Taurus First Date with Virgo

Hello!
I am a Virgo who met a Taurus from an online dating site. We only.exchanged a few emails because he stated he wasnt good with internet banter. He asked me out, we exchanged numbers and were supposed to meet that weekend however I got terribly ill and, had to cancel. Last Monday he asked me to a sports bar however I worked until midnight so that was impossible. I was off last Wednesday so I called and asked if he wanted to meet. He agreed. We met, wonderful conversation. He even asked me out to dinner, but didn't say when. Since then we have been communicating but its been slight and slow, similar to his emails. I'm wondering if this is normal behavior? Or am I wasting my energy. This last weekend, because we had clicked so well, I assumed he'd want to hang out on Sat or Sun however he never contacted me. I text him on Monday asking how his weekend was and he said he worked and got hungover and that it was horrible. I didn't say anything but that, ?? boys will be boys?? then later he asked how mine was. I told him and he thought I had a better time. Then it stopped.

I'm really into him however dont want to seem pushy, desperate or too girly psycho about him. Especially because we just met. Are there any pointers from other Taureans were I can see him more? Or ease him into a serious dating relationship? We have alot in common and I would like to turn this into something. Should.I initiate contact more? Ask him out again? Ask when he's taking me to dinner as he promised or just mellow out?

Virgo Seeking Advice 😉

i think you'd be alright to take the bull by the horns with this one

maybe mention dinner, see how he responds. even though the taurus guys i knew could be very persistent, that only kicked in after some tie. before that, they were quite slow/reserved. i wouldn't quite call it shyness, but he might need a push fro you to make that dinner date happen 😉

sorry, the m on my keyboard is sticky

Why do you feel the need to chase this guy? What is up with all the women chasing these damn men these days LOL

Be patient, if you start off chasing a man he will never turn around and chase you back, he'll just sit there and let you do all the work, leaning back and doing nothing, you'll never know if this guy is into you if your the one chasing him.

With that being said, if you feel the urge to INITIATE all the contact, asking out for dates etc because maybe your not sure if he'll step up and do his part of the courting then hey do that and see were it gets you.

I wouldn't say I was chasing him, I just know I had canceled on him twice already so I wasnt sure if maybe he thought I wasn't that interested. Thanks for comments but I guess I'll just see what happens. Are any of you Taurus? Well I know nimbue isn't.

I haven't chased him, but any pointers on attracting him would be appreciated..

Simply ask when the date for dinner is to take place. You'd like to make sure it jibes with what you've got going on. That AND mellow out. Yes, they have eyes and ears, they know your attributes ( why one was asked to begin with ) but men like to think it's their idea...as if they've stumbled onto some gem. Express honest interest, don't bash why you'd canceled twice into the ground..illness and actually requiring rest are very valid reasons..needs no bolstering..and simply be you. As to easing him into serious dating, that takes time. Take it easy on a dude, he's doing the "Aw crap, what if she doesn't want too.." the same as you.

Posted by venusianbull
Simply ask when the date for dinner is to take place. You'd like to make sure it jibes with what you've got going on. That AND mellow out. Yes, they have eyes and ears, they know your attributes ( why one was asked to begin with ) but men like to think it's their idea...as if they've stumbled onto some gem. Express honest interest, don't bash why you'd canceled twice into the ground..illness and actually requiring rest are very valid reasons..needs no bolstering..and simply be you. As to easing him into serious dating, that takes time. Take it easy on a dude, he's doing the "Aw crap, what if she doesn't want too.." the same as you.

Wow. Thank you. I really appreciate your answer/advice. It rang so much truth and I will take it to heart. Next time he calls/text I'll mention the dinner.