So...

I think the simplest one is:
Tell me when you do not like me, instead of playing to disappear and then be sympathetic and caring to me, this behavior looks false to me!

Few months ago I had disagreements with taurine like she disappear and stopped to look my messages.
So now i send letters every Monday for her home, commenting on my days and times saying that I miss her, I sent her a snack to her service and sent a book, she did not said nothing.

Well, it's her right to continue with this treatment of silence, but I will not change my feelings for her and I will not ignore my efforts.
I like her and would like to continue.

She is a beautiful and strong Taurus woman, age 40, and is acting like a fifteen teenager.

Sometimes when people appear to not be there like physically not there or around they still are within themselves like I have these two friends that although we all love each other alot and miss each other alot and are always there for each other that due to circumstances beyond our control we are unable to meet up or converse like usually if these circumstances did not happen. However even though this happens my BF's and I always make time for each other and are always there for each other. I have even blessed my two BF's to be together as I feel and not only that know they are right for each other and would love to see this happen and know it would make them happy too and I want for them both to be happy. So yeh this is happening as we speak because that is what it is about.

Ok so no matter if your friend is 'playing to disappear' as you so nicely pit it, I just think it would look like that. Maybe shes very busy with other things and thats why it looks like that.

Like my BF's even though we all cant be together or havent talked to each other for a long time it still doesnt mean that we arent together or there for each other. It may look like that from the outside but from within we all know that no matter what happened or happens or is happening that we will always be together. Its the way that it is.

Even though it dont look like that.

Takes a while for one to understand how it is.

Its always good when you get to hook up again and bless people so makes for all the stress of not being together face to face worthwhile.

Posted by tiziani
If you have such a poor opinion of her then you're not forced to burden yourself with loving her.


nobody owes anybody answers in life. That's just real life.

What poor opinion about her?

I like her, I was always kind and caring and just want to know how far this behavior goes.

Posted by Eccos

Few months ago I had disagreements with taurine like she disappear and stopped to look my messages.

This isn't the infamous Taurus Disappearing act...this is the you pissed off your Bull and she gave you the Hoof-print act.

Care to elaborate on what really happened? Spare no punches. The entire truth and nothing but the truth.

Do Taurus' disappear to relieve stress?

I can see disappearing to work through anger.

Or famous Taurus "Hoof-Print Act" for kicks of anger. Read my hoof.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by Eccos

Few months ago I had disagreements with taurine like she disappear and stopped to look my messages.

This isn't the infamous Taurus Disappearing act...this is the you pissed off your Bull and she gave you the Hoof-print act.

Care to elaborate on what really happened? Spare no punches. The entire truth and nothing but the truth.

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waits...

If she feels justified in resorting to the silent treatment to escape you or problems in general, this about her will not change.

And if this about her will not change, then you'll be "waiting" & chasing her forever.

There's nothing wrong with being persistent or not wanting to give up on her. Sometimes women throw tantrums & even though they do everything to push you away, they're still secretly hoping that you don't walk away for good. Is this fair? No. Is this right? No. Is this the adult way to resolve issues? Hell no. BUT it doesn't matter b/c in HER head, this is the way she deals with things (she just simply doesn't deal with them lol)

Know though that if you're gonna keep choosing to chase after something that doesn't want to be caught, that's on YOU if you start running out of fuel & get bitter. Know that you still putting in all this effort is YOUR choice & is YOUR decision, not hers. So if it backfires on you and/or if you don't end up with her in the long run, you will only have yourself to blame.

When someone needs space, give it to them. It's hard, of course. BUT constantly refusing to go away when someone is making it obvious that they want you to leave them be is the 1st way to get taken advantage of! How? B/c if people believe you'll never leave, they'll continually play mind games with you & leave you hanging. Human nature.

If you're tired of playing this game, then the solution is quite simple. STOP PLAYING IT

Posted by scorchedearth
if she's not responding to effort and kindness on your part she's probably not that into you. taureans in general may be bad at initiating but we are BALLER at responding to someones interest positively if we're into them. if you're not getting reciprocation from someone you need to ask them why. if they're pissy or don't fix it then drop them. if they get shocked by it and meet you halfway you know that there was just a miscommunication somewhere.

AGREE ^^^ Are you sure she was into you to begin with? Maybe what you're doing is too much bcuz too much can be a turnoff and that's when we turn pissy 😢