what is this taurus thinking?

Can someone tell me what is this Taurus man thinking? is he trying to tell me to back out?
He came to meet because i was in a bad mood.
It was relaxing and enjoyable with humor and all bad mood stuff was gone instantly.
Insisted on sending me home.
Then he called to chat when he got home.
He said he wants a girlfriend and is hoping that i'll introduce someone to him.
But i said we'll see how it goes.
Then He asked why would i be single when its not hard for someone like me to get a boyfriend.
And i said i'm not interested at the moment.
Before he hung up he said he'd call the next day but he DIDN'T
so 2 days later i sent him a text and he gave very cold replies where it took him like 2 hours to reply each text.
After i said i'll introduce myself to him instead of my friend to be his girlfriend(jokingly)
His replies were still short but much faster like almost instantly replied.
Then he called to chat.
And before he hung up he said he'd call back when he reach home.
But he DIDN'T
And we did talk about sex stuff most of the time.
And he said he would only do it with the one he love even though he used to have one night stand with other girls BUT not anymore.

I was wondering is this just a foreplay?
Or is it that he's just not interested that he always don't call back when he said he would?
I'm confused.
Because if he's not interested i don't wana harp onto it anymore.

Any opinion would be good 🙂

missed out this part..
when he said he wants me to introduce someone nice to him i did text to say i'd introduce my friend to him and all he replied was "its up to you" and that was when he took 2 hours to reply.

Just that he brought up wanting a girlfriend meant he was gauging your reaction to see if you responded to it or not. It's a Tau way of sidestepping a direct question, ( protective mechanism ) seeing if you pick up on it or not.
The second "I'm not interested right now" passed your lips, he withdrew.
And Taurus men do things on their time, their terms. If you're looking for someone to be up your grill during the initial phases, it ain't a Bull.

So to say i'm out of the league and there's no turning back?

NOPE, didn't say that, just that he withdrew and is weighing options. Of which Bulls usually have many of.

I see ok then thanks. Guess what i can do now is just do my own thing and wait for him to call back right?

I would, just do what you'd normally do and if he contacts you be pleasantly surprised. Another hot tip for you, don't be a goose if he does, play it like "Oh hi, nice hearing from you". If he knows he's got you excited/overjoyed/clingy/etc. then that marks you as an easier *conquest*. No good, we like strong people. People that kiss our butts tend to be mentally dismissed, those that challenge us on all levels make us stand up and take notice.

That's a good idea Thanks a lot 🙂 great help 🙂

😄 Welcome.

Posted by venusianbull
People that kiss our butts tend to be mentally dismissed, those that challenge us on all levels make us stand up and take notice.

Why do we like being CHALLENGED VB!!! Sigh~ Relationships would be so much easier if I fell for the so-so's >😢. It's even like this when I chose my friends. They must have something to offer me either intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, socially, and financially. All of the above would be sweet but no one is perfect; even me. Maybe it's the fact that I know the capacity of how much I would give to a friend or lover that I like people who challenge me. ::shrug::

OP, right now, do "you". Don't play mindgames though, we can see right through that stuff and play as though we didn't know you were playing us. We will humor you up to a point. And that point is determined by the individual. We will only call you out on it (at least for me) when it's become enough already.

Posted by SeeingRed

Posted by venusianbull
People that kiss our butts tend to be mentally dismissed, those that challenge us on all levels make us stand up and take notice.

We will only call you out on it (at least for me) when it's become enough already.

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Absofrigginglutely!

Dunno Seeing. But it seems to be a common Bull trait. Maybe because it smacks of someone not being honest all the way. Which I think we can all agree that we abhor and can pick up on pretty fast.

Btw i was wondering. if i were to text him and he gives really short replies even when i said i'm in a bad mood. is it a signal telling me to leave him alone?

No hon, or he'd not reply at all. Trust me. Probably caught him when he's busy.

But he said i wasn't disturbing(and yes that was all he replied) when i said i'm gonna leave him alone to do his stuff. So i dont know. Why the short replies.it seems to me he's not interested. and i'm left bewildered. wondering if i should go on talking?

Do not take short replies as lack of interest. Believe me when I say this. If interest was lacking there would be no reply at all. If the man is busy, he's busy. One cannot pen sonnets while in the thick of things. Use your noodle lady, would you like someone busting in on you when you were up to your elbows in something? Same difference. Now, stop that, tell the nonsense to shove off and just enjoy the man. 🙂

here's some update if anyone who sees this could help.
we almost had sex and
He said its because i dared him to(which i probably indirectly did)
we kissed and all.
He asked if i was interested in him i shrugged the question away.
And when everything was over i asked him back the same question.
He said NO without even hesitating.like a BIG NO kind of reaction.
before i got off the car when he sent me back.
HE wanted me to kiss him goodbye on the cheeks.
And he said he's worried so he insisted that i should text him i step home and that he'll still call me to chat when he reached home.
When i reached home i decided i would text him.
So i said
i'm home. And.. i can't say i like you because its still too soon to say anything.but yes i AM interested in you and want to know you better.But i get you when you said no to me.I'll let go of it now and we'll still be friends 🙂
And he replied.
I hope you're not thinking about it anymore. Let nature take its course 🙂
Seriously. i don't understand the situation myself.
Anyone tell me whats going on?

so i shouldn't take his no as a no?