Staying the night with Taurus Guy

I recently reconnected with a Taurus guy I knew years ago in college. We were cool, hung out a few times but nothing serious then. He left my university after a year and we hadn't seen each other since. He reached out to me now that he lives in the same city and after blowing him off a few times, I finally agreed to meet up. We met up for drinks and hit it off as we caught up. I totally forgot how cute and tall he was and was instantly attracted to him!

We ended up taking a walk by the river and while standing under the full moon, he leaned in and kissed me. I was a little nervous but it felt good. We went back to his house had a little more to drink then made out really intensely for like an hour. It was amazing! I didn't want things to go further so I left.

We planned on seeing each other the next day but he had to leave earlier than expected for a business trip. He's been gone for a week and last night when we were talking he asked if I'd like to come stay over with him when he comes back in town. He's leaving for another business trip the next morning so he said that I could keep his keys and lock his place up.

I'm worried that based on past experiences that sleeping over could lead to sex too soon and I'm terrified of messing things up. He said that he always liked me and tells me I'm beautiful and smart. I just want to do the right thing. What could be going on in his Taurus mind?

just tell him how u feel when things rush and your worries

he sure will understand it and pull handbrakes to slowdown the bull charge 😛

Posted by ArtsyTaurusChick
I recently reconnected with a Taurus guy I knew years ago in college. We were cool, hung out a few times but nothing serious then. He left my university after a year and we hadn't seen each other since. He reached out to me now that he lives in the same city and after blowing him off a few times, I finally agreed to meet up. We met up for drinks and hit it off as we caught up. I totally forgot how cute and tall he was and was instantly attracted to him!

We ended up taking a walk by the river and while standing under the full moon, he leaned in and kissed me. I was a little nervous but it felt good. We went back to his house had a little more to drink then made out really intensely for like an hour. It was amazing! I didn't want things to go further so I left.

We planned on seeing each other the next day but he had to leave earlier than expected for a business trip. He's been gone for a week and last night when we were talking he asked if I'd like to come stay over with him when he comes back in town. He's leaving for another business trip the next morning so he said that I could keep his keys and lock his place up.

I'm worried that based on past experiences that sleeping over could lead to sex too soon and I'm terrified of messing things up. He said that he always liked me and tells me I'm beautiful and smart. I just want to do the right thing. What could be going on in his Taurus mind?

Sounds like he wants to get laid. It's not like he's telling you he wants to date you. He told you he wants you to stay over his place when he comes back. Friends with benefits in the making. Enjoy 😉

We've definitely made plans for some future dates. I think he's just trying to squeeze me in since he's traveling for work. Sunday night just happens to be when he'll be in town before leaving to go back out of town on Monday morning...

I think I'll take NaughtyTaurus' advice and let him know my concerns. I can stay over without giving it. This is a no friends with benefits zone. That ain't happening over here! 😉

From the way you put it it doesnt sound like he's trying to squeeze a date in...he's trying to squeeze sex in. So I wouldnt be naive and think this guy doesnt plan on having sex with you.

Posted by Roam
From the way you put it it doesnt sound like he's trying to squeeze a date in...he's trying to squeeze sex in. So I wouldnt be naive and think this guy doesnt plan on having sex with you.

My point exactly. She's wishfully thinking while he's wishfully preparing for his piece of ass. Friends with benefits in the making.
Some Advice: If you want him to take you seriously, don't spend the night at his place this weekend. What's the rush? You'll end up sleeping with him or he'll just think you're a tease. Allow him to respect you. Set boundaries. Good luck!

Unless you are going for the sex alone and obviously you are not, then don't do it.

See where you stand with him first, let him see that you have your boundaries that you ain't gonna cross. If he doesn't like that (acts offended, disappears etc.), it's his problem not yours. He may be a passenger or something real, it's up to you to adjust. What do you want to give to the person that you don't know yet? If you think you know him, you are wrong, so scratch that immediately.

Now it's time to think about you and you alone. What do you want to serve for yourself?


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