My TAURUS man broke up with me, I want him back.

[I'D REALLY APPRECIATE IF TAURUS MEN ANSWERED THIS. ANSWERS ARE EXPECTED FROM OTHERS TOO.]

Hi, my Taurus man dated me for 6 months and we were all in deep love and all about commitments. I'm a Sagittarius and I can't stand flings. For both of us, it had to be a very serious thing and telling someone that you loved them meant something to be for eternity. We were so in for the future together, marriage, kids, sex, a lifetime of love with each other. We saw each other as perfect fits and the 'one'. It was our first relationship. I know a Taurus doesn't make commitments to just back away from them, and neither do I (unlike most Sagittarians). We were great together but, there were fights too. I went into a stress-induced depression phase. It was too much of negativity for him to take. He got very busy with work and was pulled apart between work and the relationship. I pushed him too hard and he couldn't take it. He 'zoned out' on the relationship and told me that his feelings for me had died. He wasn't getting that positive energy from me anymore. In my defense, that's 100% true and possible because I was in a negative state myself! I'm a happy person now, and it's not like what it was back then. He always told me that he fell for 'me'. When I wasn't 'me' enough but acting just the opposite, he hated it probably and fell out of love. But he could never see us apart and with anyone else. Like we had declared that we were always destined to be together. He'd gone considering a lot of women before me but never dated any because he said it never felt 'right'. He felt it all different with me and we were so happy together. It was painful, true, but it was worth being together and knowing that it'll last till the end of time. He was a changed person with me, I saw his softer side because he showed me that. Things went wrong in the end, they did. He says when such things end for him, they're for final. We're about 2.5 weeks into NC now and I don't know what he's up to or how he's doing. Hell, I want him back! Are there any chances?

There are only tauromale and tls good luck finding the answers.

@OP- So anyways, why do you want him back? If you do just be casual and just go with it. Ask him hey I feel we are compatible enough to try out this friendship and take it from there. Then ask him out on a meet and greet and see what compromise, changes you guys have to work out.

@OP- What kind of fights, was it more on not spending time with you while working hard at his job? What's his MC, moon, and rising? Shit just posts both your charts.

We aren't exactly 'very' compatible. We're moderately compatible but always had great chemistry! We were in a long distance one. This June, I'm joining the same college as him. I don't think there's a chance to meet him before that. I miss him so bad! I wonder if he even misses me or remembers stuff. I went through a dark phase, but I'm good now. Just like the person he fell for, actually, even better. I don't know how to make him see this. He always thought he played the 'adult' in the relationship because everytime we fought, he was the first one to drop his weapons. There were a lot of times I annoyed him but, he never pointed those out to me. He tried to swallow in too much and couldn't take it in the end. I'd always asked him to be as honest as possible with me. He never told me the bad parts because he thought it was too much for me to handle. I made it clear to him that I only ever wanted the truth, no matter how brutal it was. Even now he thinks it was fine to have not told me about the bad side of it. If I'm given a picture of all things bright and sunny, that's what I'll think it all to be. If I'm never even given a hint of the dark side, I'll never know it exists and I'll never feel the need to correct that bit. I've worked on myself and things with me are different. I know and understand things I never did before. Also, we'll be at the same place for about 3 years now after a few months. It will be perfect (like imagined) to get back together....but it all depends on what he feels i.e. if he loves me or not. Do Taureans actually mean it when they say their feelings have died? I mean, are they always so sure about it, and sure that it can't ever happen again?

I don't have his chart. I don't know at what time he was born and stuff. I only know that about myself.

We guys never had sex. I was always busy and he thought sex would distract me from work (and he was never really wrong about that), so he was although desperate for it, he waited. We had some great physical intimacy, though. And physical intimacy means a lot. We were connected on many levels and it all means a lot to both of us, considering how we are all about commitments and living up to them. I was sure this was to last forever and nothing could have ever made us vulnerable. I felt it could never end. We never wanted it to end. I can't see him with another woman. We had decided that it was destiny that brought us together. After the breakup, he told me that we both completed each other, but not entirely. His friends had been the ones to point out that we'll be great together. Just to prove them wrong he gave it a shot with me on the date when we discussed the pros and cons of being together. The only con was that it would be a distance one. We hit it off too soon and his friends happily proved him wrong. We fell too soon in love and it was of course, like never before. How can he say his feelings died and will never come back? What does he mean?

Okay,one thing,it's very hard for us to end things.We stick with the worst relationships just with the hope of making it work somehow.But I guess you pulled the strings too hard.I'll avoid till the end of the world to say things are over.But when I do,there is very little chance of reconciling.Yes I'll miss you,yes I'll regret things had to end the way they did but no,I'll not come back.IF I do,just IF,then it will be a long time after.After I've been debating in my head for a long long time of why I don't want to be with you.And even IF I come back,things will not be the same,unless I really really really really like you.
PS: Please avoid arguments and drama.We taureans HATE it! I avoid it like plague!!!I know fire signs are prone to it,which is what I don't likke about them.But I somehow love Saggis.

Well, @Ilovemyaqua to assure you, there was no drama really. We both like Dramatics (he worships it!), but we don't like the drama. I guess sometimes even reality becomes too dramatic for us. Just too much to take. But consider that I was going through a bad time! He was too busy! Also, he's in college. People say exciting things happen in college. Probably just one of the reasons to 'zone out' on me. I still feel things could have worked out had we given it more time and waited for it to happen when we were together in person. Long distance never works. So, do you say I contact him after a month or so of breaking up, or do I wait longer?

Posted by Bhavya3
Well, @Ilovemyaqua to assure you, there was no drama really. We both like Dramatics (he worships it!), but we don't like the drama. I guess sometimes even reality becomes too dramatic for us. Just too much to take. But consider that I was going through a bad time! He was too busy! Also, he's in college. People say exciting things happen in college. Probably just one of the reasons to 'zone out' on me. I still feel things could have worked out had we given it more time and waited for it to happen when we were together in person. Long distance never works. So, do you say I contact him after a month or so of breaking up, or do I wait longer?

How did things end? Did you ppl have a fight? Who called it off? How did the other react? What are your dob s actually? And no,ppl don't leave just because they've gotten in cllg and exciting things happen there.You're naive 🙂 that's sweet

Posted by busyeyes88
A taurus will do whatever it takes for a loved one and will hang on for dear life to a relationship with problems and trying to solve these problems until there is no hope left. We stay much longer than we should because we want to make ABSOLUTELY sure that we are making the right decision to terminate a relationship because when we finally leave - we leave for good. There no going back once a FINAL decision has been made.

We appreciate relationships have ups and downs and we stick around but there is only so much we can take... Our patience is soooo long that for us to end a relationship only means that the other party has pushed us over our limited and we are left with NO choice but to end the relationship. I am afraid this is what you have done.

Your taurus has had enough. If he decided to come back, you will not get the "original version"..

Also your relationship was LDR. A taurus man with not want any more of that kind of drama. A bit of heat is good (even I have a "fiesty" personality!) but we don't like depressive people or long term drama.

+1

Every time you describe how you view the relationship, it sounds like you are reading from a romance novel. Your female imaginings are excessive.

Every time you say how you feel, you automatically lump his feels into it, to say he feels that same way ... and he doesn't feel the same way. In fact, according to him, the feels have died. But, you continue to assume that he is really into you still.

And to top it off ... you're going to his college, likely just to be near him. You are excited about being near him at college, and quite frankly, that is a very clingy and smothering thing for you to do to him.

You need to find a different college to attend, if the only reason you are going there is to try and manipulate him into seeing things your way.

You need to grow some integrity and step away.

What's your sun, Venus, and moon sign op and what's your Taurus man's Venus and moon sign