@nycchick
14 Years
Dating my firest bull. ..advice appreciated
How to Successfully Date a Taurus Man
To date a Taurus man successfully, be patient, honest, and show stability. He values sincerity, loyalty, and shared interests. Demonstrate your commitment gradually and communicate openly about your intentions. Building trust and respecting his need for steady, meaningful connection are key to developing a lasting relationship.
I would proceed with caution just like any other date regardless of astrology.
You've known the guy for four 'real' hours. Not long enough to establish anything other than whether you both feel there was enough established between you during those first four hours to meet up again for another few hours.
I sometimes look at the first few dates with someone new as working a shift at work. After the first few dates you will probably spend about 12 hours with them. That's like eorking a long shift with the 'new' guy at work. It's not usually enough to determine anything major other than if you do or do not like them. It's not enough to start setting up home with them, sharing deep feelings, and sometimes it isn't enough to start a sexual relationship (depending on what you're looking for).
They are just words. Mirrored words. They may or may not be genuinely meant. Only time will tell. Allow yourself the time to get to know him.
Gray analogy! I never thought of it that way.
Yeah I think when you keep it simple it is easier to see what it is that is in front of you.
I'm sure he doesn't share ALL the same values and interests as you. He may have said that or given that impression but you don't know him well enough and he hasn't demonstrated this yet with actions as it's far too soon.
He should be nice and charming. It's his job to be nice and charming! It's his job to put his best foot forward and 'woo' you! His five year plan comment was a smooth move, cute and funny, I wouldn't read into a lot of stuff initially.
Just relax, be yourself, and enjoy the date.
Um, my Taurus used to text me everyday then he stopped out of no where. This is common from what I've read from them. So if he does it just know its probably just him being him.
I would read his whole chart if you know how to. They're more than just their sun sign. They have a moon sign, a venus sign..etc that you gotta look at if you want to better understand HIM specifically.
I can teach you how to read it if you need help.
Posted by AgentP911
Yeah I think when you keep it simple it is easier to see what it is that is in front of you.I'm sure he doesn't share ALL the same values and interests as you. He may have said that or given that impression but you don't know him well enough and he hasn't demonstrated this yet with actions as it's far too soon.
He should be nice and charming. It's his job to be nice and charming! It's his job to put his best foot forward and 'woo' you! His five year plan comment was a smooth move, cute and funny, I wouldn't read into a lot of stuff initially.
Just relax, be yourself, and enjoy the date.
Great advice, in general. I'm cautious, because I'm a divorced mother, don't want to become vulnerable.
Time to relax and watch!
Posted by Roam
Um, my Taurus used to tweedext me everyday then he stopped out of no where. This is common from what I've read from them. So if he does it just know its probably just him being him.I would read his whole chart if you know how to. They're more than just their sun sign. They have a moon sign, a venus sign..etc that you gotta look at if you want to better understand HIM specifically.
I can teach you how to read it if you need help.
I like your help on creating his chart. I don't know how to do that and even if I did, wouldn't understand what it means.
Posted by Roam
Um, my Taurus used to tweedext me everyday then he stopped out of no where. This is common from what I've read from them. So if he does it just know its probably just him being him.I would read his whole chart if you know how to. They're more than just their sun sign. They have a moon sign, a venus sign..etc that you gotta look at if you want to better understand HIM specifically.
I can teach you how to read it if you need help.
I like your help on creating his chart. I don't know how to do that and even if I did, wouldn't understand what it means.
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do you know his birthday?
Posted by Roam
Um, my Taurus used to tweedext me everyday then he stopped out of no where. This is common from what I've read from them. So if he does it just know its probably just him being him.I would read his whole chart if you know how to. They're more than just their sun sign. They have a moon sign, a venus sign..etc that you gotta look at if you want to better understand HIM specifically.
I can teach you how to read it if you need help.
I like your help on creating his chart. I don't know how to do that and even if I did, wouldn't understand what it means.
do you know his birthday?
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May 8, 1960
Posted by Roam
Um, my Taurus used to tweedext me everyday then he stopped out of no where. This is common from what I've read from them. So if he does it just know its probably just him being him.I would read his whole chart if you know how to. They're more than just their sun sign. They have a moon sign, a venus sign..etc that you gotta look at if you want to better understand HIM specifically.
I can teach you how to read it if you need help.
I like your help on creating his chart. I don't know how to do that and even if I did, wouldn't understand what it means.
do you know his birthday?
May 8, 1960
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http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cqdtfileplCmYB-u1295751220/astro_2gw_111_guy.12723.3641.pdf
Thats his chart
The rising sign is incorrect thought because its only determined by the exact time he was born
So I would go on google and study what each planet means in astrology. cafeastrology.com is good for that
for example sun is his ego
moon is how he deal with emotions and how he feels emotions and his emotional needs
venus is what he is attracted to romantically.
then study what the planets in the signs their in for his chart mean.
for example his moon is in libra....he's not as emotional as a taurus with moon in cancer
his juno is in sag which is good because juno deals with the type of wife he wants
whats your birthday? i can make a compatibility chart
oh and the signs are in symbols so just google astrology sign symbols and you can see what each sign is based on the symbol
hey roam, thanks for that. that's helpful for those of us still finding our feet in this. 🙂
Posted by jeane
hey roam, thanks for that. that's helpful for those of us still finding our feet in this. 🙂
🙂
Posted by Roam
Um, my Taurus used to tweedext me everyday then he stopped out of no where. This is common from what I've read from them. So if he does it just know its probably just him being him.I would read his whole chart if you know how to. They're more than just their sun sign. They have a moon sign, a venus sign..etc that you gotta look at if you want to better understand HIM specifically.
I can teach you how to read it if you need help.
I like your help on creating his chart. I don't know how to do that and even if I did, wouldn't understand what it means.
do you know his birthday?
May 8, 1960
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cqdtfileplCmYB-u1295751220/astro_2gw_111_guy.12723.3641.pdf
Thats his chartThe rising sign is incorrect thought because its only determined by the exact time he was born
So I would go on google and study what each planet means in astrology. cafeastrology.com is good for that
for example sun is his ego
moon is how he deal with emotions and how he feels emotions and his emotional needs
venus is what he is attracted to romantically.then study what the planets in the signs their in for his chart mean.
for example his moon is in libra....he's not as emotional as a taurus with moon in cancer
his juno is in sag which is good because juno deals with the type of wife he wants
whats your birthday? i can make a compatibility chart
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I sent you a message 🙂
Posted by nycchick
I recently met a taurus man; I'm sag. He was every bit of charming on our first date for coffee. In fact, a cup of coffee lasted for for 4 hours.He walked me to my car and impulsively asked for a hug, then soon after texted that he hoped he wasn't too forward, or offended me.
When I assured him that I was not offended, he went on to admit that he doesn't easily open up, but he felt "comfortable" with me and that he felt, "spiritually, emotionally and physically attracted" to me.
I didn't take this lightly. My mother is a bull, as well as 2 close friends and my young son.
He has texted me daily, always making a point to say something sweet, like "hello beautiful lady..."
We share the same interests and he made a point to tell me that he was looking for his life-mate.
We don't talk all day long, but we exchange a few texts daily and ate planning to meet tomorrow.
I'm divorced, as is he. We're both mature, not looking for hookups.
So, I'd like to get advice on how one dates a taurus male. He is the only one I've dated that shares all of my interests and family values. He also uses my words back at me. For instance, I mentioned that I always have a 5 year plan. In a text he said that his new 5 year plan was to keep a smile on my face (no sexual connotation).
I don't want to mess this up. ..
It sounds like the bull I knew. I will PM you to confirm.
yay for you! My boyfriend is a Taurus, we just became boyfriend and girlfriend after 3 years of friendship. I find Tauruses very sweet and knowledgeable. He always wants to take me out, always wants to be around me and always makes time for me. He isn't like other guys I've dated before, but our astrological birth charts make us more compatible. I have a Scorpio Venus and he has an Aries Venus, his venus matches my sun and vice versa.
He always makes me laugh and we understand each other in so many ways. However we are different when we communicate. He is more straightforward and more insensitive than I am. And he can be very one minded but in a good way. I like that he doesn't back down even when everyone says he's wrong lol
I think you'll enjoy this Taurus! Earth and fire = lava ... make it happen BOOM lol
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I recently met a taurus man; I'm sag. He was every bit of charming on our first date for coffee. In fact, a cup of coffee lasted for for 4 hours.
He walked me to my car and impulsively asked for a hug, then soon after texted that he hoped he wasn't too forward, or offended me.
When I assured him that I was not offended, he went on to admit that he doesn't easily open up, but he felt "comfortable" with me and that he felt, "spiritually, emotionally and physically attracted" to me.
I didn't take this lightly. My mother is a bull, as well as 2 close friends and my young son.
He has texted me daily, always making a point to say something sweet, like "hello beautiful lady..."
We share the same interests and he made a point to tell me that he was looking for his life-mate.
We don't talk all day long, but we exchange a few texts daily and ate planning to meet tomorrow.
I'm divorced, as is he. We're both mature, not looking for hookups.
So, I'd like to get advice on how one dates a taurus male. He is the only one I've dated that shares all of my interests and family values. He also uses my words back at me. For instance, I mentioned that I always have a 5 year plan. In a text he said that his new 5 year plan was to keep a smile on my face (no sexual connotation).
I don't want to mess this up. ..