Taurus & Gemini

Hey,

I have a tiny problem with my Taurus man.

When he is wrong and he knows that he tends to mislead and makes a point and stays stubborn till we start arguing.

Is it normal? I kinda fed up being a target and it seems that everything revolves around him and he always makes me hang in the air by not being decisive or on time.

It just drives me crazy that he can't compromise though he tries to convince me that he does...

Otherwise he is amazing, especially in bed! 😉 we are in love despite of everything but I don't have power to deal with his childish side!

I would love to hear from Gemini & Taurus people of their experience with Taurus people... or from anyone with a goooood advice! X

That's not been my experience with my partner. He'll apologise when he sees me upset. He compromises to make me happy.

If he leaves you waiting around then tell him you feel disrespected when he wastes your time. Tell him that you dont feel valued. Ask that if he is going to be late to send you a quick text. You've communicated how you feel and given him a solution on how to resolve the problem. If he does it again, knowing exactly how you feel, then you have to wonder that perhaps he doesn't care that he disrespects you.

I don't want to victim blame here but is there a chance he is compromising but you don't see it? For a long time I thought my partner was being closed off to me. I was certain of it and at times it really upset me. Only recently I began to recount all the things I knew about him. I realised that I know practically every aspect of his life but he's told me in little chunks. It's been a trickle effect. It struck me how wrong I had been. Since the change in my attitude, he has changed. Only marginally he was always great but I have noticed a shift in him.

You might say, no way, I am definitely in the right here and perhaps you are but it's worth briefly considering how he perceives his actions and his point of view.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
This relationship pairing will be short term a few years Max if you are lucky...

Haha... sure...

I've married Leo before, so I'll survive Taurus... I do want to learn to compromise, because he is an awesome person... but waaaaaay too stubborn! If he will do that for me too, then it should be fine! And he doesn't want to let me go.... so, just might try harder! Lol

Posted by jeane
That's not been my experience with my partner. He'll apologise when he sees me upset. He compromises to make me happy.

If he leaves you waiting around then tell him you feel disrespected when he wastes your time. Tell him that you dont feel valued. Ask that if he is going to be late to send you a quick text. You've communicated how you feel and given him a solution on how to resolve the problem. If he does it again, knowing exactly how you feel, then you have to wonder that perhaps he doesn't care that he disrespects you.

I don't want to victim blame here but is there a chance he is compromising but you don't see it? For a long time I thought my partner was being closed off to me. I was certain of it and at times it really upset me. Only recently I began to recount all the things I knew about him. I realised that I know practically every aspect of his life but he's told me in little chunks. It's been a trickle effect. It struck me how wrong I had been. Since the change in my attitude, he has changed. Only marginally he was always great but I have noticed a shift in him.

You might say, no way, I am definitely in the right here and perhaps you are but it's worth briefly considering how he perceives his actions and his point of view.

That's an advice with value, thank you!

Yes... I always try to work on myself and a lot of things have changed since I met him.... I was in marriage with Leo for a very long time... led me to dipression! ....but his ways helped me to realise a lot! I don't have nothing bad to say about and I guess we just need to come half way and from my side to be more understanding... I recently noticed that he needs to hear what I think otherwise we would clash... so I guess I need to keep up with communications! Haha

As well, I don't want to meet someone who is with an ideal horoscope sign to match mine... cause I thing we can match as long as we communicate and understand each other! (Or maybe I'm dreaming... haha)

I'm Gemini with moon in Aquarius and he is Taurus with Moon in Airies!

Posted by Zaiga
That's an advice with value, thank you!

Yes... I always try to work on myself and a lot of things have changed since I met him.... I was in marriage with Leo for a very long time... led me to dipression! ....but his ways helped me to realise a lot! I don't have nothing bad to say about and I guess we just need to come half way and from my side to be more understanding... I recently noticed that he needs to hear what I think otherwise we would clash... so I guess I need to keep up with communications! Haha

As well, I don't want to meet someone who is with an ideal horoscope sign to match mine... cause I thing we can match as long as we communicate and understand each other! (Or maybe I'm dreaming... haha)

I'm Gemini with moon in Aquarius and he is Taurus with Moon in Airies!

the best relationships are the ones that force us to grow.

yes, be understanding, be kind, be patient. I would also say sometimes you have to go more than halfway. sometimes you have to meet them where they are. you're not in competition with each other where everything must always be equal and conditional. don't tally up all the things you have done for him and keep score. it never works and your score is always going to be higher than his. you set him up to fail when he doesn't reach the score you need him to.

Hey I'm earth and aqua moon. I've met alot of air with some earthy vibe people here. There's something about them. Can't quite point my finger on it.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Zaiga
That's an advice with value, thank you!

Yes... I always try to work on myself and a lot of things have changed since I met him.... I was in marriage with Leo for a very long time... led me to dipression! ....but his ways helped me to realise a lot! I don't have nothing bad to say about and I guess we just need to come half way and from my side to be more understanding... I recently noticed that he needs to hear what I think otherwise we would clash... so I guess I need to keep up with communications! Haha

As well, I don't want to meet someone who is with an ideal horoscope sign to match mine... cause I thing we can match as long as we communicate and understand each other! (Or maybe I'm dreaming... haha)

I'm Gemini with moon in Aquarius and he is Taurus with Moon in Airies!

the best relationships are the ones that force us to grow.

yes, be understanding, be kind, be patient. I would also say sometimes you have to go more than halfway. sometimes you have to meet them where they are. you're not in competition with each other where everything must always be equal and conditional. don't tally up all the things you have done for him and keep score. it never works and your score is always going to be higher than his. you set him up to fail when he doesn't reach the score you need him to.

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That's so true! Your quote will be my phone screensaver for sometime to remember this when I'll fire up again! Haha! Thank you

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hey I'm earth and aqua moon. I've met alot of air with some earthy vibe people here. There's something about them. Can't quite point my finger on it.

I'm all 100% air! Lol not a gram of me is earthy..... maybe the libra ascendant keeps me grounded and in balance! 🙂)))

I don't even know why my boyfriend is Tauren, though we match like 91% and everything else seems perfect... and he is sun Taurus, moon airies, ascendant in Leo.... so how comes? We are so so opposite... and can't really rely by saying opposite attracts (though it does).. but is that that simple and obvious? There must be something then.... lol

Yeah good luck don't reply too much on birth charts.