Taurus males always this persistant?

For the first time in years me and my Taurus "love of my life" are both single. We had some interaction a few months ago but he had a girlfriend so I didnt persue it but now they have split up. He rings me every single day, always asks me to come see him, but it just makes no sense to me as he is uneccessarily chasing me lol.

Do Taurus just like the chase that much that they will chase someone who doesnt need to be chased, as I have quite openly expressed my feelings towards him? I told him I was in love with him about 6 months ago, I heard the feeling was mutual through his best friend but never from him. It just seems that he is happy with the "romantic friendship" that we have, will chase and persue me, be possesive over me, get jealous if I even look at another man, he is monogomous with me, yet never seems to want to take it that step further and make us official.

I have herad that Taurus like stabilty and routine, has he maybe just got so used to us being this way that this is now stability for him? This whole sorry situation has been going on for years now and I want to put an end to it whether thats by us being a couple or us going our seperate ways and leaving eachother the hell alone. Just not sure of the best way to approach the situation.

Please explain to me where the chasing is?
you told him you love him,he is making an effort to show you the same....that's a problem?

the problem with Libra and Taurus is,we show and you talk.
watch his actions,and quit worrying about the words. 😉

Posted by BellatheBull
the problem with Libra and Taurus is,we show and you talk.
watch his actions,and quit worrying about the words. 😉

Yes this is very true, ahhhh I just want him to say how he feels! Suppose they say actions speak louder than words. My actions dont always match up to my words so he's probably thinking the exact opposite about me!

Suppose I will just have to be patient and see what happens and worry when the phone calls stop.

LOL Me and aqua were just FWB. Me and the Taurus is LOVE. He's the only guy I have ever truly loved. Yeah I told him I loved him then went and started sleeping with the aqua guy (he didnt know this though) but like i've said my actions never match my feelings 😛

I have always loved the Taurus guy, we have 12 years of history together (including him losing his virginity to me 5 years ago). I told him I loved him and his reply was "thankyou" and he didnt contact me after, I am not one who easily talks about my feelings and it was so hard for me to tell him how I felt and even harder not to hear anything in return, so I gave up on him and went off with the Aqua, sort of rebounding I suppose.

But now he is back in my life again... like I said this seems to be a never ending cycle where each time we meet up a bit more is revealed between us. But it is just getting beyond a joke now, we need to either make it official or just leave eachother alone.

Posted by aquagirl24
lol u mean u used him...? did it boost ur confidence?

We were both using eachother, we're still friends we just dont sleep together anymore.

Yes I am a Libra and the Taurus had a girlfriend when I was with the Aqua. When me and Taurus are "together" we are both monogomous, and i am not one to "sleep around" in general. I dont believe in waiting around for someone no matter how much I love them. I could spend my whole life waiting for him and nothing ever come of it. And to be fair to him it has always been me that has walked away to save myself from hurting.

I dont know if he does love me, he never talks about his feelings but as someone mentioned Taurus is more about actions then words. His best friend told me that he told him he did but that is all I have to go on.

I dont really know much about Taurus either, this is the only male I have ever come accross. All the females I have met have been very forward and seem to know exactly what they want, tell people what they want and go out and get it. This Taurus does also have an Aqua moon though.

In everything else in life I am quite assertive but when it comes to love im such a wimp, I blame my Cancer moon! lol

heh. the guy i was seeing before i got with my cancer was a taurus sun/aqua moon guy.

now, with that being said, i have never had a problem with a taurus male going after me immediately. if i show any interest at all they are on it! however, there was a big difference with the one that has an aqua moon. he was all about the fwb type set-up. basically, he was totally into the idea of having a gf but he was reluctant about titles and he definitely needed an unconventional aspect such as keeping things open so he could lust after others.

@aqua yes the way he acts makes me think that he cares but he just doesnt say it and whenever I bring it up he just goes bright red lol. I know he's shy but so am I. Sometimes you have to just throw caution to the wind and tell people how you feel or you will lose them, but he just doesnt seem to be able to do it.

@ninja yes this is how he seems to be with the whole FWB but to him I think thats what he thinks a relationship is! lol I did once see him around with his ex girlfriend and I had no idea they were even a couple they just seemed like friends. As I have said when we are together we dont see other people (even though its never been discussed, we just dont) but there is still no title/commitment. I dont want to try and push him into something he is not ready for as he is very stubborn and is the type to do the opposite if he thinks something is being forced on him, but I also dont want to find out 10 years down the line that he just didnt have the balls to make it official.

Think I will just leave it and have a man free year! If it is meant to be it will be 🙂