Taurean men, your opinion please

Why has my Taurean man not introduced me to his family when they came to visit from abroad. We've been together for about 5 months and when we are together it's pure bliss,I'm a cancerian and I love him to peices, (havn't told him yet though).
This is our second time around, we went out for nearly a year about 4 years ago, I broke it off because although he was seperated he was still kinda seeing his ex (he says this was mainly to have access to his children, I couldn't live like that). We used to tell each other we loved each other then. He acts like he's still madly in love with me, he came to see me 3 hours after I got in touch with him again. Although he has introduced me to a couple of his friends I've only been to his place once(he comes here every time we go out)He's not introduced me to his children or any of his family. Any idea why.He insists he's single. I'm madly in love with this man.

Dee

Sounds like he's still married to me. Ask to see his final divorce papers. If he doesn't have anything to hide it should not be a problem.

Dee:

Consider this. His ex-wife with their child is part of a different chapter to his life, but as the child grows, he wants to be a part of that and should (at least to support the child's needs).
The passion between he and his ex is probably over, and ties to that relationship usually fade. You may be a new chapter in his life, and quite important, but different from the old group, sort of speak. If you two have discussed marriage, then sooner or later, you will meet the parents...But realize that sometimes one does not just jump into another marriage right after divorcing another. He probably never intended to divorce when he first decided to wed, so maybe he just wonders about that and wants to go slow on doing that again. Sometimes divorce is painful for both involved, and must be dealt with....I don't know the whole story, but maybe you could find out if this is what is happening to him.

Just another Taurus Male point of view.

Do sub Children for Child in the above.

Dee ;
Totaly agree with Taurus Male before,
i have almost the samw story but i seen the divorced paper recently,I asked him to see them-partly think he is upset that i didn't trust him also on my question about spending more time at my place , the answer was "my place ia a little bit not cleaned up and i feel comfartable at your place , in your bed. if i didn't i will take you to my place ,doesn't matter how dirty it is sometimes or i'll go to sleep to my place at night leaving your at your's ." And believe me i feel as i made a big mistake, bringing this whole thing up, i feel that he is a little bit dissapointed....

I do think you may be talking marriage a little early, and if you want to see his "papers" you're "calling him a lier"
(drastic way of putting it, but true at the core of no matter how sweet it is put) Just because the papers are signed and sealed, the ordeal is probably not over. So, just try to understand each other and just lovy- dovy it or something.your place or his is not a big deal..life is too short.

Taurus Male

Hi Two cents, haven't spoke with you in a while.

Were the two of you actually reading what Dee was inquiring about. It wasn't a matter of seeing "divorce papers", I think you got thrown off course. Her main concern was that her taurus man didn't introduce her to his family yet. Nor did he introduce her to his children.

She may feel that he wants to hide her or not acknowledge her to his "people" which can be devastating to someone who truely loves someone and wants to share their "Whole" life with them and not just in bits and pieces.

Dee maybe your taurus male needs time to adjust so to speak with the relationship. You have mentioned that you and him were off and on and that this is the second "go around" for you two. He probably wants to be SURE that you are right for him. You know that slowness is a taurean trait. He doesn't want to get his "people" involved (ESPECIALLY his children) until he feels secure with you to "let you in again"

You mean to tell me after all those years past you NEVER met his family, siblings, children, etc... that's deep. Well did you ask him the reason why? or told him that it bothered you? Has he met your family? These things you may want to take into consideration to analyze how serious this relationship is.

I don't think either that he is still seeing his ex, like you said in the past the reason why you two broke up before, but he could still hold on to memories of the relationship, which tauruses have issues with letting go. I just think that time is the key. You mentioned that you two got back together just 4 months ago, so give it time and make sure he understands your feelings because it's very important that he know. He could be holding back because he's not sure about how you feel about him. Just my idea hope it helped.

Taurus Female (ML)

Hey ML:

Thanks for getting me straight on that.
I guess everybody will meet everybody when the time is right, but it is strange that it has not happened yet.
Sometimes that "other woman" concept really throws Mom and the kids off.
Maybe he wants to spare the crab some tense moments or something.

ML: have been around....just did not have any replys to those "girl talk" type of stuff on some of the posts.
Again, Thanks for always trying to put me in my place...

Two Cents
(Mr. two cents to you)

LOL!!!!! Luv ya two cents

By the way you're welcome, just doing my task 🙂

I know what you mean. I wasn't into that "GIRLY TALK" either for the past week or two. Couldn't understand it or have the energy to want to understand it anyway. 🙂 It seemed to (how do I say this.....) childlike, chatty, gitty, etc,. for me. (No substance)

Just because I don't reply doesn't mean I haven't been on the board. I need to be to keep at your heels. 🙂

Money Lady

I would say that he may not be sure of the situation with her right now and that is why he doesn't see the need for the family introduction. They have only been together for five months -- and granted before that -- for almost a year, but that was four years ago;
and because time has passed, people change and grow. It's almost like they had to begin all over again. He may care for her but fearful of beginning a new relationship, after his divorce. I think she needs to understand that at the moment he may need a lot of time to get on his feet. If she does love him she'll have to be patient with him -- and not rush him. But if she has all these questions and concerns, she should speak to him about it.

Aries sidekick

Hey Sidekick

You are right on point girl.

Money Lady

Thanks Money Lady,

...and Hello; Long time no see. Hope your well.

Aries sidekick

Hi Dee here, origional poster of this query.Thanks to all of you for taking the time to give your opinion.

A couple of things....He was never married so there are no divorce papers and even so I would never ask to see them because, one, it would show I didn't trust him and two, just because there were papers it wouldn't prove he wasn't still seeing his ex.
Neither of our families live localy so thats why we havn't introduced each other. I just thought as all his sisters were visiting him, he might have taken that opportunity to introduce us. I guess as some of you say he needs more time to see where we're going with our relationship.He met my sister some years back. Maybe he's not sure if I'm going to stick around this time, he does ask me now and again if I'm going to dump him again. (He dosn't know I'm heads over heals in love with him and going to stick like glue(if he's 100% free that is).I never did mention marrige in my origional query, even I think it's a bit too soon to be going there.(maybe one day though)
Maybe he hasn't introduced me to his children incase they tell their Mom and he not ready for her to know yet for the same reason as above.
I surpose me being a cancerian,I might be a bit insecure with the fact that he dosn't want to shout out how he feels to the whole wide world.I'll settle with the fact that he gives me 100% attention when he's with me and be patient a little longer. It's difficult when you love someone so much.
Thanks to you all, I've taken on board what you all said and it helps.

Dee