anything....but I'm over that now. 😉

Yep...I'm a Taurus.
you had me thinking you were with your screen name....but I get it now. 😉

uh,yeeeaah...alright then.

cutiebullie... I have to say I've got Bella's back on this one... Almost all I hear from you is venom, hate...
Sure you can say that your offering your experience, but you do so in the form of advice. Advice however is level headed,
logical, and see's both sides as best as it can. What I see in your posts one sided emotionality driven(hate) responses.. And is coming off somewhere close to a pity party..

This isn't to say that you don't have valuable information about Taurus males, Yes you are right about things some of the time.. Your right, something like a kid in history class that shouts out 'Abraham Lincoln' to every question that goes out to the class... Sure you may have some valuable information, some insight. Allow your emotion(hate) to dictate your responses to such venom and your valid point are useless.. Anybody that knows your posts are going to see your valuable information as 'Ohh theres Cutie, there she goes again' ...You discredit yourself.. And your valid points and good information are for not..


I really do think that you are a good person that's had some shitty things happen to you romantically, I really hate to hear the you got treated so poorly by that fuckin jackass..

Pretty much everyones had something shitty happen to them at some point..
The strong ones keep a level head and choose who they want to be..
The rest, Allow the circumstances of life dictate who they are...


but by all means, vent away, a lot are here for that very reason...

..Fucking Taurus males anyways...

First I want to say I am not a troll on here at all. Sorry I didnt introduce myself first but I did in the capricorn forum
but I wanted to vent about my husband

to capgal I cannot believe you are poking fun and thinking all of this is funny or some joke to you. Wow they said capricorns are azzholes I am a capricorn myself and I do not act nothing like your nor would think something like this is a joke and funny. I mean what is so funny about it— The chick you are laughing and cheerleading for is a older married woman did you read and comprehend that part—? so she is already taking but i believe she is using my husband as well because he is so dumb and naive while her husband lives away in canada or maybe not. Yes she knew all about me would read his text message for him and so she know what up. She laughing at me how I should be the one laughing I am the one that got the proposal, the RING, and the man but i chose not want his azz anymore!! I am going to divorce his azz and watch who get the last laugh when her husband is in jamaica my husband going to be sitting around lonely azz hell when I met him he was lonely az hell!!


first of all this is not his WOMAN!!! she is married!! to the person that said that i didn't check to see if he was single is a lie i checked him out and everything this chick is his co worker a friend but she is married already so they could be fukk buddies and shiit! sad they are both married and god do not like ugly trust me on that one!! they will REAP what they SOW


daysunny thank for the logic and letting crazy capgal know that is is not a laughing matter she make me feel ashame of representing capricorn to, good thaing we all do not act like her immature ass either. She got the nerve to question cutiebullie.

Thank cutiebullie for the love.. I understand your pain girl this is my third time dating a bull never again

Ok, I apologize... from your reaction what I said was stronger then I intended. No, what I think is by far not the end all be all.. Just a perspective..

What was said was not meant as a attack on you, was not meant with malice or ill will/intent. you have a good heart.


I apologize..

Capgal you could be right that she is still around because he want her there I done said that taurus men tend to cling on to there friends not only did he choose her over me he choose another one of his close mail friend over me to. He put his friends before me period he just dumb and immature just like his azz can't read and he depend on ole girl to help him with paperwork and stuff that he cannot read. I use to text him early on in the game and when I found out he couldnt read I asked how been reading his text msg and it was her doing it for him. She does a lot of other things for him to like wash his clothes and stuff so she want to be a slave to him then that her dayum business when I go up to jamaica I am treated like a queen the bytch want what I got. He cooks for me, wash my clothes with his hands, feed me my food, bathe me, hold my hands out in public, introduce me all his friends and family and talk highly about me!!! His family and his daughter are crazy about me, they know nothing about the girl and the sister called her bytch the other night because she is very livid how her dumb brother is allowing this mess to go on. She will never get the respect that I got from his family ever nobody know her or his friends either. Everybody said he really hides her it must be real messed up to be hiding like you aint shiit, and to flaunt me all around everybody I am getting the last laugh believe that because I got what both of those dumb muthafukkers want and that is to come to the USA!!! and they wont be coming here over my dead body they will never be happy he is married and she is married they both are made for each other I agreed.
Capgal go sit your misery azz down somewhere forreal I can't believe my first day here I am arguing with a dumb azz fellow Capricorn you are going on in here and in the Capricorn thread you must be miserable and shiit!~ you probably laughing because you probably did something like this before. Last thing you cannot help who you fall in love with and so what I married him fast time have not limits most fast relationship are the ones that last longer anyway. Who the fukk said we have to wait on love and shiit. Only mistake i made is doing it overseas knowing people can put on act from afar.
cutiebullie i feel you girl

and to the man that said my dude is player because his venus in gemini lol he always told me that everyone of his exgirlfriend cheated on him and that he doesn't believe in cheating

nah i am just not judgemental and I know his history why he is the way he is! something your dumb miserable ass would never know! with love and patience it can be fix you wouldn't believe how many people walking around and cannot read and is married because somebody loves them regardless. I tell you one thing he makes up for it to and u know how knows they could be really just friends and that it. So you can carry your azz and stupid comment somewhere else seriously.

to elllesque sorry but no i was in the beginning stage of filing for him, he didn't even make it to the state yet I only filed the first form that is it. ellesque is there a ignore function on here I want to put cap girl on ignore they said Capricorns can be sarcastic assholes but since i do not act like that I didn't think it was true

Hi kstarks no he do not want to get the divorce he is dodging me as I type this I been trying to call him so we can be adult about it and talk about getting the divorce and he just keeps avoiding me about it. so that let me no for now and he told me before that he isn't signing anything and that he will not give up so easy either but in the meantime he is acting childish ignoring my calls giving me the silent treatment and he can go weeks giving them to me to crazy man the shiit i have to go through with him I just want it to be over so i can move on and do me.

Bellathebull how come you didnt read me and my husband chart can you give us a reading i read another topic and you gave somebody a real good reading can you give me one thank


January 7 1980 is mine and my husband is may 10, 1980

Sorry but venus in gemini does not make anyone a cheater. It's either ur mature or immature in a relationship.

First of all Ellesque you are reading into this way too much and even adding your own words to my story trying to twist my words.

first of all capgal is the one talking shiit about my husband lack of education and I was getting on her about
because I see nothing funny about that

The only reason why i brought up his lack of education dumb azz is because to be honest about there situation I could've been trying to use this board to gain sympathy but Im not I brought up his lack of education so you can see why he keeps her around and her role in his life even though it possible they could be more or that he clings on her because of his lack of education. I wasn't making fun when i said she read his text messages to him. If i thought this was funny or i was trying to dog his lack of education I woulndn't had married him in the first place I wouldve been ignorant like capgal and judge him for it. I accept him and all his flaws and even stood up to capgal when she try to talk shit about it. I may be mad at him and even want to divorce his azz but i do not find anything funny about his lack of education I know he is the way he is

2nd I never made comments about his living condition in jamaica or try to bash jamaica period WTF? why are you taking my words out of context? I accept my husband, his living situation, all that is why he love me, married me and his family
love me to, they said i do not act like im better than them.

you are the one overanlayzing what i am saying and being overcritical here!!

I do not feel like a dayum hero to bring him over here but you are not going to treat me like crap and put some ignorant chick that do not respect our marriage before me. remember they are suppose to be good friends and coworker why is she calling my husband phone calling him "hunnie" she stirred up a lot crap over that and he allowed it and still talk to her and be round her to this day after lying telling me he cut her off!!! in the bible husband is suppose to protect his family and he isn't doing that at all!! why would i bring him over here with me if he cannot protect and honor me where he is at?

Again you need to fukking stop you must be a bull yourself and getting defended and shiit! forreal you are taking my words way out of proportions and i do not like it. One thing I can say is I love my husband and I try to keep us together something he is lacking. I can't keep holding on to something that is not there!!

Okay that was being said out of anger but i never said that to him and at the end of the day i still accepted all his flaws!!!

I married him with all those flaws so obvisoulsy i accepted them!!!!

I never ever brought those mean things in his face ever it is wrong to do that

but i do think he is dumb and naive at things because how the hell you allow some girl that is married at that call his phone constantly around the wife when i do not like it and then she calls and make trouble with me calling my husband her hunnie—? that what we call each other "hunnie" im all the way in jamaica that shit costs lots of money it not cheap to go down there and I planned to spend two weeks with my hunnie and he never had this bytch under control at all ! then not only did he take up for her didn't do anything to her when she disrespect me his wIFE yeah right royalty my azz!! he tell me that he cut the bytch off but yet still calls me from her phone!!

if that is not dumb and niave to you then you got problems issues yourself!!!

my folks even called him dumb and they do not know he is illiterate either!!!

I just post it on a message board !

but i never said those ignorant things to my husband at all!! just shout at him when he clings and put his no good friends before me!!!

Oh well he also put his male best friend before me to! so that shiit you is talking is null and void oh and his family to but i do not have a problem with family because i see how close they are!

if you read any of my stories i did try to call her azz she will not talk to me or pick up the phone when i call her she send me str8 to her voicemail i left her messages asking can we talk woman to woman but nooooooo she wont talk tome!!! i let her know after being ignored a couple of times that I know she is ignoring me it obvious she got something to hide if she didnt she would give me the respect and talk to me. okayyyyyyyyyyyyy you got it now!!!!!

Posted by ellessque
It's obvious to me she is at a different level of maturity than you are.

You did say those things to him and you know it. It doesn't matter if they were out of anger. It's no excuse. Taurus takes things to heart and will hold them against you for a very long time. They do not play with words like some of us do.

You are confused. You need a plan. The plan needs to be what is best for you. She means nothing to you. Figure out what you want and make a plan.

You let too much petty shit clutter your brain. Put a leash on that virgo moon.

Yes.
I can't speak for all bulls,but I can for those of us with a Pisces moon....
you treat me with hate and or disrespect once....I will never forget it.I may forgive,but I will never forget.
do it twice...you're dead to me.

this other woman....she obviously does not do that,so yes...his loyalty is with her.

It's obvious to me she is at a different level of maturity than you are.

One thang about Jamaicans men they LOVE there Black QUEENS!!!!!!!

I wish them both the best of luck because they deserve each other even though he is dodging me and do not want to give me a divorce I really feel for her hanging around all these years to be a sperm deposit lmao!!! I really feel for her husband as well he got kids to the nasty chick!! unlike me I can move on and never look back it some finnnneee jamaican men up here and the greasted thing it doesn't cost anything to be with them.. Like i said they LOVEEEEEEEE there BLACK QUEENS! my first love was Jamaican he put a ring on it within a a couple of months 3 karat. My exboyfriend before my husband wanted to marry me but we ended breaking it off before it got to that point you know libra men are wish way anyway I wasn't into him at all like he was with me. Every Jamaican man I encounter want to WIFE me they all lived here in the state instead of my husband and i can see why he wife me and do not want to let me go he knows that regardless of my attitude that Im best thing that ever happen to him and his daughter. My husband know that if he give me a divorce that another jamaican man is going to come along snatch me up and wife me up. He see when I go to jamaica how all the jamaican men be all in my face while i am with him. I am a very beautiful black Queen and they love us!!

I see you shut up I spoke the truth about yall sperm deposit trifling white women that goes to jamaica to seek out poor jamaican men buy them things to fukk yall nasty disease infected azzes!! my husband told me about yall big sleeze ball!! I see your kind in margaritaville looking a hot azz mess, some try to get with my husband he turned them down he cannot stand white women he sees right through yall triflingness and that why the guy saw how desperate you were and bounce on your azz! im glad he did he was one of the smart ones, you do not wife no white nasty azz chich you take there money and fukk them with a condom and leave themn to there men who do not want them either.

lol@ you telling on yourself you are the tourist chick hahahahaha!!!!! I got wifed something your azz wanted!! yeah whatever trick your mad cuz u spent all your money going down there for a year every month to get nothing but d!ck down and left high and dry you got the nerve to try and write about it like yo are some dayum prize hahahaha !!
You got PLAYED U TRICK!!!!! JUST ADMIT YOU CUM BU CKET!!!

SO WHAT I MIGHT HAVE WENT DOWN THERE TO CELEBRATE MY BIRTHDAY BOTTOM LINE I GOT WIFED UP!!!!!!! STILL WIFEY AT THAT!!! YOUR LEFT YOUR POCKET BROKE!!

IM MARRIED AND I WOULD NEVER EVER PLAY MYSELF LIKE THAT AND GO DOWN THERE EVERY DAYUM MONTH AND I DO HAVE THE MEANS TO DO SO I WORK FOR MYSELF SO IT NOT A PROBLEM IT BUT I NOT THAT SERI9OUS FOR ME!!!

WHAT ME AND TERRY BOTH CAN SAY IS WE GOT WIFED UP!! SOMETHING YOUR DESPERATE AZZ WANTED SO BAD!!!! IT DOESN'T MATTER THEY STILL PUT A RING ON IT!!!

UNLIKE URS HE USED YOUR AZZ, THE WAY THINGS WENT I BELIEVE YOU WOULD BEEN A REAL VICTIM OF GREEN CARD FRAUD MOST JAMAICAN MEN WIFE BLACK QUEENS THEY LOVE US!! AND YOU KNOW IT TRUE WITH YOUR WEAK AZZ COMEBACK!!

I WENT FROM A TOURIST TO A WIFE TO HANGING OUT IN ST ANN BAY.. DON'T HATE WHITEY!!

Lol how is staying around pining over a guy hoping he leaves his wife each time mature? Seems like a sperm bin inflatable ear contraption transforming to a big huge shoulder when things go sour to me. The op was naive, a lot naive isnt a day in the skys of Kentucky that I'd marry someone a tourist knowing their track record, but I dont understand how this is turning into a bash session for her and a cheerleading session for the friend. Wanting a person like that autograph for playing her position is really funny to me Lol. She has a checklist that she follows and I guess she's getting points for doing exactly what every low self esteem having girl in the world does:

silent (check)
life long doormat (check)
tolerate other women (check)
fight the main women (check check and double check)
still there until the next one comes (check)


who rallies for people like that? I already think the loser that uses women like that is beyond repentance but you all have to be either be former friends like the op is describing to side with her or just really into bashing those who are silly at one point in their lives. We all at once have been dumb and naive or had faltering self esteem but she seems to enjoy her role and you seem to be giving her points ? Lol crazy

I am not seeing the reason for supporting his friend because my definition of friend is different. Friend somehow for me has a definition of self respect involved in its definition. And she doesn't seem to be a friend, she seems to be more like a security blanket.

And the Taurus male who is immature will get her she's just more dedicated. Who wants to be a dedicated sperm bin? I dont know the OP either. But I also find it different that when she posted the cappys came in to start butter with her is this some beef from the other board and were you just glad that she finally had a bad story so you want her to have it?

This is a funny thread

As far as the rising sign, I too have that rising and I find myself being dreamy and once things dont live up to my expectations as a libra and pisc rising I used to withdraw and retreat. It took years later and maturity for me to realize that the dream world I was living in didnt exist and problems will happen. That may be his problem. But I'd still dump him he seems like an opportunist

oh man you all pissed off cutiebullie you all make up Taurusguy said his piece so sweet, makes me want to go ride my bull Lol

This thread really has more twists and turns than a race track

Posted by ellessque

Posted by dayssunny
Lol how is staying around pining over a guy hoping he leaves his wife each time mature?

she is blowing it out of proportion. she is so absolutely consumed with this woman it is pathetic.

i have to say it is safe for me to make the conclusion that the female friend has a bit more self respect and self worth than our friend here.

call it a hunch, intuition or just plain common sense. doesn't matter.

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Lol you don't even know the female friend but you think that the female friend that hangs around for dear life hoping he'd pick her each time after he chooses another person to marry has self esteem? Putting you and OPs beef aside which is really odd too because you both dont know each other so it's not that serious Lol

And don't you think she has a right to be consumed by this, I think it just happened. I don't know I don't follow anyone's story that closely? But you call her venting and being upset pathetic? That's a little too invested for me.

Usually most women and men do have their anger displaced at the other woman and man that's a normal phase that people go through. Then they realize it's the person that they had a relationship with should be at fault. OP wasn't the brightest in this instance. But I can pick a time I haven't been the brightest in another instance and I know that the rest here can. I have a problem with people who are high and mighty giving judgment like their shit doesnt stink or laughing at people that didnt excel in having this particular life skill or insight. Like you I don't bite my tongue either when it comes to advice but this seemed like an attack from all sides.

Posted by ellessque
I mean, she is so insecure with herself she has to attack me just because of my race, the fact I won't coddle her and everyone else on this board who doesn't agree with her.

It's sad. It really is. She puts value on herself because she was "wifed" and got a ring. She probably bought the ring herself. Plus she's fully willing to go thru this all over again just to be "wifed", as if that is how she measures her self-worth.

Sometimes I just want to shake people.

...and here I thought she had some sort of common sense because she was a capricorn. wow.

I agree here the title of wife and friend in this thread is silly. I like meanings more than titles and a lot of people simply dont get that in this thread. Oh well Lol I've seen enough. Too much for my scales and blindfold

Racism has to stop white black we all need to get along. This is too ugly for me.

First of ellesque you attack me first!! and you got your nerve to attack me after you wrote that long ass novel how you was sweating some jamaican man for a year going down there every month and the dude never wife your azz!! it seem like you hating on me because I got something you wanted you not so dayum bright your damn self HOEE!!!


I am not even mad at the woman at all yall are the one consuming me with her. I am very pissed off at my dayum husband more than anything she only can do what he allows her to do to us!!! You are putting words in my mouth again, it yall that keep bringing her up!!!!

I am on here venting about my dayum husband even tho she got some shiit do with it to and our fight has a lot to do with her as well. so of course i am going to be hot with her to she disrespected me remember called my husband when i answred calling her his hunnie WTF! any wife would be livid!!!!! then they are still cool at that!! Of course i feel some dayum type of way!!!

Girl i would never ever go to jamaica again and let another man wife me in jamaica.. but i can't help i am a beautiful black woman and jamaican men are very attractive to me and they always trying to put a ring on it the two had there green cards already and one do not that the one i ended up marrying!1

you are just a hater you played yourself and got PLAYED!!!!!!! i went down there one time and my jamaican husband made his wife unlike you TRICK!!!!

Another thing whitey!!!!

I know how yall scorpios get down yall love to see others going through some shiit in relationships especially when yall lifes are fukked up!

i know you are projection your personal feelings in my story mad because I pulled me a jamaican and he wife me up and your sag didn't
so you need to stop hating

And you need to realize understand why i feel the way i feel towards this woman and my husband

Why i may feel insecure

first i learned about her after the wedding
why am i meeting your so call friend after the wedding?? why when we talk and i came down there again to visit you before we got married why i find out about this friend period after the wedding??

why are you taking pictures of this friend of yours?

and then you take more pictures of her when i come back down to visit

why are yall on the phone talking constantly what is so important to talk about all the time—

what haven't i meet her??

if i would have met her all this shiit wouldn't happen
so it my dayum husband fault as well you trying to put all the blame on me, you are just a hater that what i sum this all up to be!!

bye trick!!

Oh hahahaha that funny you said i brought my ring lmaooooooooooooooo!!! hahaha he BROUGHT my ring i feel extra special because he brought my RING!~!

his sister told me that most jamaican do not buy there wife rings especially white bytches like you that they do not like have to buy there own ring!!

A fat friend of mines even was told she had to buy her own ring

yes my husband brought and paid for mines haahahahah lmao!!!!

even my exfiance brought and paid for my ring a 3 karat one at that!!!

oh you all that but ur bytch azz was running back n forth to jamaica for some dude that saw you as a TRICk not even utter the word marriage dayum u must be some trifling he didn't even want to uze you lmaoooo!!!! you need to stop ur embarrassing yourself on here hahah lmao!!

That the different between you and I mine is my HUSBAND!!!! so i have every right to do what I feel! I took those vows and oath to god!

something you wish your sag man would've done he was your partner!!! aka Fukk buddy!!!

I am married!!!

Wont you from this point on fukk off okay if you content take your emontionally invested azz somewhere else!!! it funny how you still talk about this jamaican dude that never really wanted your flat white pancake azz!!! i read somewhere else you are still talking about him and bringing him! you ditzy azz wet dog!!

Aww bytch puhlease your feelings are truly hurt hahaha lmaooooooooooooo!!!! i can tell you keep going back n forth with me capgal got hte mssage wont your trashy cum bucket gurgling azz move on!!

You are truly vile.....