@junemoonchild
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Taurus Men Who Are Serious
Good to know. Thanks for sharing.
Posted by junemoonchild
(I apologize if this has already been a posted topic)...
My opinion to all the girls, ladies, women, and females who are wondering if the Taurus man they've been seeing is serious or not. It's very simple. If he becomes interested in you very quickly, moves in on you fast, and at the same time wants you all to himself in a committed, monogamous relationship (which is actually not as important as the words QUICKLY AND FAST, then he really wants you! A Taurus man who has decided without wasting much time is serious with a capital S about you, and he simply won't risk any time to the possibility of losing you to another man. Now, if the Taurus man you are "dating" has been seeing you for months or even years, and the relationship is still going nowhere, IT NEVER WILL. Remember that Taurus is slow by nature, so you know if he is fast about you being his girlfriend, it will be known from the very beginning... otherwise find yourself another Bull!
-1001
Posted by PVandJellay
However let me add, I've also had them use the friendship angle. As in, they will be your friend to assess you, and will patiently wait until the timing is just right before pursuing. Either way, their presence will be continuous and there will be no anxiety involved.
This sounds like the man I'm currently seeing. He doesn't badger, expresses interest, but isn't blatant. He's my first bull, find myself insanely drawn to him, but need to assess him too.
He threw out hints that he liked me. Asked me if I was in a relationship the first day we met. Guess tryna hint that he liked me. Then he would text me about three times in a 2 week span saying hi and then asking if I was okay. I was like "what?" because when I asked if he was okay after saying I'm fine (I get it you like me.)...He was silent. So I asked him out to coffee. 😄 Three days later he asks me out. Couldnt be happier in this relationship.
Posted by RainDancer88
Posted by PVandJellay
However let me add, I've also had them use the friendship angle. As in, they will be your friend to assess you, and will patiently wait until the timing is just right before pursuing. Either way, their presence will be continuous and there will be no anxiety involved.
^So true. They are very casual about it. If you want constant attention you in for a surprise, lol. They will hide away before seeking you out.
Its best for the woman to tend to herself and let him do his thing on his own terms knowing he will. I've learned so much about bulls this past year lol.
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Thats what mine did. A little bit of attention at first. My Aries Earth and Mars wasn't having it though.
Finally +10000
Someone undersatnds hahaha Good post and topic 😉
This is my behaviour to a T. If I lock on, you'r mine ;P
Its just bad Astro. This is just the kind of crap women tell to each other to idk empower themselves, or make themselves feel better about life or some shit.
And the only reason OmagaIII agrees with it, is because he's got a retarded ass Aries Venus.
Idk, earth sign men are tricky to me. I personally wouldn't trust one that moved too fast or too slow.
My sisters ex Taurus moved fast to marry BUT it was him marrying his high school sweetheart, who he said was his first everything, and he always wanted to marry her. I feel that when they move fast they are running from something, or trying to recreate something...from their past. When my Taurus friend was really into me, and it didn't feel right, I eventually got him to reveal he still had a bit of feelings for his ex. He was attracted to me physically, but if that girl came back I'd be toast, so idk.
Depends on the level of commitment you're talking about for me.
Dating exclusively and taking you seriously as a love interest might take several months. Need that time to scope you out, administer the tests, etc....lol.
Something like marriage or moving in together is definitely going to be several years - 3, maybe 4 minimum.
Posted by junemoonchild
and he simply won't risk any time to the possibility of losing you to another man.
This is way off for me. That's the one risk I like taking. Its the lesser of two risks. By waiting, prolonging the courtship, you risk losing them early if they are flaky/indecisive, but you avoid the worse risk of being serious with someone who really isn't that interested and won't last anyway. I'm so distrusting in general, and I really desire someone that sees me as the only option, so I will definitely wait just to see how fickle, how flaky, how undecided a person is...If they are showing signs of hedging their bets, considering other options, etc., I'm out. Or at least I'm going to bluff that to force them to show me what they really value and make a decision.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by junemoonchild
and he simply won't risk any time to the possibility of losing you to another man.
This is way off for me. That's the one risk I like taking. Its the lesser of two risks. By waiting, prolonging the courtship, you risk losing them early if they are flaky/indecisive, but you avoid the worse risk of being serious with someone who really isn't that interested and won't last anyway. I'm so distrusting in general, and I really desire someone that sees me as the only option, so I will definitely wait just to see how fickle, how flaky, how undecided a person is...If they are showing signs of hedging their bets, considering other options, etc., I'm out. Or at least I'm going to bluff that to force them to show me what they really value and make a decision.
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yes. My ex bull told me that *he didn't trust*. I was smiling and shaking my head and left him. then following
days there he shouts out loud to his favorite site saying.
How much he fell in love with me and etc. etc. then I attacked him to his pad and point my finger to *stop
posting about me to his favorite site. lol. He was speechless though. I'm good in reading. and yes it was him.
Posted by PVandJellay
However let me add, I've also had them use the friendship angle. As in, they will be your friend to assess you, and will patiently wait until the timing is just right before pursuing. Either way, their presence will be continuous and there will be no anxiety involved.
so true, my Taurus boyfriend and I were friends for 3 years before we became boyfriend and girlfriend. He waited until I was ready.
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
How men pursue is their Mars not sun sign.
boom
Posted by Roam
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
How men pursue is their Mars not sun sign.
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I'm sure that there's influence from both. I'm Leo Mars but, like a lot of Taurus men I know, I am fairly passive and prefer to be pursued, have someone else initiate communication, etc. I will always answer the door, but if no one comes knocking, I'm comfy here at home and probably not getting off the couch.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by Roam
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
How men pursue is their Mars not sun sign.
boom
I'm sure that there's influence from both. I'm Leo Mars but, like a lot of Taurus men I know, I am fairly passive and prefer to be pursued, have someone else initiate communication, etc. I will always answer the door, but if no one comes knocking, I'm comfy here at home and probably not getting off the couch.
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you may prefer to be pursued...but when you pursue...its mars.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by Roam
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
How men pursue is their Mars not sun sign.
boom
I'm sure that there's influence from both. I'm Leo Mars but, like a lot of Taurus men I know, I am fairly passive and prefer to be pursued, have someone else initiate communication, etc. I will always answer the door, but if no one comes knocking, I'm comfy here at home and probably not getting off the couch.
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are you a female?
Posted by Roam
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by Roam
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
How men pursue is their Mars not sun sign.
boom
I'm sure that there's influence from both. I'm Leo Mars but, like a lot of Taurus men I know, I am fairly passive and prefer to be pursued, have someone else initiate communication, etc. I will always answer the door, but if no one comes knocking, I'm comfy here at home and probably not getting off the couch.
you may prefer to be pursued...but when you pursue...its mars.click to expand
I'm a dude...I never really pursue. Why would Mars take precedence over Venus in courtship? I can see Mars being ambition, aggression, drive, even passion and sexuality....But courtship style , on my reading, is primarily discussed when considering Venus.
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Venus is what you find attractive in the opposite sex Mars is how you go about getting what you find attractive. It's not that hard. Your s Leo Mars. Leo's are always on their throne thinking that the world should prove to them why they are worthy of their time. Hence why you don't pursue n prefer to be pursued...you have a kingly mentality when it comes to drive n passion n pursuit ; things should just fall into your lap. It's very simple actually
I think you're oversimplifying. Venus is much more than what you find attractive. It is also your power of attraction, charm, etc. Almost every discussion of Venus and relationships that I've read includes something on courtship, if it isn't primarily about that. That's also an overly simplistic view of Leo IMO. Leo is described as a flamboyantly romantic sign, courting with all sorts of dramatic, creative, and poetic gestures. For myself, my Venus in Gem comes into play much more in how I am in courtship. Leo Mars description doesn't fit me at all. Total opposite really:
"You are very ardent in matters of love and will pursue your love interest with great fervor and passion, letting nothing get in the way of your desires. You don't beat around the bush, but say exactly what you feel, often in an embarrassing direct way. On the negative side, there may be a love of taking risks or of gambling."
I think the beginning of meeting someone new to us. Is exciting. But then again it is hard work for Taurus to date. And talk about anything but emotions, in the long run. May set the pace whether it should continue or not. How test them. The more I talk and listen closely the more I fear it isnt all that good. Or maybe we can try and just see where it goes. Maybe I work and think too much. I take things seriously. But I have the patience and endurance and loyal to see where things are headed. But I will back away if I sense something fishy.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by Roam
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by Roam
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
How men pursue is their Mars not sun sign.
boom
I'm sure that there's influence from both. I'm Leo Mars but, like a lot of Taurus men I know, I am fairly passive and prefer to be pursued, have someone else initiate communication, etc. I will always answer the door, but if no one comes knocking, I'm comfy here at home and probably not getting off the couch.
you may prefer to be pursued...but when you pursue...its mars.
I'm a dude...I never really pursue. Why would Mars take precedence over Venus in courtship? I can see Mars being ambition, aggression, drive, even passion and sexuality....But courtship style , on my reading, is primarily discussed when considering Venus.
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Because mars is how you pursue anything. Romance or not. Venus is just your love style . They go hand in hand when courting.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Venus is what you find attractive in the opposite sex Mars is how you go about getting what you find attractive. It's not that hard. Your s Leo Mars. Leo's are always on their throne thinking that the world should prove to them why they are worthy of their time. Hence why you don't pursue n prefer to be pursued...you have a kingly mentality when it comes to drive n passion n pursuit ; things should just fall into your lap. It's very simple actually
I think you're oversimplifying. Venus is much more than what you find attractive. It is also your power of attraction, charm, etc. Almost every discussion of Venus and relationships that I've read includes something on courtship, if it isn't primarily about that. That's also an overly simplistic view of Leo IMO. Leo is described as a flamboyantly romantic sign, courting with all sorts of dramatic, creative, and poetic gestures. For myself, my Venus in Gem comes into play much more in how I am in courtship. Leo Mars description doesn't fit me at all. Total opposite really:
"You are very ardent in matters of love and will pursue your love interest with great fervor and passion, letting nothing get in the way of your desires. You don't beat around the bush, but say exactly what you feel, often in an embarrassing direct way. On the negative side, there may be a love of taking risks or of gambling."
http://astrolibrary.org/interpretations/mars/
Every description isnt going to be right on the money. If you ARE a Taurus then the kingly, thrown like aspect OF LEO....is more likely to come out. Hence the description saying you take risks. Taurus and Leo dont mesh. I can see why you would take the risk of not pursuing a woman.
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Venus is what you find attractive in the opposite sex Mars is how you go about getting what you find attractive. It's not that hard. Your s Leo Mars. Leo's are always on their throne thinking that the world should prove to them why they are worthy of their time. Hence why you don't pursue n prefer to be pursued...you have a kingly mentality when it comes to drive n passion n pursuit ; things should just fall into your lap. It's very simple actually
I think you're oversimplifying. Venus is much more than what you find attractive. It is also your power of attraction, charm, etc. Almost every discussion of Venus and relationships that I've read includes something on courtship, if it isn't primarily about that. That's also an overly simplistic view of Leo IMO. Leo is described as a flamboyantly romantic sign, courting with all sorts of dramatic, creative, and poetic gestures. For myself, my Venus in Gem comes into play much more in how I am in courtship. Leo Mars description doesn't fit me at all. Total opposite really:
"You are very ardent in matters of love and will pursue your love interest with great fervor and passion, letting nothing get in the way of your desires. You don't beat around the bush, but say exactly what you feel, often in an embarrassing direct way. On the negative side, there may be a love of taking risks or of gambling."
Every description isnt going to be right on the money. If you ARE a Taurus then the kingly, thrown like aspect OF LEO....is more likely to come out. Hence the description saying you take risks. Taurus and Leo dont mesh. I can see why you would take the risk of not pursuing a woman.click to expand
he might have all his leo placements in a passive house you know, the one that won't take risks and is cautious. it might work into that alot.
or retrograde. but his leo energy would still be there.
Posted by lisabethur8
he might have all his leo placements in a passive house you know, the one that won't take risks and is cautious. it might work into that alot.
Leo Moon, Mars, and Saturn, all in 7th House.
"The angular houses (1, 4, 7, 10) are associated with a self-activating quality and have an immediate impact on the structure of one's life. The keyword for the angular houses is ACTION."
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by lisabethur8
he might have all his leo placements in a passive house you know, the one that won't take risks and is cautious. it might work into that alot.
Leo Moon, Mars, and Saturn, all in 7th House.
"The angular houses (1, 4, 7, 10) are associated with a self-activating quality and have an immediate impact on the structure of one's life. The keyword for the angular houses is ACTION."
http://www.astrology.com.tr/houses.asp
sitting on the fence?? 😆
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(I apologize if this has already been a posted topic)...
My opinion to all the girls, ladies, women, and females who are wondering if the Taurus man they've been seeing is serious or not. It's very simple. If he becomes interested in you very quickly, moves in on you fast, and at the same time wants you all to himself in a committed, monogamous relationship (which is actually not as important as the words QUICKLY AND FAST, then he really wants you! A Taurus man who has decided without wasting much time is serious with a capital S about you, and he simply won't risk any time to the possibility of losing you to another man. Now, if the Taurus man you are "dating" has been seeing you for months or even years, and the relationship is still going nowhere, IT NEVER WILL. Remember that Taurus is slow by nature, so you know if he is fast about you being his girlfriend, it will be known from the very beginning... otherwise find yourself another Bull!