Taurus and Breakups...

I broke up with my boyfriend.. But we still see each other through the fact that we were working on an event. Monday I had an altercation with another ex bf (he is a virgo) so my taurus ex protected me.... He gave off signs that he cared about me and he seemed to have thought we were still in a relationship... but once the altercation was taken care of. i still noticed the possessiveness. He had to take my sister and i home. He scolded me about the ex afterwards he went back to being his old mean self turning up the music to ignore me. I have a feeling he thought i had played him. I dislike people telling me im dishonest when im being faithful. Now he told me im rude and i dont listen and that we need to talk because he give up. Does that mean he is going to break up with me? Because I swear I broke up with him.

Posted by BikerCh1ck
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LOL +1

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I seriously broke up with him.... He has called me all day and i refused to answer. Then I went to change my number. I dont understand

Posted by BikerCh1ck
He will explain..

There should not be anything to explain. If i break up with a person that should be it...I mean thats what happened to all the past relationships.....One of us break it off then we leave each other alone..Thats how it is suppose to go. I dont want him to speak to me now that the event is over there should be absolutely nothing for us to talk about. My mind has began to drift away from him and the last thing i want is to be alone talking with him. So i have been avoiding all calls, when he shows up i tell my family to say im not home. etc. I cant go through it. Am i wrong?

Exactly how did you break up?
Did you actually talk to him and say it's over and you should not see each other again?
Or did you just ignored him and refused to communicate and thought he would get the message?

And what's your sign by the way?

Posted by LunarMaiden
Exactly how did you break up?
Did you actually talk to him and say it's over and you should not see each other again?
Or did you just ignored him and refused to communicate and thought he would get the message?

And what's your sign by the way?

I broke up with him over the phone. I made it seem as if it was his idea. I was like maybe we should go with your idea. And he was like what idea is that. N i said we should break up. I cant do this anymore ok. he didnt reply but he said something about the event we were covering and i told him i really cant do this right now. Text me the information concerning the event and i said bye and i hung up. I thought that was effective.

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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Something ain't quite right with you pixie. And I fear you may continue to be taken advantage of and pushed around by men until you get whatever it is fixed.

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hmmmm.......so looking for answers as to why this man is trying to turn the tables on me makes something wrong with me. Regardless of who you are and how intelligent you are one day out of seven you will fall for someone and decide that the way they love is hurting you and you have to let go. Everybody has a bad relationship atleast once in their life. I am happy that im 20 and still have a chance to not make this mistake later on in life. I may not be as mature in thoughts as far as relationships are concerned but atleast im not dumb enough to sit there and take it. Im on a constant search for answers. Every day i hope to uncover USEFUL ADVICE. So say what you must to make yourself seem superior. I dont care. When I find the answers I need i can successfully cope with my situation. I dont believe i know it all or have everything figured out....Seek and you shall find. Ask and it shall be given. #thatisall

Did you not read the part of the post where i said i changed my number and I tell my family to say im not home because i dont want to speak with him? I am not stupid. I wanted to end the relationship on my terms and i did. I am fully satisfied with the way i broke it off with him... I was just curious as to why he doesn't leave me alone. He had no problem ignoring me before the break up. I have come to terms with the relationship being over. I guess it wasnt really love because after I experienced those first few hours of pain my friends cheered me up. N now i have come to realize that im free... I can have any man in the world that i want. I dont have to settle for someone who doesnt want to treat me right. Why settle for pain when you can have love, joy, and peace of mind. I think i am actually enjoying his delima a little bit... I love being free no rules. he may play mind games but im head strong. I am just as stubborn and games intrigue me. I have loved and i have lost. I dont know why but im not thinking about him because im stuck on him. I think about him because i am trying to figure out the way his brain works...like a toy. I want to know what makes him tick. I dont have to speak to him to find that out. I can come here ask questions and pick out what seems to fit with his personality. I am far from stupid. I am a libra so i am very good at mind games thats why i feel drawn to figure out what makes this man who he is. When i am satisfied with figuring him out you will see the post about him stop. Your advice has not gone in vain. I utilize it at different points. Some of it i store for a later date. Dont count me out or underestimate my intelligence.

Posted by Insilver
Utilizing advice that was given to you with good intent and concern is great. Showing gratitude and humility rather than defensiveness when the response is not to your liking is great also. If you don't want your intelligence questioned then strive to speak and act as such.

Understood. I didnt mean to seem ungrateful...Being seen as a walkway or pavement has took its toll on me. It gets irritating when you ask questions and the question are ignored and yo see an insult instead of constructive advice. My emotions got the best of me. I do apologise.