aftershine
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taurus guy loves me or not? confused
I would say the same thing... Infact my bull said this as well.... He never mentioned "love" though... the distance thing made him say this... But If he was in my city I wouldn't let him go.. I truly think he's not sure what you want from him! Be clear! what do you want?!? N just let him know 🙂 its that easy! He loves you ! Simple >< good luck
@STVG thank you for your reply...i think so too lol 😛 so does your bull want to be with you too? and you want him...??
ask him what his insecurities are, tauruses have loads of these and too stupid to keep it to themselves. once you find out his insecurities, make it look like you're not so interested in him and then you will be his master as he will seek out someone greater than him to lead him around. you know like when you put a ring in a bull's nose. the bull is strong but once you got it by its nose, you can lead it off a cliff.
Posted by SunTauVenGem
I would say the same thing... Infact my bull said this as well.... He never mentioned "love" though... the distance thing made him say this... But If he was in my city I wouldn't let him go.. I truly think he's not sure what you want from him! Be clear! what do you want?!? N just let him know 🙂 its that easy! He loves you ! Simple >
yes I agree...he loves you...honestly im waiting for my "i love you..or thats love right moment" Im madly in love with my taurus, it will be a year next week and yes hes getting more and more comfortable with me but hasnt said i love you...but has texted me that he was falling in love...argggg is that the same thing—? lol
Posted by HouseCleaning
ask him what his insecurities are, tauruses have loads of these and too stupid to keep it to themselves. once you find out his insecurities, make it look like you're not so interested in him and then you will be his master as he will seek out someone greater than him to lead him around. you know like when you put a ring in a bull's nose. the bull is strong but once you got it by its nose, you can lead it off a cliff.
so bulls (male)seek out someone who can lead them on? i thought they'd go for someone submissive....
aftershine,
I had a man didn't see me for a couple of months, then one day he called me. I kept cancelling his calls
though he really told me he wanted a relationship with me. But It didn't compensate his actions.
I dropped his ass lady. that's a time wasting. I don't believe any alibis at all.
I value and respect myself for God sake. I don't need to beg others love.
Posted by M143
aftershine,
I had a man didn't see me for a couple of months, then one day he called me. I kept cancelling his calls
though he really told me he wanted a relationship with me. But It didn't compensate his actions.
I dropped his ass lady. that's a time wasting. I don't believe any alibis at all.
I value and respect myself for God sake. I don't need to beg others love.
same here except...he shows that he loves+cares for me but cant tell me?...he
-dropped a friend for me because his friend didnt like me and was against him liking me
-is protective of me
-possessive of me
-blushes when im around
-eye contact
-looks after me
-before i came into his life he had a prosperous harem, now.....his harem is a barren land
That was his way of giving you the reassurance that he loves you
He's right. Truly loving someone means wanting them to be happy even if being happy means not being with them. That's the ultimate selflessness.
It was his way of acknowledging that all of the things you're going through may get in the way of you having a healthy, stable relationship with him.
He understands that you're not perfect & have made mistakes, but that nothing you've ever done/said has changed his love for you.
His words may not necessarily mean that he wants to rekindle anything with you though. He's probably being realistic in that he knows that some women move on to someone else. And although I'm sure he doesn't want you to do that, he was letting you know that if you do, that you have his support.
For some people, love doesn't change just b/c a person is acting in an undesirable way. But isn't this the kind of man that every woman wants? The kind of man who STILL wants/loves her despite all the pushing away she's done? Still loving her despite all her flaws? Still loving despite her maybe being a crappy girlfriend? Many girls can attest to still loving a man that may not have even been good to her. Some men possess this ability too.
He's right. Truly loving someone means wanting them to be happy even if being happy means not being with them. That's the ultimate selflessness.
It was his way of acknowledging that all of the things you're going through may get in the way of you having a healthy, stable relationship with him.
He understands that you're not perfect & have made mistakes, but that nothing you've ever done/said has changed his love for you.
His words may not necessarily mean that he wants to rekindle anything with you though. He's probably being realistic in that he knows that some women move on to someone else. And although I'm sure he doesn't want you to do that, he was letting you know that if you do, that you have his support.
For some people, love doesn't change just b/c a person is acting in an undesirable way. But isn't this the kind of man that every woman wants? The kind of man who STILL wants/loves her despite all the pushing away she's done? Still loving her despite all her flaws? Still loving despite her maybe being a crappy girlfriend? Many girls can attest to still loving a man that may not have even been good to her. Some men possess this ability too.
@krysrenee7 how can i rekindle things with him? i do love him. But my aqua rising has a way of making others misunderstand me into thinking that im distant and dont want them in my life....its not true at all...i want him *sighs* i love him....but idk what to do anymore 😢 i do realize that i push him away but i have intimacy issues also and his affectionate side comes on a little strong for me...im basically in a constant battle with myself....even though i'm a gemini sun+moon im an introvert....i fear abandonment the most so i love ppl only skin deep.....except him. Then somehow i trust him and want him..........what do i do?
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Me: "what are you talking about?"
Him: "let me finish, because you are the only person i have loved enough to put before myself.Seeing you happy makes me happy...thats love right?"
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