@thewateryram
11 YearsTaurus
Taurus Men...
Do Taurus Men Prefer to Be the Providers in Relationships?
Taurus men often prefer to take on the provider role and may feel uncomfortable if their partner pays for them. They value stability and pride in their independence, but some may accept support if it aligns with their comfort level. Their reaction depends on individual personality and relationship dynamics.
Well as a female Taurus, I hate people paying for me even just one time. Not that I won't accept it if necessary, but it is not something I like. And if its a frequent occurrence, i can absolutely see that as an ego killer.
Posted by thewateryram
Do they have a problem with their girls paying for them all the time? Do they get embarrassed when this happens because they want to be the "providers"? Or do they like having a sugar mama?
REDFLAG!!! What kind of real man expects the girl to pay all the time?
Posted by thewateryram
Do they have a problem with their girls paying for them all the time? Do they get embarrassed when this happens because they want to be the "providers"? Or do they like having a sugar mama?REDFLAG!!! What kind of real man expects the girl to pay all the time?
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I over exaggerated, I don't pay ALL the time... but most of the time yes, because he lost his job. He pays when he has the money.
I hate being home, and I wanna go out all the time. And of course, I wanna go out with him all the time, but he has no income at the moment so I pay so we can go out. I can tell he doesn't like when I pay for him. He tells me "I don't want you paying for anything else anymore, I'll just stay home", but I'm stubborn and I pay anyway lol. He constantly tells me that he'll pay me back for everything when he gets a job. Times are just though, and he can't find anything at all 😢
We hate it. 50/50 or nothing. And even the 50/50 is a gamble.
I will tell you this much, keep doing it and you'll quickly lose a friend or potential partner, and that is a fact.
You emasculate him by doing that and it is a sure fire why to kill the passion and send him packing.
Posted by OmagaIII
We hate it. 50/50 or nothing. And even the 50/50 is a gamble.I will tell you this much, keep doing it and you'll quickly lose a friend or potential partner, and that is a fact.
You emasculate him by doing that and it is a sure fire why to kill the passion and send him packing.
Wow I never thought of it that way. I need to stop being pushy and wanting to go out all the time then. Thanks for the input!
Posted by thewateryram
Do they have a problem with their girls paying for them all the time? Do they get embarrassed when this happens because they want to be the "providers"? Or do they like having a sugar mama?REDFLAG!!! What kind of real man expects the girl to pay all the time?
I over exaggerated, I don't pay ALL the time... but most of the time yes, because he lost his job. He pays when he has the money.
I hate being home, and I wanna go out all the time. And of course, I wanna go out with him all the time, but he has no income at the moment so I pay so we can go out. I can tell he doesn't like when I pay for him. He tells me "I don't want you paying for anything else anymore, I'll just stay home", but I'm stubborn and I pay anyway lol. He constantly tells me that he'll pay me back for everything when he gets a job. Times are just though, and he can't find anything at all 😢
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OH, well, then its only temporary. Tell him he can make it up to you when he gets a job.
Try to plan low cost/free dates. Like a park that shows outdoor movies for free. Or a game night with your friends at home. Or cook dinner together and watch a movie on TV. Just look around your area for events that don't cost anything. That will get you out of the house, give you both new experiences and he won't have to feel emasculated. It's a win, win!
Posted by truecap
Try to plan low cost/free dates. Like a park that shows outdoor movies for free. Or a game night with your friends at home. Or cook dinner together and watch a movie on TV. Just look around your area for events that don't cost anything. That will get you out of the house, give you both new experiences and he won't have to feel emasculated. It's a win, win!
Very very true! I've been trying to find free events as well. Thanks for the advise! 🙂
I truly feel bad for him... I wish I could just give him a job. I know he gets so stressed out/depressed over it. He HATES being at home and not being productive... It makes me so sad 😢
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Do they have a problem with their girls paying for them all the time? Do they get embarrassed when this happens because they want to be the "providers"? Or do they like having a sugar mama?