Taurus husband was seeing a girl behind my back

Many times I have tried to leave and he wouldn't let me, then I kicked him out and he would be begging to come back until eventually he admits fault and rings the girl in front of me to call it quits!

What do I do now? From a Taurus point of view should I be able to trust him again or is it just all apart of the game? She knew that we were together and thought eventually he would leave me and the kids for her. She also lied about a lot of things that they did or things he said to her , he asked her on the phone about the things she lied about to me and she denied ever saying them!

I just need someone to give me some sort of light I feel confused and lost

I'm sorry you're suffering. I have no clue what you should do now. If a guy wanted to leave me and our kids for another woman, I wouldn't try to hold him. It would just mean more pain. He's obviously not trustworthy. But this is my attitude, not yours necessarily.

Don't you need to think about your kids as well as yourself if they're too young to be on your own? This is not such an easy question to answer without more details. Ok?

Yes my kids are very small and I just had a baby 8 months ago... The reason I used to forgive him was because of them but now I started thinking of my wellbeing and trust xx

Posted by VirgowScorpiMoon
I think you need to see family counselling before making decisions.

I agree with this - this is not about astrology and you need someone that can dive deep and help you determine your course of action. For what its worth, you need to focus on you and your children (not him) and get you guys to a healthy space.

Oh you're back@SDNA....haha welcome back. You left me again and again without saying anything. Why you leave me with out a bye?

I seen this from many a taurus men.

Believe him when he says he loves you and wont ever leave you. He will not leave you but he will continue to screw other women behind your back.

Hes hedonistic. He needs those other women. He needs their affection, their sex, shyt their phone calls.

But as a wife. He loves YOU. You are his rock. His foundation. He would never leave his stability.

So you either accept this or kill him. He wont give you a divorce either.

Posted by estellajones
Many times I have tried to leave and he wouldn't let me, then I kicked him out and he would be begging to come back until eventually he admits fault and rings the girl in front of me to call it quits!

What do I do now? From a Taurus point of view should I be able to trust him again or is it just all apart of the game? She knew that we were together and thought eventually he would leave me and the kids for her. She also lied about a lot of things that they did or things he said to her , he asked her on the phone about the things she lied about to me and she denied ever saying them!

I just need someone to give me some sort of light I feel confused and lost

wow ... this sounds like he is way too much into the drama - how is it possible that he doesn't let you leave ? you can do what you need to do for yourself, screw what he thinks - oh wait, maybe he tells you he will never do it again - sounds like the cycle of abuse scenario - and he calls her in front of you ? and you think you can trust him in the future ? what the hell does she have anything to do with anything - she wouldn't be in this picture if he wasn't a whore. why are you having a 3 way conversation on the phone - about things she's said to you that she lied about - this is all so ludicrous - very immature - you must be young - and you are having babies too ? omg ... please get some professional help and don't have any more children with this person - get off the drama train and focus on raising your children - they need you more than he does ...

Posted by busyeyes88
Your children don't need a "cheat" yo show them a bad example of a father... if he cared about the kids he wouldn't be cheating....

Better you struggle on with the children as a single mither as you must have known that that there were cracks in your relationship before you had them and you made the choice and went ahead and had them any way....

Do not speak about my children like that, we planned for a family do not dare speak on my kids like that. Grown pathetic woman.

Posted by DMV
I seen this from many a taurus men.

Believe him when he says he loves you and wont ever leave you. He will not leave you but he will continue to screw other women behind your back.

Hes hedonistic. He needs those other women. He needs their affection, their sex, shyt their phone calls.

But as a wife. He loves YOU. You are his rock. His foundation. He would never leave his stability.

So you either accept this or kill him. He wont give you a divorce either.

The next option I have is to get police involved to remove him from us but I don't want to stop him from seeing the kids, he is very stubborn. I am drained, I have left him and my home just because he won't permanently but realistically there's only so much time I can stAy at a relative or friends house..my children need their comfort space. When he "leaves" he comes back the next day making up something, If I don't let him in he will make a huge fuss that it disturbs my neighbours I feel so embarrassed then he will involve people and make out like I'm acting crazy and he's done nothing wrong. I just wish it was so simple, he's very stubborn I was hoping to find some advice on how to get rid of him

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Posted by VirgowScorpiMoon
I think you need to see family counselling before making decisions.

I agree with this - this is not about astrology and you need someone that can dive deep and help you determine your course of action. For what its worth, you need to focus on you and your children (not him) and get you guys to a healthy space.

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Thank you, Im quite scared of the idea but I suppose we can give it a go.

Posted by estellajones

Posted by TaurusinTexas

Posted by VirgowScorpiMoon
I think you need to see family counselling before making decisions.

I agree with this - this is not about astrology and you need someone that can dive deep and help you determine your course of action. For what its worth, you need to focus on you and your children (not him) and get you guys to a healthy space.

Thank you, Im quite scared of the idea but I suppose we can give it a go.

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I get this, there was a time that I was drowning and scared of therapy. I should be able to handle it, right?! Well getting an outside perspective really helped. I needed someone that I could just share it all with, even the crap, I didn't want anyone to know and it helped. Good luck!

Posted by estellajones

Posted by DMV
I seen this from many a taurus men.

Believe him when he says he loves you and wont ever leave you. He will not leave you but he will continue to screw other women behind your back.

Hes hedonistic. He needs those other women. He needs their affection, their sex, shyt their phone calls.

But as a wife. He loves YOU. You are his rock. His foundation. He would never leave his stability.

So you either accept this or kill him. He wont give you a divorce either.

The next option I have is to get police involved to remove him from us but I don't want to stop him from seeing the kids, he is very stubborn. I am drained, I have left him and my home just because he won't permanently but realistically there's only so much time I can stAy at a relative or friends house..my children need their comfort space. When he "leaves" he comes back the next day making up something, If I don't let him in he will make a huge fuss that it disturbs my neighbours I feel so embarrassed then he will involve people and make out like I'm acting crazy and he's done nothing wrong. I just wish it was so simple, he's very stubborn I was hoping to find some advice on how to get rid of him

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With Taurus its their way or the highway. Either you accept or hire a hitman.