My Taurus is mad and silent, what do I do?

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ElizabethLeo13
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My Taurus guy (I'm a Leo)blew up at me over a joke that I made on facebook. He absolutely knows it was a joke but he used it as an excuse to be angry at me. Now he's giving me the silent treatment and he basically told me (In a really immature way) he wouldn't ever text/call me again. -so I made light of it in a "funny" comment back that basically said I wasn't affected by the nasty way he said it. Our relationship before was always so light and funny and fun and we argue and tease and play...then last week it went from hysterical fun to bull in a china shop over a joke I KNOW he didn't take offence to, he knows me better... The only things I can think of are maybe I texted him too much and I should have let him do more of the connecting, or else he is moving in a couple months and he's just trying to push me away because he doesn't want to deal with LD. He's been really hurt in the past but, so have I. And he doesn't really display all the typical Taurus characteristics either. His "romance" is building a bonfire having a few beers together and talking all night...not gifts. He was just beginning to warm to me and start getting touchy when I would come around...I've only been seeing him about a month. I'm not sure what to do because I really like this man and he's got amazing qualities other than this negative outburst. Normally this is the part I freak and do everything wrong but, he grounds me. So I am leaving him alone and haven't tried to contact him. But should I ever try to contact him again if he stays mad? I'm still on his FB so it doesn't seem that he is totally done, maybe just pissed...but I really don't think it was the joke. I think I probably annoyed him always talking and trying too hard to please him. Any Taurus guys with advice? Please help!
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ElizabethLeo13
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Thanks for your thoughts RainDancer! Def considering just reaching out but, I feel like I better wait a few more days and go with my gut on the timing. He works on a farm that is directly linked to my house so I see him sporadically. I'm thinking I may wait til I see him out there and ask If I can come talk to him for a sec- won't take more than 2 min and hopefully (he probably will) he says yes, and I will go ask him face to face, if he would make a (private 'off work hour' obviously) plan with me to sit down and get it right. I think that sounds reasonable right??
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ElizabethLeo13
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@ TomHFC he's big into hunting and he knows I don't care anything about him hunting and he knows my Dad is an avid hunter yadayada so he posted a pic of some ducks he just killed. (mind you we typically have a *very* sarcastic, playful, crude, and just funny humor with each other. And rarely serious) I posted in a comment "Murderer. I'm calling PETA." I mean maybe i should have added an lol or something, but i figured he'd just go back on their and tell me to shut my dam mouth or somethin like would normal for him. Instead- well, you see.
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@ TomHFC he's big into hunting and he knows I don't care anything about him hunting and he knows my Dad is an avid hunter yadayada so he posted a pic of some ducks he just killed. (mind you we typically have a *very* sarcastic, playful, crude, and just funny humor with each other. And rarely serious) I posted in a comment "Murderer. I'm calling PETA." I mean maybe i should have added an lol or something, but i figured he'd just go back on their and tell me to shut my dam mouth or somethin like would normal for him. Instead- well, you see.

he is too sensitive and needs to get over it.

just give him time. not when you see him time, not a few days time....just time. he is a taurus.
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I'm a leo girl and I'm with an taurus guy. It's extremes with him. Either really,really amazingly good....or world war III. I've left him countless times & he's exploded with me, but we always get together. I think the key is good communication, be honest. In addition, show him lots of affection...that will make him feel secure & loved. Also, give him space if he is upset....a little space so he can cool off. Then come back and communicate rationally what you want or need from him. That's what I do with my bull & he warms up to me!He becomes the definition of sugar! I wouldn't change him for anyone else though. Bulls are so loyal, protective, and reliable. I'm the crazy one in the pair lolol...Leo girls need to tone it down a little bit for their taurus and let him lead.
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This is why I don't have Fb. Amd sometimes write messages get perceived wrong. When it wasn't met to hurt anyone or get pissed..Lol drama.. Everyone has it..find out if your guy is cheating go to Fb. Find out alot of things bad and good.. oh never call off and say your sick. Your managers are in there too..

Childish stupid games...its all over fb now and you can't erase it.