Taurus Guy

I Have met this Taurus guy from a dating site , I'm 40 and he is 52 . We talked a lot thru watsapp and he is sweet,flirty. We dated thrice and have sex on the third date , it was intense and he was happy . after that I'd thought he would not contact me at all since we had sex already , so I did not really initiate to text him in the first day., but he did though just casual unlike before but still there is sweetness,the following day he told me he is sick ,some like food poisoning which I believe him .then three days after we met , I suddenly felt a little changes on him , although he responded on my text very quickly , he said that he is not 100 yet better as he told me. I don;t know whether it's just my instinct telling me that he might perhaps loose his interest or what.Now Im thinking to give him a space for awhile and if he don't initiate to contact me at all , I will cut off the communication . As Ive read here about the Taurus guy behaviour that goes hot and cold . I wanna know whether he is just polite to respond on my messages or really loose interest.

Has he been at work? Taurus is very one track.

You went in three dates and you said at some point he got sick. What kind of time span are we talking about here? Three weeks, months, days?

Does he have children or other responsibilities?

Need more info.

Has he been at work? Taurus is very one track.

You went in three dates and you said at some point he got sick. What kind of time span are we talking about here? Three weeks, months, days?

Does he have children or other responsibilities



Hi Michelle , Thanks for your response and apologize for not being in detailed . We dated for three times in one month .He is divorce and have only one son which is grown up already . He is a pilot so he is most of the time out of the Country . I have received a text from him today ,saying that he is better but still feel strange , as he has been not eating properly since he got sick which is just three days ago.however I see changes the way he messages now .However , it's alright i just keep cool and do the things I needed to do .Im just confused with the sudden changed.

Posted by Kittykitkat
Has he been at work? Taurus is very one track.

You went in three dates and you said at some point he got sick. What kind of time span are we talking about here? Three weeks, months, days?

Does he have children or other responsibilities



Hi Michelle , Thanks for your response and apologize for not being in detailed . We dated for three times in one month .He is divorce and have only one son which is grown up already . He is a pilot so he is most of the time out of the Country . I have received a text from him today ,saying that he is better but still feel strange , as he has been not eating properly since he got sick which is just three days ago.however I see changes the way he messages now .However , it's alright i just keep cool and do the things I needed to do .Im just confused with the sudden changed.

I am a Capricorn by the way , incase you want to know

He is still keeping you in the loop so that is a good sign.

His texts may have changed because you have changed! At the start when you first started talking you were probably fun to talk to, relaxed and just being yourself. Now you are nervous, cool, and flinching. You might think that he wouldn't notice this but they would pick up on if you are being different and indifferent to them.

Just relax. Be yourself. Don't start looking for problems that aren't there yet.

I also date a bull pilot. There are astrological aspects at play as well as pilot aspects.

Flying aircraft is an intense job. Boring in some respects and demanding in many others. Pilots also have a propensity to screw around on the road. That’s not what you want to read, but it’s true. It’s an endless buffet of hot women in a every airport not even to mention the FAs.

Some bulls keep harems, some are intensely loyal, it sort of depends. They do like to string girls along and keep them on the back burner to call up if needed. I think it’s kind of dependent on his maturity in relationships and what he is looking for in life as well as his other placements. You should look those up or message me and I’ll look them up for you.

Bulls do run hot and cold. It messes with your head. If you aren’t ready for the roller coaster of what, for all intents and purposes, is a long distance relationship (life on the road), then You might not want to pursue this with him.

You said you met him on a dating site. Do you live in his home town or was he on the road and started swiping around on Tinder or POF or Match or whatever and you guys started that way? I think that may give you a little insight as well.



If you want support or to compare notes, message me.

Posted by MichelleT
I also date a bull pilot. There are astrological aspects at play as well as pilot aspects.

Flying aircraft is an intense job. Boring in some respects and demanding in many others. Pilots also have a propensity to screw around on the road. That’s not what you want to read, but it’s true. It’s an endless buffet of hot women in a every airport not even to mention the FAs.

Some bulls keep harems, some are intensely loyal, it sort of depends. They do like to string girls along and keep them on the back burner to call up if needed. I think it’s kind of dependent on his maturity in relationships and what he is looking for in life as well as his other placements. You should look those up or message me and I’ll look them up for you.

Bulls do run hot and cold. It messes with your head. If you aren’t ready for the roller coaster of what, for all intents and purposes, is a long distance relationship (life on the road), then You might not want to pursue this with him.

You said you met him on a dating site. Do you live in his home town or was he on the road and started swiping around on Tinder or POF or Match or whatever and you guys started that way? I think that may give you a little insight as well.



If you want support or to compare notes, message me.

i lot of people say they run hot and cold. i've not had this experience. i don't think they all run hot and cold and i think it's also dependent on what the other person brings to it.

someone could think they are running hot and cold but in truth, they are just not focused on them to the degree that person would like.

it's easy to point and say "oh they a running hot and cold" but the reality may be that the levels of communication required just aren't matched up.

Posted by jeane

Posted by MichelleT
I also date a bull pilot. There are astrological aspects at play as well as pilot aspects.

Flying aircraft is an intense job. Boring in some respects and demanding in many others. Pilots also have a propensity to screw around on the road. That’s not what you want to read, but it’s true. It’s an endless buffet of hot women in a every airport not even to mention the FAs.

Some bulls keep harems, some are intensely loyal, it sort of depends. They do like to string girls along and keep them on the back burner to call up if needed. I think it’s kind of dependent on his maturity in relationships and what he is looking for in life as well as his other placements. You should look those up or message me and I’ll look them up for you.

Bulls do run hot and cold. It messes with your head. If you aren’t ready for the roller coaster of what, for all intents and purposes, is a long distance relationship (life on the road), then You might not want to pursue this with him.

You said you met him on a dating site. Do you live in his home town or was he on the road and started swiping around on Tinder or POF or Match or whatever and you guys started that way? I think that may give you a little insight as well.



If you want support or to compare notes, message me.

i lot of people say they run hot and cold. i've not had this experience. i don't think they all run hot and cold and i think it's also dependent on what the other person brings to it.

someone could think they are running hot and cold but in truth, they are just not focused on them to the degree that person would like.

it's easy to point and say "oh they a running hot and cold" but the reality may be that the levels of communication required just aren't matched up.

click to expand

Her perception of hot and cold is all that matters. If it seems hot and cold or like a roller coaster of highs and lows, then that is what it is. Even if as you say, levels of communication don’t match up, then it may not be something she wants to pursue. I also did point out that this isn’t just a Taurus thing, this is also a pilot thing.

Posted by MichelleT

Posted by jeane

Posted by MichelleT
I also date a bull pilot. There are astrological aspects at play as well as pilot aspects.

Flying aircraft is an intense job. Boring in some respects and demanding in many others. Pilots also have a propensity to screw around on the road. That’s not what you want to read, but it’s true. It’s an endless buffet of hot women in a every airport not even to mention the FAs.

Some bulls keep harems, some are intensely loyal, it sort of depends. They do like to string girls along and keep them on the back burner to call up if needed. I think it’s kind of dependent on his maturity in relationships and what he is looking for in life as well as his other placements. You should look those up or message me and I’ll look them up for you.

Bulls do run hot and cold. It messes with your head. If you aren’t ready for the roller coaster of what, for all intents and purposes, is a long distance relationship (life on the road), then You might not want to pursue this with him.

You said you met him on a dating site. Do you live in his home town or was he on the road and started swiping around on Tinder or POF or Match or whatever and you guys started that way? I think that may give you a little insight as well.



If you want support or to compare notes, message me.

i lot of people say they run hot and cold. i've not had this experience. i don't think they all run hot and cold and i think it's also dependent on what the other person brings to it.

someone could think they are running hot and cold but in truth, they are just not focused on them to the degree that person would like.

it's easy to point and say "oh they a running hot and cold" but the reality may be that the levels of communication required just aren't matched up.

Her perception of hot and cold is all that matters. If it seems hot and cold or like a roller coaster of highs and lows, then that is what it is. Even if as you say, levels of communication don’t match up, then it may not be something she wants to pursue. I also did point out that this isn’t just a Taurus thing, this is also a pilot thing.

click to expand

True, it is her perception that matters. However that is the one thing she can change.

It's unlikely she can make him change his job, it's unlikely she can force him change his communication style in the long term. She can however see the way she reacts and ask, is there another way of looking at this?

If she is unwilling to adapt or compromise then she should find herself someone who communicates in a way she feels comfortable.

I think it's just easy to say the other person is to blame rather than asking, is there something I can do, something within my power, to improve the situation? Including not letting it mess with my head?

It's easy to ascribe a solution to someone else without looking and asking how am I contributing to my/our current situation.

Granted this guy could be playing away, he could have a slew of women, but so could any guy. Again, that's just an easy out (and insulting to men). Oh he's lost interest, he has someone else, he's cheating. It's focusing on them to try and find a hidden reason without looking at the information she does know and try to find a solution with what is at hand.

@jeane I agree. Her reaction to his behavior is all she can control. Information is key. I’m walking in her shoes right now.

I never said he’s to blame, even if he has an entire harem and a girl in every airport, it just is what it is. She has to decide if she is ok with all of that ( he won’t change his job, being a pilot is something you are, it isn’t just a job), just like she has to decide if she is ok with low communication and sometimes no communication. I’m not attempting to give her any solution yet, because the problem is too broad, other than, this IS how it is and it IS what you will deal with from a pilot who also happens to be an older bull.

Posted by MichelleT
I also date a bull pilot. There are astrological aspects at play as well as pilot aspects.

Flying aircraft is an intense job. Boring in some respects and demanding in many others. Pilots also have a propensity to screw around on the road. That’s not what you want to read, but it’s true. It’s an endless buffet of hot women in a every airport not even to mention the FAs.

Some bulls keep harems, some are intensely loyal, it sort of depends. They do like to string girls along and keep them on the back burner to call up if needed. I think it’s kind of dependent on his maturity in relationships and what he is looking for in life as well as his other placements. You should look those up or message me and I’ll look them up for you.

Bulls do run hot and cold. It messes with your head. If you aren’t ready for the roller coaster of what, for all intents and purposes, is a long distance relationship (life on the road), then You might not want to pursue this with him.

You said you met him on a dating site. Do you live in his home town or was he on the road and started swiping around on Tinder or POF or Match or whatever and you guys started that way? I think that may give you a little insight as well.



If you want support or to compare notes, message me.

Hi Michelle , I'd sent you a PM , Yes we both live in the same city , however he is most out for work .

Posted by jeane
He is still keeping you in the loop so that is a good sign.

His texts may have changed because you have changed! At the start when you first started talking you were probably fun to talk to, relaxed and just being yourself. Now you are nervous, cool, and flinching. You might think that he wouldn't notice this but they would pick up on if you are being different and indifferent to them.

Just relax. Be yourself. Don't start looking for problems that aren't there yet.

Hi Jeane , Thank you so much for your response , Yes you are perhaps right that he sensed something to me because I was being quite while he dropping me home after we had an intimate moment . He was asking what happened and I just said nothing , he even initiated the text in the morning before he got sick and I just message him short reply .

Posted by Kittykitkat

Posted by MichelleT
I also date a bull pilot. There are astrological aspects at play as well as pilot aspects.

Flying aircraft is an intense job. Boring in some respects and demanding in many others. Pilots also have a propensity to screw around on the road. That’s not what you want to read, but it’s true. It’s an endless buffet of hot women in a every airport not even to mention the FAs.

Some bulls keep harems, some are intensely loyal, it sort of depends. They do like to string girls along and keep them on the back burner to call up if needed. I think it’s kind of dependent on his maturity in relationships and what he is looking for in life as well as his other placements. You should look those up or message me and I’ll look them up for you.

Bulls do run hot and cold. It messes with your head. If you aren’t ready for the roller coaster of what, for all intents and purposes, is a long distance relationship (life on the road), then You might not want to pursue this with him.

You said you met him on a dating site. Do you live in his home town or was he on the road and started swiping around on Tinder or POF or Match or whatever and you guys started that way? I think that may give you a little insight as well.



If you want support or to compare notes, message me.

Hi Michelle , I'd sent you a PM , Yes we both live in the same city , however he is most out for work .

click to expand

@kittykitkat nothing in my inbox. Try again.

He's not feeling well.

Really.



Did you create a hot and cold thread for someone who is not feeling well?

Let him recuperate and back off.

We have one track minds, and typically are cautious and move slow. If he had no interest he wouldn’t talk to you or keep in contact with you. Taureans are a great catch if you can put up with our quirks.