Oh Bulls, my Bulls

Check it. I was at work and a man I've known for over 20 years came in for coffee. We were talking and catching up and he out of the blue said "Do you know what? I always thought we'd make a damned good couple. But I was an ASS back then." and then...*blinking in surprise* asked me out on a date. Oh holy hells, a real date. I haven't been on one in 15 years.
He's a Taurus...and I am in amazement. He gave me a hug on the way out and said we'd iron out when and where.
A DATE Y'ALL! He wasn't askeered, just point blank asked, and I point blank accepted. Craning my neck ( he's 6'4" ) brown eyes to hazels. I'm excited. *groan* What am I gonna wear?

Yes he is PP. 6'4", silver hair, ( he's in his late 40s ) deep set brown eyes, broad shoulders, narrow waist, enormous hands, long limbs, strong looking, fierce. 😄 Thank you! Whoooooooooooooot! 🙂 I was thinking my black long skirt, zip up black boots, opaque tights, sweater with a wide belt at the waist, my good earrings. Diamond drops. Smell fantastic. Oh guh, LOL. Pre-date jitters and I'm not even there yet. 😛

Thanks cutie! 🙂 I know, right? 15 years. That's counting backwards from initial date with ex-hubs, no dates after divorce. Makes my widdle brain say 'durrrhey', it's been THAT long?!

Thanks Cammer. — And in typical Bull fashion I shall say "Tis a date." and "We'll see." But it's a start, no? 🙂

Me too cutie, me too. 🙂 I'll check out that show too. LOL I know, just point blank said that. And when I went to shrug it off he put up a hand and said "NO, I WAS." and shook his head. So I just smiled.

And thank you! 🙂

hahahaha Awww I can tell by your response time and the energy in your msg's that your bouncing around the room right now, maybe all day.... lol go VB, and lucky guy!!

YAAAAY!!!✨jumping around in circles*

and yes,wear that outfit,sounds lovely 😉

Thanks TaurGuy! ( yes I AM, how did you know? ) 😄

Thanks B-B-B-Bella Babyyyyyyyyyyy! — I'll wear just that.

Posted by venusianbull
Yes he is PP. 6'4", silver hair, ( he's in his late 40s ) deep set brown eyes, broad shoulders, narrow waist, enormous hands, long limbs, strong looking, fierce. 😄 Thank you! Whoooooooooooooot! 🙂 I was thinking my black long skirt, zip up black boots, opaque tights, sweater with a wide belt at the waist, my good earrings. Diamond drops. Smell fantastic. Oh guh, LOL. Pre-date jitters and I'm not even there yet. 😛

I am so happy for you VB. He sounds sexy...Mm, and make that a tight sweater...lol

:O Yea!

Thank you Deb! — *doing Snoopy dance with you*


Thank you LadySag..hehehee tight sweater, eh? 😉


*blowing kiss* Thank you Jase. 🙂

Play by play LIB, definitely. 😉 6'4", almost a foot taller than me, I feel like an Oompa Loompa. LOL 🙂

I do know Pesca. 🙂 Thank you so much lovely lady. Low and slow.

Mmm I have a tight cotton turtleneck sweater, black. Green earrings I do not have, but I could get some. 🙂

Oh beautiful, I adore jade. *waving* Have a good day Pesca. 🙂
Love and Light to you. xoxo

LOL Thank you Dy. 🙂 Winter necessitates clothing I'm afraid, but that won't stop a woman from looking polished and dare I say... sexy?

OMG!!!! Sooooo excited for you!!!! Yay, yay, yay!! I think you will look absolutely dynamite in the first outfit you mentioned or with what Pesca suggested! You deserve a truly wonderful man b/c you are truly a wonderful woman and have a gem of a personality!
Remember that he is the lucky one to be going out with you! Keep that in mind to keep the jitters down a bit b/c it's so true honey!
😄 I am beaming with you!

Posted by DyTryin

What am I gonna wear?

I would suggest: As little as possible.

Bull + Bullette - wow!

I know such a pair in RL, and they are a fantastic couple -- great to be around anytime, anywhere...

Good Luck!!

lol

Thank you Luscious! — I'll keep saying that as a mantra, "Lucky man, lucky man, lucky man". 😄 I am nervous, it was out of left field and it's been quite some time. I probably looked a bit pole axed.

Posted by venusianbull
Yes he is PP. 6'4", silver hair, ( he's in his late 40s ) deep set brown eyes, broad shoulders, narrow waist, enormous hands, long limbs, strong looking, fierce. 😄 Thank you! Whoooooooooooooot! 🙂 I was thinking my black long skirt, zip up black boots, opaque tights, sweater with a wide belt at the waist, my good earrings. Diamond drops. Smell fantastic. Oh guh, LOL. Pre-date jitters and I'm not even there yet. 😛

(((hand claps really big))) YEAH! You go girlfriend and do the damn thang 😉 It will be fun, simply because you will be there 🙂

Posted by DyTryin

What am I gonna wear?

I would suggest: As little as possible.

Bull + Bullette - wow!

I know such a pair in RL, and they are a fantastic couple -- great to be around anytime, anywhere...

Good Luck!!

"As little as possible" touch?...although, that may or may not come later...LOL!

Posted by venusianbull
Thank you Luscious! — I'll keep saying that as a mantra, "Lucky man, lucky man, lucky man". 😄 I am nervous, it was out of left field and it's been quite some time. I probably looked a bit pole axed.

You'll be fine dear! I always think to myself...he's only a man, it's not going to kill me, I am a great woman with so much to offer and he's the stupid one if he doesn't see it...etc, etc. I still get nervous too even though I have been dating for almost a year.
😉

Thank you USC Of Fabulosity. 🙂 — LOL As to DAT, well. We'll see. 😉

You're right StPat, I say the same thing to myself too. "I am a terrific woman with much to offer, and if the testosteroned one doesn't see that, he's a moron." 😉

Thanks elle! —

I DO recall that Dy. I am glad for both of them, so very glad.

And you are right, 20 years Dy, and more. And just now he speaks up. If that isn't called 'being patient and taking your time', I don't know what is.
Sometimes though you have to just let life take its course, before you're mentally ready. More accepting of self and know exactly what you want from it. So in short, this Bullette is going to give it a swing. See where the road takes me. Might fall flat on my face, but then again it might be absolutely glorious. 🙂

I think Bulls full of bull.

If you dig deep within yourself Tate you might find something positive to say. 😛

Did he get your number or will he just tell you when & where at work? You know he HAS to come up with something before he sees you again.

He better treat you right or soapy & I will kick his ever-lovin' arse to kingdom come.

Posted by Mistery

He better treat you right or soapy & I will kick his ever-lovin' arse to kingdom come.

And throw my name into the ring there too for arse whoopins for ill treatment!

Whoohoo!! Got my back. Thank you Mistery, Soaperoo and USC. 🙂 🙂 He'll be telling me at work. Coming in for that good coffee. 😉

And Pesca...how did you know I have a soft spot for Ferdinand? You sly thing you. 😄

I will Shaka, as soon as it goes, thank you. LOL And he better make good on it. Plodding is alright, but waiting around another 20 years for a surprise invite would be a bit much. 😛

Thank you Slicks. 🙂

LOL No, I have not. I'm not overly fussed about this for some reason. But when it does I'll fill everyone in. 🙂

Huh, 15 years since your last date.


What the hells wrong with the guys around you—?

Unsure really. Can you slap some sense into them? 😄

Hopefully Mr 6'4" with eyes that you adore is going to rectify this issue.


As for the other guys, well, maybe they can get a group discount on wholesale testosterone patches.

LOL Don't be too hasty on the 'adore' bit. It's a date, and of course this is providing it even occurs. I was asked out once, then out swimming for NYE. Neither a phone call nor date did I have. So to say I'm a bit underwhelmed at this point is pretty accurate.
I was just so bowled over that I was asked.

I don't blame you for being "underwhelmed." I am actually impressed with your measured response.

Men, what a bunch of cads. And considering the lengthy experience I have had being one, I know what I am talking about.

LOL Ahhh well. Be a man then. I'll just have to be content being a woman. And a realistic one. I reckon if he really wanted to squire me about, he'd do so. Now, perhaps he's been busy, perhaps he's not been. Irrelevant. I'm not that tough of a Cow to get a hold of.

Meant on the phone.

You have me in suspense here, because I'm excited for you. I, myself can't seem to find a decent man in the four years after my divorce and lately can't even get a date!

You go girl!

Thanks lady! Divorce stinks, 2 years for me. ( maybe it's more, the days seem to run and blend a bit. Clear line of demarcation. Before divorce, AFTER. )

I'm thinking we just need to sick the Aries on everyone. 😉

🙂 🙂 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
So to say I'm a bit underwhelmed at this point is pretty accurate.

What the frack is he waiting for? Good grief! So annoying...to say the least, and it doesn't have anything to do with me, and I'm annoyed FOR you!

I'll (try) to reserve FULL judgment, because it was the holidays and that can be a bit much, so perhaps since things should have settled down, he will resume his full court press of courtship.

*shakes fist *

Thank you! I'm trying not to get ruffled by it. I've known him for quite some time ( my very first job as a dishwasher, he was the cook ). So while not 'rolling with mah gnomies' per se, he's been in the periphery.
That's why I've got my arms folded with a 'wait and see' attitude. And if it does not I shall not curl up and blow away. 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
And if it does not I shall not curl up and blow away. 🙂

🙂 I already know that mah' dear 😉

😉 Oh aye, you do indeed. Keep on knocking a Bull down, and see how damned well she comes back up swinging.

I think you will be deep in BS but you should no its a taurus thing.

So, to continue my male bashing....

So,taurusgirl78 isn't "decent man" oxymoron?


Just asking.....or saying.....

YEH!! You tell 'em PP! LOL —