Taurus Man and asking for space

First time on this site so hope I'm doing this right. I have a very long history with this taurus man we go back over 25 yrs (to high school). Back then I told him I loved him, and we wrote often, but then he just stopped writing to me. I thought he had moved on and so did I. I got married (later divorced after 13 yrs) and the taurus man has periodically contacted me throughout the years. Of course now with the internet we can communicate much better. Well, when I had been married a couple years he contacted me and I told him I was married, he seemed surprised and stopped contacting me after that. Fast forward to today, He found me on Facebook and friended me. Well, things got hot and out of control, sex emails back and forth. I asked for pics of me-naked-and I sent them. He said he wouldn't show them to anyone else, and in true taurus male fashion, he said they were private and he doesn't share. Lots of flirting, etc...I told him that I still loved him, and he told me he was tied down. This really hurt me especially since he was giving me the impression that he felt the same way. Well, I sent him an email letting him know I was very upset, he apologized and begged for forgiveness. I told him I would have boundaries, and since then, he has respected them. So I ended up moving and we keep in contact periodically, and finally I told him I need time to put myself first. I unfriended him and sent him an email explaining why, he was very understanding and only said if he were ever in the states that he wanted to see me. When I was ready and had my life together, I said I would friend him again, or email him and reconnect. But not until I was ready. So he is doing what I asked him to do. I do love him, and he said he loves me. We have always been friends, and always will be. So, my big concern is that I want my actions to match my words. But I don't want to lose him, I assured him that I still care about him and love him and always will. I don't know if when the time is right, he will wait for me to contact him (?). I have been very honest with him, I laid it all out there. He said he appreciated that and he loved me and he said "I hope that we will see each other in the future". How do I handle communicating with him without it getting to be too much?

Is your face in those sex pics?

Be very careful about transmitting those kind of pics out there like that. Hopefully your face wasn't in those pictures.

Honestly he sounds like an asshole for not telling you he was already tied up with someone else. He basically lied by omission and that creeps me out and makes me wonder if he lacks boundaries inside of his current relationship.

Would you want a man that behaves the way he behaved with you? Would you want your man to go online searching for old flames, leading her on, getting sex pictures and then turn around assert a boundary? Probably not.

Be wary of this guy, he sounds like a creep to me...

But let's say he's not a creep...What do you love about him? Maybe your loving the person you knew in high school, I dunno but I suggest while you're taking a time out start unraveling the fantasy and get into reality so when you come into contact with him again you won't forget to assert your own boundaries.

Yes, my face is right there in those pictures. Which I will be the first to admit was just STUPID STUPID STUPID. My friends think that he has an agenda, and I believe he has an agenda too-I just don't know what it is. I am trying to unravel the fantasy from reality, that's why I had to take a step back and cut him off of my facebook. I am not emailing him now, because I do want that time and space to figure this all out for myself. I don't think he is a creep, I really don't. I think he is secretive. But he has always been a secretive person. He just will not close the door on us, and I won't either. From reading a lot about Taurus men it seems they are generally honest people, and I have been able to understand his personality traits better.

"Yes, my face is right there in those pictures. Which I will be the first to admit was just STUPID STUPID STUPID. My friends think that he has an agenda, and I believe he has an agenda too-I just don't know what it is."

Let's hope he doesn't plaster those pictures to embarrass you and/or to bribe you and/or all of the above.

Please never do that again, never! Those pictures can be released on the net and they will always be out there in cyberspace. Employers/potential employers, friends, family, co-workers can potentially see those pictures.

Go back and look at what he did. He PRETENDED to be into you. He pretended to be available, he asked for illicit pictures of you, that was his agenda now what he does with those pictures you won't know until you know.

Secretive equals to CREEP. Creep guys that behave secretively, troll for old flames b/c it's easier to create a sexual connection and bounce can never be trusted and why you trust him I dunno but you definitely need to wake the hell up.

I suggest you stop telling him you love him b/c he's exploited/exploiting that love.

You cannot gauge everything from an astrological stand point or you're going to miss important pieces of information and lose your ability to use common sense.

If he's known you for 25 years and has never done anything but find you and move on then this is all an illusion, the time span you've known him/been acquainted with him creates an illusion.

You should be angry and focus that anger on what you're going to do, what actions you're going to take if those pics get out of his hands.

Thank you. It is so much better to hear from an outside source. I really do think about what I would do if he put those pictures out there. I would be so embarrassed...And yes, I will NEVER do that again! And also, sometimes I need someone on the "outside" to say "hey, you got screwed, it's okay to be pissed off"

OMG. My ex Taurus I snooped his email, he was asking an ex wife (2nd one)a naked photo. Yes she gave...

but sorry... She was just a sex and end of their marriage.

If the guy respect you regardless of the zodiac sign... He won't treat his Queen as such a bin.

Well, I have definitely decided to keep my distance...I have not contacted him via email at all since about a month. And I won't until I know what I want and for now I come first in my life.