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Posted by Capricornsistah
so what I married him fast time have not limits most fast relationship are the ones that last longer anyway. Who the fukk said we have to wait on love and shiit.



Wrooooong...

I can tell by the way you type you're not very smart. That and the type of man you married. But saying fast relationships are the ones that last longest? Really? ...I mean really? Are you fucking high? Always, always go slower. The slowest relationships last the longest. Wow I'm starting to think all capricorn girls are seriously mental.
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SunTrine Sun 3.35 265
Sun Trine Mercury 0.24 228
Sun Trine Saturn 3.40 65
Sun Square Pluto 2.58 -73
Moon Trine Sun 2.53 204
Moon Trine Mercury 0.17 185
Moon Conjunction Saturn 2.59 125
Venus Square Sun 0.27 -296
Venus Square Mercury 2.44 -125
Venus Trine Pluto 0.09 67
Mars Trine Mercury 2.06 88
Saturn Opposition Moon 1.12 -91
Saturn Square Venus 2.03 -96
Uranus Trine Moon 3.51 50
Uranus Conjunction Uranus 0.40 93
Neptune Square Saturn 0.52 -86
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 0.57 80
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.34 31
Pluto Sextile Neptune 0.25 45
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 2.06 63
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Square Sun - Venus

Negative aspect: The two persons are drawn towards each other, but the union is unstable, because there will inevitably be division, probably through misunderstanding on the sexual level, which may frustrate the partner.

Trine Sun - Sun

Positive aspect: It's an excellent aspect for a union because neither has to explain to the other about his or her life goals and overall personality. The two people complement each other in basic ways. Although every relationship has its struggles and conflicts, this aspect helps strengthen your relationship because there is an overall understanding and you support one another at the end of the day.

Trine Sun - Mercury

Positive aspect: They are able to solve problems when they put their heads together. Respect for each other's intelligence. Good understanding between the two persons and intellectual interests in common, the same type of curiosity.

Trine Sun - Moon

Positive aspect: This is likely to be a significant relationship. There is a strong feeling of belonging to one another, for better or for worse, that keeps the two together. It's an excellent aspect for a union: they are made to go well together, to understand, appreciate, love and complement each other.
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Trine Moon - Mercury

Positive aspect: Ideal aspect for a couple, as they will have lots of interests and projects in common, and they will understand each other well. There is a mental rapport that sometimes borders on the telepathic.

Conjunction Moon - Saturn

Positive aspect: They will lead their lives together, with the Moon bringing fantasy to Saturn, who is sometimes too austere but whose other qualities (which the Moon does not possess) are appreciated. Two people whose difference in character is made to complement each other.

Square Mercury - Venus

Negative aspect: Their relationship will sometimes be agreeable, sometimes disturbed. They will like to share their ideas which are not always to the other's taste, so that they may have interminable discussions in order to convince each other of their mistakes, lack of judgement or lack of taste.

Square Venus - Saturn

Negative aspect: Unfavorable union, as it will be very difficult for a Venus to put up with a Saturn who is too austere, cold, hides their feelings and puts Venus ill-at-ease.
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Opposition Moon - Saturn

Negative aspect: Planetary aspect that does not augur well for a life together, it will bring disappointment.

Trine Mercury - Mars

Positive aspect: They stimulate each other to be more creative and expressive. They learn a great deal from each other. They understand each other, like to discuss things with each other and undertake joint initiatives. Great intellectual understanding.

Square Saturn - Neptune

Negative aspect: Unlucky union.

Square Sun - Pluto

Negative aspect: A great physical attraction will unite the couple, but this relationship is unlikely to be enitrely healthy. The Pluto person tries to change the Sun person, which is not at all appreciated, and this leads to sometimes violent conflict. If the relationship ends, much bitterness and anger might be the result.
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Trine Venus - Pluto

Positive aspect: Great passionate affair, very intense and transforming. They feel that the relationship forces them to grow.

Trine Sun - Saturn

Positive aspect: Here is a couple you can call stable. They will lead their life together quietly, with friendship slowly replacing love. Saturn will dominate the Sun - as is only natural - but the Sun might find this difficult to accept. In any case, as the Sun likes to feel secure, Saturn is a perfect partner.

Trine Moon - Uranus

Positive aspect: They will be very attracted to each other. They will have a life together that will be far from monotonous, sometimes quite out of the ordinary, thanks to Uranus. A life certainly full of surprises and not always agreeable for one of the two.
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Not sure why you wanted it, and it's easy enough to get yourself .... here it is anyway.



I think the problem here is that people think the bad situation you want out of is the wrong one .. they think you want out from him.


You just want to know how to get him to give up the others and want only you ... anything else, no matter how sensible it may sound .. you won't have it, you want only the nonesense.


Well, there you go .... there's your compatibility, now print it out and take it to him with a dictionary so that he will know.
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The only reason Elle is arguing with you is because you didn't listen to her, when she thought she was trying to help you and it made her feel stupid ... normally, she's composed and polite, and wouldn't stoop to this level. So you should ignore her rants.

When she calms down she'll come back to her senses.


As for the other ones, I don't care.


The thing is, Capricornsistah .. you are at a stage where you are wrapped in a shroud of pain that can only react .. that's it .. you can only react to what is going on in an attempt to ease your pain. You cannot yet connect the dots, but, you will.

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Posted by Capricornsistah
I wish them both the best of luck because they deserve each other even though he is dodging me and do not want to give me a divorce I really feel for her hanging around all these years to be a sperm deposit lmao!!! I really feel for her husband as well he got kids to the nasty chick!! unlike me I can move on and never look back it some finnnneee jamaican men up here and the greasted thing it doesn't cost anything to be with them.. Like i said they LOVEEEEEEEE there BLACK QUEENS! my first love was Jamaican he put a ring on it within a a couple of months 3 karat. My exboyfriend before my husband wanted to marry me but we ended breaking it off before it got to that point you know libra men are wish way anyway I wasn't into him at all like he was with me. Every Jamaican man I encounter want to WIFE me they all lived here in the state instead of my husband and i can see why he wife me and do not want to let me go he knows that regardless of my attitude that Im best thing that ever happen to him and his daughter. My husband know that if he give me a divorce that another jamaican man is going to come along snatch me up and wife me up. He see when I go to jamaica how all the jamaican men be all in my face while i am with him. I am a very beautiful black Queen and they love us!!

I see you shut up I spoke the truth about yall sperm deposit trifling white women that goes to jamaica to seek out poor jamaican men buy them things to fukk yall nasty disease infected azzes!! my husband told me about yall big sleeze ball!! I see your kind in margaritaville looking a hot azz mess, some try to get with my husband he turned them down he cannot stand white women he sees right through yall triflingness and that why the guy saw how desperate you were and bounce on your azz! im glad he did he was one of the smart ones, you do not wife no white nasty azz chich you take there money and fukk them with a condom and leave themn to there men who do not want them either.





i heard they like big, fat ass black queens.

are you rotund—
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you know what's funny, i read this thread when it was first posted and saw that all the tau chicks had pretty much offered their support of your aversion to his friend.

i didn't feel the same way but felt that they were right ultimately so i decided to take a backseat. i mean, if it walks like a duck...

but for me, if my male friend and i have a particular dynamic that has existed for YEARS, i wouldn't be too keen on someone coming in and trying to breakup that dynamic. where it's odd to outsiders, it's par for the course for us. there is no malicious intent so there is no need to construe it as such.

the real problem here is that you don't know your husband. if you did, yeah, you would've known about his best girl friend. if you did, YOU would be his BEST friend and therefore, there would be no secrets, no questionable time spent with others, no doubts about who this person is or what she represents.

this man is a stranger to you and you're jealous over the complexity and depth of their union.

so one of two things...he's cheating OR...

you married a stranger and you have to come to terms with the FACT that love and friendship are built over time. this isn't a competition. his bond with her is unique to them and it doesn't necessarily have to be sinister. what you should be focusing on is developing your own bond with him. instead of trying to figure out what they're doing, focus one what the two of you are doing/not doing.

why spend all of your time trying to uncover their conversations? you can learn what they're talking about by getting to know him better. what are his interests? what does he like to do? what are his dreams, hopes, aspirations? what are his quirks, his fears...?

my point is, you don't have to crawl into bed with them. he should willingly be crawling into bed with you. you need to recognize that you disrespect yourself and lower your role as "Queen" because you prefer playing "Fool."
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personally, i would much rather be the person that my husband wants to rush to and share his innermost thoughts. thus, you don't "win" by eliminating this woman from his life. clearly, they share "something" that he, nor she, wants to lose. i think when you get married, isn't it with the hope/desire to be more "something" but ALL THINGS to your spouse?

if you care for advice, my suggestion would be to tone it down. you're right, something may be going on but don't push them closer together (if they are cheating) and don't force them apart because he'll resent you if nothing is going on.

once you're calm, spend more time with him, get to know him, let him get to know you better. when he recognizes that he can share ALL things with you, he will come to you first. building that bond will take time and if you keep creating conflict, you're bound to get her sloppy seconds.

a Queen conducts herself as one. you on the other hand...
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Posted by cutiebullie


behind a good man is one good woman, and behind a good woman is one good man.




I'll amen to that..

Not pointing at anyone, Just a thought thats been ringing in my head as this thread progresses.. It really is shitty feeling to me how lightly people seem to take the institution of marriage now days.. Its a once in a lifetime choice, and IMHO should be treated as such.. Not 'Well we're having a good time, Fuck it, lets get married and see how it works out...' Sadness... Really... 😢
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I will echo that, 100% . You don't get married and think "Mmmm, if it doesn't work out I'll just file for divorce." You go into it with eyes wide open knowing the shit will flow thick at times and at other times there will be joy, and great joy. And you wake up in the morning, and look into their eyes and think "Yehhh, this is why. This is why I fight. This is why I stand strong, and this is WHY I put up with your shit, because I love you very much. We've a life together, and if you don't mind awfully, let's live it. Because I'd like to wrinkle up next to you..and pick out matching diapers. We can bitch over the prune box and compare BMs. But ohhh at the end of it all it is your hand I want to be holding, always."
THAT friends and neighbors is being married. When you see yourself reflected back not only as their friend, but their best friend. Their lover, their mate, their champion and companion. And it's shining in your own eyes, that flow from one to the other.
This Cows opinion. And it is very real, and despite humor, very apt.
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actually dipshit, it's HER fault for marrying a man she didn't know shit about. she has no clue who his BEST friend? she's never met this woman? the bitch didn't magically appear out of nowhere and the FACT that they have had a long standing relationship to which she is clueless is proof enough that they should've never gotten married in the first place.

had she known more about her partner, had she been focused on more than getting a ring, she would've known he was a cheating bastard.

but hey, you can't see that because you're as dense as your replies have been to this topic.
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Posted by cutiebullie
And you lived her life to know this lady too well, fool?

And the guy was smart that he knew the woman he married, fool?

If you knew I'm dense then why waste time to explain, fool?

I can't see you, right because you are sitting on your high horse - oh you're high wooden bull.

You talk too much - crap.





i read the post, dumbassBITCH.

i read her comments about him, weakassBITCH.

i read your comments, stupidassBITCH.

i saw through your ass a long time ago, bitterassBITCH.



she didn't know him because she couldn't know him. if she had known him, she would've known about this attachment. he hides NOTHING. he's flaunting it in her face and only a blindassBITCH would see otherwise.
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cookiemonster? you actually typed that?

really?

HA! you's a dumbfuck.

so your last man bent you over, fucked you hard and treated you like a clap trap, stank ass 2 dollar whore and therefore, all men are what?

the bitch didn't protect herself and she deserves every ounce of fallout that comes from involving oneself with a user and abuser. thus, i don't need to tear her down. if you had read, you'd see she's doing an excellent job of it herself. she has no shame, no awareness and you, being the stupid, worthless bitch that you are, reinforce her derision.

the sad part about you is that you project and injected yourself into this. you type "she" when it's clear you mean "me/i."

you sick, selfish, self-absorbed bitch. this shit aint about you or the man who left you high and dry. this shit aint about how sorry you feel and your need to extract yourself from the pool of shit you have firmly planted yourself in.

this is about her stupidity...your stupidity can be addressed in your own threads...of which you post none. why is that? oh yeah, cause you would rather make other people's shit about you and the man who had sense enough to recognize you for the self-pitying, worthless, ignant ass bitch that you are.

protect yourself from the evil's that men do by using your head instead of responding with bullshit's emotion.
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lol...i have no feelings fucker.

note, i remain on topic while simultaneously reading and writing the book of you. it's a twofer. i mean, hey, you want this to be about you right? let's make it about you why don't we?

oh and announcing your bodily functions? do you shit with the door open too? nastyassBITCH. i bet you don't even wash your hands you dirty fuck.

so uhm, how long has it been since someone could stand being with your ass? as you know, given the way you post, your next guy is going to cheat on you. not only is he going to cheat on you, he's going to fuck your best friend, in your bed, using your KY, all while eating a pint of your H?_agen-Dazs and blowing his nose in your pillow case.

bank on it!

you get what you want out of a relationship and clearly you want a cheating fucker. not only do you proudly proclaim that you do not need to know your partner, you go into it expecting the worst while holding on to some bullshit idea of fidelity with a stranger.

the truth is, you know you're worthless don't you. you feel utterly dejected, humiliated and alone. it exudes you. you are the antithesis of a strong woman as the image you project is false. you negate all men because no man would have ya!

hope you pissed yourself
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he must have abused you. did he? did he whoop your ass and now you're shamed because you kept coming back for more and more and more...as you do now?

did you inwardly will him to "JUST SHUT UP" as he told you what a horrible, worthless, insignificant little bitch you are? is that why you wish to silence me? are you hoping that i too will "JUST SHUT UP?"

yet you read any way. you refute nothing because hey, a bull knows when it's being called on its shit doesn't it?

you don't have an avatar. you do not create your own posts. you are the definition of the identity you have created here. you are NOTHING! you are NO ONE! you have no sense of self-worth and that's why your attempts to reinvent yourself will ultimately fail.

you're rebuilding you with hate and bitterness. your house is being fashioned from shit bricks and thus, your foundation is weak...and it smells too.
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blabbermouth? you're calling me a tattletale?

HA!

you stupid.

did i expose some secret? what am i blabbing to the world— did we have a blood oath to not reveal this shit? did i pinky swear? if i didn't pinky swear, you can't hold me to it!

so is it the fact that i'm pointing out your abject stupidity? that you lack a sense of responsibility for your own issues, failings and shortcomings? is that you are one sick, twisted, bitter bitch who thinks man is to blame for all the woes of women?

oh wait, it's not "men" that you hate...it's Taurean men. Have often do you even wander away from the Taurus forum? do you regard it as your duty to reinforce the "Taurean men are shit" dialogue that you have running on repeat?

oh, and we can do this all fucking night if you like. i am THE FIXED BITCH you stupid fuck and while my resolve isn't swayed, i can keep it new. you on the other hand, if your posts are anything like your sex, he left you cause your twat was dull, boring and dry...like your humor.
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you think this is FOR you? you think this is about you...

and I? ^the new line was purposeful as sorry ass fuckers don't deserve to share my space.

bitch, i don't give a shit bout ya. i'm bored and sick and the target you painted on your flat, hairy, drooping chest was just too darn irresistible. it's enough to know that those that read along are laughing at you.

so yes, this is MY stage! *bows*

how do you like the view of my ass?
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this thread is tripping me out....wifed up—? damn I have heard it all.

Elle sorry this got so racial. You stood your ground though. I applaud you for that.

My ex cap girl (she is really an idiot) is messing with a jamaican. Met him online and is talking about marriage. He already asked to borrow $ 2500.00 from her. Shes barely knew him 2 weeks.

I feel so sorry for her and anyone else who is this desperate for a man! 😢


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Clearly you're upset (thread author) - but clearly you can see that:

1) You shouldn't have married a man you didn't really know
2) You should get rid of him.

and 3) don't ever get yourself involved in such a dumb situation again.

Ya don't go marrying a bloke that lives elsewhere who you've know for five minutes - that's fucking ludicrous.

Hugs to you though, it's shit and I hope you get through it.

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Posted by ellessque
She's not an idiot.

He's smooth as hell.

Too bad she couldn't have asked for his chart first.

I dated a taurus sun with a gemini venus. *PLAYER* If I ever meet someone again who I think I MIGHT like and he comes up with those placements, you will see me do a mad cross country dash across the country. Straight up forrest gump style .

That pisces moon had you completely engulfed in his game. That moon is magical. with other placements, of course.

Now, if I've offended anyone. So sorry. That was my experience.

Stop the paperwork now. Has he been issued his visa yet?



I just read this Elle and the Taurus man I dated who I found out had many women around all areas that he would "visit" had these exact placements!
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Posted by venusianbull
Don't let it slow that flow.



Wait... What 'Flow'?... Like cash monies flow... Or like... some.... Other.... kinda flow—...
Wait, what are we talking about again.. damn... Eh, well fuck TaurGuy and his gemini venus anyway...


Oh, and Damn the man! Save the empire!!...


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Don't make a heifer get nasty again with your slander sir. I will bust that shit down faster than you can blink.
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Don't let it slow that flow.



Wait... What 'Flow'?... Like cash monies flow... Or like... some.... Other.... kinda flow—...
Wait, what are we talking about again.. damn... Eh, well fuck TaurGuy and his gemini venus anyway...


Oh, and Damn the man! Save the empire!!...




Don't make a heifer get nasty again with your slander sir. I will bust that shit down faster than you can blink.
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Pfff.. You Shhhh.. I'm tryin to look at hiking stoves damn it...
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Posted by TaurGuy


I would... If I could just find you damn it..

Ohh shit, there you are.. Damn, Prb would have saved a bunch of time if I hadn't forgot to look down.. 😛



Nawwww, you won't come after me because you cannot make me do anything. *kissing middle finger and swinging it outward*. Has nothing to do with my height. Brawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwk brawk brawk.
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I would... If I could just find you damn it..

Ohh shit, there you are.. Damn, Prb would have saved a bunch of time if I hadn't forgot to look down.. 😛



Nawwww, you won't come after me because you cannot make me do anything. *kissing middle finger and swinging it outward*. Has nothing to do with my height. Brawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwk brawk brawk.
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LoL Nah, I won't because your so little, and that soft smooth fair skin I'd fear you'd shatter into a million pieces like porcelain china doll if I look'd at you wrong... And if that happened.. I'd be really sad.... Kuz.. damn, that'd prb be a lot of work to clean up... 😛
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Posted by ellessque
lol

no offense. *blows kisses*

you can be an honorary member of the "i hate scorpios...and taurus with gem in venus". our membership is growing in rapid numbers daily. we'll be bigger than facebook. 😛



lol friends? I don't know, what kinda hazing am I looking at..?

Sweet, maybe I'll be the taurus sun/gemini venus secret agent... Hmmm or maybe double agent.. Bwahahaha... Shit, prb should have kept that part to myself....
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Do you think me so weak that I would do so? Guess again, I am so much stronger than I look. And I do beg your pardon, but this little porcelain doll packs a whallop. So as I crane my neck to flare hazels into deep browns, look hard. Go deep. And remember, you aren't dealing with a doll... *blowing kiss*
Built for endurance me. And damned proud of it.




Huh— Ohh, sorry, I'm having a hell of a time trying to pay attention to you.... 😛