Is this going anywhere...

Two weeks ago I met a Taurus man through a mutual friend. A week after we had our first date. Three days later another date. Which happened to be on my birthday. He showed up to pick me up with a beautiful bouquet and art supplies (I'm a painter) we had a lovely evening.
We had a total of five dates in the matter of a week and a half. Two of them involved cuddling in bed watching great films. The second time of cuddling, he rubbed my back. Massaged it very well. And laid back down. And he shortly left. Not that I was planning on sex. But if it happens it happens. We hit it off very well.

We kiss when we great. And when we leave each other. And also in between. Here and there. We could talk for hours. Especially when laying in bed. Which also involves kissing. And touching. Whether I'm playing with his hair. Or he's rubbing my back/legs.
My question is, is he interested. And why no sex? Or even initiating "fooling around"

Posted by 4ND5

He strikes again

I agree that you are a perfect girl to someone else. He's either gay or is looking for something very serious and is disappointed you allowed him to be intimate so soon.

2 weeks, 5 dates, an actual thoughtful gift for your birthday and he hasn't tried putting the moves on you yet. He's doing it right?

We go out to dinner, and fishing and kayaking And swimming. We do, do a lot! We have only laid down and cuddled twice. For a little bit. He's the one who said (after massing my back) "I was taking that further in my head. But I didn't want to over step any boundaries or damper your integrity." And I said. "I do have boundaries" and explained them.
And like I said above. It's not that I'm NEEDING it at all. I was just seeing as to where they fall in that category. As far as "pace" goes 🙂

Posted by Lust
ested. And why no sex? Or even initiating "fooling around"
^ your original questions, after two weeks meeting him. It sounded like you did not have any boundaries to me. Not that I care but I'm just saying, Taurus guy is an old fashion who likes to follow the traditional rules.
I'm not sure if he is going to consider you now since you are too easy. He appreciates value, if you know what I mean.

This. 2 wks is very early to cuddle.. I am not saying I'm hard to get. But no.. perhaps. I will give 3 months before initiating.

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Posted by Lust
ested. And why no sex? Or even initiating "fooling around"
^ your original questions, after two weeks meeting him. It sounded like you did not have any boundaries to me. Not that I care but I'm just saying, Taurus guy is an old fashion who likes to follow the traditional rules.
I'm not sure if he is going to consider you now since you are too easy. He appreciates value, if you know what I mean.

This. 2 wks is very early to cuddle.. I am not saying I'm hard to get. But no.. perhaps. I will give 3 months before initiating.

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For them, it's obviously not. Some people do enjoy the long wait, the thrill of the chase, etc. But some would cross you over after 3 months of regular dates and no intimate physical contact. Some would read that as "they're not that into me" or "they take too long to open up" and they'd give up, rightfully so. Not every relationship works on the same principle.

I'm not sure as to why this is making me "easy" it was a harmless fully clothed cuddle while watching a movie. Nothing more. He's the one who had said "my mind was going further but I didn't want to over step boundaries"
I said I do have boundaries. Which is why nothing happened. And still hasn't.
It was just a laying in bed over the blankets relaxing with a movie. cuddle.
I am seeing him tomorrow and I'm cooking for him. Because I went to school for culinary.
And he's all about food!
The reason why I brought him to my room wasn't to be easy. It's because we are both living with our parents. So I didn't want to freak him out being around my family the whole time of hanging out.
If I came a crossed as "easy" to him. Wouldn't he have done something before. If that's all he wanted. And wouldn't he have distanced himself from me?

Me next, me next, me next!!!

Me want real man who wants to date and romance me. I promise I'll be nice to him and behave and not be an awkward meanie!!

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I kinda like the sarcasm ‰

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Posted by AgentP911
Me next, me next, me next!!!

Me want real man who wants to date and romance me. I promise I'll be nice to him and behave and not be an awkward meanie!!

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Back to the wishing well for thee. 😛

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I'm in the damn wishing well!!!

@Peachtree,

Here is a solution to your problem,

Find a more outspoken Taurus like the rapper Ghostface Killah.
Although he finds unconventional, and free spirited women desirable for sexual intimacy, he does not pursue them for long term prospects.
His communication level with you will be tactless, brutal, and a sudden awakening of how courtship became devalued, and somehow you have deluded yourself into believing you were in an actual relationship.

My advice, if this Taurus man of yours is gentle, he may not be insensitive with his words...however, he will be thoughtless with his actions, and just may 'ice' you out with no real closure.

Enjoy the courtship, and tread lightly. The best things come to those who are patient.

If you do not take the time to savor the moments, you miss out many great opportunities.

Good Luck to you.

Posted by faceroll
but agent. my feels. 😭

😛

you're a guru to me scorched. 😉

Posted by 4ND5
LOL @ fakeroll being a guru

of online stalking maybe sure

bloody hell ands....you and those photos....😆

Well thanks. Even though it was a lot polar opposite answers ‚