My Taurus ex is ignoring me

I am a virgo.
Toteab
Wow let's just say that the beginning or our relationship was rocky. I was still seeing someone else and hadn't told him about it. He fell for me fast, after about two weeks and he found out about the other guy and told me I should break it off. I did because I obviously wanted to be with him. But I felt guilty about the other guy so I strung him along. A few months later, after I broke up with the Taurus, he finds out I never truly broke up with him. I called him two weeks later to apologize and tell him the truth and he still wants to be with me and work things out. Then two months later out of the blue he says he cannot do it anymore and he needs time to heal before he can love again. I've been trying everything I can to get him to talk to me. I walked to his house for an hour, I've been calling and texting like crazy, but no response. I know that he truly loves and cares about me because he wanted to marry me and have his whole life revolved around me. And he's stood by me through the craziest of times. I just don't know how he could turn his back like that in an instant. How do I get him to respond to me because I reply want this more than anything and he is the one. He has never treated me to coldly. Part of me thinks that it is payback to teach me a lesson from all the bull ive put him through but I'm not sure. He isn't one to waste time either.

He hasn't told anyone we have broken up when the first time we did he told people immediately. I don't know if he's doing this to teach me a lesson to show me how bad it felt to be treated that way or if he needs to see how committed I am to this and that I truly want it.

He is a Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Aries Mercury, and Aries Venus

I am a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Libra Mercury, and Virgo Venus

Posted by busyeyes88
You are cheating, lying nasty piece of trash!!

Go and get yourself a mutable.

Another reason why taurus and virgo don't get on. You lot are deceitful and lie too much.

I don't blame him. I hope he keeps on running....

Lol thanks girl

If he was just teaching you a lesson he wouldn't be ignoring you. I'm with a taurus now and he treats me like crap but always comes back. I think he gets a kick out of hurting me. And i never did anything to him. I never cheated on him. But i think it's because i allowed him to get me pregnant. Not knowing i could. But i think he thinks i messed up his life by getting pregnant when he already has 3 kids by someone else. So now he wants to make me suffer for letting that happen. He told me it's my fault that I'm being treated like that. He said i knew how he was at the beginning. And since i got pregnant. It made him have to change his lifestyle that he was completely comfortable in. Being a player dating different girls and sleeping with them. So i think since i figure if ur a player why did u pursue me. Was it supposed to be only a friend with benefit thing cuz after i got pregnant. I started getting treated like a homeless person on the street. And now he so sselfish towards me. He only hates when i cry but he acts like i never cried. Like the crying only gets to him for a second then his heart gets back cold. I also didn't mention when we first was talking I did think I played the servant role too fast because it made him start to use me to get what he wanted. So i think the babying him had something to do with him changing too. So many times I think about just leaving him alone but I don't want to break our family up. But i don't want to him treating me that way and our child growing up watching him treat me like that. I don't want my son to be like him. But i love him. And i don't feel like he loves me. I feel he's here because of the child. I don't know why he's like that towards me. I'm confused but I know how to tell when he's completely done with u and ur situation he's done with u or he would continue to pursue u and he will blow up ur phone and probably if u don't answer he'll accuse u of cheating or not loving him no more. But saying that u basically cheated in his eyes. He will never treat u the same. Cuz he's holding a grudge against u. For what u did. Even if he did that to you. He feels he's never wrong. And that ur the only one wrong. Because of the fact you weren't all for him. You see how I'm being treated and I never cheated on him. I even deleted my fb for him to trust me and he still doesn't trust me. He looks through my phone almost every day even tho he never sees anything. But will not allow me to touch his phone And i know he's not cheating no more like he used to i guess because he has a baby on the way but he's very insecure. Even with church ppl greeting me in church. I'm not even interested in anyone. I don't even glance at another guy. I try to show him I'm all for him but for some reason It's not good enough for him. I think I made him bored. Even tho I'm a leo and full of surprises. Maybe me doing everything I can for him is too much. He complains about everything I do. I cook for him wash his clothes. Idk

Hey Toteab,

His placements caused him to be more impulsive and emotionally attached than the average Taurus.
I don't believe that your actions were intentional.
When emotions are occurring at a faster rate than we normally expect it to, it's pretty difficult to hit the STOP button.
Being a typical, cautious Virgo, I believe that you tried to weigh out all the options and to consider all the parties involved.
Unfortunately for you, the way the situation was handled was pretty shoddy.

With the Aries Venus, the other party has to place the "STOP" button.
No ultimatums, no concise answer, just time, patience, and understanding.
You didn't slow him down, you just gave him the illusion that you could give him what he wanted.

The best approach to being forgiven by a Taurus..
Would be a more pragmatic approach.
Write a long letter explaining how tactless the situation was handled.
...And then be prepared to let him go.

He's a Bull, he will be the only & final determining factor in changing his mind.

This is why I am single. This some crazy shit going on here lately.

@HJ92,

This Taurus is an asshat.

He's not worthy of you.

Find someone who is worthy of your time & efforts.

Haha.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
This is why I am single. This some crazy shit going on here lately.

Tell me about it!!

I've been single 12 years! Relationships scare the shit out of me!!!

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i think taurus are afraid of the feels.

Posted by busyeyes88
H92. Alarm bells! Why get pregnant for a man who already has 3 kids by someone else?!! There's such a thing as birth control!! That's just dumb!! And why sleep with a man who is sexing many other?

You've made your bed... Now you are going to lie in it!!! Taurus is going be the guy to show you how!!!

You wash his clothes? So?! You turned yourself into a slave and get pregnant for a worthless piece of scum which a sin sign has nothing to do with this and you are Blaming him?

You helped create the situation you are in?!! I feel sorry for the child who has to grow in the shit you have both created.

Don't worry. Once baby is born taurus will hang around but will also be searching for your replacement!! So stop playing "happy families" and be a strong woman and sort your shite out!

hahaha. Slavery is rampant. I don't understand why some women doing this.

omg... you are a cheater he wont forgive you girl ..dont expect it..

i have venus in aries n once i break up ..im long gone.. no turning back... he might forgive u but he wont tell u n wont be with u...

you calling n texting him so much will only drive gim further away...

n he was honest to tell you he needs time to heal to love again...

if i were him id have blocked ur number already...

Posted by TxOgal
omg... you are a cheater he wont forgive you girl ..dont expect it..

i have venus in aries n once i break up ..im long gone.. no turning back... he might forgive u but he wont tell u n wont be with u...

you calling n texting him so much will only drive gim further away...

n he was honest to tell you he needs time to heal to love again...

if i were him id have blocked ur number already...

by the way ..i read my message over n realized my tone is harsh... sorry about that.. i know u didnt want to hurt him but really if the taurus was in ur place he would have dropped anyone else for you.. but you didnt do that.. we all function differently...

that thread just reminded me of my first ex... so much hurt feelings rised up.. but i still smile when i think of him.. this is why im saying taurus may forgive you.. maybe after some time...

@jeane- Nah, it's the disappointment, and the let down..We work so hard to focus on the relationship itself that a tiny bit of doubt makes me snowball...that's when I start questioning about shit randomly to get a vibe from you..I might not be psychic but I pick up vibes, energy, moods, and sometimes facial expressions... All of this starts as getting to know someone better as friends .the emotions come and go...If it has potential interests I'll stay longer..Maybe...I rather take my Aquarius moon, Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto, and Capricorn in the 7th detachment from putting too much feels..

@Nevermore-Well troll or not. I am just fixated on other people in general, learn the way they think, act, feel, and speak. Get a feeling of how they are irl. Must be my moon, jupiter, neptune, always interested in the unknown or known mysteries of life, even my own self. Self reflection and know there's alot of fishy shit going on and it's entertainment while I am at work. Lol..

wow.... good read..... you Bulls are crazy and judgmental tho... but Straight up...

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Posted by busyeyes88
You are cheating, lying nasty piece of trash!!

Go and get yourself a mutable.

Another reason why taurus and virgo don't get on. You lot are deceitful and lie too much.

I don't blame him. I hope he keeps on running....

Why do u have to be a bitch on every thread you sound so fucking miserable

this is exactly what I'm talking about...

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