my taurus ex

My ex and i broke up a few months ago but we work in the same work place and its hard for me to keep my feelings under control. Im deeply in love with her and ive messed up in the past multiple times not cheating or anything like that but other things that have pushed her away we talk everyday literally but not like we use too a phone call when she gets off and then a text when she wakes up thats about it. This Saturday i got drunk went to the job only too talk but caught her at a bad time and she unleashed her anger on me triggering my rage from the alcohol i wouldn't say i made a a scene (coming from my view point) but she was furious and didnt talk to me for about half the day. Then the next morning she called and almost back to normal. She says shes still pretty pissed and right now im below a friendship. I try to fall back and give her space but ima Pisces man and cant just give up on someone i spent so much time into. She tells me to move and all this other stuff but why still talk to me everyday. Any suggestions on how to play it cool ? P.s. there might be a very slight very slighy chance that she pregnant. But not really sure

I have definitely been there done that. The best thing for you is go to other places that he won't know about, distance yourself, keep to yourself, and create a dating profile ahah..

@terian01- Yup so you do stupid things that will distance a Taurus for sure. I can keep my anger, temper tantrums, under wrap and you won't even know. I have Aqua moon, Taurus in Mars and Mercury so I can be very composed. And I hate eye catching attention from my special interests(lover) especially at work. I don't like the light. I would be upset at you drinking too. and coming into work like that.

Yeah so she had enough but maybe cook her dinner and say sorry. Yeah just fyi if you move on make sure it is not another co worker.. lol..

Oh she mentioned that she is pregnant with your child that's a different story and you know that though. Step up, and stop doing these things. And if she is doing something you don't like, just calmly express it so you can compromise and adapt when necessary to do so/

I brought her McDonald's and a Mcflurry since shes been craving them and talked to her for a while before leaving work. So honestly ima go with the flow and see what that goes i guess smh

And thats the thing she hasn't admitted it i look at her stomach its out there but she says maybe she just bloated but for the past 3 days ive been bout to throw up and a slight headache and back pain/ neck pains

oh lord, yes be nice, and act right..

I am. Cause i do want to be with her baby or not so at this point im just chilling

@Op-Chillin like a villain. I see, so when's the last time you talked to her or seen her?

Give her some space now but keep trying, Taurus like be chased and feel truly wanted and needed.
We can really ignore someone to no end.. we're stubborn.
And we stick to our word.
This one time I ignored my guy so bad that he had no choice but to just surprisingly show up to my house.
And guess what, I truly appreciated the gesture and effort.

Yesterday at work we talked for a while after i clocked out merely me asking questions like if she still mad of course she said yes but then i asked questions like what if i had sex with someone else would that fuck up my chances with you she said go ahead blah blah blah but then she asked what i talking to someone else i told her no because if we do eventually try again its going to bring more drama and another female ive played the games i can have any woman i want but still want her smh.

@mysteriousTaurus ive done all the crazy things trust me i have but its only gotten me into trouble(sometimes) but when i woke up this morning she had liked a picture on my instagram that i put up about a day ago which means she had to search my name to like it

Taurus woman like more action and less talk. Pisces men tend to be very verbal about their feelings yet they often fail to live up to it with their actions. Taurus is realistic and Pisces is quite imaginative. If you're in dreamland thinking you can be her knight and shining amour every time you decide to hurt her then rethink your strategy. Sure, Taurus loves your charm but she is practical enough to see past it, strong enough to let you go, and stubborn enough to stick to her decision. Taurus may take you back but when she is fed up with you she will be gone for good and never look back. We give love where our love is appreciated. We take love very serious. If you love her tell her and show her and learn how to balance your love fairy tales with the real world. She is a down to earth woman. She needs a true romantic not one that just creates romance in his mind and fails to comply. Use your imagination to put yourself in her shoes. Get it together or you will lose Taurus forever.

And you sound like a Pisces "I can have any woman I want" Yes, you can Pisces. Women fall for your charm because that is what women think they desire in love. The sad part about it is your charm is your blessing and your curse all in one. You use the charm to get the women but you can't use it keep them. Charm is nice in the beginning but too much of it comes off as unrealistic and it loses it's potency overtime. Start listening to what you say and match your actions to it. And get your head out of the clouds. Just because you can have any woman you want doesn't mean you are Gods gift to women. Sounds like a "easy" man to me. Every woman isn't a good catch. You guys usually aren't all that you just "think" (imagine) you are. I will admit you guys are quite the character of love but stop depending solely on your charm. Let women see the real you beneath the sweet nothings and love scenes you have endlessly created in your mind.

Posted by terian01
Yesterday at work we talked for a while after i clocked out merely me asking questions like if she still mad of course she said yes but then i asked questions like what if i had sex with someone else would that fuck up my chances with you she said go ahead blah blah blah but then she asked what i talking to someone else i told her no because if we do eventually try again its going to bring more drama and another female ive played the games i can have any woman i want but still want her smh.

you're lucky she is patient with you. if someone (who was trying to patch things up) asked me what if i had sex with someone else, would that fuck up my chances, their arse would be on the other side of the door so fast their shadow would have to catch up.

Im trying i really am but its hard to be friends with someone i truly want to be with im trying to fall back give her her space i let her call and text me first now. Yea it sucks because i wanna talk to her but if that means i have to fall back to show i can change and want to be with her i guess its hard maybe i was on her mind because she was on my instagram page i wont see her today at work or for the next two days because shes off how should i take these next two days ?

So pretty much fall back to even think about having another chance with her ?

Too much work, so if you tell taurus to leave any way shape or form. Bye felicia..

You have to change you before going back. Remember it's actions, your words help a little but now it's the Bulls time because she probably was all up on you and you pushed her away..

The both I am pretty sure have some issues that need to work on yourselves about. Casually talk about concerns, in a way that's not too controlling.

So yesterday we text in the morning she thanked me for the food i said no problem asked how was work she said exhausting i told her to hit me up when she woke up 8 hours later she text me at work we text for about 30 mins then i finally didnt text back 2 hours later she sent me a "k have a nice night" text followed by an "nice talk" of course i read them but wanted to play it cool and simply responded this morning with an good morning text. Right thing to do ?

Posted by terian01
This Saturday i got drunk went to the job only too talk but caught her at a bad time and she unleashed her anger on me triggering my rage from the alcohol i wouldn't say i made a a scene (coming from my view point) but she was furious and didnt talk to me for about half the day.

You didn't catch her at a bad time.
You created the tension by showing up to her place of work intoxicated.
LMAO.
The fishes are charming with their imaginative, cavalier attitude towards situations.
You live in your head, this Bull lives in the real world, with bills to pay...and real life obligations.
And you're a threat to this reality.
I'm guessing, this was probably the multitude of issues you had with your Bull.
She may need you to grow up!

Posted by terian01
So yesterday we text in the morning she thanked me for the food i said no problem asked how was work she said exhausting i told her to hit me up when she woke up 8 hours later she text me at work we text for about 30 mins then i finally didnt text back 2 hours later she sent me a "k have a nice night" text followed by an "nice talk" of course i read them but wanted to play it cool and simply responded this morning with an good morning text. Right thing to do ?

Always respond to a Taurus lol. Let you be the last one to message her.

Am i reading this right:
You guys texted for 30minutes, then you didn't respond for 2 hours and she was the one that texted you last, then after the 2 hours she texts you and says "k have a good night" and then sends another text saying "nice chat" and you don't respond until the morning?

Dude now you're playing it too cool. You don't need to back off that much, the fact that she's still talking to you means you still have a good chance of making things work, you just need to change a few things about yourself. Also if she even messages you first, that's a good sign that she's still interested.

Ive chilled out and have fallen back yesterday i called her we talked for a while then i went to work she called me at work i guess just to talk (she asked was i at the mall, because 3 people text her telling her i was there. Luckily i wasnt) and she actually wanted to chill while her laundry dried but sadly i was at work i told her we could chill after she said she'll let me know and when the time came no dice didnt even trip yea it hurt but oh well i guess she text me at 6 this morning telling me she's going through somethings and wants to give up i tried my best to motivate her but after a while she stopped texting so ima just wait till she feels comfortable to text or call me back

@bg2 i couldnt i was at work when she wanted too and when i was available she didnt want too cant help that one. I asked her to come with me tomorrow to go shopping she doesn't wont to go to the mall so i guess i have to compromise

@bg2 and if you mean chill by stop fronting im just going with the follow at this point i use to blow her phone up she didnt like that now i wait on her like others have said the ball is in her court now

So at 1 o clock am it will be a full week since what occurred last week and our last argument she got drunk last night and hmu talking bout how life is hard and she wants to give up i tried to keep her encouraged to my best then today she was happy as crap she got a new phone because of her taxes and actually asked me out to dinner later this week. Shocked ? Of course. Then at work when i seen her she was all touchy flirty but then she left to go to her meeting without a bye or anything so i just played it cool and clocked out. She wants me to go with her tomorrow to find a outfit for Wednesday(she kinda called it a date) but i work so i wont be able to.