Shuba
@shuba
12 YearsLibra
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Posted by MissAquariousNo we havent met in person. but he is very serious abt me. He plans to meet me this year. I just went crazy at him. I really expressed myself well. And it is genuine. I know he is really hurt. What should I do now.
When you say you were dating 7 months online... Had you guys met each other IRL?
From what I understand... Taurus is very literal with emotional conversation. So if you told him not to contact you then he was following your orders. It probably hurt him more than he let on since they're sensitive, but since they're also stubborn then he's probably over. Especially since you waited a week to tell him you are sorry.
If you guys had more than just an online relationship you could go see him and tell him why you did that and really put yourself out there as a final shot.
Also... The Taurus guys I know like LTR, like serious ones and if you live too far away he may be cutting his losses.

Posted by Gili still remember times when HE would get angry with me and not talk tome for a week. BUT right after he would message me, I would respond to him. So now when I made a mistake. Why is he making it so complicated, i dont get it.
Loyalty, loyalty, loyalty... If you told him not to contact you at this stage, he is probably imaging what will happen if you two actually got together. Arguments will happen, but if you shut him out, you probably hurt him more than you think.

Posted by AgentP911lmaoooooo thank you !!! kindly do so
^^^ ah yes, allow me to pull my magic wand from my arsehole and grant you your every wish...



Posted by shubaNot everyone works to your timeframe. You're ready to make up. He isn't. You have to give bulls time to come around.
i wish he atleast keeps the friendship............ but he wont respond
Posted by busyeyes88still remember times when HE would get angry with me and not talk to me for a week. BUT right after he would message me, I would respond to him. So now when I made a mistake. Why is he making it so complicated, i dont get it.
Sorry OP, a taurus will not stick around where they feel they are not wanted. We are conscious of this already but for you to have an argument then stupidly tell us to not contact you again... For a taurus it's a case of "your wish is my command"!! You got exactly what you wished for OP!!! That's the problem with you "air heads" yes the libra, gems and Aquarius of this world you always think you can play your silly game with an" earthling" and think we will put up with that shit forever.. Taurus will call your bluff!!! And guess what... You loose!!
My ex gem boyfriend when we had a major argument he would say "that's it. I'm leaving "... And then I of course would back down... This happened twice... He respected this for the third and LAST time!! I say last time because when we had our final argument and he repeated those three words, my response was "go!!!! You have 4 weeks to pack your bags and leave. Your peppercorn rent is not keeping me"!!! He was mortified shocked that his "game" backfired.. He wanted to know why I would not change my mind... My response "how many times did you think you could say that to me and get away with it"!
It was the biggest mistake and no doubt a huge lesson.
Taurus will read your texts OP but he will never forget what you said in a heat of an argument,... EVER!!! If your taurus comes back it will be with half a heart as he will know what you are capable of should you be in an eventual relationship with him.. and he may also keep you around as a temporary fit until someone more suitable comes along. He will not see you now as a long term future investment. You have fucked it up.
Hence another reason I as a taurus woman have no patience for a libra male... Too much bloody games!!!
Be careful of what you wish for. Good luck OP.

Posted by busyeyes88i don't know busy. i think you don't give yourself credit enough. taureans are patient, big hearted and forgiving. if she is truly sorry, my money would be on being forgiven...eventually.
Sorry OP, a taurus will not stick around where they feel they are not wanted. We are conscious of this already but for you to have an argument then stupidly tell us to not contact you again... For a taurus it's a case of "your wish is my command"!! You got exactly what you wished for OP!!! That's the problem with you "air heads" yes the libra, gems and Aquarius of this world you always think you can play your silly game with an" earthling" and think we will put up with that shit forever.. Taurus will call your bluff!!! And guess what... You loose!!
Posted by busyeyes88I am extremely Sorry if you think its a silly thread. but we libran's have a good heart too we just at times hot tempered. but we do cool off very quick. I have messaged him saying its ok if u dont want me anymore but atleast like grown adults we could just be nice to each other and stay friends. Its not like we are in a committed relationship.Posted by shubaMore games!!
whenever i am in a public chatroom. I have noticed him to try to font another woman whom he likes especially when he sees me fonting another man. why does he do like that ?
If you are both contacting other, why waste our time with this silly thread!!!
It's over. Continue playing with others!click to expand
Posted by Koniuchayes we plan on meeting, its is true. Its been going on since 7 months. We do have our ups and downs. He has made considerable effort to let me know he likes me a lot and see me as his wife in the future .
Long distance relationships like that seem hard to sustain, especially if you haven't even met yet.
Are you planning on meeting?
Posted by jeanei can tell you I am being very considerate towards him. i have apologized a lot. He reads my texts everytime. he is a nice guy, i dont know why he is acting so mad at me. I just wish that atleast he can keep the friendship. i have even gone to the extent of letting him know that its ok if you dont want me anymore. We libran's are hot tempered but we cool off really quick. i always send him light hearted loving messages . I dont know why is he acting so rude towards me , as if I committed a serious crime.Posted by busyeyes88i don't know busy. i think you don't give yourself credit enough. taureans are patient, big hearted and forgiving. if she is truly sorry, my money would be on being forgiven...eventually.
Sorry OP, a taurus will not stick around where they feel they are not wanted. We are conscious of this already but for you to have an argument then stupidly tell us to not contact you again... For a taurus it's a case of "your wish is my command"!! You got exactly what you wished for OP!!! That's the problem with you "air heads" yes the libra, gems and Aquarius of this world you always think you can play your silly game with an" earthling" and think we will put up with that shit forever.. Taurus will call your bluff!!! And guess what... You loose!!click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88yes, the distance is a problem.Posted by jeaneYes!! I see your point... But there are only so many "arguments " a taurus is going to take and when the other person finalises the argument saying "don't ever contact me again".. Taurus then starts to think and over think and then winders if this is really worth the agro and on top the other person lives in another country?!!!! Sorry but that's going to be eventually too much for a taurus. Especially taurus male and if this taurus male is attractive. Taurus are very popular.. Many people are attracted to Taurus.. Sometimes I stay single as there is too much choice and I can't even make up my mind (mutable Pisces venus!!)...Posted by busyeyes88i don't know busy. i think you don't give yourself credit enough. taureans are patient, big hearted and forgiving. if she is truly sorry, my money would be on being forgiven...eventually.
Sorry OP, a taurus will not stick around where they feel they are not wanted. We are conscious of this already but for you to have an argument then stupidly tell us to not contact you again... For a taurus it's a case of "your wish is my command"!! You got exactly what you wished for OP!!! That's the problem with you "air heads" yes the libra, gems and Aquarius of this world you always think you can play your silly game with an" earthling" and think we will put up with that shit forever.. Taurus will call your bluff!!! And guess what... You loose!!click to expand

Posted by shubait sounds like he is just doing what he does best and being stubborn.Posted by jeanei can tell you I am being very considerate towards him. i have apologized a lot. He reads my texts everytime. he is a nice guy, i dont know why he is acting so mad at me. I just wish that atleast he can keep the friendship. i have even gone to the extent of letting him know that its ok if you dont want me anymore. We libran's are hot tempered but we cool off really quick. i always send him light hearted loving messages . I dont know why is he acting so rude towards me , as if I committed a serious crime.Posted by busyeyes88i don't know busy. i think you don't give yourself credit enough. taureans are patient, big hearted and forgiving. if she is truly sorry, my money would be on being forgiven...eventually.
Sorry OP, a taurus will not stick around where they feel they are not wanted. We are conscious of this already but for you to have an argument then stupidly tell us to not contact you again... For a taurus it's a case of "your wish is my command"!! You got exactly what you wished for OP!!! That's the problem with you "air heads" yes the libra, gems and Aquarius of this world you always think you can play your silly game with an" earthling" and think we will put up with that shit forever.. Taurus will call your bluff!!! And guess what... You loose!!click to expand


Posted by Koniuchaguilty as charged 😄
Isn't @jeane a Libra with a Taurus?

Posted by busyeyes88just to clarify i never at any point said, don't contact me. it was more along the lines of "this is not going to work. let's stop."Posted by KoniuchaUsually yes! But ask Libraus did she at any time tell her taurus "don't contact every again" whilst living in a different country?!
Isn't @jeane a Libra with a Taurus?click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88the closest i ever came to those words were "lets not talk for a bit".Posted by jeaneBIG difference in wording... Your wording gives the person room to negotiate... Taurus can and will negotiate if they are potential in that person's worth and desirability.Posted by busyeyes88just to clarify i never at any point said, don't contact me. it was more along the lines of "this is not going to work. let's stop."Posted by KoniuchaUsually yes! But ask Libraus did she at any time tell her taurus "don't contact every again" whilst living in a different country?!
Isn't @jeane a Libra with a Taurus?
If on the other than like the OP you use "final " closure ie don't contact me again there is no room for negotiation and taurus will be stubborn enough not to come back.. It seems that the taurus was not as deeply invested in the OP as the OP is ..click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88yeah but you are right in one sense, there is only so many times you can do that. luckily for me, i was able to find my footing on what felt the final and last shot. what i came to realise is how much doing that over and over again hurt him. that was never my intention but i needed the space too to stop reacting and start contemplating. inevitably what happened is that i kept disappearing when things got hard. this was a lesson i had to learn. libras flee. i needed to stay put.Posted by jeane"silence is golden", Libraus!! "Silence is golden"!! Taurus loves "quiet " and it certainly worked for you!!! You are smart!! Taurus likes to surround themselves with smart people!! 😄Posted by busyeyes88the closest i ever came to those words were "lets not talk for a bit".Posted by jeaneBIG difference in wording... Your wording gives the person room to negotiate... Taurus can and will negotiate if they are potential in that person's worth and desirability.Posted by busyeyes88just to clarify i never at any point said, don't contact me. it was more along the lines of "this is not going to work. let's stop."Posted by KoniuchaUsually yes! But ask Libraus did she at any time tell her taurus "don't contact every again" whilst living in a different country?!
Isn't @jeane a Libra with a Taurus?
If on the other than like the OP you use "final " closure ie don't contact me again there is no room for negotiation and taurus will be stubborn enough not to come back.. It seems that the taurus was not as deeply invested in the OP as the OP is ..click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88we talk everyday. there are no periods of silence. it doesn't matter if there is but both of us like to stay in touch even if it just a good morning and then a chat in the evening.
Whereas myself and the taurus thst I have been in communication with for 9 months. We have periods of total silence.. Like for example I had not heard from him for 9 days and I was so busy with work and the moment I thought of him on Sat I received a pic of his dog Ruca as he was walking it! I was also thinking of my hair and the hairdressers. That split second He sent me pics of his new hair cut!! How weird is that!! Taurus people understand the need to be free without communication but can still feel close to someone.... As long as we are invested and the other person is invested, without pushing each other away!!
Posted by jeaneWOW this is brilliant. this is exactly how I feel as a libran. Your first paragraph till the end stated everything right about taurus guys. They like to play the game as and when they want but when the partner does it , they cant bear it. Its so true. No wonder so many taurus are single , they really cant make it to getting married or have a good long lasting relationship with anyone.Posted by Koniuchaguilty as charged 😄
Isn't @jeane a Libra with a Taurus?click to expand


Posted by shubaThey compromise. If they care.
everything that you said @ Lib4Life is awesome. I feel the same way. I really compromised a lot with him. he is really childish right now. he cant bear when someone does something similar to him. Taurus need to grow up, They need to learn how to compromise. Most of them are really selfish individuals but great as friends just friends.
Posted by busyeyes88You have terrible hatred in you the way you right. As if all libran's are the same smh. And if he really had several friends... he wouldnt be online lmaooo... taurus people only think of themseleves and not think of how the other person feel. If just by saying dont contact me again in the heat of an argument creates issues for you guys. I am sorry to say you really need to grow up , cause people do make mistakes and they need to learn how to forgive and forget. No wonder most of the time you taurus are single or divorced. If you wish to compromise , its is an ability and a gift not that you really need to care for someone.Posted by shubaTaurus PREFERS to stay single than put up with stupid shit from people who tell us "don't contact me every again""!! You said it!! He has done EXACTLY as you wanted!!! Blame yourself and your silly airhead games!!!Posted by jeaneWOW this is brilliant. this is exactly how I feel as a libran. Your first paragraph till the end stated everything right about taurus guys. They like to play the game as and when they want but when the partner does it , they cant bear it. Its so true. No wonder so many taurus are single , they really cant make it to getting married or have a good long lasting relationship with anyone.Posted by Koniuchaguilty as charged 😄
Isn't @jeane a Libra with a Taurus?
Taurus people are never desperate for relationships if we cannot find what we want in a person we would rather be single!!!
The last time a single taurus person looked it the mirror. Their forehead read: "fed up" not "hard up "! And your taurus is obviously not hard up enough to put up with your stupid games!! Go and play footsie with an air sign... Taurus is not for you!!!click to expand

Posted by shubayou accuse her of tarring all librans with the same brush and then do the same. you are being equally selfish as the bull. only your feelings matter. only when you decide it is time to reconcile. you're not being very compromising in this situation either. i realise most of this is frustration on your part but you cannot control how someone is going to react or behave.
You have terrible hatred in you the way you right. As if all libran's are the same smh. And if he really had several friends... he wouldnt be online lmaooo... taurus people only think of themseleves and not think of how the other person feel. If just by saying dont contact me again in the heat of an argument creates issues for you guys. I am sorry to say you really need to grow up , cause people do make mistakes and they need to learn how to forgive and forget. No wonder most of the time you taurus are single or divorced. If you wish to compromise , its is an ability and a gift not that you really need to care for someone.
Taurus can be very stubborn and self centered too, in the conversations that I would have with him, he would never allow me to speak . it was all about him and his thoughts. But anyways . Compromise is the key to relationships not trying to read my every word especially said in the heat of an argument.

Posted by champrangerExactly..that will leave you extremely bitter. I only compromise with someone that I care about as well, so that doesn't make a Taurus special, it just makes them human. It's the natural order of someone who feels or have emotions.Posted by shubaDon't always compromise. My parents are Scorp and Libra. I grew up watching how a Libra compromises too much (not able to say no) and then feels under-appreciated for their compromise. Sometimes you have to stand up for what you want.Posted by busyeyes88t.Posted by shubaTaurus PREFERS to stay single than put up with stupid shit from people who tell us "don't contact me every again""!! You said it!! He has done EXACTLY as you wanted!!! Blame yourself and your silly airhead games!!!Posted by jeaneWOW this is brilliant. this is exactly how I feel as a libran. Your first paragraph till the end stated everything right about taurus guys. They like to play the game as and when they want but when the partner does it , they cant bear it. Its so true. No wonder so many taurus are single , they really cant make it to getting married or have a good long lasting relationship with anyone.Posted by Koniuchaguilty as charged 😄
Isn't @jeane a Libra with a Taurus?
Taurus people are never desperate for relationships if we cannot find what we want in a person we would rather be single!!!
The last time a single taurus person looked it the mirror. Their forehead read: "fed up" not "hard up "! And your taurus is obviously not hard up enough to put up with your stupid games!! Go and play footsie with an air sign... Taurus is not for you!!!click to expand

Posted by channingtatumsneckNot beating my chest..merely stating the facts..lol. Well, as far as my experience with Taurus goes.Posted by LIb4Lifelook at what you guys did! got a libra beating her chest lol!
Or they get married, but it doesn't last...I know quite a few like that...Don't get me wrong...they are awesome folks, but they have a lot of insecurities, which for a Libra is not a good match...for a Libra woman that is...You gotta be strong and have a back bone because I know that I can be very strong willed, and very stubborn at times, and I will not back down if I know in my heart that I am right about something. I don't mind compromising for the betterment of the relationship SOMETIMES, but don't take me for granted and assume that I will always do that because you will be in for a rude awakening. When I lash out, then I'm the unreasonable one, but by that time, I'm in a different mode and really could care less what they think.click to expand
Posted by LIb4LifePosted by channingtatumsneckNot beating my chest..merely stating the facts..lol. Well, as far as my experience with Taurus goes.Posted by LIb4Lifelook at what you guys did! got a libra beating her chest lol!
Or they get married, but it doesn't last...I know quite a few like that...Don't get me wrong...they are awesome folks, but they have a lot of insecurities, which for a Libra is not a good match...for a Libra woman that is...You gotta be strong and have a back bone because I know that I can be very strong willed, and very stubborn at times, and I will not back down if I know in my heart that I am right about something. I don't mind compromising for the betterment of the relationship SOMETIMES, but don't take me for granted and assume that I will always do that because you will be in for a rude awakening. When I lash out, then I'm the unreasonable one, but by that time, I'm in a different mode and really could care less what they think.
It's not about putting up with someone else's bullshyt, but more like Pride & Ego, and both signs are oozing with it, and there both helluva drug. Most of the Taurus I've dealt with is sitting in corner somewhere at age 40 whining about not being able to find someone to love them for them and always questioning why they keep going through the same bullshyt in relationships. All relationships at some point will require compromise, so If you're truly comfortable being by yourself, then own it and stop acting like a bytch whining about not being able to find someone to love you. All this crap about Taurus not doing this and Taurus not saying that is just that..bullshyt. Taurus is just like everyone else. You all fuq up and say shyt that you regret later on just like the rest of us so come down off your high horse and own your fuq'ed up behavior too. Damn near every Taurus I know except for one (who ended up marrying a Libra..go figure) ends up by themselves, and I know it's not by choice. The one's I know don't prefer to be single, they just end up that way.
Bottom line..her Taurus dude just realized he no longer wanted to be in this virtual relationship, and her blowing up at him just gave him the cowardly excuse he needed to move forward. I'm sure he said a lot of "not so nice words" too her as well..we all do. I know I have, but I have a funny feeling he'll be back though.
I'll wait for the update thread.
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Posted by shubaPosted by LIb4LifePosted by channingtatumsneckNot beating my chest..merely stating the facts..lol. Well, as far as my experience with Taurus goes.Posted by LIb4Lifelook at what you guys did! got a libra beating her chest lol!
Or they get married, but it doesn't last...I know quite a few like that...Don't get me wrong...they are awesome folks, but they have a lot of insecurities, which for a Libra is not a good match...for a Libra woman that is...You gotta be strong and have a back bone because I know that I can be very strong willed, and very stubborn at times, and I will not back down if I know in my heart that I am right about something. I don't mind compromising for the betterment of the relationship SOMETIMES, but don't take me for granted and assume that I will always do that because you will be in for a rude awakening. When I lash out, then I'm the unreasonable one, but by that time, I'm in a different mode and really could care less what they think.
It's not about putting up with someone else's bullshyt, but more like Pride & Ego, and both signs are oozing with it, and there both helluva drug. Most of the Taurus I've dealt with is sitting in corner somewhere at age 40 whining about not being able to find someone to love them for them and always questioning why they keep going through the same bullshyt in relationships. All relationships at some point will require compromise, so If you're truly comfortable being by yourself, then own it and stop acting like a bytch whining about not being able to find someone to love you. All this crap about Taurus not doing this and Taurus not saying that is just that..bullshyt. Taurus is just like everyone else. You all fuq up and say shyt that you regret later on just like the rest of us so come down off your high horse and own your fuq'ed up behavior too. Damn near every Taurus I know except for one (who ended up marrying a Libra..go figure) ends up by themselves, and I know it's not by choice. The one's I know don't prefer to be single, they just end up that way.
Bottom line..her Taurus dude just realized he no longer wanted to be in this virtual relationship, and her blowing up at him just gave him the cowardly excuse he needed to move forward. I'm sure he said a lot of "not so nice words" too her as well..we all do. I know I have, but I have a funny feeling he'll be back though.
I'll wait for the update thread.
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lol surely will update you about it.
He is really mad at me right now.. I know , i sound crazy right now. But for me personally
Posted by shubaPosted by LIb4LifePosted by channingtatumsneckNot beating my chest..merely stating the facts..lol. Well, as far as my experience with Taurus goes.Posted by LIb4Lifelook at what you guys did! got a libra beating her chest lol!
Or they get married, but it doesn't last...I know quite a few like that...Don't get me wrong...they are awesome folks, but they have a lot of insecurities, which for a Libra is not a good match...for a Libra woman that is...You gotta be strong and have a back bone because I know that I can be very strong willed, and very stubborn at times, and I will not back down if I know in my heart that I am right about something. I don't mind compromising for the betterment of the relationship SOMETIMES, but don't take me for granted and assume that I will always do that because you will be in for a rude awakening. When I lash out, then I'm the unreasonable one, but by that time, I'm in a different mode and really could care less what they think.
It's not about putting up with someone else's bullshyt, but more like Pride & Ego, and both signs are oozing with it, and there both helluva drug. Most of the Taurus I've dealt with is sitting in corner somewhere at age 40 whining about not being able to find someone to love them for them and always questioning why they keep going through the same bullshyt in relationships. All relationships at some point will require compromise, so If you're truly comfortable being by yourself, then own it and stop acting like a bytch whining about not being able to find someone to love you. All this crap about Taurus not doing this and Taurus not saying that is just that..bullshyt. Taurus is just like everyone else. You all fuq up and say shyt that you regret later on just like the rest of us so come down off your high horse and own your fuq'ed up behavior too. Damn near every Taurus I know except for one (who ended up marrying a Libra..go figure) ends up by themselves, and I know it's not by choice. The one's I know don't prefer to be single, they just end up that way.
Bottom line..her Taurus dude just realized he no longer wanted to be in this virtual relationship, and her blowing up at him just gave him the cowardly excuse he needed to move forward. I'm sure he said a lot of "not so nice words" too her as well..we all do. I know I have, but I have a funny feeling he'll be back though.
I'll wait for the update thread.
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lol surely will update you about it.
He is really mad at me right now.. I know , i sound crazy right now. But for me personally
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I then apologized for my mistake and said I am sorry several times. He reads my messages but doesnt respond at all. He has asked me to leave him alone.
I find it weird cause why is he so mad at me. Why is he making it so complicated atleast he can keep the friendship. But he always reads my messages but doesnt reply back.
I find it weird also cause he repeats the things i told him , so when i said " I do wish you to contact me..... he is like No, i am cool"
Now what should i do to get him to talk to me or atleast stay as friends
he is taurus and I am libra girl.
Please help me !!!