Taurus male for Fwb

Hey guys would you give any opinion.
So from the beginning of the time we agreed to have like friends with benefit thing. We fucked. I don't take it to any feeling before. But then I don't understand that he writes me every single day and always call me baby,my baby, etc. Which for me I don't like doing that for Fwb relationship because it builds feeling. He writes me everyday but it's kinda not easy to meet him. Sometimes I was just out of town, and sometimes he just had his tired days or with his friend.

What I want to ask is :
Is this normal behavior of taurus male? Fwb and giving a care everyday? Is it possible he does this thing with many girls at same time? I'm a Leo and I don't have patience, but I'm loyal, I closed my door with other guy because of him.

What is going on lately—?

Every second thread is Taurus FWB these days... Am I missing something? lol

In a nutshell OP, bad idea... You are either with him all the way or none at all. There is no gray "fwb" area with us.

I'm a very judgmental Bull, but only because when I didn't judge and just went with the flow I got myself into situations which were highly negative in nature. So I judge, and as a result I live a much healthier lifestyle because of it. Having said this...

I'm of the opinion that people who do FWB are cheating life, they are taking the short cut, and circumventing fate for selfish reasons. Meanwhile FWB is toxic in that there's no such thing as "no feelings" and the fact so many attempt this route just goes to prove how immature they are as people.

P.S I've said this before and I'll say it again... Typical Leo! Ugh.

You're cutting off other options for a fwb?

...that's not what it's about.

Posted by OmagaIII

In a nutshell OP, bad idea... You are either with him all the way or none at all. There is no gray "fwb" area with us.

He's the one who started the Fwb idea and said he doesn't want something serious. So I just kinda curious why he cares more than Fwb should be. That's just confusing.

@anomalousbull
Yeah I guess my Taurus boy is just something like that. He can't stand for real relationship maybe

@rockyroadicecream yeah not about cutting off other option. I just want to know from Taurus side if this normal, what this guy actually wants, and does he do this too to other girls because I heard they are loyal

@anomalousbull
Yeah I guess my Taurus boy is just something like that. He can't stand for real relationship maybe

@rockyroadicecream yeah not about cutting off other option. I just want to know from Taurus side if this normal, what this guy actually wants, and does he do this too to other girls because I heard they are loyal

I started a similar situation with a taurus two years ago. Even though there was not supposed to be any feelings he initiated mushy talk. Then he started telling me he loved me. He still doesn't try to be exclusive but when we see each other it feels like we are. I honestly feel like he's testing and judging which I absolutely hate but he's super persistent on being in my life.

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Posted by OmagaIII

In a nutshell OP, bad idea... You are either with him all the way or none at all. There is no gray "fwb" area with us.

He's the one who started the Fwb idea and said he doesn't want something serious. So I just kinda curious why he cares more than Fwb should be. That's just confusing.

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Yeah... well you see... even if he suggested it, you could have still said no. Right, that being said, you clearly aren't dealing with a grown up bull here.

Welcome to the harem!

You fell for the okey doke. Men have always sweet talked women into thinking just sex is something more.
Are there rules to FWB that says you can't talk lovey dovey to one another?
It's just mushy talk to keep you wet and ready between the legs.
He doesn't sound like he wants anything more.

Ignore it, it's not real.
Open the door to the other guy and go for the kind of relationship you really want.

Posted by Awesomeleofem

Posted by OmagaIII

In a nutshell OP, bad idea... You are either with him all the way or none at all. There is no gray "fwb" area with us.

He's the one who started the Fwb idea and said he doesn't want something serious. So I just kinda curious why he cares more than Fwb should be. That's just confusing.

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But if you don't want FWB, why did you agree to it?

I agreed fwb because I need it in this period. But this Taurus boy makes this difficult for me, because he's a sweet one and I kinda started to like him now.

Such a good advice I got here. I will probably still be with him. But I will just be more open now for other guy. Although it's not easy as Leo to be open to other guy while having somebody even for fwb, unless the guy boost my ego of course..

Thanks for the input. Hope you'll find someone soon 🙂

It isn't going to work because of this. You are already getting feelings & feelings don't operate by switch. You can't just shut them on & off (If only that were true, how easy life would be)

I'm a little more open to FWB situations than maybe a lot of bulls (could be due to my Gem venus) but I've been single for a long time & I'm not willing to put on a chastity belt or join a convent. I can separate sex from emotion which is necessary because I still need the bulls stability so one night stands are not for me. Having said that, the only way I can separate sex & emotion is by having strict boundaries with a FWB which means no over nights/ no cuddling & no talk of feelings. It's not the actual act of sex that gets me it's the affection before & after.

Problem with that is I LOVE affection, probably more than actual sex & I seem to run into the issue of being with guys who, even after I tell them about my boundaries, still feel the need to want to cuddle & talk lovey dovey..... & because I really do love all of that, I have a hard time nipping it in the bud AND before you know it, I'm all in love & the FWB goes sour lol

So while I'm not opposed to FWBs they really honestly do not work & I advice against them for the most part, otherwise be prepared to be hurt in some way shape or form.

So agree INTJBull