@miimii
13 Years
Letting Taurus man go
How to Let Go of a Taurus Man Who Is Not Committed
Letting go of a Taurus man involves setting firm boundaries and focusing on self-care. Recognize that his persistent calls and avoidance of serious talks indicate he may not be interested in a genuine relationship. Moving on allows you to prioritize your emotional well-being and find someone who values your needs and intentions.
He wants you as a booty call and you want a relationship(?) then dont bother, its not going to work out, i think you should cut him out of your life 😢 you will find someone new 🙂
Do you REALLY want a relationship with him?
That is why I stop analyzing my taurus man until I said * it's not working anymore* so he replied
we still have days to continue. So I did. but ladies and gentlemen, I wasn't happy staying with him
in couple of days. I can't even express my anger because he can't handle. so I was suffocated. I felt
controlled. But of course I am happy. I did lived my life 35 yrs without him.
Posted by miimii
A few months back I started seeing my taurus guy again. Its a long story that I dont feel like typing again. He was persistent in trying to get me to talk to him. He wore me down. It quickly turned back into a booty call thing again. I would ask to go to a movie, he would have an excuse. He only calls after 11 and I work early in morning. Anyway I wanted to have a serious talk but he ignored me so im done. That was almost a month ago. Now he's calling and calling. He hasnt texted me. I know he only wants sex but its crazy that he wouldnt just give up considering I havent answered. The sad thing is...I feel bad ignoring him but he doesnt care about me so im better off.
I was in a very similar situation with my Aqua friend. I wanted something more.. He just saw me as someone just to fulfil his needs. He knew I had a soft spot for him but chose to ignore that. After 3 years of being a friend and for the other benefits, I finally decided to cut him off my life. This was a few months back and just yesterday he messaged me trying to get info out of me if I'm with anyone.
You all ready know the answer to all this. Just keep your distance. Don't feel bad for ignoring his calls.. I understand coz i was feeling the same way at that time.. but if he's choosing to ignore you when you want to just go out generally, why feel bad about ignoring his calls. He probably isn't a bad person, just has different needs to yours. Hope it works out for you. x
Posted by M143
I did lived my life 35 yrs without him.
Ha, I know that's right. I use to didn't even know you.
Posted by Impulsv
They do tend to be selfish. Don't feel bad for taking care of u. Ur a Scorpio right?
Actually a Capricorn
Posted by lnana04
Do you REALLY want a relationship with him?
After a year and a half, I was hoping things would take a natural course. We want different things now but he wont let go for some reason. Like a kid that wont get rid of an old toy even though he doesnt play with it that often lol.
Posted by miimii
A few months back I started seeing my taurus guy again. Its a long story that I dont feel like typing again. He was persistent in trying to get me to talk to him. He wore me down. It quickly turned back into a booty call thing again. I would ask to go to a movie, he would have an excuse. He only calls after 11 and I work early in morning. Anyway I wanted to have a serious talk but he ignored me so im done. That was almost a month ago. Now he's calling and calling. He hasnt texted me. I know he only wants sex but its crazy that he wouldnt just give up considering I havent answered. The sad thing is...I feel bad ignoring him but he doesnt care about me so im better off.I was in a very similar situation with my Aqua friend. I wanted something more.. He just saw me as someone just to fulfil his needs. He knew I had a soft spot for him but chose to ignore that. After 3 years of being a friend and for the other benefits, I finally decided to cut him off my life. This was a few months back and just yesterday he messaged me trying to get info out of me if I'm with anyone.
You all ready know the answer to all this. Just keep your distance. Don't feel bad for ignoring his calls.. I understand coz i was feeling the same way at that time.. but if he's choosing to ignore you when you want to just go out generally, why feel bad about ignoring his calls. He probably isn't a bad person, just has different needs to yours. Hope it works out for you. x
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Im not patient enough for 3 years. I guess I need to see some glimmer of hope for a future. I tried the fwb but im not good at it obviously lol
Posted by lnana04
Do you REALLY want a relationship with him?After a year and a half, I was hoping things would take a natural course. We want different things now but he wont let go for some reason. Like a kid that wont get rid of an old toy even though he doesnt play with it that often lol.
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We are similar. I asked mine about a year ago "how can we slowly move forward?" and he replied "idk..." It's been zero progress since then. I'm thinking waiting on things to take a "natural course," or asking how to "slowly move forward" is a little too vague for them.
IF you want something serious, ask just once before you decide you are done for good. If fear is there to tell him what you want, you really have to ask yourself why.
Posted by lnana04
Do you REALLY want a relationship with him?After a year and a half, I was hoping things would take a natural course. We want different things now but he wont let go for some reason. Like a kid that wont get rid of an old toy even though he doesnt play with it that often lol.
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He does not have you tied to a bed, forcing you to stay. He has to let go what isn't there. So take responsibility for yourself and move on. No explanation needed. I don't know why we as women seem to "feel" bad for someone who treats us like an option. Take yourself off of his list and get off the clearance rack.
These bastard men need to know our worth and we need to know our own worth by setting that example. So shine brighter than you ever have and move on...show him what he missed out on and live again. Do not go back...he lost his turn...screw him...he isn't worth your time and energy.
Been there done that..............
I don't know why we as women seem to "feel" bad for someone who treats us like an option.
You forgot to add this "And treat others like shit who actually like us". =p
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A few months back I started seeing my taurus guy again. Its a long story that I dont feel like typing again. He was persistent in trying to get me to talk to him. He wore me down. It quickly turned back into a booty call thing again. I would ask to go to a movie, he would have an excuse. He only calls after 11 and I work early in morning. Anyway I wanted to have a serious talk but he ignored me so im done. That was almost a month ago. Now he's calling and calling. He hasnt texted me. I know he only wants sex but its crazy that he wouldnt just give up considering I havent answered. The sad thing is...I feel bad ignoring him but he doesnt care about me so im better off.